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Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by BackOff(m): 10:06pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: Baby yi kan fonka si everywhere ni sha! Good point though. |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by tosyne2much(m): 10:08pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:I'm saving my money for a rewarding future |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by layla129(f): 10:12pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
tosyne2much:Really sorry, i tried not to quote but couldn't help it. Are u kidding me? This is far from stinginess its wickedness. You need to change this perception asap |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by firstking01(m): 10:13pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
judey1992:the more you convince her you love her by deeds not words, the more she wanna stay with you |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by tosyne2much(m): 10:15pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
layla129:Hahaha lmao Funny u |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by layla129(f): 10:18pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
austine4real:Its people like you girls suck dry without even allowing you to kiss them. Then they come on social media to brag... |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by firstking01(m): 10:21pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
MRBrownJ:Mr man, i seriously do not know where you are smuggling to, this is one of my threads i know i 've poured out my heart with all sincerity, and i think the whole write up is self explanatory...maybe you need a recapitulation of the whole scenarios...those who have understanding have read through the thread, pick one or two things and left...if you cant assist your girlfriend when she's in dire need i wonder what you are keeping her for, maybe your sex tool or something, and i knw you wnt advice your sister to date somebody like you |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by MRBrownJ: 10:58pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
firstking01: there is a very BIG difference between assistance, and paying a gf (for whatever she demands). why dont you ASSIST her by getting her a JOB, or ASSIST her by helping her manage her finances better, or better yet ASSIST her by teaching her how to live within her MEANS?! why does your "assistance" must always be in MONETARY form?! giving a woman money/gifts for no damn reason doesnt solve anything. you need to evaluate the problem and solve the issue maturely. if your gf always requires monetary help then SHE has a problem that is bigger than money and therefore seek for the root of the issue instead of foolishly throwing money at her, because guess what? you aint solving anything, you are just turning into a very foolish ATM. a man should ONLY offer a gift, when HE believes that his partner DESERVES one. the minute it is a requirement in order to stay in that r/ship then you have FAILED!!!! 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by judey1992(m): 11:15pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:Her part might turn out to be marriage. |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by judey1992(m): 11:24pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
firstking01:sorry bro. the more you love, the more they take you for granted |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by Charles4075(m): 12:02am On Mar 19, 2016 |
Cutehector:Ahhh, bros this kind talk dey fear person ohh. Jesu
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Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by Nobody: 2:22am On Mar 19, 2016 |
judey1992: And u perhaps may not want that? |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by Nobody: 2:32am On Mar 19, 2016 |
tosyne2much: Right. |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by reservd(m): 2:47am On Mar 19, 2016 |
tosyne2much:Good question, I believe d spending shld b mutual not one way. |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by reservd(m): 2:59am On Mar 19, 2016 |
MRBrownJ:Good thinkin bro 1 Like |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by ronald4lif(m): 3:10am On Mar 19, 2016 |
firstking01: Bruv, you didn't address any of his points but just beating around the bush here. I expected you to come up with a robust antithesis argument to dismiss Mr. Brown irreproachable points. But I can guarantee you that you've got none. Your suggestion of spending on girlfriends as a requirement is preposterous and frivolous to say the least. Spending is a choice not mandatory. And choice is voluntary not through coercion like your post is implicitly suggesting. And what did you mean by if she's a sex tool? I find that laughable, really. For the likes of you, sex is a compensation to your monetary assistance towards women. But that is not to be so, as sex shouldn't come with any clause or proviso. Like I have habitually stated, I have no problem assisting my woman, financially and I think MrBrownJ doesn't have a problem with that either. However, what I detest and won't accept is the enactment and doctrinism of spending as a requirement or requisite of conserving a relationship. Makes no sense 1 Like |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by ronald4lif(m): 3:28am On Mar 19, 2016 |
The comments on this thread from females is axiomatic and an indubitable evidence to the cadging and unblushing parasitic attitude of a lot of our women. The manner in which these girls flaunt their sponging and sense of entitlement on a man's finances is sickening. While it is true that lots of you are a burden to a man in a relationship, it shouldn't be brandished about with such gusto. Please, I implore you lots to channel your energy and time to becoming self-reliant and independent than relying on a boyfriend for financial assistance. There's pride in taking care of all your needs and without having any course to beg. 3 Likes |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by firstking01(m): 4:22am On Mar 19, 2016 |
ronald4lif:Oga ronald, there was nowhere in my post i said it was mandatory, i remembered i used the world " lil assistance" |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by ronald4lif(m): 4:29am On Mar 19, 2016 |
firstking01: Little or big assistance is a choice not a requirement. And even as a choice giving mustn't be lopsided and must involve all parties. So, if it should be required that a man should assist his woman financially then it should also be same too for women. Or is it only men who earn money? 1 Like |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by firstking01(m): 4:32am On Mar 19, 2016 |
MRBrownJ:I think i said "lil assistance" from my post, and this shouldn't be always... Even if you get her a job, does it mean you wil stop playing your role as a man in the relationship?? |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by judey1992(m): 5:13am On Mar 19, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:if its with me at the ryt time. its cool. but might still be to another guy, despite your generosity. and that is not good at all. |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by MRBrownJ: 5:25am On Mar 19, 2016 |
firstking01: bro,make up your mind once and for all... now you are saying that men shouldnt "always" assist their gf, while in your initial post you clearly stated that "if a man has money, he MUST spend on his gf". so which one is it? Even if you get her a job, does it mean you wil stop playing your role as a man in the relationship?? well, at least it will stop this lady from begging her bf for money...but pls, do educate us all by telling us what is a MAN's role in a r/ship?! |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by firstking01(m): 6:07am On Mar 19, 2016 |
MRBrownJ:Dunna why you asking this question, i think the thread answers your question of the role of a man in a relationship...Aside from assisting her monetarilly, you'd be the mirror through which she sees herself, give her your shoulder to lean on when she's passing through trying times...Mrbrown you are grown up, you shoud know these things...if you look @my last submission on my post, i stated that, "this is what i 've come to realised even in my own relationship"...so, it prolly means i did not compell anybody to or must be spending on her woman, it's a thing of choice...but i'm convinced if you, Mrbrown hit jackpot tomorrow, you must spend on your woman...the issue here is, it's either the guy is broke, stingy or he doesn't love the girl... Note, i didn't say it's mandatory even in my thread, so, try qouting me well....i dnt just creat threads to impress people, i do my own feasibilty study and with my own personal experience, that's why i stated in my last statement that, "i 've come to realised even in my own relationship"...and you won't tell me that you always turn your woman dwn each time she ask you for a lil favour financially, even if you cnt give her all, she should be able to understand hence you are telling her the truth. 1 Like |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by firstking01(m): 6:16am On Mar 19, 2016 |
ronald4lif:But this my post is clear now, i dnt just understand, giving your girlfriend financial assistance is a thing of choice hence the money is there, in my post i said, unless except you are broke or you do not love the girl...so, it's an open phrase baba, i didn't say it's mandatory. |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by Nobody: 6:16am On Mar 19, 2016 |
firstking01:U think |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by firstking01(m): 6:19am On Mar 19, 2016 |
prettythicksme:Not i think, but you did |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by Nobody: 6:20am On Mar 19, 2016 |
firstking01:I did not |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by Bayonle10: 6:20am On Mar 19, 2016 |
firstking01:where you see poor self.... Leave the poor boy, free the poor girl when you don't even know the person. |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by firstking01(m): 6:23am On Mar 19, 2016 |
prettythicksme:so, hws your nite? |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by Nobody: 6:25am On Mar 19, 2016 |
firstking01:Splendid,hope u slept gud too? |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by Nobody: 6:27am On Mar 19, 2016 |
Maxi112:Smh for your warped mentality. The only way to show that you're not broke is by spending on your babe and being at her back and call. It is lover boys like you who will come back here to open meaningless threads about the gold digging attitude of girls when you believe that it is your duty to foot her bills. Spend spend spend, if she doesn't have a thing for you, nothing will make her stay, even your money. Money only impresses lazy and hungry bitches. Real niggaz like me don't spend meaningless on any lady. We have learned to separate wants from needs. If it's a need, I'll support ir. Example was when my girl friend needed help paying for her tuition fee. I had to step in because I knew how much she earns and there is no way she would be able to foot the tuition fee. But to tell me you want to take ice cream, sharwama or make your hair or just to satisfy a want, N5 won't drop from my pocket. She knows me for that. 1 year son waka, we still dey carry go. The best thing you can do for your real babe is not to impress her with money but to encourage her to be the best that she can, and support her dreams. I repeat, money only impresses hungry and lazy bitches. Call me broke and stingy... It gives me hards-on. It doesn't stop me from getting my hefty pay at the end of the month. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by firstking01(m): 6:28am On Mar 19, 2016 |
Bayonle10:When i say "poor girl", most times it's not limited to lack of money bruv...it also means, she could be handicaped and defenceless in so many other ways...as for tosyn2much, me and know say he dey lie say he nor fit give in gf even N50 |
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