Irishrena1:
OP I really feel your pain. Its just a hormonal imbalance ish and nothing more. Feel free. People will get used to seeing you that way and it won't matter to them. You're not the first person and you won't be the last. I know of a hairdresser I mean big time hairdresser who has been like that for as long as I can remember who looks just like a female. He has the boobs, the structure, the skin and all of that but he doesn't hide himself and nobody even cares, nobody mentions it and he's doing well financially, has a family. It not a rare sight, stop inconveniencing yourself.

Like they've said, hit the gym and build a masculine figure shikena. I'm hairy on my legs only. I don't have them on my arms or elsewhere. I used to think it was unattractive but men, even women envy me and some jokingly ask me to dash them my legs. But I was still not comfortable with it. There was a guy who was asking me out, he said he liked it. I told him that I didn't and he told me that I don't know that there are people who love me for that reason and that I should go into the stores if possible, find something to rub on it that will make it more attractive and all of that and flaunt it. Since then, I started doing that and I've been the better for it.

Just go on and enhance your looks and that will be the end of your discomfort.

Empress2014:
It's will be so fun to have a bf like you, playing with your breast in the bedroom, I can imagine how it's gonna feel like

sheunsheun:

Hmmmmm, but doesn't change the fact you have to visit a medical expert

LazyGoat:

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May be when i become somebody in life i will see a doctor, but for now. No money.

hope you've cut off junior already?

greatness22:
.....And Jesus said, "any part of your body that won't take you to heaven, CUT IT OFF"

yvelchstores:
I knw ur problem very well. It happened to a very close family member, his started from junior sec skl n he was greatly disturbed by this, it was even harder for him as he was in boarding skl. He went to doctors here in Nigeria but they were speaking grammar. Latter he had the privilege of schooling abroad. He had to use his medical insurance card to undergo a surgery to remove all the tissues from both breasts. He has been happy ever since. Baring his chest in pictures for the first time ever. It costed about 320 k in Naira equivalence. It's not easy, hang in there, your opportunity will come. Take care.

brandnew3:
OP how old are you?

LazyGoat:

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Ma, can the surgery be done here in Nigeria

Gaborone:



Noooo...it wouldn't take becoming somebody in life to see a Doctor at a public hospital dear.

I believe getting a card in a public hospital wouldn't take more than N1000. That means, with that amount, you can at least see a Doctor, and hear what he has to say. #In fact, there's a General Hospital close to where I work, which issues cards free. Although, you may be asked to go for further tests, I believe having a Doctor examine you will make you a bit calmer. And then, if you're asked to go for further tests, you can start making plans towards raising the money. I feel all these are better options than just allowing your mind roam endlessly on the issue.

It is well. Take care.

Empress2014:
It's will be so fun to have a bf like you, playing with your breast in the bedroom, I can imagine how it's gonna feel like

LazyGoat:
Hello dear nairalanders, there is this thread i saw on nairaland fp, about a man with a female brest who came to a church. And since that day i saw that thread my mind has not been at rest ever since, because i have been living with the same condition for over 5 years now, without anybody knowing except myself.
I have this big tissue on both sides on my brest under my nipple, it looks like a seed, at first when it first started it was so very painful for me, but now it is no longer painful.
I think i have endured this very shameful burden for so long now and i think now its the time i seek some solution to it before it will be too late.
Let me give a brief explanation on how this problem has affected my life in so many ways.
I will be 22 on july 13 this year.
It first noticed this tissue growing on my chest in the year 2009 it looks like a woman's brest and to make matter worst it did't match my skin colour its more fairer than my actual skin. It all started when i was still in secondary school i was in SS1 then, it caused me so many embarassment then because its showing in my uniform when ever the breeze is blowing towards my direction, you will notice that there is something in there, i avoided all forms of gatherings including my school assemblings, i avoided camps like a plague, i no longer use bare chest into the bathroom, not even singlet, i always wear shirts into the bathroom, since the year 2009 till date am still wearing shirts to the bathroom when ever am about to take my bath, and in all no body not even my mother or any of my family members has ever seen my chest or my back since 2009 till date as am typing this now, never had a relationship with any girl since then.
It has caused me great pains and sorrows, i just think i should end my life now because of this problem am so ashamed of my self, i don't know what to do with my life my life has been very miserable and pitiful since this problem started i just hate my self, i always loves been alone and i only moves at night with my normal shirts, any single movement in the daytime from me i always goes with my big sweater to make it less noticeable.
Am tired of life, my life is so frustrated and miserable all am always thinking about is how to end my life.
please nairalanders help me please if at all there is any solution to this problem. I want to know and how much it will cost to get rid of it.
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Please mods help me push this to front page to get more reviews and replys.

Adaure4ever:
ofcourse yes, UNTH, LSUTH, etc

iyibest:
It is well with you

LazyGoat:

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Thank you ma, i would not beleave i just shed a little tears with this great advice, God bless you ma. God bless you

LazyGoat:
Hello dear nairalanders, there is this thread i saw on nairaland fp, about a man with a female brest who came to a church. And since that day i saw that thread my mind has not been at rest ever since, because i have been living with the same condition for over 5 years now, without anybody knowing except myself.
I have this big tissue on both sides on my brest under my nipple, it looks like a seed, at first when it first started it was so very painful for me, but now it is no longer painful.
I think i have endured this very shameful burden for so long now and i think now its the time i seek some solution to it before it will be too late.
Let me give a brief explanation on how this problem has affected my life in so many ways.
I will be 22 on july 13 this year.
It first noticed this tissue growing on my chest in the year 2009 it looks like a woman's brest and to make matter worst it did't match my skin colour its more fairer than my actual skin. It all started when i was still in secondary school i was in SS1 then, it caused me so many embarassment then because its showing in my uniform when ever the breeze is blowing towards my direction, you will notice that there is something in there, i avoided all forms of gatherings including my school assemblings, i avoided camps like a plague, i no longer use bare chest into the bathroom, not even singlet, i always wear shirts into the bathroom, since the year 2009 till date am still wearing shirts to the bathroom when ever am about to take my bath, and in all no body not even my mother or any of my family members has ever seen my chest or my back since 2009 till date as am typing this now, never had a relationship with any girl since then.
It has caused me great pains and sorrows, i just think i should end my life now because of this problem am so ashamed of my self, i don't know what to do with my life my life has been very miserable and pitiful since this problem started i just hate my self, i always loves been alone and i only moves at night with my normal shirts, any single movement in the daytime from me i always goes with my big sweater to make it less noticeable.
Am tired of life, my life is so frustrated and miserable all am always thinking about is how to end my life.
please nairalanders help me please if at all there is any solution to this problem. I want to know and how much it will cost to get rid of it.
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Please mods help me push this to front page to get more reviews and replys.

Ekakamba:
He don't forking need a gf who can play with such abnormality. He needs advice on how to make it go. Mtcheew.

Gr8amechi:
Thank God you were able to post this, please don't take advice randomly especially those saying go and gym, this is GYNECOMASTIA, agreed but there could be different root cause of it, the best advice is go see a doctor

Ekakamba:
He don't forking need a gf who can play with such abnormality. He needs advice on how to make it go. Mtcheew.

LazyGoat:

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If this is true ma, then i guess am the most happiest man on this planet right now, i will go to the hospital tomorrow. I know it will be very embarassing because am the very shy type. But i will try and it must be tomorrow.
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At least i still have a little hope of getting rid of it.

zeetyzin:

yes i experienced it when i attained puberty.
there where some hard tissues arround both nipples..
but they became soft some years after.
i did some weight lifting to boost my chest muscles which in turn occupied the fatty space.
hit the gym bro, it works

Jabioro:
Op you offended me,I mean my very self .how dare you have such abnormality, and keeping it to yourself ,,yourself only.It is very wrong and risky if is something that will kill within a very short period you won't has been .Anyway thanks to Nairaland and all commentator. Measure you see your parents right away ,then see medical doctor, it is not a strange thing ,it can be medically corrected .please I beg don't ever keep whatever illness with secret let the world jest of you,and get a solutions than suffering in silent...I for give you.

LazyGoat:
Hello dear nairalanders, there is this thread i saw on nairaland fp, about a man with a female brest who came to a church. And since that day i saw that thread my mind has not been at rest ever since, because i have been living with the same condition for over 5 years now, without anybody knowing except myself.
I have this big tissue on both sides on my brest under my nipple, it looks like a seed, at first when it first started it was so very painful for me, but now it is no longer painful.
I think i have endured this very shameful burden for so long now and i think now its the time i seek some solution to it before it will be too late.
Let me give a brief explanation on how this problem has affected my life in so many ways.
I will be 22 on july 13 this year.
It first noticed this tissue growing on my chest in the year 2009 it looks like a woman's brest and to make matter worst it did't match my skin colour its more fairer than my actual skin. It all started when i was still in secondary school i was in SS1 then, it caused me so many embarassment then because its showing in my uniform when ever the breeze is blowing towards my direction, you will notice that there is something in there, i avoided all forms of gatherings including my school assemblings, i avoided camps like a plague, i no longer use bare chest into the bathroom, not even singlet, i always wear shirts into the bathroom, since the year 2009 till date am still wearing shirts to the bathroom when ever am about to take my bath, and in all no body not even my mother or any of my family members has ever seen my chest or my back since 2009 till date as am typing this now, never had a relationship with any girl since then.
It has caused me great pains and sorrows, i just think i should end my life now because of this problem am so ashamed of my self, i don't know what to do with my life my life has been very miserable and pitiful since this problem started i just hate my self, i always loves been alone and i only moves at night with my normal shirts, any single movement in the daytime from me i always goes with my big sweater to make it less noticeable.
Am tired of life, my life is so frustrated and miserable all am always thinking about is how to end my life.
please nairalanders help me please if at all there is any solution to this problem. I want to know and how much it will cost to get rid of it.
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Please mods help me push this to front page to get more reviews and replys.

41lady:
OP, in addition to zeetyzin and other's advice of hitting the gym, stop if possible eating fried Chicken and beef. Engage in press-up/push up, take more fruits and vegetables like cucumber, orange, almond seed, watermelon e.t.c and see a doctor for professional advice.
Don't commit suicide pls.... life is sweet, u will not know untill U miss one day.