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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 9:15am On Jan 02, 2016
Bisjosh:
Op just calm down

We all(male and female) always will remember that special someone. Doesn't mean she would cheat on u


Do u also always tell her about everyone u meet?
madam na lie,we guys dont always have strong emotional attachment with our ex's unlike you ladies...........i dont no y girls find it hard to let go.

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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by theyrynsolar(f): 9:16am On Jan 02, 2016
zeongeon:
If she is really happy in her marriage then another man would be causing her tears of love. the I am happy in my marriage path nah just normal woman talk BUT if the man make advances this same woman that said she is happy in her marriage will still fall.

I refuse to accept that cool cool
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by jayAjoku(m): 9:19am On Jan 02, 2016
theyrynsolar:


God save you... That's the talk jare... Bleep her till she can't walk again grin grin
yeah smack that and make her sore down there in a goodway for days surefire way to wipe memories
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by tociano009(m): 9:22am On Jan 02, 2016
kweenkong:
You should talk to her. She regrets a lost love.
Ask the details of the meeting not to quarrel but to work towards your marriage. Tell her the dangers of the ex, reassure her of your love. But let her if she messes up she is gone.

She met up with an ex who never had sex with her but it resurrected old feelings. Let her know the guy might not feel the same and she should think if she is willing to end her marriage for that.

Part of your duties as a husband and leader of your home is guidance. God is ur strength.
trash
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by 400billionman: 9:22am On Jan 02, 2016
Moana:


Maybe there are things you neglect to do in your marriage. Find out what it is thats missing and fix that. All these exes she wont even remember their names after this sef.

The wife said, " I am very happy in my marriage "...

He is obviously a good husband.
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by nortcentrallord(m): 9:23am On Jan 02, 2016
Bisjosh:
Op just calm down

We all(male and female) always will remember that special someone. Doesn't mean she would cheat on u


Do u also always tell her about everyone u meet?

Remembering is different from expressing it to the hearing of that person. After expression comes what? That's why you don't walk on coals without expecting not to get burnt. We all know how nonsense like this always ends
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by sukkot: 9:23am On Jan 02, 2016
In ben bruce voice > isssooraiiiii
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by allthingsgood: 9:23am On Jan 02, 2016
ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

Silly lies. This thing is too long for text! Some pipo just crave cheap publicity

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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by eroticecstasy: 9:23am On Jan 02, 2016
theyrynsolar:

Yes off course any problem... Well I was just kidding
you want the already confused guy to disfigure his wife's congo island?
i no dey dia
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by tammie24: 9:24am On Jan 02, 2016
kweenkong:
You should talk to her. She regrets a lost love.
Ask the details of the meeting not to quarrel but to work towards your marriage. Tell her the dangers of the ex, reassure her of your love. But let her if she messes up she is gone.

She met up with an ex who never had sex with her but it resurrected old feelings. Let her know the guy might not feel the same and she should think if she is willing to end her marriage for that.

Part of your duties as a husband and leader of your home is guidance. God is ur strength.
wow!!! This makes a lot of sense
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 9:24am On Jan 02, 2016
Okafor's law is definitely applicable to your wife. In case you don't understand Okafor's law- it means ones de be forever de be. You need not be afraid,but raise an alarm. Believe me, this guy will do your wife on meeting. Too bad, your wife is lost.
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by sukkot: 9:25am On Jan 02, 2016
allthingsgood:


Silly lies. This thing is too long for text! Some pipo just crave cheap publicity
some PIPO may not be verbatim quoting the text but expanding on it for the sake of the forum. you think it will make frontpage if the post was just 10 words long ? tongue
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by 400billionman: 9:26am On Jan 02, 2016
Yieldings:
This is one of the reasons why people need to deal with unfinished business before getting married. If you're still harbouring feelings for an ex, before you get married get rid of them or come to the realization that the r/ship is over, and accept it. She needs to give herself closure and it starts by cutting off the communication with him. You don't need the other party's input before you can get closure. No married woman or man should be texting or calling their ex, especially if it's to talk about your r/ship with them, what happened, what didn't happen, etc. Don't look back unless you want to go back there

Excellent..

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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by kweenkong(f): 9:29am On Jan 02, 2016
carlcar2012:


Fork u

For stating my views? Do I know you? Is it this same topic or another thing. Madam park well o.
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by theyrynsolar(f): 9:31am On Jan 02, 2016
jayAjoku:
yeah smack that and make her sore down there in a goodway for days surefire way to wipe memories

Osheeeeeeey
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by ALEXIS0240: 9:31am On Jan 02, 2016
eroticecstasy:


you want the already confused guy to disfigure his wife's congo island?

i no dey dia
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by ALEXIS0240: 9:33am On Jan 02, 2016
allthingsgood:


Silly lies. This thing is too long for text! Some pipo just crave cheap publicity
check the difference between SMS & TEXT
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by ifeomaekol(f): 9:34am On Jan 02, 2016
I dnt think u shuld be worried bt if u are, y dnt u talk to her abt hw u feel? We all ll always hv dt special somebody, rem d guy said he's happy in his marriage! So pls dnt let seeds of doubt n mistrust ruin ur marriage ok.

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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by freshvine(f): 9:35am On Jan 02, 2016
I deleted all ex contacts and blocked them on social media that way I needn't worry about increasing the blood pressure of my husband.

If they were that good my husband wouldn't have took me home.

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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by ighosd(m): 9:37am On Jan 02, 2016
all i want to say is, as a man u need to investigate b4 u start acting, she is ur wife legally married, understand the weight nd what went wrong between both of them( meaning her ex), and see if she is still deeply in love with him, i wudnt advice you to end up the marriage but i want u investigate. and again no the deep reason u both are in this union. understanding is the key to succeed on this earth.
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Laryne(m): 9:38am On Jan 02, 2016
zeongeon:
If she is really happy in her marriage then another man would be causing her tears of love. the I am happy in my marriage path nah just normal woman talk BUT if the man make advances this same woman that said she is happy in her marriage will still fall.
She has shone a green light to the ex already; the I am happy talk is just an insecure stunt to appear vulnerably comfortable in a relationship that is not with him (the ex)
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by jayAjoku(m): 9:39am On Jan 02, 2016
theyrynsolar:


Osheeeeeeey
you strike me as a free spirited, do what you want girl ...........










.... i like that wink wink
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by 4lashyme: 9:40am On Jan 02, 2016
I honestly think OP you have a lot of soul searching to do. You have to look into your actions, attitude and progress. Each word on that text reflects all the things that are wrong in your marriage [No offence intended]. From that text, you're either not progressing the way she hoped for, or irresponsive to her emotional yearnings. These issues are very sensitive in marriage. Ignore your wife at your own peril.
1. Search - What is it that I'm not doing right.
2. Reflect - Do I represent what wife would be proud of?
3. Think - I'm I responsive to her?
4. Cooperate - Do I carry her along with all my plans?
I think answers to these and some other questions you may remember will help you understand that it's not only about confronting her, it's more off fixing what is actually wrong. What you see now is the symptom, it is not the actual disease vector.
Good luck. God will bless your marriage.

Yieldings:
This is one of the reasons why people need to deal with unfinished business before getting married. If you're still harbouring feelings for an ex, before you get married get rid of them or come to the realization that the r/ship is over, and accept it. She needs to give herself closure and it starts by cutting off the communication with him. You don't need the other party's input before you can get closure. No married woman or man should be texting or calling their ex, especially if it's to talk about your r/ship with them, what happened, what didn't happen, etc. Don't look back unless you want to go back there.
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by amtaken(f): 9:40am On Jan 02, 2016
Hahahahaha


The most possessive guys are the most unfaithful.



You people should keep cheating while your women will keep devising ways to scare the hell out of you.






Una never chi chonchin.



dammytosh:


I pity the poor guy who 'took u'

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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by amtaken(f): 9:42am On Jan 02, 2016
Do you know whether she sent it to spite her randy hubby?


As the man is checking her phone, who is checking his own?




bashydemy:
One of the worst comment, I am a man and if a lady i have dated send me this kind of text she just turn on the yellow light and i'll work on the green light... My lady that message alone can give the ex a sleepless night and wil be thinking how it's gonna be to be in bed with her..
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by slyng(m): 9:42am On Jan 02, 2016
Once in Mecca; always an Alhaji ni oo ... op
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 9:43am On Jan 02, 2016
This is a 100% lie.
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by bashydemy(m): 9:45am On Jan 02, 2016
amtaken:
Do you know whether she sent it to spite her randy hubby?


As the man is checking her phone, who is checking his own?




To spite him? Okay make she continue.. But with how she type those message it has nothing like spitting the hubby, It has real meaning of feeling and affection...


Mind you if it happen in other way round the man won't be a complete man again.. I study ladies like i course in school i can easily read ladies mind... if na her hubby send that kind text to his ex i swear that house will be on fire.
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Adenle041(m): 9:50am On Jan 02, 2016
@Op please stay calm

We all have a special someone we always remember that special someone doesn't mean she would cheat on u

You need to keep away from putting presurre on her and show her more love.

Do u also always consult her on everyone u have met?

From experience show her more love.

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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by tpiar: 9:50am On Jan 02, 2016
amazing how folks can cook up any type of crap, post it on nl and get responses.

although perhaps the op is responding to his or her self with multiple ids sha.

no be today.
Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by doskie(m): 9:51am On Jan 02, 2016
ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.
take another number and start whassaping her like its her ex. tell her not to communicate with you on the other number. arrange a date with her on that WhatsApp. meanwhile tell her you are travelling that day. lets see if she appears for that date and finds out that its you! then tell her to get tha 4k outta ur house for good. that's on the condition that you have never cheated on her.

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Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by amtaken(f): 9:53am On Jan 02, 2016
I just like the way some ladies are dealing with y'all now. shocked shocked shocked

Cry me a river men.



Thank God there are still good men around.



Some of you will come here and accuse me of shit because of my comments like I care.



In the first place, if am as bad as you all I wouldn't have used this kinda moniker.








Wailing lovers lolz.
bashydemy:
To spite him? Okay make she continue.. But with how she type those message it has nothing like spitting the hubby, It has real meaning of feeling and affection...


Mind you if it happen in other way round the man won't be a complete man again.. I study ladies like i course in school i can easily read ladies mind... if na her hubby send that kind text to his ex i swear that house will be on fire.

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