This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

and your wife report herself to you?

It is a ghen ghen sometin

Jesu!
*wakes up from sleep*

You need to be worried...she wouldn't mind a bleep with him; chop and clean mouth! Give yourself brain if not you go pressure her enter her ex trap...
Shay we go live long!

God have mercy.

Yes u should

Op just calm down

We all(male and female) always will remember that special someone. Doesn't mean she would cheat on u


Do u also always tell her about everyone u meet?

You should talk to her. She regrets a lost love.
Ask the details of the meeting not to quarrel but to work towards your marriage. Tell her the dangers of the ex, reassure her of your love. But let her if she messes up she is gone.

She met up with an ex who never had sex with her but it resurrected old feelings. Let her know the guy might not feel the same and she should think if she is willing to end her marriage for that.

Part of your duties as a husband and leader of your home is guidance. God is ur strength.

Ehm, I think this is a serious something o. And it could turn out to be major if not properly handled. Don't blame your wife o. It could happen to anyone. I think its called the ex factor.

If I were in your shoes, I'd become friends with the guy. As the saying goes, keep your friends close but your "enemies" closer. You know, family friends things. Him, his wife and kids - me , my wife and kids. That way, guilt and fear will inhibit the growth of such feelings. This will only work if you're not the jealous type though.

Bisjosh:
Op just calm down

We all(male and female) always will remember that special someone. Doesn't mean she would cheat on u

Imagine I'm your husband... Then I send these words to a contact, what would you do?

Am very proud of u my Special
sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed
special to me.

Screen grab the text so that I will believe ur story, too many fake stories here

Yes u should be worried!

RobinHez:
Jesu!
*wakes up from sleep*

Abeg no disturb dat man joor

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

I feel it's Berra u confront her now so as to avoid stories that touches the heart later in the future.
Cost na so temptation dry start o. Before u know or count two having ssssexxx go enter am..
My two cents and happy new year

Na when she begin change face 4 u inside house, u wan begin dey worry?

There is love in sharing..

Share her with ex

Bisjosh:
Op just calm down

We all(male and female) always will remember that special someone. Doesn't mean she would cheat on u


Do u also always tell her about everyone u meet?

Op are you sure Bisjosh is not d said Wife you're talking about?

the most stupid comment on the first of the year 2016.

Once you are married, there is a lot of things u have to put an end to, just like what the wife did.

I don't really believe in marriage though but I believe in living peacefully with my spouse.

Sister, go get a brain

why are u so unique from other stupid hoes on NL?.
You have spoken and the advise is logical and sensible

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

whatever anyone tells you, your wife will one day screw that guy if you are not careful. The highlighted parts are signs that there is fire on the mountain.....
The illusion of a perfect partner that got away is the ideal recipe for disaster. And God help OP who is quite imperfect and will someday make her unhappy. And when the ex's wife too decides to make him unhappy. Na to seek solace for each other's arms remain be that.

My advice? Nip it in the bud NOW. If na talk, talk to her. If na to create a mountain from this, do it. Do Anything to pass the message across that it is unacceptable.

Should you be worried?
Yes please.
So Nip it in the bud now. Confront her about it.
From feelings it will enter physical.

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

Maybe there are things you neglect to do in your marriage. Find out what it is thats missing and fix that. All these exes she wont even remember their names after this sef.

3 posts since you registered on November 7 2012.

what's your regular id.

Hmmm, your wife must be below 24.

It's harmless enought except that communication should end now.
Further communication could lead to nostalgia, then curiosity and before you know it may lead to infidelity. Always better to avoid smelling what you don't want to eat.

This is one of the reasons why people need to deal with unfinished business before getting married. If you're still harbouring feelings for an ex, before you get married get rid of them or come to the realization that the r/ship is over, and accept it. She needs to give herself closure and it starts by cutting off the communication with him. You don't need the other party's input before you can get closure. No married woman or man should be texting or calling their ex, especially if it's to talk about your r/ship with them, what happened, what didn't happen, etc. Don't look back unless you want to go back there.

Onegai:
Step up your game: start loving up your wife, paying her attention, take her out, spend time with her, gifts.

Basically, wear red pant and black bra

. Abi o that is the advice he would have gotten if the op was a woman. Team Red Bra and Pant

Yieldings:
This is one of the reasons why people need to deal with unfinished business before getting married. If you're still harbouring feelings for an ex, before you get married get rid of them or come to the realization that the r/ship is over, and accept it. She needs to give herself closure and it starts by cutting off the communication with him. You don't need the other party's input before you can get closure. No married woman or man should be texting or calling their ex, especially if it's to talk about your r/ship with them, what happened, what didn't happen, etc. Don't look back unless you want to go back there.

Awesome post!