ronald4lif:
The problem is with the guy not the girl. What kind of redundant question is tell me about yourself? You ask her what exactly you want to know about her not a nebulous question like tell me about yourself.

And even if you're to ask such question, you can first tell your name, educational background, age or whatever before chipping in can I know yours. Very boring chatter trying to pass blame to a soft target.

ronald4lif:
The problem is with the guy not the girl. What kind of redundant question is tell me about yourself? You ask her what exactly you want to know about her not a nebulous question like tell me about yourself.

And even if you're to ask such question, you can first tell your name, educational background, age or whatever before chipping in can I know yours. Very boring chatter trying to pass blame to a soft target.

MizTyna:


Bless you! The girl is nice sef. You send me hi beauty and you'll get no response. Ain't nobody got time for that

octopusfreaky:
Once you are ^°gly i wont even bother replying you OP na ugly guys or pervs dey chat like ds no offence.

donholy28:
op u no get orientation

tolaxin:


Now when you clock 35, you gonna be the one sending out hi handsome like a CV

MizTyna:


Till then

ronald4lif:
The problem is with the guy not the girl. What kind of redundant question is tell me about yourself? You ask her what exactly you want to know about her not a nebulous question like tell me about yourself.

And even if you're to ask such question, you can first tell your name, educational background, age or whatever before chipping in can I know yours. Very boring chatter trying to pass blame to a soft target.

jashar:
'Tell me about yourself '... shey na interview she dey?
Iranu....

tolaxin:


Apparently you are like abisola

your words....

LaurelP:


I disagree with you.
Not every guy must be an expert at chatting a lady, it doesn't mean that she cannot contribute or at least respond well. It is just the mentality of our ladies.

I have happened to chat with girls from outside the shores of Naija and I must say there's a huge difference. Before u even say anything, they are ready to respond and even be the one asking questions and telling u abt themselves. Our ladies have a very warped mentality, its not the guys fault.

The guy asked to know about the lady. A sensible person will either oblige him or ask him to introduce himself first.
As simple as that, both of them will enjoy the conversation and be happy.

You dont have to rack your brain to get a lady to respond to you, there are just too many things a man have to think about already.

MizTyna:


Bless you! The girl is nice sef. You send me hi beauty and you'll get no response. Ain't nobody got time for that

tolaxin:


Was that why she replied with 'for what'?

MizTyna:


Bless you! The girl is nice sef. You send me hi beauty and you'll get no response. Ain't nobody got time for that

LaurelP:


I disagree with you.
Not every guy must be an expert at chatting a lady, it doesn't mean that she cannot contribute or at least respond well. It is just the mentality of our ladies.

I have happened to chat with girls from outside the shores of Naija and I must say there's a huge difference. Before u even say anything, they are ready to respond and even be the one asking questions and telling u abt themselves. Our ladies have a very warped mentality, its not the guys fault.

The guy asked to know about the lady. A sensible person will either oblige him or ask him to introduce himself first.
As simple as that, both of them will enjoy the conversation and be happy.

You dont have to rack your brain to get a lady to respond to you, there are just too many things a man have to think about already.

ronald4lif:


Fair retort. But then most ladies, depending on how attractive they are, exchange correspondence with new guys daily. So for you to keep her glued to you and swiftly respond to your messages your first lines shouldn't be cliched.

Chances are if she meets 10guys at least 8 out of them will employ cliche lines like tell me about yourself, what did you had for lunch etc. Those are boring lines and even if one must ask someone tell me about yourself you have to define what exactly it is you want to know. And first tell his.

LaurelP:


Bro, I get what youre saying. What am saying tho is that every guy cannot be an expert at chatting. There are very sweet, caring, romantic guys who know nothing about chatting. Infact, those guys who have to study how to chat a lady are usually players.

But there is something called courtesy. Its important for ALL humans to have it, not only men. Don't expect a guy to be courteous to you when ur rude.

And about the pretty girls stuff, I ve noticed that very pretty girls dont even do those silly things. Its low self esteem that causes such.

tolaxin:

Yur b00bs are

iAmCharis:
Maybe her name is Beauty.

So, if you wouldn't respond to 'hi beauty', what then will you respond to? 'hi ogre'?
No offense.

Ucheosefoh:
Reason why I delete my whatsapp and have stop chatting on Facebook dump girls everywhere

Bookiemart01:
You mean you got on Facebook and whatsapp because of girls?
My dear, your mates are making legitimate millions on those 2 platforms. Get a social life outside toasting girls please