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Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by toyeanlawlah(f): 8:35pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21: eeiiiii bros....... na ur gf? YES/NO. Which 1 na sumtin lyk d@... I dey suspect u o.abi u don dey deny d babe alredy ni? take ya tym o...... oya ansa d kwesion nw or else........ >: |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by TheHeGoat: 8:35pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Pheals:Now listen, u mumbo dumbo! Only dogs make the most irritating slurping noise when they eat because they're what they are - DOGS!!! Goats are exceptionally quiet animals when it's time to eat. They eat silently without disturbing anybody |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by GANJAFARMER: 8:36pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21:Well, you can always wake her up in the middle of the night and talk to her and tell her how it irritates you. But again , on a second thought that stuff shouldn't bother you if you truly love her. When you love people things like this becomes fun and something you joke about and laugh about it . |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by shilz(f): 8:38pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
You are not alone, but I don't know how to hide my feeling I will tell the person.. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by therapistmrs: 8:38pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
There 's no easy way out really.just tell her in a gentle manner that she makes noise while eating and show how to eat appropriately. therapistmrs. . com |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by modestdude(m): 8:40pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21:I think this will help. When next you are eating together probably one sweet Ogbono or Okro soup, use your phone recorder to record the sounds/slurping noises. Then play it back to her so that she can understand how irritating the sound can be in the presence of guests or in public. While at it, appeal to her reasoning faculty by adding that its unclassy for a lady to be exhibiting such. Remind her that its out of love that you are showing concern which others might not tell her. Trust me, she will be amused to hear the sound and at the same time think deeply about it Thank you for thanking me in advance coz I see change happening before buhari's change |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by lomprico(m): 8:41pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21:If you love here then u should be free enough to tell her straight up! But jokinly anoyinly (if u know what I mean) eg "abeg wetin be all this cham, cham, cham evri time u dey chop? Stop am jor!". |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Richy4(m): 8:42pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Just ask her if she mixed the food with gavel Just kidding.... every one in the world has one annoying habit or another but if you love the person enough, it could be over looked.... Like me, I can't stand any one that snores ... but it could be over looked with love... |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by modestdude(m): 8:43pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by pbs4real(m): 8:48pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:op u neat? Cos i have phobia for dirty galz |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by sinistermind(m): 8:49pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
ermmm.. like this "hey baby, you make annoying sounds while eating and it is very annoying and creeps me out, please just eat like a normal person but i still love you sha".... Nothing beats been blunt to the teeth. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Seventeen(f): 8:50pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21:honestly if u guyz are close like u said u were, telling her shouldnt be a problem. If u are finding it difficult to point it out, then u guyz arent that close. Just politely let her know about it, be sensitive in ur choice of words. Truly if this is a close friend like u said, she shouldnt be that hurt. Mnwhile.... Bear in mind that in true friendship, sometimes we just have to tolerate certain habits. My hubby is a nose picker, (only wen we are alone though) i hate that thing with a passion, i have politely made it known a zillion times and begged him to do it in private, but the guy picks his nose anywayz. We go just de gist, he go just de look me de pick eem thing. I hv learned to live with it. Am sure there are certain habits of mine he has also overlooked. Thats life for u. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Lagbodos1: 8:52pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Lol, my babe does that and I just tell her straight to stop chewing like that cos is embarrassing I don't say it rudely or say it in a way that will get her hurt All I do is babe stop chewing like that period and she don't get angry |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by iswallker(m): 8:54pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
IamMissMarvel: Re u sure he won't eat you up one day...person wen dey eat dey open mouth like lion... |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by HIPROFILE(m): 8:54pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21: for me and ma fiance it's no big deal correcting each other directly as far as it's nat in public sometimes sef we yab ourselves yell at each other and laugh along we also correct ourselves while we play. it's all about love it's all about understanding... |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21: Maybe this feeling is a Taurus thing!! I hate it too!!! |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by stonecoldcafe: 8:59pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21: Very simple, one day as you guys are eating, pause for some seconds and allow her carry on with her bad habit. Then suddenly ask (IN AN AMUSED TONE) why do you do that? "Do what?" She would ask. Then in a loving tone simply correct her. NB: my room mate had bad eating habits then. I managed for sooooooo long until one day I suddenly lashed out "why do you do that?" "Do what?" the person asked. "Go ahhhhhhhhh after every mouthfull" "Cos the food is sweet" "I understand but its a bad habit" And that was the last time that room mate ate like that in my prescence. So op tell her! You owe it to her whether you end up with her or not. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Chidoks(f): 9:00pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Blyzz:Hian!! |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Empiree: 9:04pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
@taurus21 PresVA: Do The Bolded Part Consciously When You Are Eating And She Is By Your Side And See How She Reacts. If She Dislikes It, Put Your Foot Down (Tell Her As It Is). She Will Get The Picture. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by oodua1stson: 9:08pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21:believe me, bro. The problem is with you, not her When the sound of someone eating upsets you its a kind of mental disorder (I'm very serious ). They call the disorder misophonia. Get mental help bro 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by StepTwo: 9:12pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
OP, stop to d give her Amala and Ewedu all d time. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by sonofthunder: 9:13pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
sankky:are you Lawrencia Chioma?? |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by ShakurM(m): 9:13pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:Olivia,How's you? I don't have a problem telling people what I like and don't like about them sha |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Larryfest(m): 9:20pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Lol..... dat awkward moment wen u say to her 'babe ar u eating spanner,nuts and screwdrivers'? Or y do u always sound like a gabage disposal? Vry bad habit frm childhood |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by modestdude(m): 9:24pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
tchidi:Same here, am a Taurus-May1st and I hate that habit. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Boeing777pilot: 9:38pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21: Send her anonymous text messages. Continuously. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Boeing777pilot: 9:42pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
oodua1stson: Not true. The person in question didn't learn good eating habits during childhood and unless you probably chew noisily while eating like a goat chewing the cud, it's frankly very annoying hearing those irritating sounds when someone is eating. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by SolexxBarry(m): 9:45pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Tell her politely and she will even love u more for it |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Comanche(f): 9:55pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
I have an aversion for that disgusting sound. |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by kannyluv(f): 10:13pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
hmmm dis is serious |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Chidoks:Which one be Hian again nah. i non understand this slang oh! |
Re: How Do I Tell Her That She Makes Annoying Sounds When Eating Without Hurting? by Reference(m): 10:16pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
taurus21: Which kind of love is that. That you cannot tell the truth....even in a light-hearted manner. You certainly donot love. |
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