Flexherbal:
Women submit to your husbands, men love your wives!

when cattarh dey their ear them no go ever hear...

hope4nigeria:
I never want to coment but when I saw ur post I'm forced to do so! I just want to clerify on the statement fabrication! I tot my wife posted this because I had exactly thesame experience! Small aguement, her brother and sister will bring vehicle to my house and pack her things! I always go begging them when I feel somtimes I'm at fault but my wife has pride! The last time was a small aguement, she forced me to slap her for the 1st time the act I later regreted as a man! B4 I knew it, police detained me alongside deadly criminals! I received beating in police cell, my brain deactivated! This is not funny my brother, I had act collapse b4 police got scared and took me to hospital subsequetly released me! My wife still the one to ahead to court sumon me fo a divource! OMG! I was so glad to receive the divorce letter. I went to court and affirm my rediness to accept the divorce move. To my suprice, my wife went back withdrew the case came back begging claiming she was misled by her ppl! Now we are back together and she never show pride on me.

EHEN!!!! Cool story. Do we get the 7 year old boy's view on this thread too?

colik:
" Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain."

It's like you were high on Cameroon pepper then. pack your bags ke? Is marriage like boarding school?
people dey sha.

You are so funny

Humility pays. I feel sorry for u because I like people who feel remorseful after realising their mistakes. God will surely provide another one for u and if He does; I'm sure u know how to make it work.

Mynd44:
I hail your story telling skills

is it your story?

kiowy:
it is well

Who told you it's well?

I hope this will save as a lesson to others

It is painful oh

Itzurboi:
You see ur life, nd i warnd u then but you wouldnt listen.... Nd Mr Seun aint available

does this story sound like nija ish,,, this is South Africa way of marriage and their woman right.

where a wife will get her husband arrested and when shouldering the finances of the home alone became difficult she'll beg the court for withdrawal of the case

ironically, they'll hence start living again like nothing happened

"” make nija wife try..am now

except in a life threatening cases

SamMilla1:
cc cococandy

This story is concocted by a miserable low IQ mosogynist like you. Probably even you.
What's the lesson we are supposed to learn from it? Women let your men control you because you're animals and don't have a mind of your own? Don't push the men to beat you... As usual because the fault isn't he assaulter' but his victim whom he beat.

Retardd.

Lord! Please make me a wise and patient woman who will build her home and not use her hands to scatter it....

ChangeIsCostant:
This is a true life story of a woman who is lamenting her ordeal after getting divorced by her husband due to her ego and bad advice from people around her. This was shared by 'Relationship Matters Forum'. Read below;

I am 32 years old. Me and my ex hubby dated for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.

There is no benefit in pride!

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/07/there-is-no-benefit-in-pride-woman-who.html

Did she carry your hands and put on her cheek by herself? Which one be she forced you to slap her?

That one the police did to you was small. fear catch you Na. Next time you fight people your size. Mtchew. I bet you've learned your lesson. That's why you guys are living in peace now.

hope4nigeria:
I never want to coment but when I saw ur post I'm forced to do so! I just want to clerify on the statement fabrication! I tot my wife posted this because I had exactly thesame experience! Small aguement, her brother and sister will bring vehicle to my house and pack her things! I always go begging them when I feel somtimes I'm at fault but my wife has pride! The last time was a small aguement, she forced me to slap her for the 1st time the act I later regreted as a man! B4 I knew it, police detained me alongside deadly criminals! I received beating in police cell, my brain deactivated! This is not funny my brother, I had act collapse b4 police got scared and took me to hospital subsequetly released me! My wife still the one to ahead to court sumon me fo a divource! OMG! I was so glad to receive the divorce letter. I went to court and affirm my rediness to accept the divorce move. To my suprice, my wife went back withdrew the case came back begging claiming she was misled by her ppl! Now we are back together and she never show pride on me.

[quote author=colik post=47630966]" Every time we argue, I would
pack my bags, go to my family and explain."


It's like you were high on Cameroon pepper then.
pack your bags ke? Is marriage like boarding school?

people dey sha.

You have said it all. She deserves no pity. That's not pride, it's plain stupidity.

Women make lots of mistakes all the time o..... Some women will still make this mistake.... Nawa

I wish my wife could read this.
It looks exactly like our story.

cococandy:


This story is concocted by a miserable low IQ mosogynist like you. Probably even you.
What's the lesson we are supposed to learn from it? Women let your men control you because you're animals and don't have a mind of your own? Don't push the men to beat you... As usual because the fault isn't he assaulter' but his victim whom he beat.

Retardd.

You didn't disappoint. I was right.

Cadamlk:
It happened to a friend's mother too.She said she was very small when it happened.Till date the mother never got married.But the man is married with three sons................So similar to this story.

Abi?

This is very rampant.

Very interesting.so?season 2 wil b 'i marry a hubby dat beats me evriday.gudluck 4 u,if eventually any oda hubby.because.as i see u,u r a wast

hahn:


It is too obvious that the story is fabricated

it's not fabricated.... l only read two lines and know it's south Africa way of marriage

they don't take marriage seriously like nija

since they're allowed to have all their kids in their father's house...no stigma attached

even if she is not working government takes care of those kids until they're 18yrs.....school is free...hospitals free

south African kids burn of single parents not more than 18yrs get grant/paid monthly

Well if its fabricated but sounds just like a case we had ... Cousin and his wife ... Exact story

hahn:


It is too obvious that the story is fabricated

Why do I have the feeling that this was concocted by a man?

I witness a similar case in the the US. These couple were married for 16 years and the guy walked away leaving everything because he was not ready for emotional blackmail anymore from the woman. She begged and begged him to come back because they have 3 kids, but he refused. He did not even divorce her, he just left Texas for New York and it has been 7 years since he left. She did not file for official divorce neither did she change her name or the kids hoping that he will come back someday but he instead just cut off completely from her and the kids and the next thing she discovered on Facebook was that another Nigerian American girl had a baby boy for him. She is now a single mother in America with 3 children who have seen their dad in just 2 days out of the last 7 years and things are tough for her.

Whether concocted , fabricated or fiction, there are saleint points to pick out from this.

Women should not drive their men insane with excessive bad behaviour.

Another fake asse*d story specially prepared to console the afflicted .

colik:
" Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain."

It's like you were high on Cameroon pepper then. pack your bags ke? Is marriage like boarding school?
people dey sha.

Boarding school... lmao

hahn:

It is too obvious that the story is fabricated

yet nothing but the truth. A word is enough for the wise.

Acecube:
it's best to learn from someone else's experience. I pray you get entangled in such kind of situation. This lesson is one our ladies should take serious oh...

sharrap, if you fell for this fake story, then you are stupid and everything you just typed is null and void coming from a stupid person as for the prayers, I wish your daughters same

colik:
" Every time we argue, I would
pack my bags, go to my family and explain."


It's like you were high on Cameroon pepper then.
pack your bags ke? Is marriage like boarding school?

people dey sha.

Black is beauty. I'm proud to be black. You look beautiful and so natural.

women are always at pride side of life .. ko

cococandy:
Did she carry your hands and put on her cheek by herself? Which one be she forced you to slap her?

That one the police did to you was small. fear catch you Na. Next time you fight people your size. Mtchew. I bet you've learned your lesson. That's why you guys are living in peace now.

are you married? If yes? That ur angel hubby can beat hell out of u if u exhibit bad xrcta! Except u marry an imbeeecile that u control.

2dugged:
sharrap, if you fell for this fake story, then you are stupid and everything you just typed is null and void coming from a stupid person as for the prayers, I wish your daughters same

My prayer was never intended to be so dear, i just went over what I typed and discovered I left out "don't" for that I apologise and have made the necessary modification, and for telling me to shut up when I actually wanted to make you see reasons I forgive you. And let it be known that whether that story was fabricated or not, the moral is apt. These things are what happen in everyday life. Most of the books we read are usually figment of writer's imagination but does that take away from the message ? of course it doesn't.

Just be frank with yourself forget about if the message was real or fake and learn the few lessons therein. Have a wonderful evening.

Gist247:
And you people believe this.. Chai.

Nice story sha.

Am telling you. Story, sounds very fake.