ronald4lif:



The growing false sense of entitlement of some women and unceasing dependence on men for their needs has even made it difficult to render any assistance to women lately. Especially the tone in which they use in making their request.

And I'm wondering why it's easier for women to beg a guy for money than their fellow women? It's not in men' habit to beg for money from women but from fellow guys so why should women be different?

Thought I was the only one who notice this

Cutehector:
i"m currently employed darling.

Do I look like someone dats dependent?

Its not about being employed 'darling'. We all have days where things are not just going smoothly and we need others help be it friends, family or even people we just met.

Joy1706:

Its not about being employed 'darling'. We all have days where things are not just going smoothly and we need others help be it friends, family or even people we just met.

dat doesn't nw give u the right to call me unemployed alright. Not evryone in nalraland is jobless so u should change ur mentality.

mira4u:
You didnt ask him for money, yet you told him(a total stranger) the challenge you had, hence, he decided to give you 20t (according to your first post) to sort out your project. Here you are, crying fowl cos he wants sex.




Begging in disguise is still begging.

Where is your self esteem?

*sighs*

thanks for this comment

Ginaz:
I remembered when I was looking and running up and down for money to pay for my project, I won't lie things were hard at home. I happened to run against a man on my way coming from the market. He initiated a conversation, me being the friendly type I joined in. He gave me his card, I got home and not clearly being interested gave his card to my friend. My friend conspired to dupe this man of his money to which I was clearly against.

I called him that morning not to transfer any money to any bank( he was at the bank when I called ready to transfer 30,000 naira to my friend's account). He was grateful to me and readily requested I asked a favour anytime from him. He offered to send me 20,000 to sort out my project wahala but there was a catch. I should date him!

I was furious and more than disappointed, whatever happens to just helping a fellow being? I've been in this situation more than thrice, why do men behave pervertly ? This happens everyday, they give you money in exchange for your body, can't they help without taking advantage of the situation?

I'm sick and tired of this, why won't they help from their heart? This got me thinking men in power to help are perverts. I know a lot of women are suffering and destroying their lives cos of this

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Ginaz:
I remembered when I was looking and running up and down for money to pay for my project, I won't lie things were hard at home. I happened to run against a man on my way coming from the market. He initiated a conversation, me being the friendly type I joined in. He gave me his card, I got home and not clearly being interested gave his card to my friend. My friend conspired to dupe this man of his money to which I was clearly against.

I called him that morning not to transfer any money to any bank( he was at the bank when I called ready to transfer 30,000 naira to my friend's account). He was grateful to me and readily requested I asked a favour anytime from him. He offered to send me 20,000 to sort out my project wahala but there was a catch. I should date him!

I was furious and more than disappointed, whatever happens to just helping a fellow being? I've been in this situation more than thrice, why do men behave pervertly ? This happens everyday, they give you money in exchange for your body, can't they help without taking advantage of the situation?

I'm sick and tired of this, why won't they help from their heart? This got me thinking men in power to help are perverts. I know a lot of women are suffering and destroying their lives cos of this

Are u for real u just met a man and u indirectly ask him for money,or how did he know the challenges u ar facing,he is not even ur friend yet,a total stranger and u gave his card to ur friend for what?,ur friend now go ahead and cajole him to send money to u which u ar against,by doing this he assumed u two want to turn him to maga,since u have portray urself as a loose girl with no class,he throw his bait to u
And u are here saying men take advantage of u,what is wrong to ask money from ur girl friend or other family BT I can ask from guys,Girl U have no self esteem,had it been he gave u d money without telling u to date him, am sure u will heap all ur money problem on him

Cutehector:
well u need to stop depending on men... if u need smth, u ask ur father or work for d money, so all these would stop.

Walahi, your brain is loaded with original sense.

Not all men, but majority of them are selfish and mean.
One offered to pay me what my manager pays me every month where am doing a part time job as a student. if only i will quit the job. i accepted his offer, because to him its a harmless offer, he is a chief and a married one with kids. only for him to pay me for 4 months, the next one he started telling me how much he loves my body structure, and how he can take care of me if only i will be his mistress.
I told him, chief am just 21, and am meant to be a wife, one and only wife and not a mistress. tge man picked offence telling me how ungrateful i am. how many girls will jump at the offer. i maintained my stand because, i can't see myself playing a second fiddle, Chukwu aju!!! He stopped paying me, i got another job. Any time he sees me, he calls me madam First and only wife.
There are still good ones around, just that they are rare.

Sweetie, he didn't say sleep...he said date!

Guy isn't your father or family member to pay your bills, if he wanna do so then there must be something in it for him too. Think about it that you decide to to weave your friend's hair...what's in it for you? To grease the friendship or have one on her. Don't say its for nothing cos your definition of nothing could mean "greasing the friendship".

So, enough of the wolf screaming and get on with your project. That's me being unbaise to both parties.

sisisioge:
Sweetie, he didn't say sleep...he said date!

Guy isn't your father or family member to pay your bills, if he wanna do so then there must be something in it for him too. Think about it that you decide to to weave your friend's hair...what's in it for you? To grease the friendship or have one on her. Don't say its for nothing cos your definition of nothing could mean "greasing the friendship".

So, enough of the wolf screaming and get on with your project. That's me being unbaise to both parties.

This

kayswag726:


Are u for real u just met a man and u indirectly ask him for money,or how did he know the challenges u ar facing,he is not even ur friend yet,a total stranger and u gave his card to ur friend for what?,ur friend now go ahead and cajole him to send money to u which u ar against,by doing this he assumed u two want to turn him to maga,since u have portray urself as a loose girl with no class,he throw his bait to u
And u are here saying men take advantage of u,what is wrong to ask money from ur girl friend or other family BT I can ask from guys,Girl U have no self esteem,had it been he gave u d money without telling u to date him, am sure u will heap all ur money problem on him

Lol , I didn't beg him for any money. Infact, he wanted to take me outing but I refused. I didn't choke his neck and ask him to give me money. He gave me on his free will, you can't believe eh. He said he likes helping people and he's cheerful giver. I wonder why he turned the opposite. Lol . you dont have to be rude to make a comment. Bye!

Adaobi12:
Not all men, but majority of them are selfish and mean.
One offered to pay me what my manager pays me every month where am doing a part time job as a student. if only i will quit the job. i accepted his offer, because to him its a harmless offer, he is a chief and a married one with kids. only for him to pay me for 4 months, the next one he started telling me how much he loves my body structure, and how he can take care of me if only i will be his mistress.
I told him, chief am just 21, and am meant to be a wife, one and only wife and not a mistress. tge man picked offence telling me how ungrateful i am. how many girls will jump at the offer. i maintained my stand because, i can't see myself playing a second fiddle, Chukwu aju!!! He stopped paying me, i got another job. Any time he sees me, he calls me madam First and only wife.
There are still good ones around, just that they are rare.

Sister thank you jare, some are selfish like witch. People are of the opinion I Begged him money whereas he was the one who bluntly told me to he wants to help cos I'm a student, I'm stressing myself bla bla bla.

He has the money to spend and he knows it so he uses it as bait. People dont get what I'm trying to say. Why would a man disguise himself as a helping angel when he's evil at heart?

mira4u:
You didnt ask him for money, yet you told him(a total stranger) the challenge you had, hence, he decided to give you 20t (according to your first post) to sort out your project. Here you are, crying fowl cos he wants sex.




Begging in disguise is still begging.

Where is your self esteem?

*sighs*

Please you dont have to be rude, you were not there. You're only giving your opinion based on your understanding. And please, i'm not disguising myself under the cover of begging, and I have self esteem too that's why I turned his money and his intentions down. So dear, take your life somewhere else. Bye!

Ginaz:


Sister thank you jare, some are selfish like witch. People are of the opinion I Begged him money whereas he was the one who bluntly told me to he wants to help cos I'm a student, I'm stressing myself bla bla bla.

He has the money to spend and he knows it so he uses it as bait. People dont get what I'm trying to say. Why would a man disguise himself as a helping angel when he's evil at heart?

They will come as helpers, gain your trust , blackmail you emotionally.

Ginaz:



Please you dont have to be rude, you were not there. You're only giving your opinion based on your understanding. And please, i'm not disguising myself under the cover of begging, and I have self esteem too that's why I turned his money and his intentions down. So dear, take your life somewhere else. Bye!

Do i have to be there to see or read your post here? Dumb
You clearly stated that he told you he will give you mere 20t to sort out your project if you become his girl. Thats a clear indication you told him your problem. You told him cos you wanted him to assist you. If its not begging what is it? Is he your uncle or blood relative that has some kind of obligation to help you? A total stranger for that matter. And you here crying fowl cos he wants s** in exchange for 20t, when you initiated the bargain anyway. What were u expecting?

Gerarahere mehn

Beggar dont quote me again.

No offence intended tho'. Just trying to make common sense.

mira4u:


Do i have to be there to see or read your post here? Dumb
You clearly stated that he told you he will give you mere 20t to sort out your project if you become his girl. Thats a clear indication you told him your problem. You told him cos you wanted him to assist you. If its not begging what is it? Is he your uncle or blood relative that has some kind of obligation to help you? A total stranger for that matter. And you here crying fowl cos he wants s** in exchange for 20t, when you initiated the bargain anyway. What were u expecting?

Gerarahere mehn

Beggar dont quote me again.

No offence intended tho'. Just trying to make common sense.

Lol , it baffles me how you can be so judgemental when you live the opposite. I'm not crying fowl bitch. Hypocritical LovePeddler wanna gain some self esteem by riding on another follow girl.

Dont tell me you haven't sort out help yourself, dont tell me someone haven't offered to help you and you haven't accepted someone's helping hand in difficult situations. Quite ironic you should be looking like a saint here. By the way, thanks for your opinion, everybody are entitled.

Cheers for your hypocrisy!

Ginaz:


Lol , it baffles me how you can be so judgemental when you live the opposite. I'm not crying fowl bitch. Hypocritical LovePeddler wanna gain some self esteem by riding on another follow girl.

Dont tell me you haven't sort out help yourself, dont tell me someone haven't offered to help you and you haven't accepted someone's helping hand in difficult situations. Quite ironic you should be looking like a saint here. By the way, thanks for your opinion, everybody are entitled.

Cheers for your hypocrisy!

Poor beggar [color=][/color] she finally accepted she was begging.

Bit*h you think every babe is a beggar like you? I can help your poor miserable life tho', only if you promise to stop begging men for money. Whats 20t that you were begging a male stranger? Are you so lazy that you couldnt work or do something that can fetch you that change, asides using your body? Its babes like you they take advantage of. Why will anyone offer to help me when m actually the one helping people? Why will anyone help me when i dont beg for help either directly or indirectly? Cheap beggar, If i were you, i will close down this thread.

Gain self esteem through a cheap beggar asking a stranger for change i used for my lunch today? Miserable beggar.

Btw you are the LovePeddler] a desperate cheap one at that. Begging a male stranger for cheap 20t the very first time you met him. Shame!!! I have a charity home. I will register you as one of the less privileged. That will be my way of saying no to girls like u, using what they have to get what they want syndrome.

mira4u:


Poor beggar [color=][/color] she finally accepted she was begging.

Bit*h you think every babe is a beggar like you? I can help your poor miserable life tho', only if you promise to stop begging men for money. Whats 20t that you were begging a male stranger? Are you so lazy that you couldnt work or do something that can fetch you that change, asides using your body? Its babes like you they take advantage of. Why will anyone offer to help me when m actually the one helping people? Why will anyone help me when i dont beg for help either directly or indirectly? Cheap beggar, If i were you, i will close down this thread.

Gain self esteem through a cheap beggar asking a stranger for change i used as my lunch today? Miserable beggar.

Btw you are the LovePeddler] a desperate cheap one at that. Begging a male stranger for cheap 20t the very first time you met him. Shame!!! I have a charity home. I will register you as one of the less privileged. That will be my way of saying no to girls like u, using what they have to get what they want syndrome.

Hahahahhaha,. I tend to see humour in every fool that comes my way and dear........you're no exception. You type all this to get back at me? Hahahhahaha, oh mine! Give a lunatic a chance, you'll be surprised at how hard you'd laugh. Thanks for being my lunatic, I had a hard laugh.

Oh by the way...... I did my project all by myself at the end, God was so good and faithful. I'm currently schooling in a fashion school at P.H, almost a year now. last month I was given the privilege to show cast my work and was paid handsomely. Can you stop by in port Harcourt let me buy you some Mary Kay? Bitch you look like you could use one, your face looks horrible like a burnt cake. Accept my offer. Hahahhah.

Ginaz:



Hahahahhaha,. I tend to see humour in every fool that comes my way and dear........you're no exception. You type all this to get back at me? Hahahhahaha, oh mine! Give a lunatic a chance, you'll be surprised at how hard you'd laugh. Thanks for being my lunatic, I had a hard laugh.

Oh by the way...... I did my project all by myself at the end, God was so good and faithful. I'm currently schooling in a fashion school at P.H, almost a year now. last month I was given the privilege to show cast my work and was paid handsomely. Can you stop by in port Harcourt let me buy you some Mary Kay? Bitch you look like you could use one, your face looks horrible like a burnt cake. Accept my offer. Hahahhah.

Cheap beggar finally begged her way You were finally laid. A pity.

My face looks horrible? Very interesting that you could describe a face you have never seen. This means you just described your face since its the face you see frequently. And you think everyone looks horrible like you just like you think everyone is a beggar like you. Lol babe with that description of your face up there, it is beyond redemption n no amount of mary k you beg from pple will redeem it.


Gotten your second detail:

Chronic beggar n an ugly looking ape.

No wonder d man wanted to have a quickie with you bi*tch n dump your sorry ass afterwards.


I need more of your description.

Classless cheap beggar with an ugly looking face.

More pls

WTF

mira4u:

Cheap beggar finally begged her way You were finally laid. A pity.

My face looks horrible? Very interesting that you could describe a face you have never seen. This means you just described your face since its the face you see frequently. And you think everyone looks horrible like you just like you think everyone is a beggar like you. Lol babe with that description of your face up there, it is beyond redemption n no amount of mary k you beg from pple will redeem it.


Gotten your second detail:

Chronic beggar n an ugly looking ape.

No wonder d man wanted to have a quickie with you bi*tch n dump your sorry ass afterwards.


I need more of your description.

Classless cheap beggar with an ugly looking face.

More pls

Your E-foolishness is enough, I'm humoured than it was expected. Its not everyday you get to meet a mad person that operates technology.
Go seduced some men, I read your write up. Its interesting to note that you can't beg but you can seduce men. awwwww,......what an irony. .
Bit*CH please have a goodnight rest, and dont MENTION me again if you dont want thurder to break and scatter your head. It takes a laid BiT*CH to know her fellow laid Bit*CH .

dont mention cos this is my last fuvk to a LovePeddler like you. Have fun this weekend dirty seductress

Adaobi12:
Not all men, but majority of them are selfish and mean.
One offered to pay me what my manager pays me every month where am doing a part time job as a student . if only i will quit the job. i accepted his offer, because to him its a harmless offer, he is a chief and a married one with kids. only for him to pay me for 4 months, the next one he started telling me how much he loves my body structure, and how he can take care of me if only i will be his mistress.
I told him, chief am just 21, and am meant to be a wife, one and only wife and not a mistress. tge man picked offence telling me how ungrateful i am. how many girls will jump at the offer. i maintained my stand because, i can't see myself playing a second fiddle, Chukwu aju!!! He stopped paying me, i got another job. Any time he sees me, he calls me madam First and only wife.
There are still good ones around, just that they are rare.

Wait wait... Pay you for what??... Doing nothing?

Ginaz:


Your E-foolishness is enough, I'm humoured than it was expected. Its not everyday you get to meet a mad person that operates technology.
Go seduced some men, I read your write up. Its interesting to note that you can't beg but you can seduce men. awwwww,......what an irony. .
Bit*CH please have a goodnight rest, and dont MENTION me again if you dont want thurder to break and scatter your head. It takes a laid BiT*CH to know her fellow laid Bit*CH .

dont mention cos this is my last fuvk to a LovePeddler like you. Have fun this weekend dirty seductress

Lol e don pain am. E don call thurder not even thunder. Dunce!!! Thought you said you were having fun. Fun indeed. Lol you are actually in pains. I can feel your tears from here. M damn sure next time you will not bother telling any1 online how you beg money from strangers especially cos of the way I deliberately faced you. See the way you bashed others cos they told you the simple truth: That you are a beggar. That moved me to call you out and you gave in to my antics exactly the way I wanted it. @myPrey.

Lol wtf is 'go seduced some men'. Dunce!!!! M not in search of any man neither m I seducing anyone when my husband is everything you can think of in a man. Ugly cheap beggar I cant say same thing of you cos no matter how hard you try to seduce anyone you will end up becoming a s*x toy that will be dumped. No wonder the man wanted you as a sex object in exchange for 20t. If you were presentable he wouldn't have attached mere 20t as face value of your body. That explains it. Cheap hag.

Its interesting you went through my profile unfortunately I can never stoop low to open yours cos u are way too low. Now you know you are my slave .

My charitable organization is still open though. Helping miserable fellows like you is my delight inasmuch as it will make you stop begging men for financial assistance. Ugly cheap beggar.

Bring it on. I was really prepared for this if you really understood my first post to you. Its not bad if I use a seemingly smart beggar like you to catch e-fun.

.

The scoreline is getting interesting...waoh!!!

Mira4u- 6points!

Ginaz- 4points!

Game on babes

Afrobasic:


Wait wait... Pay you for what??... Doing nothing?

yes, for doung nothing. that he loves student who are hardworking. and he knows that working throughout the weekend and going bk to school on monday will be stressful for me.

Adaobi12:
yes, for doung nothing. that he loves student who are hardworking. and he knows that working throughout the weekend and going bk to school on monday will be stressful for me.

And you just accepted and believed he had no hidden motives...

Is he your husband or daddy?

Adaobi12:
Not all men, but majority of them are selfish and mean.
One offered to pay me what my manager pays me every month where am doing a part time job as a student. if only i will quit the job. i accepted his offer, because to him its a harmless offer, he is a chief and a married one with kids. only for him to pay me for 4 months, the next one he started telling me how much he loves my body structure, and how he can take care of me if only i will be his mistress.
I told him, chief am just 21, and am meant to be a wife, one and only wife and not a mistress. tge man picked offence telling me how ungrateful i am. how many girls will jump at the offer. i maintained my stand because, i can't see myself playing a second fiddle, Chukwu aju!!! He stopped paying me, i got another job. Any time he sees me, he calls me madam First and only wife.
There are still good ones around, just that they are rare.

Why should a man who is not your father or family member be giving you a monthly salary for nothing?. And he actually paid you for 4 months and you are calling him selfish and mean . That is a very bad attitude to have. He owed you nothing and you should have been very grateful for the months that he actually paid you.

fem29:


Why should a man who is not your father or family member be giving you a monthly salary for nothing?. And he actually paid you for 4 months and you are calling him selfish and mean . That is a very bad attitude to have. He owed you nothing and you should have been very grateful for the months that he actually paid you.

yea he is mean, because i never begged him to pay me. i was surprised when he said that. if he had made mention of becoming his mistress, i won't have accepted the offer. but he clearly pointed out that its a harmless offer. That he just felt like helping me.

crackhaus:

And you just accepted and believed he had no hidden motives...

Is he your husband or daddy?

No, i thought he was a kind hearted rich man, that just wanted to help.
or maybe some kind of miracle.

Adaobi12:
yea he is mean, because i never begged him to pay me. i was surprised when he said that. if he had made mention of becoming his mistress, i won't have accepted the offer. but he clearly pointed out that its a harmless offer. That he just felt like helping me.

Wow. Ok continu

Adaobi12:
No, i thought he was a kind hearted rich man, that just wanted to help.
or maybe some kind of miracle.

I'm sorry, I have to jump in on this one...

REALLY?!!!
REALLY!!!



Again, REALLY?!!!!

Adaobi12:
yes, for doung nothing. that he loves student who are hardworking. and he knows that working throughout the weekend and going bk to school on monday will be stressful for me.

Did you read what you just typed? and you had the guts to say men are selfish?.....like WTF.

You are just greedy, simple, and when they don't fall for your trap you call them selfish.