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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by lasurjunior(m): 4:47am On Feb 07, 2016
Vyolet:
Men have no reason for cheating, they just cheat anyway.
If a woman is beautiful physically, knows how to cook, has a reserved character, turns 360degrees in bed during sex, a home keeper, submissive, working class and she bears male and female kids, a man will still cheat on her, Unless the man is disciplined.
It is therefore safe to say, there is no such thing as wife material as defined by men.
A man would claim to love slim ladies,he ends up marrying one, after sometime, he goes out to cheat on her with chubby ladies, this is same for men that Married chubby ladies because they prefer them, this doesn't stop them from going after skinny girls later.
Women should still look good after childbirth, she listens to this advice and try her best, rigorous exercise, starvation, slimming tea become her regular routine, after all this, the man will still cheat on her.
Mcttchew, tired of ranting.
Tired of ranting? Then go call police na....lol

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by badostic: 4:58am On Feb 07, 2016
One thing you must understand today is that the equipment for exercise are not the same. If sum1 has tasted two pus*y, you will agree with me that the pleasure are different.

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by cosmicrayboi(m): 5:03am On Feb 07, 2016
Vyolet:
Men have no reason for cheating, they just cheat anyway.
If a woman is beautiful physically, knows how to cook, has a reserved character, turns 360degrees in bed during sex, a home keeper, submissive, working class and she bears male and female kids, a man will still cheat on her, Unless the man is disciplined.
It is therefore safe to say, there is no such thing as wife material as defined by men.
A man would claim to love slim ladies,he ends up marrying one, after sometime, he goes out to cheat on her with chubby ladies, this is same for men that Married chubby ladies because they prefer them, this doesn't stop them from going after skinny girls later.
Women should still look good after childbirth, she listens to this advice and try her best, rigorous exercise, starvation, slimming tea become her regular routine, after all this, the man will still cheat on her.
Mcttchew, tired of ranting.

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by 124mumsy: 5:15am On Feb 07, 2016
varieties is the spice of life, my dear just pray for your man and always look good, if you tried to look messe it would be worst because they go just marry second wife wey dey keep fit don't be decieve he is still proud of you just that the law of diminishing returns affects everything and humans are inclusive, even you when you see a handsome duld u lost after him but you term to ascept your faith because of the consequences if being cought in the act. my advice is for you not to think about he we get tired one day and stay with you for the rest of his life.

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by DonJupo(m): 5:37am On Feb 07, 2016
This is an unfortunate issue about guys but that been said, ladies shouldn't generalise. There are "men" out there who stand true and true to their lady; my elder bro being an example.
It's actually a two-way trend but certainly higher in men.
The problem with human and relationship is that we don't define our intentions and priorities from the outset.
A guy that dates/marries lady for her looks is mostly to cheat when he finds a "better look". Similarly, a lady with a guy cos of his looks/financial status will also cheat when she meets a more handsome/financially stable dude.

When the foundation of a relationship is built on compatibility and mutual interest and not mainly on looks and status, there's a high percentage of respect and I-won't-hurt-my-partner mentality.

Finally, regardless of how dedicated and loyal we stay in a relationship, if we don't commit it to Gods hands, the devil will certainly present it's almost irresistible temptations before us.

May God help us all.

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by anwo247: 5:40am On Feb 07, 2016
What's the matter about this cheating when women are willingly going into 2nd, 3rd, 4th wife.

From ages, men are able to handle plenty women at a time. Multiple women are able to enjoy themselves with one man at a time.

Women are Hardly stable in character and in anything. ..... the more you get committed to this one man one woman thing, the more the woman wants to become the husband of the house, yes. But once they are more than one, they struggle to be better wives or wife....most women are the husband of their house today.

I do not expect the unmarried youths or those less than 5yrs in marriage to understand me or quote me.

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by aldexrio(m): 5:41am On Feb 07, 2016
Vyolet:
Men have no reason for cheating, they just cheat anyway.
If a woman is beautiful physically, knows how to cook, has a reserved character, turns 360degrees in bed during sex, a home keeper, submissive, working class and she bears male and female kids, a man will still cheat on her, Unless the man is disciplined.
It is therefore safe to say, there is no such thing as wife material as defined by men.
A man would claim to love slim ladies,he ends up marrying one, after sometime, he goes out to cheat on her with chubby ladies, this is same for men that Married chubby ladies because they prefer them, this doesn't stop them from going after skinny girls later.
Women should still look good after childbirth, she listens to this advice and try her best, rigorous exercise, starvation, slimming tea become her regular routine, after all this, the man will still cheat on her.
Mcttchew, tired of ranting.

Did someone cheat on you? You're taking this too personal.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by anselm791(m): 5:45am On Feb 07, 2016
Tell them to marry a man that fears God, Noooo, they want a millonaire in the day and hunk at night. And the sad thing is that, every other girl wants this too.

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by Nobody: 5:55am On Feb 07, 2016
Elbreezy:
must you comment


I was about asking u the same thing. How about the part u mind ur business.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by Nobody: 5:59am On Feb 07, 2016
04kaa:
The problem here is women do not understand the type of creature a man is.....and they will never ever understand, a woman expects a man to see life from her own lens forgetting that GOD created men differently, A man is a hunter, a woman is an emotional being...men hunt, we are interested in chasing.....we derive fun from chasing and not catching, immediately a man catches its prey the food suddenly becomes boring ..A woman on the other hand is a myopic shortsighted emotional creature that thinks with their heart not their head, The idea of a woman's ideal good life is marriage, thats all a woman wants in her entire life . Marriage! lol he must marry me he must put a ring on my finger, wedding party, misplaced priority forgetting that marriage is just one single thing. life has a whole lot more to offer for men ....unlike women who think a happy life story is being ''happily married'' . They keep chasing happiness and they forget that there is no such thing as happiness in life. what GOD gave us is Happiness plus some sadness....10minutes of happiness 2 minutes of sadness. A woman is shortsighted this is why they will never understand why a man will chase a younger girl in mini skirt who looks like a prey to him , U will never ever understand if u cannot understand that a man was a born as a hunter of beautiful looking things ( women Their boobs and their sexy shape). sad as it may sound. men love good looking women, thats all we wanna see from day to night. we like to see beauty.! i want to see boobbiesss, i want to see long legs, figure 8 etc


women open ur eyes. A man does not see life from ur eyes, yall are too weak and feeble and too damn emotional, una just go dey cry for no reason . A man will always be a man. Deal with it. we are not you! we will never be you! Accept us as we were created , we were created to hunt and make love to all of u. This is our fate, Deal with it! grin grin grin grin

Where does self control now come in....I mean that ability that differentiates a human from an animal?
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by Nobody: 6:18am On Feb 07, 2016
Vyolet:

I never enter one chance o, my man happens to be one of those that still maintains marital sacredness, he has proven my thought about men wrong in most occasion but then maybe because we are still young, only time will tell.
If i wer ur man nd i read this post, i'd be disappointed. Maybe u give men this kinda xpectin him to cheat attitude which make them leave u or or go ahead n cheat cus u xpect the worst frm him already. I notice u still term cheatin as a general ish for all men.. My dear nt all men, at least i'm sure bou my father nd myself wen i find my lady.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by MeezPat(f): 6:48am On Feb 07, 2016
Mindfulness:
Is your man cheating? Why the ranting? There are billions of wonderful men out there. How about looking this way?
Guy you are so funny.I pray say billions of wonderful men are out there.Some are just highly opinionated,very proud& don't know how to correct a lady without bringing her down while others have nothing to offer other than their middle leg.Good men are scarce just like old wine.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by megabyte2(f): 6:50am On Feb 07, 2016
It is not the beauty of a wife that keeps a man from straying, it is self discipline.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by mgbedianya(m): 6:50am On Feb 07, 2016
Vyolet:
Men have no reason for cheating, they just cheat anyway.
If a woman is beautiful physically, knows how to cook, has a reserved character, turns 360degrees in bed during sex, a home keeper, submissive, working class and she bears male and female kids, a man will still cheat on her, Unless the man is disciplined.
It is therefore safe to say, there is no such thing as wife material as defined by men.
A man would claim to love slim ladies,he ends up marrying one, after sometime, he goes out to cheat on her with chubby ladies, this is same for men that Married chubby ladies because they prefer them, this doesn't stop them from going after skinny girls later.
Women should still look good after childbirth, she listens to this advice and try her best, rigorous exercise, starvation, slimming tea become her regular routine, after all this, the man will still cheat on her.
Mcttchew, tired of ranting.
Op you made a truthful but a sad Observations. The reasons are not far fetched . I know most people will not like this but it is the truth. We like to watch different Tv Channels not one. 99.1% of Men Prefer to eat Varieties not Just same food every day. So there are no other reasons. Make una no kill me o, this is my observation.

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by WATERLee1: 7:18am On Feb 07, 2016
Vyolet:
Men have no reason for cheating, they just cheat anyway.
If a woman is beautiful physically, knows how to cook, has a reserved character, turns 360degrees in bed during sex, a home keeper, submissive, working class and she bears male and female kids, a man will still cheat on her, Unless the man is disciplined.
It is therefore safe to say, there is no such thing as wife material as defined by men.
A man would claim to love slim ladies,he ends up marrying one, after sometime, he goes out to cheat on her with chubby ladies, this is same for men that Married chubby ladies because they prefer them, this doesn't stop them from going after skinny girls later.
Women should still look good after childbirth, she listens to this advice and try her best, rigorous exercise, starvation, slimming tea become her regular routine, after all this, the man will still cheat on her.
Mcttchew, tired of ranting.
u alway blame men so much. Can u beat ur chest that women aint into it? Stop the tras* n talk like lerned one... May God save us from women's world.. mtcheew

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by Kazrem(m): 7:22am On Feb 07, 2016
Vyolet:
Men have no reason for cheating, they just cheat anyway.
If a woman is beautiful physically, knows how to cook, has a reserved character, turns 360degrees in bed during sex, a home keeper, submissive, working class and she bears male and female kids, a man will still cheat on her, Unless the man is disciplined.
It is therefore safe to say, there is no such thing as wife material as defined by men.
A man would claim to love slim ladies,he ends up marrying one, after sometime, he goes out to cheat on her with chubby ladies, this is same for men that Married chubby ladies because they prefer them, this doesn't stop them from going after skinny girls later.
Women should still look good after childbirth, she listens to this advice and try her best, rigorous exercise, starvation, slimming tea become her regular routine, after all this, the man will still cheat on her.
Mcttchew, tired of ranting.
Has someone cheated on you before?
Ladies and their cheating ways:
Despite buying her latest phone, taking her to shop every forth night, giving her enough monthly allowance, sending money to her brother in school and her mummy in the village, doing everything possible to have six packs she demands yet the lady will still cheat, calling him mugu, magger, ATM etc. Why?

Men (man and woman are insatiable) It is only the discipline that will not.

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by quivah(f): 7:24am On Feb 07, 2016
Poseidon000:

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Yes, all men are good. I don't know why u peeps are branding us bad grin

We're the most loyal being on earth. you just need to locate and press the"mumu bottom" grin

You tame men lyk lion(main reason men are loyal to their mom), not heaping frivolous want's and unrealistic expectation on them(main thing that put men off).

Do that and see him worship you lyk a queen cool
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Lol I'm sorry but you are not talking to a 5year old here..
As far as men and women are humans , their wants is indefinite..
If you like press mumu button, e go still look outside.. No b Mumu button,
Only self discipline(and maybe being God fearing) is the god over infidelity... But that in fact is just a pity cause it depends on the opportunity available to cheat... Self discipline is inversely proportional to the opportunity available to cheat.. If one has someone who doesn't cheat ,,she's not lucky but blessed..

Nb; that he worships his woman like a queen won't stop him from digging another woman,after all 'its just se.x'.. It goes beyond worshipping his woman, its more about his own person.
Only poor, 1 min men, ugly, low self esteem men etc ( who obviously have little opportunity to cheat) can boost of their strong loyalty.. Let things change tho, and they will return to being 'men'.. Only a limited few will remain intact..


PS; there are only few hundreds who still stand firm to their wives,, irrespective of any opportunities and their positions in life.
Besides, I dont understand -- men are loyal to their mother...before nko? How many woman born them??! Where's the varieties to choose from?!

Anyways, I dont want to go to n fro.. So, all men are good,, just find their mumu button and they won't cheat on you..

Op you made a truthful but a sad Observations. The reasons are not far fetched . I know most people will not like this but it is the truth. We like to watch different Tv Channels not one. 99.1% of Men Prefer to eat Varieties not Just same food every day. So there are no other reasons. Make una no kill me o, this is my observation.
If you like press this one mumu button tire, e go still cheat.. Even tho is analogy is as stu.pid as him but he's trying to pass a msg I think a large no of people already know.. Lol 99.1% cry ,, ok na!

So I'm just wondering how your 'all men'are loyal blah blah' made any sense.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by Duru009(m): 7:25am On Feb 07, 2016
Women and their cheating ways...


Who are thy cheating with?

Is it not with thesame women.....
Nonsense!

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by Duru009(m): 7:25am On Feb 07, 2016
Women and their cheating ways...


Who are thy cheating with?
Is it not with thesame women.
Nonsense!
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by WATERLee1: 7:28am On Feb 07, 2016
The whites had brainwashed most of u to the extent of giving kudos to all what women/girls do bt batter men/guys for slightes err. Can Americans allow woman occupy the no one hot seat in forth coming election? U aint whites n cant be like them... Thus think straight dudes n lets imble what is ours

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by gbenga4my(m): 7:29am On Feb 07, 2016
Vyolet:

I never enter one chance o, my man happens to be one of those that still maintains marital sacredness, he has proven my thought about men wrong in most occasion but then maybe because we are still young, only time will tell.
Even your boo, get a boo. Never say never. That ur saint husby get big elephant in his pocket. Don't be surprised if you realise that, just help him with prayers. Don't create a scene with him ooo.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by Kazrem(m): 7:29am On Feb 07, 2016
mgbedianya:
Op you made a truthful but a sad Observations. The reasons are not far fetched . I know most people will not like this but it is the truth. We like to watch different Tv Channels not one. 99.1% of Men Prefer to eat Varieties not Just same food every day. So there are no other reasons. Make una no kill me o, this is my observation.
It is not an enough reason. If you compare the risk in eating varieties of "food" to the perceived "enjoyment", you will know the enjoyment does not worth the risk. Men are just insatiable. Give an insatiable man 10 cute chubby damsels, he would still ask for more.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by Tochux1: 7:30am On Feb 07, 2016
Men are repaying women in their own coin cos woman really showed man pepper ;DMen are repaying women in their own coin cos woman really showed man pepper

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by Kazrem(m): 7:36am On Feb 07, 2016
quivah:

Lol I'm sorry but you are not talking to a 5year old here..
As far as men and women are humans , their wants is indefinite..
If you like press mumu button, e go still look outside.. Mumu button?? Lmao!

Only self discipline(and maybe being God fearing) is the god over infidelity... But that in fact is just a pity cause it depends on the opportunity available to cheat... Self discipline is inversely proportional to the opportunity available to cheat..

That he worships his woman like a queen won't stop him from digging another woman,after all 'its just se.x'..
Only poor, 1 min men, ugly, low self esteem men etc ( who obviously have little opportunity to cheat) can boost of their loyalty.. Let things change tho, and they will return to being 'men'.. Only a limited few will remain intact..


PS; there are only few hundreds who still stand firm to their wives,, irrespective of any opportunities and their positions in life.
Besides, I dont understand -- men are loyal to their mother...before nko? How many woman born them??! Where's the varieties to choose from?!

Anyways, I dont want to go to n fro.. So, all men are good,, just find their mumu button and they won't cheat on you..


If you like press this one mumu button tire, e go still cheat.. Even tho is analogy is as stu.pid as him but he's trying to pass a msg I think a large no of people already know.. Lol 99.1% cry ,, ok na!

So I'm just wondering how your 'all men are loyal blah blah' made any sense.
If not for the bolded........
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by kpolli(m): 7:37am On Feb 07, 2016
Vyolet:
Men have no reason for cheating, they just cheat anyway.
If a woman is beautiful physically, knows how to cook, has a reserved character, turns 360degrees in bed during sex, a home keeper, submissive, working class and she bears male and female kids, a man will still cheat on her, Unless the man is disciplined.
It is therefore safe to say, there is no such thing as wife material as defined by men.
A man would claim to love slim ladies,he ends up marrying one, after sometime, he goes out to cheat on her with chubby ladies, this is same for men that Married chubby ladies because they prefer them, this doesn't stop them from going after skinny girls later.
Women should still look good after childbirth, she listens to this advice and try her best, rigorous exercise, starvation, slimming tea become her regular routine, after all this, the man will still cheat on her.
Mcttchew, tired of ranting.

So women have reason for cheating now abi

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by quivah(f): 7:39am On Feb 07, 2016
Kazrem:

If not for the bolded........
Weytin for happen?

If you belong to any of that category,,, chill till things change...and be your own judge.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by WATERLee1: 7:42am On Feb 07, 2016
Kazrem:

Has someone cheated on you before?
Ladies and their cheating ways:
Despite buying her latest phone, taking her to shop every forth night, giving her enough monthly allowance, sending money to her brother in school and her mummy in the village, doing everything possible to have six packs she demands yet the lady will still cheat, calling him mugu, magger, ATM etc. Why?

Men (man and woman are insatiable) It is only the discipline that will not.
.. Well said dude. Most men that ends up chasing another girls outside marriage were corner by the same wives n this leads to finding alternative in order to avoid being turn mumu at home. Some girls changed alot after gaining the minds of men at alter, they, girls, forgot all what brought abt their love to the men n start engaging in total changes of character n attitude. Tell me why guys wont sort their ways? Also, most of them claiming holy as house wives were once after married men in order to remain in vogue....iyen ogun odun asi ma joni lowo

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by quivah(f): 7:43am On Feb 07, 2016
totorimi:
There's is nothing like a real man or perfect man. The only way to avoid a cheating husband is to marry a Dundee united or a complete zombie.

cheesy cheesy
Cc Poseidon000
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by JeffreyJamez(m): 7:53am On Feb 07, 2016
quivah:

At bold, if you hold on to that ..then you are digging a very shallow grave...you will just keep thinking he's cheating, whereas he might not ( or maybe he is).. Dont give yourself unnecessary headache.. Until he is caught, he's not cheating tongue

Who knows if he's probably doing it already but not to your face.. shocked

You just destroyed somebody's marriage without even knowing.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by JeffreyJamez(m): 7:56am On Feb 07, 2016
quivah:

Lol I'm sorry but you are not talking to a 5year old here..
As far as men and women are humans , their wants is indefinite..
If you like press mumu button, e go still look outside.. Mumu button?? Lmao!

Only self discipline(and maybe being God fearing) is the god over infidelity... But that in fact is just a pity cause it depends on the opportunity available to cheat... Self discipline is inversely proportional to the opportunity available to cheat..

That he worships his woman like a queen won't stop him from digging another woman,after all 'its just se.x'..
Only poor, 1 min men, ugly, low self esteem men etc ( who obviously have little opportunity to cheat) can boost of their loyalty.. Let things change tho, and they will return to being 'men'.. Only a limited few will remain intact..


PS; there are only few hundreds who still stand firm to their wives,, irrespective of any opportunities and their positions in life.
Besides, I dont understand -- men are loyal to their mother...before nko? How many woman born them??! Where's the varieties to choose from?!

Anyways, I dont want to go to n fro.. So, all men are good,, just find their mumu button and they won't cheat on you..


If you like press this one mumu button tire, e go still cheat.. Even tho is analogy is as stu.pid as him but he's trying to pass a msg I think a large no of people already know.. Lol 99.1% cry ,, ok na!

So I'm just wondering how your 'all men are loyal blah blah' made any sense.





How you people come up with this statistics from the comfort of your homes is what I find very amusing....... in a world of 7billion people.....on a few 100 men can be loyal?....... 7billion?......let that sink in..



If all you see around you are cheating men, then y'all have been moving with the wrongest of crowds.

Rubbish!

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Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by Blackops(m): 7:57am On Feb 07, 2016
Wife Material dey Bodija market.
Re: Men And Their Cheating Ways. by DeRay98(m): 8:06am On Feb 07, 2016
Vyolet:

No he is not, it is just annoying when 8 out of 10 women that I know go through the same thing. It always seem like there are no decent men existing again, even the men you least expect such from still do it.

If yours is not cheating, why are you "swallowing Panadol" for another person's headache? lots of women who are suffering from insecurity and complexes, often run into the assumptive mindset that their spouses are cheating and other run into same assumption without asking their complaining friends what the spouse did and how they knew?
lots of sincere husbands are suffering from their wives' unwaranted suspicions. assumptions and insecurity.
Woman, mind your own business and forget those your so called friends..

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