ZeeWorld and Telemundo story!

Onegai:
Step up your game: start loving up your wife, paying her attention, take her out, spend time with her, gifts.

Basically, wear red pant and black bra

A woman who is gonna cheat will cheat whether u give her heaven on earth

Bisjosh:
Op just calm down

We all(male and female) always will remember that special someone. Doesn't mean she would cheat on u


Do u also always tell her about everyone u meet?

the lady can't just forget how her ex use to Bleep her. And she can still do it with the man once more.

Bro. Just file for divorce. . Send her back to the EX. Since she can't seem to let him go.

tearoses:
The fact that they are in visible contact with each other makes this more dangerous and this may go either way if not managed properly.

Therefore you need to do something

Have a chat with your wife. Explain to her what might happen between her and the ex if emotions are not kept in check and if the opportunity arises for them to be together.
Also explain to her the consequences including signalling the end of the marriage if this happens.

Dont threaten her as threatening her wont work but be firm with her that some things are not acceptable. Let her know that you love her and give her an opportunity to let you know if there is anything wrong in your relationship with her.

Keep your eyes open too but not to the point where it becomes an obsession.

ZeeBab, this fellow just saved me the stress of typing. this is good advice.

Heheeee Op nah question you still dey ask?
I dey smell (HighBp)

eightsin:
What happened : your wife dated that man an he loved her a lot to the extent he respected her sexuality and didn't make sexual move on her till they broke up... I think due to the fault of ur wife


What is happening now: your wife saw him and regretted losing him and she is wondering how he would have felt/it will feel having sex with him.

Do you need to be scared : Yes! I swear down, if u give them chance they will bang n bang till they are caught and might even continue if the sex is good.

What can you do to remedy the situation : Keep your wife away from that man but what I think you really need to do is trust your wife and keep away from her phone. You will be happier and live longer that way.

He should keep away from her phone like the proverbial ostrich ba?

@OP, your wife just made a move on her ex;an ungodly one. "what is it with our breakup that cant be fixed". The fixing isn't to be friends, it is to sleep with each other. Unfortunately confrontation won't work in this case (trust me on this), if she has this level of emotional inclination to that guy, she will learn not to leave her message around the phone and still find ways to communicate with the guy and if the guy is evil, he will be looking for means to get his entitlement from her (especially if he feels you cheated him out of what he was persevering for himself)

You should be very very worried

Onegai:
Step up your game: start loving up your wife, paying her attention, take her out, spend time with her, gifts.

Basically, wear red pant and black bra

The truth is you can never make a woman happy all the time, its impossible, people get attracted to the decisions and path not taken.

Fire on d mountain run run run ooooooo

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

Youu better act fast before its late....tmoro you will come here and cry if u are not carefull...women self...i tire

It is normal,there is nothing wrong with it.women always remember their ex,they are not puppets that will easily forget their previous intimate relationship,ditto with men,its gonna take sometime for her to forget completely,for example, when children start coming coupled with the stress that goes with it,I think she would not have time for such side distraction, because it seems you are still in your honeymoon.

U don't need to bother nah just greeting

blaise26abj:


whatever anyone tells you, your wife will one day screw that guy if you are not careful. The highlighted parts are signs that there is fire on the mountain.....
The illusion of a perfect partner that got away is the ideal recipe for disaster. And God help OP who is quite imperfect and will someday make her unhappy. And when the ex's wife too decides to make him unhappy. Na to seek solace for each other's arms remain be that.

My advice? Nip it in the bud NOW. If na talk, talk to her. If na to create a mountain from this, do it. Do Anything to pass the message across that it is unacceptable.

I could hug you for this! Perfect advise! Nip it in the bud. Fight for what belongs to you!

Yieldings:
This is one of the reasons why people need to deal with unfinished business before getting married. If you're still harbouring feelings for an ex, before you get married get rid of them or come to the realization that the r/ship is over, and accept it. She needs to give herself closure and it starts by cutting off the communication with him. You don't need the other party's input before you can get closure. No married woman or man should be texting or calling their ex, especially if it's to talk about your r/ship with them, what happened, what didn't happen, etc. Don't look back unless you want to go back there.

Word!

Change her sim or if that won't be easy steal or deliberately mistakenly damage her fone beyond repair then go buy her a better one with a new line and discourage from retrieving the old sim....... Be smart bro before u start noticing ur future kids doesn't look like u........... There is a big fire on the mountain

kweenkong:
You should talk to her. She regrets a lost love.
Ask the details of the meeting not to quarrel but to work towards your marriage. Tell her the dangers of the ex, reassure her of your love. But let her if she messes up she is gone.

She met up with an ex who never had sex with her but it resurrected old feelings. Let her know the guy might not feel the same and she should think if she is willing to end her marriage for that.

Part of your duties as a husband and leader of your home is guidance. God is ur strength.

And you think their next meeting will be that civil?, there might be war.

Moana:


Maybe there are things you neglect to do in your marriage. Find out what it is thats missing and fix that. All these exes she wont even remember their names after this sef.

This advice makes me shake my head...some people no matter what you do for them will still cheat...its not about fixing or finding what is missing in the marriage cause from her text message she has a serious attachment to the ex and her husband doing all he can do for her may not still stop her...

What can possibly stop her is opening her eyes to see that such emotions and thoughts are wrong now that she is married and the nasty consequences that can come out of her actions.

duduade:


I feel it's Berra u confront her now so as to avoid stories that touches the heart later in the future.
Cost na so temptation dry start o. Before u know or count two having ssssexxx go enter am..
My two cents and happy new year

Bro i supported you ideal jare, Same story almost happen to me last year, I notice some change in my wife though she's nursing a baby but i notice something strange in her and the way she get close to one useless street sister that i don't trust a bit.. I downloaded call recorder on her phone and the next morning o caught her, I see traces of the calls from her eax inside the call recorder but not in the main call log.. I ask her and she want to dey do strong head I swear i no know when i give her better slap 3 times and ask her to leave my house immediately and that am not sure am the father of the child, i collected all the house key and tell her i dont want to see her again... I swear before i could go out and come back i started receiving call from her Family both home and abroad and some of her family started coming over explaining what happened.. Mehn she dare not try that again since then.... But OP i no talk say make you try wetin i do oooo..


Though i later regret my action i mean for slapping her but that alone make her tell me everything later and how that her friend gave the guy her new number and i tell her i don't want to see them together again...

Sorry my dear husband..... this shows that you have not being in true love before your marriage beside do you think your wife would love you more than her childhood Ex? sorry and wake up from your dreams.. My Ex once told me that she is using her head to marry but not her heart.
Please don't disturb yourself or change the way you treat or look at your wife. its normal friend.,.

This is serious issue, it has happened to me before and I managed myself to calm the lady, I didn't keep the message on my phone, and ever since our conversation always be ' how are you, your baby look good, how was your work today' So you need to sit your wife down and discuss the issue with her in calm and cool .

Yeah is a worrisome thing, you needs talk to your wife no time man.

Divorce her. Or live with the fact that you have a cheating wife, because she is already cheating emotionally and shall cheat physically in the near future..


You shouldn't listen to stupid people who would advise you to pamper/appease a cheating woman by "stepping up your game" and all that rubbish.

MicroBox:
Sorry my dear husband..... this shows that you have not being in true love before your marriage beside do you think your wife would love you more than her childhood Ex? sorry and wake up from your dreams.. My Ex once told me that she is using her head to marry but not her heart.
Please don't disturb yourself or change the way you treat or look at your wife. its normal friend.,.

You are making sense there..... Op pls make use of it.

Marriage is honourable and valuable, it is worth protecting. You don't have any reason to be keeping contact with your ex.

Bisjosh:
Op just calm down

We all(male and female) always will remember that special someone. Doesn't mean she would cheat on u


Do u also always tell her about everyone u meet?

Forget that joo. You all take others for fools and you will be asking if he remembers someone . I do once in a while remember my "my first love" At times I feel like seing her. There was a time i opened a tread about about her on this forum before people talked sence into me. Do I now say there was no cause for alarm? It is all lies. If I saw her then and she was ready to accept me, I would go to any lenght. So let us stop deceiving ourselves! Thank God I didnt see her then. Now I love my wife very much that i dont even remember her again.

theyrynsolar:


You are suppose to be locked up in a zoo for Ten months for this stupid talk coming from you... What happened to the part where she said she is happy in her marriage... Or which part of the text depict she wanna have a fling with the guy... Oga Laryne be guided ooo

If she is really happy in her marriage then another man wouldnt be causing her tears of love. the I am happy in my marriage path nah just normal woman talk BUT if the man make advances this same woman that said she is happy in her marriage will still fall.

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

I don't know y, most nigeria women they Rr always like dis, They keep on rememberin their EX nside marriage.... Bros if I wia u, I wil ask her n a matured way irrespct of her past relationship. Pls ask her n a way dat shudt resuit 2 quarel ok...

Its jes a sign of unforgetabu love 2 her ex, jes try nd do more in love n care she will 4get d so calld ex

blaise26abj:


whatever anyone tells you, your wife will one day screw that guy if you are not careful. The highlighted parts are signs that there is fire on the mountain.....
The illusion of a perfect partner that got away is the ideal recipe for disaster. And God help OP who is quite imperfect and will someday make her unhappy. And when the ex's wife too decides to make him unhappy. Na to seek solace for each other's arms remain be that.

My advice? Nip it in the bud NOW. If na talk, talk to her. If na to create a mountain from this, do it. Do Anything to pass the message across that it is unacceptable.

Wow i have people who reason like me when it come to something like this... You don't have to keep mute or silent, The most desperate human in life are the female before you know it she started calling and wanting to see him everyday.... OP (were la fi wo were) we use Madness to cure Madness. Confront her big time and demand details and get to the root... If na you text your ex and your wife see your phone i swear that house go boil that day.

I can only imagine how the wife would have reacted if the husband had sent such a text message.

Women expect us to overlook things they can never pardon. My guy, just tell her you saw the text and ask her what she would do in your shoes. Then forget the whole issue.

No let your wife spoil your new year.

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

you are finished, just go and commit suicide. Or kill Mr ex.