Well shit happens my advice, get a tracking device plus seven CCTV cameras and hire a private investigator before drawing into any conclusion.........

What happened : your wife dated that man an he loved her a lot to the extent he respected her sexuality and didn't make sexual move on her till they broke up... I think due to the fault of ur wife


What is happening now: your wife saw him and regretted losing him and she is wondering how he would have felt/it will feel having sex with him.

Do you need to be scared : Yes! I swear down, if u give them chance they will bang n bang till they are caught and might even continue if the sex is good.

What can you do to remedy the situation : Keep your wife away from that man but what I think you really need to do is trust your wife and keep away from her phone. You will be happier and live longer that way.

O boy

hmm

mah homie be afraid , be very very afraid











.... just kidding try and talk with her , then bang her asset good for two weeks, cook for her for a week

If she had written how both of them spent time in the hotel room and enjoyed their sexual encounter, worry!!!
All she has written is simply of a platonic nature!!!!

NB: And what are you doing looking at your wives phone?
I bet,if she looks through your phone she would almost pass-out of what she sees!!!!

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

marriage ogwugwu ogeee




nwunye ogwugwu Ogee



di ogwugwu ogeeee try send that exact text to a gal n drop ya fone WHR Ur wife will see it... when she sees it n react..... look for a good joint n relax urself with nkwobi n origin

Laryne:
You need to be worried...she wouldn't mind a bleep with him; chop and clean mouth! Give yourself brain if not you go pressure her enter her ex trap...
Shay we go live long!

You are suppose to be locked up in a zoo for Ten months for this stupid talk coming from you... What happened to the part where she said she is happy in her marriage... Or which part of the text depict she wanna have a fling with the guy... Oga Laryne be guided ooo

Is ok! Bt let it b d last of dis kind.

Yieldings:
This is one of the reasons why people need to deal with unfinished business before getting married. If you're still harbouring feelings for an ex, before you get married get rid of them or come to the realization that the r/ship is over, and accept it. She needs to give herself closure and it starts by cutting off the communication with him. You don't need the other party's input before you can get closure. No married woman or man should be texting or calling their ex, especially if it's to talk about your r/ship with them, what happened, what didn't happen, etc. Don't look back unless you want to go back there.

God bless you mydear.... i dnt know y some people find it hard to move on with their life..SMH

Dats why it is not advisable to marry someone who have an ex



is a headache bro, ex boy friends is better but ex husband, is a problem



cus no matter what separated them, remember they loved each other so much and tied the knots. that love is never gonna change.


no matter what you do, don't confront her with that message cus is only gonna alienate things. Let it slip and look out for another time it reapeats itself. Please again, don't advice or confront her. Women are simply creators of magic and that alone can turn them into unfathomable things

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

It's just a case of '' even ur boo has a boo''.. Marriage is over-rated really..

God bless you this new year. NL makes us click, while they make money

missKiffy:
Screen grab the text so that I will believe ur story, too many fake stories here

emorse:
Ehm, I think this is a serious something o. And it could turn out to be major if not properly handled. Don't blame your wife o. It could happen to anyone. I think its called the ex factor.

If I were in your shoes, I'd become friends with the guy. As the saying goes, keep your friends close but your "enemies" closer. You know, family friends things. Him, his wife and kids - me , my wife and kids. That way, guilt and fear will inhibit the growth of such feelings. This will only work if you're not the jealous type though.

haven't u heard of a woman sleeping with her husband's friend or best friend?the friendship thing still can't solve the problem.

jayAjoku:
mah homie be afraid , be very very afraid











.... just kidding try and talk with her , then bang her asset good for two weeks, cook for her for a week

God save you... That's the talk jare... Bleep her till she can't walk again

i think its to early 2 in d year 2 be discussing family issues..bt ur wife gon sef...pray she shld receive sense

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The best advice is dont put much interest in it. Dont take advice on wat to do to her. Just keep claim and observe her. #just to save d marrigae

You should be worried Sir!

The fact that they are in visible contact with each other makes this more dangerous and this may go either way if not managed properly.

Therefore you need to do something

Have a chat with your wife. Explain to her what might happen between her and the ex if emotions are not kept in check and if the opportunity arises for them to be together.
Also explain to her the consequences including signalling the end of the marriage if this happens.

Dont threaten her as threatening her wont work but be firm with her that some things are not acceptable. Let her know that you love her and give her an opportunity to let you know if there is anything wrong in your relationship with her.

Keep your eyes open too but not to the point where it becomes an obsession.

[quote author=kweenkong post=41563915] You should talk to her. She regrets a lost love.
Ask the details of the meeting not to quarrel but to work towards your marriage. Tell her the dangers of the ex, reassure her of your love. But let her if she messes up she is gone.

She met up with an ex who never had sex with her but it resurrected old feelings. Let her know the guy might not feel the same and she should think if she is willing to end her marriage for that.

Part of your duties as a husband and leader of your home is guidance. God is ur strength. [quote]
You couldn't have said it better. Good response.

abat4real37:
and your wife report herself to you?

Reported?

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

and you quickly came to nairaland to share it

you are very naughty and wacked

you are a baby

what do you want this children on nairaland to do for you

i pity your life

Unfaithful Naija men be crying about their good wives since 1804.


The lady was only appreciating a good man who did not take advantage of her and you are here crying.


Yes she said he's special and mentioned the reason.


By the way why are you snooping on your wife's phone?



If you quote me I shoot you!

That's why I laugh whenever I hear/read girls saying ex doesn't matter. Guys beware of girls with ex's

Guy you need to be worried. That text alone can arise the emotions of a man. The man may send a worse one dan dat. Open ur eyes.

There is nothing wrong in this text. Already confirmed being happy in her marriage and not leaving space for discussions ...by asserting that he would be enjoying his marriage as well.

Just click Ctrl+alt+delete on that phone and move on

if you don't handle this case with fire, thunder and earthquake, i foresee their re-union.

my people de talk say "akan ifia ikan isongo iyire ikang" meaning "old firewood no dey take time to catch fire"

evidence of unbroken soul-tie between them. don't be careful when you address this issue.

after some fools will say that it's wrong to invade your partner's phone.

fools getting married everyday.

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

You can either focus and keep up the bold portion above or worry yourself about the remaining part of the text.
Your call!
Your choice!!
Your consequences!!!

zed7:
It's harmless enought except that communications should end now.
Further communications could lead to nostalgia, then curiosity and before you know it may lead to infidelity. Always better to avoid smelling what you don't want to eat.

The above is the most sensible comment... But How did you come across the text? Were you sneaking behind to look tru her phone? Don't do anything that will make her start to feel watched or uncomfortable..

I suggest you start the discussion in a round about way.. Tell her you bumped into Your own ex and it brought back some funny memories.. Etc see what she says.. But generally speaking, it's no probs she confessed she's happy with you.

The only danger is that she seems very open to suggestion from the guy and if the guy is a bad guy, he can very easily manipulate her and before she realises, she would be in his bed... Just for nostalgic things. Not likely to fall in love with the guy again.