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As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by onoslove(f): 8:25pm On Mar 07, 2016
Was listening to this programme on air on Saturday. And so many callers called in naming who their next of kin will be with reasons .And there was this hated argument in the circle where I was on who to make your next of kin. This is a very good topical issue, and I decided to bring it to Nairaland, so that we can debate and also get to learn who our next of kin should be with very valid reasons. Will appreciate if the Mod can push it to front page so that this topic can get a wide view.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 8:26pm On Mar 07, 2016
My first child.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Kondomatic(m): 8:38pm On Mar 07, 2016
I will make my next of kin my next of kin.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 8:56pm On Mar 07, 2016
My first child is already my next of kin.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 9:49pm On Mar 07, 2016
Siena:
My first child is already my next of kin.
Your wife should be your next of kin...guys like you are the ones leaving their wives and children out in the cold should anything happen to the man...

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nwocha12(f): 10:04pm On Mar 07, 2016
My husband

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Dheartless: 10:11pm On Mar 07, 2016
my child
in today's world I won't even think twice

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by onoslove(f): 10:27pm On Mar 07, 2016
NewSheriff:
My first child.
Pls for those of us saying my first child, and those saying my spouse. Can you give me your reasons.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Lilimax(f): 10:29pm On Mar 07, 2016
My son is already my next of kin embarassed

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 10:32pm On Mar 07, 2016
onoslove:
Pls for those of us saying my first child, and those saying my spouse. Can you give me your reasons.
It's only proper to do so. Should anything happen, my child has to have legal rights to my properties. I expect my wife also to make our first child her next of kin. Not me.


BlaqCoffee109:
Your wife should be your next of kin...guys like you are the ones leaving their wives and children out in the cold should anything happen to the man...
Why should he make his wife his next of kin? How does him making his son his next of kin portray him as a heartless and irresponsible father?

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 10:57pm On Mar 07, 2016
BlaqCoffee109:
Your wife should be your next of kin...guys like you are the ones leaving their wives and children out in the cold should anything happen to the man...

Excuse me?! The question here is clear - who would I make my next of kin, and responded - my first child.

I would respectfully ask YOU to make YOUR own choice, without questioning MINE.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by lolaluv1(f): 10:58pm On Mar 07, 2016
There is a case going on now, where the late guy's entitlements are being dragged by the wife, the brother and the dad. All because the guy used his brother as his next of kin and he didn't update his information after getting married.

The late guy's child who he didn't even get to see has been left in the cold. And the more they tussle, the harder it is accessing the cash. So the wife and kid are really not finding it easy.

I would suggest either wife or child be used as next of kin....

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Vyolet(f): 11:01pm On Mar 07, 2016
Hmmm

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by blesoh(f): 11:07pm On Mar 07, 2016
My husband.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by eyinjuege: 12:18am On Mar 08, 2016
If anyone is going to make an underaged child next of kin, he or she had better appoint a guardian for such a child. In short, someone you trust has to manage your estate or money for the child.

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by halfricanadian(f): 7:02am On Mar 08, 2016
My kids the first whether adopted or my blood smiley

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by PresVA: 8:02am On Mar 08, 2016
All these people saying my child, hope they know an underaged can't access the money? It will still fall back on your spouse. .

My husband is my next of kin.. will only use my children when I'm sharing my assets; probably when they're grown and me & husband are old...

Also, if anything happens to me today, my husband is the best person to handle my money responsibly... what does a kid know?

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Timoleon(m): 8:14am On Mar 08, 2016
my side chick undecided

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Integrityfarms(m): 8:14am On Mar 08, 2016
My wife should be my next off Kin! She's just me. I can't even hide my salary or my earnings from her!

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by babyfaceafrica: 8:14am On Mar 08, 2016
Most reliable Child..if you like be the first and last...if you are not useful...forget it!!!

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Okijajuju1(m): 8:15am On Mar 08, 2016
My Wife..


My Wife is always going to be my next of kin.

When my kids comes, my Wife will still be my primary next of kin.



Why would i entrust my estate into the care of a minor when my wife is there?

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Akshow: 8:15am On Mar 08, 2016
First child.
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 8:15am On Mar 08, 2016
My husband

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by WeedyGonzalez(m): 8:15am On Mar 08, 2016
First child with my wife as the guardian undecided

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by TONYE001(m): 8:16am On Mar 08, 2016
My lovely wife of course..

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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by xynerise: 8:16am On Mar 08, 2016
My first child of course
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Jerem19(m): 8:17am On Mar 08, 2016
my mother
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Nobody: 8:17am On Mar 08, 2016
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Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by Saintgeo: 8:17am On Mar 08, 2016
next of kin on what? if bank account , two can withdraw joint account is best
Re: As A Husband, Or Wife, Who Will You Make Your Next Of Kin by akpevwe2(f): 8:17am On Mar 08, 2016
My first child of course. In this end times you never can trust anyone even your spouse.

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