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| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by obillyj(f): 6:04pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
first, being a woman I can understand your wife's plight but that is not a reason to build a home on a lie. She should ve told you n if u loved her enough, u would have supported her to get help. The mistake is made, though not enough reason for divorce. Secondly, u claim to love her very much but ur write up said otherwise cause there's no iota of compassion in all u wrote. She lied,yes but love should conquer that. Now is the time u prove it to her. Forget what neighbours think, focus on her n d solution. There's a way out of everything. Thirdly, my honest advice is to seek spiritual help. Medicine will try to explain it away but I tell u it's way beyond medicine for an adult to bed wet. That tells me d reason she was not married before now. She hid it from u cos she knows u will jive like others when u find out. Take her to OMEGA FIRE MINISTRY @ AUCHI IN EDO STATE pa stored by APOSTLE JOHNSON SULEMAN. That case is moi-moi case. Prepare for like a week stay there. Pray to God, believe and God will hear u. You are not to pay a dime, all u require is d right heart and attitude, God-willing she will be located. I wish u all d best n God speed. |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by CaptPlanet(m): 6:04pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
"ALL" girls are chronic LIARS! ALL OF THEM. Especially the ones that claim to be holy. Those ones are the worst kind |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Try by waking her in the middle of the night to urinate in the rest room before she wet d bed then back that method with prayers because it might be an attack! But how come you propose to a woman who never spent a night in your house? |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by ada40: 6:06pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
OP. open this link https://www.nairaland.com/2414762/spiritual-warfare-deliverance-casting-out/17#36187787 that is the kind of place you and your newly need to solve this problem permanently. |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by kateskitty(f): 6:10pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
This problem is very manageable, you don't need to air your wife's dirty undies in Nairaland. Or are you looking for some kind of sympathy vote  . What good will that do.1 Like |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by xtervaganza(m): 6:10pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Nigerians and religion. There's nothing spiritual about her problem. It could be a psychological problem which a psychologist would help her solve or it could be a medical problem. 1 Like |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by mcpapillo(m): 6:14pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Now this is clearly spiritual, maybe her spirit husband dey kpansh her everynight and d tin dey sweet her and she dey feel say she wan cum, cum piss |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by mysticwarrior(m): 6:16pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Wake her up to go and urinate every two hours during the night, this will help. 1 Like |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Jay4joy: 6:16pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
I advice you take her to MFM church at Onike to run deliverance. Also visit a doctor. |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Filmdirect: 6:18pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
So sorry for your wife. How embarrassed she must feel. Yes she lied but who really opens up their shame easily? If you truly loved her you would have understood that the person you most love is dealing with a delicate issue and would have approached it with her in mind. If she reads you telling the world that you would never have married her if you knew this, for the rest of your natural days as her husband she will never truly believe you love her and it will affect your marriage. People are going through thick and thin for their loved ones, and you throw yours under the bus for an issue that can be addressed privately and medically. I shudder! 3 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
She's not a baby adult, she needs spiritual help Asap. Look for an MFM church around or any deliverance bible believing church. Meanwhile you have a responsibility of waking her up at night to pee and also if u won't mind wake her up around 12.00am to 12:30 am to pray about it like this: owners of evil load in my life carry your load. And tell her to pray it sincerely u cud even join her. Shalom! 2 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by chidinwachukwu(m): 6:21pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Bro!,Sorry your wife is not the only one in this predicament,u will be surprised how many adult Nigerians who also urinate,buy an Air. Freshner,buy a suction foam(a smaller foam),that u will place over the Area,and climb on top it,in other for it to absorb,the urine from the bigger foam,then buy an Iron to dry the remender onabsorbed urine,or you buy a tapolene,and place it were she sleeps.Then most importantly try and help her with love.the the problem,is genetic,psychological,and stress that comes with toomuch work or sports.You can. Also wake her three times in the night,before. Day breaks. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by glossy6(f): 6:22pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
nseke: In addition wake up twice in the night to ease herself. But don't fail to see a doctor 1 Like |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by ATERI(m): 6:22pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Dotmax53: OP, what happens to for better, for worse ? Come on, she is your wife, suffering a serious psychological damage as we speak because of this.Please show some compassion and patience. I remember one of my sisters telling me about this type of problem a long time ago. It stopped suddenly and she went on to have kids. Do what people advise and pray not to have a serious marital problem-this is socially disgraceful but not the worst problem I`ve heard couples wrestle with. The happiness of your wife is your happiness so make her happy regardless of this problem. I think it`s urologists that deal with something like this, so take her to one if all of the advice here fail 1 Like |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Richy4(m): 6:23pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
kateskitty: It is a faceless forum madam.. No one knows him or the wife. the young man is confused and was seeking for opinion on how to manage the medical condition.... Remember, it will be embarrassing asking neighbours that knew them on how this medical could be managed...assuming he has got kids, he would have known how it was done. in this case it was not even a kid but and adult.... I guess that was why he came to NL. We don't have to hold that against him |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Opoki(m): 6:23pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
BaddieKay:Yea, they need to seek a good doctor. Her urinary tract might have been affected. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by lilygabriel08: 6:23pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
this is y u shud try b4 buying |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by abbk000: 6:27pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Can you guys please stoooopppp!!! The poor lady has a medical condition being promoted spiritually and you the husband is a real small boy, for saying you would not have married her. What if this was your sister Please go to MedPlus or is it Health Plus these proper pharmacy not your local chemist and buy her Adult Dispers like Pampers but for Adult. There's a brand called "Tena". I know they have it cos my Dad is 80 and cannot control his bladder so we buy it for him. Are you in Lagos? If you drop me your contact email/number I can arrange some for her for free. Also she needs to go to church like MFM for deliverance as this incontinence she suffers from is Spritual. The enemy wants to disgrace her in her husbands house! |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by glossy6(f): 6:28pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Lizabeth25: It is not the standard for a woman to spend nighiin the fiance's prior to marriage |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 6:32pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
What's with nigerians and spiritual bullshi't poor woman definitely has a bladder malfunction some women/ men has this kinda medical problem, my father inlaw has same problem he is a 67 years old white man, perhaps should tell him he has a spiritual problem, according to nigerians (unqualified doctors) on nairaland, he will probarbly die with laughter  .its only in nigeria ordinary head ache is concluded or diagnosed as spiritual, hence many nigerians die of treatable medical illness in ignorance. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by maureensylvia(f): 6:34pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
@ op ur wifey problem is not so pathetic as u thought. I have a friend that does that but what they used in curing her is python(eke in igbo) tied around her waist while she sleeps. once she tries to per on bed, it will shake vigorously that wiĺl cause her to wAke. btw it's so scary but d fear of her tying it around her waist will stop it |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by tpppi: 6:37pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Try to bring small bucket or what we call poo into the room for easy access,whenever she is pressed. |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by macho44(m): 6:38pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Dotmax53:Too much sweet and biscuit www.adielem.com |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Dotmax53: Quite worrying, but it is no insurmountable ordeal. You can help her stop it if it's not spiritual. Observe her to know when and how many times she does so on the bed at night. If you can understand this, problem appears over. Next, wake her up at intervals during the night. Firstly ensure she uses the toilet once she is about to sleep. Secondly make it a duty to wake her up every two hours throughout the night to go pee. It might be stressful when you start it but her success over this ordeal would make you smile later and forever. Finally, after a while you would no longer be her alarm clock, she would become used to getting up herself during those hours especially when she is pressed to pee. Marriage is for better and for worse. Thankfully, you found your cross quite early. Please bear it lovingly and tolerantly because you are more fortunate than so many others whose crosses are replete with spikes, agony and misery. Our LORD Jesus will certainly help you by offering you grace to pull through unscathed. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by topzybabs: 6:38pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Lordprez: Good comment and right tone of presentation. @Op - Imagine you said you love your wife yet you are whining on the new bed 'she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed'. I doubt if you truly love her at all or you fell for beauty and physical appearance. As to the main issue, if you know you genuinely love the babe abeg maturely talk to her about it and agree with her on the next step to take coz i believe she must have taken some serious steps before. Gods' healing will visit her bro. |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by dammytosh: 6:39pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
You don't deserve her and you don't sound like a responsible husband. There are simple steps and discipline. 1. She must eat dinner as early as 7pm and ensure she does not drink water after then. 2. She must sleep early. May be 9pm/10pm at most (This will not make her dead tired when sleeping) 3. She should go and do fasten sugar test. Too much sugar in the blood stream will make her wet bed 4. You must learn to interrupt her sleep as often as possible to pee. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by luckman20(m): 6:40pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
When You Bring your personal issues online,are You Expecting us to cry for u,Beat the person for you? Brethren 90% of Us Don't care. |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Onyema1(m): 6:40pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Let her start using pampers for now. There are adult pampers. |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Joeace3000(m): 6:41pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Are there more than enough educated illiterates in Africa... The number of people who have linked this to spiritual causes is alarming. So someone who's probably suffering a medical condition should avoid the doctor and run after spiritualists. God helps those who makes moves to alleviate their suffering. Wow! No wonder we are so backward, we never try to be rational before going spiritual 1 Like |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Toks2008(m): 6:43pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Dotmax53: Love they say..endures all things. Now close your eyes and imagine you are the one in this predicament. This is why i always say couple must open up to each other on every and any secret so that there won't be any unpleasant surprises. Now while i wil,advive that you google different phrases bothering on "How o prevent,cure adult bedwetting" You can even google.."My wife bed-wets every night" i believe you wil come up with a good succor but for the time being you can get her an adult diaper so she can be using it before finally falling asleep at night at least this will keep the bed dry. It could be a genetic disordere or spiritual problem but which ever one it is,there is absolutely noihing impossible for GOD to do but please get that adult diaper..You can fo Mushin if you are in Lagos to get 5k worth of it which is about N4900 for 32 pieces(pne per nigt).I was buying it at a time for an elderly person. Remember that shits happen in life..just put yourself in her position and apparently i may want to blame her for not coming clean before marriage but then i believe she may be scared of losing you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Rexleo(m): 6:44pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
Voluntary, or intentional, enuresis may be associated with other mental disorders, including behavior disorders or emotional disorders such as anxiety. Enuresis also appears to run in families, which suggests that a tendency for the disorder may be inherited (passed on from parent to child, particularly on the father's side). In addition, toilet training that was forced or started when the child was too young may be a factor in the development of the disorder, although there is little research to make conclusions about the role of toilet training and the development of enuresis. Children with enuresis are often described as heavy sleepers who fail to awaken at the urinary urge to void or when their bladders are full. bro now you are in for a long ride.forget spiritual jargons.you will need to start potty training for your wife.but to think of it ladies are very wicked.things they will not accept and can't cope with them go want make we endure with them.the heart of man is desperately wicked who can know it. 1 Like |
| Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Adonis3: 6:46pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
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