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***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by davimus(m): 6:05pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
***SUITORS NOW PREFER OUR MAIDS TO OUR DAUGHTERS FOR MARRIAGE*** Why not? When we devoted time in training the maids on how to cook well, how to clean the house and on good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters untrained. We overwork the maids and they adjust with equanimity because they need us to survive. The maids turn out to manage the indignation and insolence we and our children subject them to. All these make the maids better wives who can manage even the angriest of men. Our precious daughters are pampered through nursery and primary schools. They speak the English we want and know all the cartoon slangs by heart. We beat the maids blue black if they ever ask our girls to help out in domestic duties. We see kitchen things as maids' things. The girls move from boarding schools to the university, do their NYSC, Masters and get a job. Of course, they are ripe for marriage and you wish that to happen soon. From one relationship to another, the same story. The guys would parade and dump them. They are only good in bed, outings, clubs and red carpet functions. The boys de-commit when they notice that the possible wife cannot cook, arrange things and are very domestically untrained. The rich guys can manage as they would mitigate the handicap by hiring a domestic help but not all guys can afford this for a start. The upcoming and very sensitive guys who would make good husbands, fathers and leaders would not manage these parents' inflicted shortcomings. They would settle for well trained ones. They know the value and the pride in hosting friends at home to delicious delicacies prepared by a wife. Not all your maids would remain your servants for ever. Some of them would finally do part-time studies and like a train, get to their God ordained destinations sooner or later. Like a perfume, good guys perceive well trained wife materials from afar and dump the daughters of the bourgeois like hot iron. Long time happiness in at stake. No explanation is given. Sometimes, the sack message is made through a social medium. Let your daughters learn what you teach your maids to make them compete for the few available good men if marriage is important to them. There are few guys who believe that marriage is for better for worse. Don't be deceived; love is an active verb. Yes it is. You love; you loved; and you used to love. You can also hate who you used to love. Therefore, some men are immune to pre-marital love blindness. In practice, love can't cover the stench of bad early formation of our daughters. Right now, educated former maids are now cornering better men on offer because they are well trained and possess the requisite or set skills the highly perceptible and ready husband materials need. Dear Mothers, please take note of this. And ladies, these are some of the things that cost you responsible men. Men knows what they need in a woman and very few will tell you the moment they know you lack those qualities. |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by Hydrog3n(m): 6:17pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
what qualities lacking when the newly married will just get a maid. . .21st century education has more benefit. seems you don't know the dark side of some maids |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by Adisa89(m): 6:21pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Most maids are barely educated. Your theory is wrong, Op. |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by sunday478(m): 6:48pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
What the op is trying to say is for parents to get their daughters trained, whether there be maid or none. 1 Like |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by hisgrace090: 6:59pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Yes our pampared doughters,lacks in many aspect of life today. |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by jozee8: 7:17pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Adisa89:apart from education, what else? thats like saying being educated is all men should look out for right? well sorry to disappoint you, education is just an icing on a cake not the real thing! thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by Adisa89(m): 7:23pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
jozee8:I'm not saying they shouldn't get married. But expecting a working graduate to condescend so low as to marrying a maid is unreasonable. Besides helping out with domestic chores, what else can be expected of a maid? |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by jozee8: 9:59pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Adisa89:building a home, how bout that. though you are a graduate, or professor u are still human being after all. eccl. 3vs17-20. we all are not better than the animals in the forest, you knw y? we all die. condescend what ever that is. |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by Adisa89(m): 10:19pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
jozee8:The only common things we have with animals are life and death. You would sound extremely ridiculous comparing our intelligence with theirs! Man's life is basically making ends meet, family and survival. For an average earner, who is also a graduate, picking a maid as a housewife is the silliest thing to do. You would live from hand to mouth, raise kids in poverty while struggling to survive yourself. |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by Histrings08(m): 11:11pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Every man wants a home maker as wife..I just don't see how those spoilt brat fit in 1 Like |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by Barackmeringo: 11:25pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Education, that shii is fuuckiing overrated |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by jozee8: 6:32am On Jul 07, 2016 |
Adisa89:what ever makes you happy sir. After all happiness is local! |
Re: ***suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage*** by Adisa89(m): 2:37pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
jozee8:Sure. |
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