classicB:
.i dont blame the either the boy or girl, i blame the parents of the girl for treating her the way they did. What happened to making her realise her mistakes and help her raise the baby? The guy might eventually accept the baby,We all make mistakes at some points in our lives, yes, i know some people would come here to lash the girl about how she opened up for a boy to get her pregnant, but then how many people can come out clean that they didnt go against their parents/mothers wish for them to stay off sex with guys until marriage. She was just a girl in her youth that wanted to explore, but its sad she ended up like that. RIP girl

Honestly? C'mon, the 5minuters should be blamed in 4(the girl), 3(the boy) and 3(the parents).

My mum always say 'Nedu, anyday you inpregnate a girl bring her home but you MUST assume full responsibilites'.

Na wit this kind state i wan start to dey bring kids enter the world when i get ntin to give them. Hell no!

matrix199:


So you expect every African parents to immediately accept the fact that the deed is done already, and welcome their teenage daughter with open embrace? It's human to feel angry, disappointed at such findings. It's human to react angrily at such finding.

If you don't have a name to protect, such discovery won't budge you. And mind you, the western parents may accept such because of the alternatives they have. Abortion is legal in most states in the US. But is it legal and morally justified in most countries in Africa?

I think you owe African parents an apology.

hey man,

To every action, there is always a reaction. We are all human and definitel, we must exercise our expression to any occurrence. Yes the parents shouldn't just embrace the girl like that, I understand.

There are reversible actions and some actions are irreversible, hence the reason to manage it and deal with it.

The daughter was pregnant, it had brought shame only the family.

The girl is dead naw, apart from shame to the family, there is even loss of souls(the daughter and her baby) to the family.

The incidence was not properly managed with maturity and sense, hence the reason for the girl committing suicide.

Dats y condom dey if e hapn 2 avoid unwanted responsibilities

E no pass #50

LouisBERG:
But why?..if her parent had accepted the pregnancy and welcomed her with warmth gestures she wouldn't have subcribed to suicide. That silly boyfriend of her's too didn't even help matters. No creative minds anymore, going to school is not even in their agenda. What we see now are Youth with misplaced priority parambating the streets looking for whom to devour. RIP to the victim.
#caLLmeBERG

In as much as the parents might share little fragment of the blame, the girl in question share most of the blame. If my child came home with an unwanted pregnancy , am I suppose to rejoice?

favourmic:


hey don't you know no matter the age of ladies when it comes to love they turn to fool? I don't blame the girl

She has no case at all.

First about anything you do, being safe is primal and absolute.

Yes the parent were kinda unreceptive at hearing the news of her pregnancy, but suicide can never liberate her from her trilimma.

#SuicideIsANO

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HIV1:

In as much as the parents might share little fragment of the blame, the girl in question share most of the blame. If my child came home with an unwanted pregnancy , am I suppose to rejoice?

i no know o.

She was happy with her bf while he enjoys her pucsy, but wants the parents to give him an award for A SEX WELL DONE.

IamLucy:
please tell him

do hope he understand

chynie:


so she can get pregnant again abi

her parents reacted as expected but too harsh

is a lesson to others

The outcome of her parent's body language made her did the abominable act. The deed had already been done. this is the time she needs love and care from both partys(boyfriend included) no matter what, her parent should have accepted her. She is still their child. But she was rejected and hence she decided to take her life and that of the unborn child. For me, i think she has a myopic sense of reasoning for subcribing to the act. She should have looked beyond her present predicament and forge ahead there are better opportunities awaiting her. Note, I am not in anyway promoting sexual intercourse from the younger generations. But when it happens the next step is "WHAT IS THE WAY FOWARD" her parent were too harsh though.
#caLLmeBERG

RIP to the girl. May her soul rest in peace.

Tolexander:
hey man,

To every action, there is always a reaction. We are all human and definitel, we must exercise our expression to any occurrence. Yes the parents shouldn't just embrace the girl like that, I understand.

There are reversible actions and some actions are irreversible, hence the reason to manage it and deal with it.

The daughter was pregnant, it had brought shame only the family.

The girl is dead now, apart from shame to the family, there is even loss of souls(the daughter and her baby) to the family.

The incidence was not properly managed with maturity and sense, hence the reason for the girl committing suicide.

Young man, you owe your fathers and mothers an apology.

matrix199:


Young man, you owe your fathers and mothers an apology.

Young man, you owe common sense an apology!

IamLucy:
her parents are to blame.african parents can be quite shallow and insensitive.

really u mean u can commit succide bc of mere word from ur parents?

pls d girl dt killed herslf deserved all the blame

HIV1:

In as much as the parents might share little fragment of the blame, the girl in question share most of the blame. If my child came home with an unwanted pregnancy , am I suppose to rejoice?

Bro there are better ways to go abt it in a way as not to affect anybody. Her parent acted imature in this issue. What happens if they(parent) decides to have a meeting with the supposed "boyfriend" parent and look for a way to sovle the issue on ground. Even if it is by giving her daughter hand in marriage to the boy forcefully. Yes forcefully, coz she has bring shame and disgrace to the family. But they neglect her to her fate and this was the repercution. You shouldn't rejoice when your daughter who is not ripe for marriage comes home with pregnancy. But what diffentiate you from the masses is your sense of reasoning and maturity in handling the issue.
#caLLmeBERG

Chiamaka chiamaka chiamaka, how many times I call you
Rot in Hell....

Nwatakiri onye Uwa Mmebi...

matrix199:


Young man, you owe your fathers and mothers an apology.

tolexander has more point than you

LouisBERG:

Bro there are better ways to go abt it in a way as not to affect anybody. Her parent acted imature in this issue. What happens if they(parent) decides to have a meeting with the supposed "boyfriend" parent and look for a way to sovle the issue on ground. Even if it is by giving her daughter hand in marriage to the boy forcefully. Yes forcefully, coz she has bring shame and disgrace to the family. But they neglect her to her fate and this was the repercution. You shouldn't rejoice when your daughter who is not ripe for marriage comes home with pregnancy. But what diffentiate you from the masses is your sense of reasoning and maturity in handling the issue.
#caLLmeBERG

You don't have first hand information in this case . I should have done is a common statement made by we human beings simply because we are humans. No matter how much we will never know what is going to happen the next minute. Many people think they are wiser than others, as for me I only share the pains of the parents. May God give them the fortitude to bear the loss.

LouisBERG:

Bro there are better ways to go abt it in a way as not to affect anybody. Her parent acted imature in this issue. What happens if they(parent) decides to have a meeting with the supposed "boyfriend" parent and look for a way to sovle the issue on ground. Even if it is by giving her daughter hand in marriage to the boy forcefully. Yes forcefully, coz she has bring shame and disgrace to the family. But they neglect her to her fate and this was the repercution. You shouldn't rejoice when your daughter who is not ripe for marriage comes home with pregnancy. But what diffentiate you from the masses is your sense of reasoning and maturity in handling the issue.
#caLLmeBERG

Oga, abeg did u grow up in Ikot Ekpene

Ur reasoning get as e be ooo..

Which parent in Nigeria would throw a party for their teen daughter for carrying a child even the man responsible denied..

The parent scolded their child nd went further to prove to her they re not happy with the event by not getting her demand..

So the girl is responsible for her death..

I know of a gal the parent sent to the man responsible nd the man denied her nd refused her entry to his house, the gal slept outside until she gave birth.
Can u compare this with this present issue..

Tolexander:
the way many African parents handle teenage pregnancy betrays common sense and maturity!

The most annoying part is many of these parents got their first born before they got wedded.

Because of ur statement dats y try my best to mind my business and avoid trouble.So if my kids Bleep up...hehe.

If she hadn't died and bore the child. It is these same folks here depricating her for killing herself that will still turn around to call the child a bastard,illegitimate bla bla bla. You just can't win with these so called holy folks. Really sad though

the guy is heartless for rejecting the pregnancy

IamLucy:
tolexander has more point than you

thanks ma!

IamLucy:
tolexander has more point than you

You think so?

matrix199:

You think so?

i KNOW so

isaacsegun:
the guy is heartless for rejecting the pregnancy

I won't be surprised if the guy is also a teenager or in his twenties..
They are usually careless,uncaring and insensitive....Only few are considerate.

[quote author=BruzMoney post=41644626]one condom I mean on fvcking condom would have saved two souls, they lost the Mother and the Kid. the Guy is Davido's extended family and they are allergic to condom. They should castrate the guy to avoid future issues.. [/quote

IamLucy:
her parents are to blame.african parents can be quite shallow and insensitive.

Her parents were even nice to accommodate her.Mine would have thrown her out! This is Africa! Pregnancy outside wedlock esp for a teenager is a BIG shame

menix:


Oga, abeg did u grow up in Ikot Ekpene

Ur reasoning get as e be ooo..

Which parent in Nigeria would throw a party for their teen daughter for carrying a child even the man responsible denied..

The parent scolded their child nd went further to prove to her they re not happy with the event by not getting her demand..

So the girl is responsible for her death..

I know of a gal the parent sent to the man responsible nd the man denied her nd refused her entry to his house, the gal slept outside until she gave birth.
Can u compare this with this present issue..

Bro i never expected her parent to be happy concerning the issue on ground. But yet again considering the fact that the deed had been done. Is not attending to her needs sweep the matter under the carpet or solve it? She is now dead and they(parent) have lost a soul.I think they should start rejoicing now. Mtcheww their ignorance(parent) and low sense of reasoning(daughter) prompted this unhealthy act. But our young gals sha. It a pity.
#caLLmeBERG

i blame the parents for their insensitivity to their daughter, i guess now that she is dead, they are happy.

when will we ever hear good news from ebonyi?