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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Ejemehn(m): 7:07pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Tolexander: What planet are you from? It's called a marriage not a church meeting. 1 Like |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Nobody: 7:10pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Ebi89(f): 7:13pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Those acting pornography are committing fornication and fornication is a Sin. the bible says that those that derive pleasure from oda ppl sin are also guilty of it. The bible have said it all. No to pornography 1 Like |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by onunwa21(m): 7:14pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
What do u learn in Phonograph? Simply change of styles i guess. Who re u changing styles for ur spouse or who. Pls mind what you watch or see. Phonograph is Pure evil if u ask me. If u doubt, y nt keep it wer ur children can ve access to. We know the right things but sometimes we just want to hear people's option. |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Bollinger(m): 7:15pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
mimopel: You know, there are some questions that need not be asked. It is same as asking "is it ok for a christian to be a corrupt politician"? 1 Like |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by modela21(f): 7:15pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Tolexander:ds is so funny, I'm still wondering where d pastor got d knowledge frm. 1 Like |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by echodrum(m): 7:22pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
thesicilian:where in the world did you get that from? |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by thesicilian: 7:31pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
echodrum: Its funny you asked that. Actually I didn't get it from anywhere in the world. I got it from the spiritual realm. |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by belcom10(m): 7:34pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Tolexander:well said |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by begwong: 7:39pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Those that wants to copy what porn artist are doing should prepare for their early grave. The hard drugs, stimulants and other erotic substances are taken by them but many are unaware. A porn film can take days/week to shoot but una go think say na just 2 hours. Just have fun base on your strength and durability biko. Except u want express ticket for 72virgins elsewhere! |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by N101: 7:41pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
KingRex1: That's not called porn but sex education, BIG difference. If you don't mind being a Viewer in someone's relationship, it can be a learning experience. 1 Like |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by oluworld2(m): 7:43pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
mimopel:Why should you choose to watch some people's unclothedness in order to have experience. |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by cbrass(m): 7:48pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Keneking: They themselves need guidance so don't waste your time bro 3 Likes |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Alezy(m): 7:57pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
EbolaParasite:Okay...The difference now is they re not christians. Cos it's clear a christian couple won't do that. The bible says " I will write my word in their hearts" so without anyone telling you, as a christian, u have the spirit of the Lord leading n giving you guidance at all time. |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by KingRex1(m): 7:57pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
N101:Like i said, its kinda seem like porn.. You're right tho |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by enoch701(m): 7:58pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
mimopel:can a Christian broda excite d vagina of his wife? by rubbing or fingering? |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by enoch701(m): 7:59pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
mimopel:can a Christian husband excite d vagina of his wife? by rubbing or fingering |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by abdulahi001: 7:59pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by slim14(m): 8:10pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Does the bible really suggest to us our how exactly we are to carry out the act?... |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by ReachHard: 8:12pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
@OP... THEY HAVE CHOSEN TO BE CHRISTIANS PLEASE! PORN IS A NO-NO IN SUCH CIRCLES STOP DRAGGING CHRISTIANITY IN THE MUD ABEG 1 Like |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Anointed08(m): 8:17pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
"I will set nothing wicked before my eyes; I hate the work of those who fall away(sinful people like Porn Stars, Perverts and Nudists); It shall not cling to me. A perverse heart shall depart from me; I will not know wickedness"- Psalm 101 vs 3 to 4. * Pornography is vile and can defile a Christian. Whatever or whoever is defiled attracts destruction! It is a spiritual law- Micah 2 vs 10, 1 Corinthians 3 vs 17. * Pornography is the work of those who have fallen away from God. They are called porn stars. We are not to show interest in what they do so that we do not become partakers in their sins: "Do not lay hands on anyone hastily, nor share in other people's sins; keep yourself pure"- 1 Timothy 5 vs 22. * Pornography can corrupt your heart and a corrupt heart cannot find favour with God- Proverbs 17 vs 20. Prayer from a corrupt heart seldom get answer- Psalm 66 vs 18. With pornography comes masturbation, fornication, incest and taboo, sodomy, paedophilia(having sexual interest in small children/minors), Bestiality(having sex with animal such as dogs, horses, cows, monkeys, e.t.c), rape and so on; all these can corrupt a christian absolutely and God does not want that for His own. * Wherever there is Pornography materials, unclean spirit will be there! What does unclean spirits command? Deception, Corruption and Destruction! They can corrupt and damage your phone/computer or any gadget where pornography is kept. Can you now see that a life without sanctification is heading to demonic possession, oppression and destruction? Please be careful because things are not always what they seem. * People who see you a christian watching porn can be tempted to start doing the same. Thus, you become the devil's soul winner! The reward for such offense is curse!(See Matthew 18 vs 6 to 9). Please pray that offense didn't come through you. Don't run into a curse, stay on course in life. * Pornography can be very addictive. Once start, it is always difficult to stop as it becomes a dead weight pulling you down mentally and spiritually. It can't help your spiritual life to grow and it often lead to spiritual insensitiveness, blindness and powerlessness. The reason for addiction to mundane things like pornography is to depopulate heaven and populate hell. So if heaven is your goal, don't touch porn, avoid it like a plague. God bless you! 1 Like |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by menxer: 8:18pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Hhhmmmmm Since nothing is evil of itself but thinking makes it do, I would fault pornography in this aspect on the basis that it is no longer an act by a couple as an expression of love but a foursome or group sex (a couple watching another couple) and all are involved mentally in the act; because whoever looketh upon a (wo)man with intent to lust has committed it already. At the same time, every (wo)man to his/her taste, if pornography makes you rock hard or wet explore and enjoy it to the max, for "all is vanity" whether abstinence or concupiscence. |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by gud4dbest(m): 8:24pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
thesicilian:besides,how could watching somebody's else unclothedness in dat manner b a thing of sanity...I would suggest one should go for ideal books dat lecture about sexuality! 1 Like |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 8:26pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Anointed08: Hhhmmmmmmmmmmmmm....like the name..u are annointed! 2 Likes |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by curvilicious: 8:27pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Capital NO! This thing is in-born you don't need to learn it If u want to watch porn wt ur partner be ready to do answer questions nd practice disgusting things which are animalistic and very appalling. Which normal human being fit in their right energy fit do intercourse like Indecency pple? It is from hell and should remain there if u don't want to loose each other to hell. Capital NO! |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by menxer: 8:31pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
gud4dbest: Why books on sex may not serve the purpose is because the reader still needs the power of imagination to enjoy it which in some people is not that creative, but as it is said "a picture is worth a thousand words " |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Blessingnice983(m): 8:32pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Happy Sunday. This is wonderful trend that many are shy away from.... Straight to the point.... Biblical Perspective God created men and women in His image (Gen. 1:27) as sexual beings. But because of sin in the world (Rom. 3:23), sex has been misused and abused (Rom. 1:24-25). Pornography attacks the dignity of men and women created in the image of God. Pornography also distorts God’s gift of sex which should be shared only within the bounds of marriage (1 Cor. 7:2-3). When the Bible refers to human sexual organs, it often employs euphemisms and indirect language. Although there are some exceptions (a woman’s breasts and womb are sometimes mentioned), generally Scripture maintains a basic modesty towards a man’s or woman’s sexual organs. Moreover, Scripture specifically condemns the practices that result from pornography such as sexual exposure (Gen. 9:21-23), adultery (Lev. 18:20), bestiality (Lev. 18:23), homosexuality (Lev. 18:22 and 20:13), incest (Lev. 18:6-18), and prostitution (Deut. 23:17-18). A biblical perspective of human sexuality must recognize that sexual intercourse is exclusively reserved for marriage for the following purposes. First, it establishes the one-flesh union (Gen. 2:24-25; Matt. 19:4-6). Second, it provides for sexual intimacy within the marriage bond. The use of the word “know” indicates a profound meaning of sexual intercourse (Gen. 4:1). Third, sexual intercourse is for the mutual pleasure of husband and wife (Prov. 5:18-19). Fourth, sexual intercourse is for procreation (Gen. 1:28). The Bible also warns against the misuse of sex. Premarital and extramarital sex is condemned (1 Cor. 6:13-18; 1 Thess. 4:3). Even thoughts of sexual immorality (often fed by pornographic material) are condemned (Matt. 5:27-28). Moreover, Christians must realize that pornography can have significant harmful effects on the user. These include: a comparison mentality, a performance-based sexuality, a feeling that only forbidden things are sexually satisfying, increased guilt, decreased self concept, and obsessive thinking. Christians, therefore, must do two things. First, they must work to keep themselves pure by fleeing immorality (1 Cor. 6:18) and thinking on those things which are pure (Phil. 4:. As a man thinks in his heart, so is he (Prov. 23:7). Christians must make no provision for the flesh (Rom. 13:14). Pornography will fuel the sexual desire in abnormal ways and can eventually lead to even more debase perversion. We, therefore, must “abstain from fleshly lusts which war against the soul” (1 Peter 2:11). Second, Christians must work to remove the sexual perversion of pornography from society. May God help us IJN. |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by nodebem: 8:35pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
Thank you very much.dis question has bin in my mind. The comments here hv bin helpful too |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by gud4dbest(m): 8:41pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
menxer:yes sir,pictorial sexual books...with dis u are not seeing anybody's unclothedness 1 Like |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by gud4dbest(m): 8:49pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
slim14:no,that is y positions u guys want to do it should b of mutual agreement! |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 8:53pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
yungpowers:U were quite on track with your explanation till you brought up the cock story. You can never ever compare the sexual approach of an animal to that of a human-being. Animals have sex solely for reproduction. Homo-sapiens are most probably the only specie to have sex for other purposes asides reproduction. Pornography from a christain viewpoint is bad but there are still other Godly avenues to learn how to make love and have good sex. Consulting a good Sex therapist, books and materials on sex education. |
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Apr 03, 2016 |
it degenerate human being to the level of animal and it depicts our nature as the image of God. |
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