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Is This Racist? by WhitegirlonNL(f): 10:11pm On Jul 24, 2016
When black men throw me compliments like 'hey girl, u are such a looker. You fiiiiine(usually stressed)' i end up feeling ugly or fat.
Standards of attractiveness differ, so.... i am not saying black women are ugly, because i understand how they are packed. Cultures differ, i would most times pass for ugly if i had a black woman's body type in white culture that is
Re: Is This Racist? by buchi3144(m): 10:17pm On Jul 24, 2016
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Re: Is This Racist? by hertz9te(m): 10:26pm On Jul 24, 2016
well the above poster just said it all...smart guy
Re: Is This Racist? by PeachyP(f): 10:29pm On Jul 24, 2016
I don't get you o
Re: Is This Racist? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jul 24, 2016
Hahaha..

Well, the thing is you-your thoughts. But remember that when they see you, it is not how you see yourself that they see you. Like you rightly pointed out, standards of attractiveness differ. Furthermore, personal preferences are most time shaped by cultural factors.

If a Massai or a Nuer woman saw me as handsome, I probably would be concerned too.. grin

If you ask those guy why they see or view you as such a looker, they might not even mention those features you think would make you pass for ugly.
Re: Is This Racist? by Bluezy13(m): 10:30pm On Jul 24, 2016
Hmmm...












I wish I understood a thing

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Re: Is This Racist? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jul 24, 2016
Double post. Sorry.
Re: Is This Racist? by eph12(m): 10:34pm On Jul 24, 2016
In case this gets to fp
Re: Is This Racist? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jul 24, 2016
Well lets see
.... black women are know for curvy booties and bodies and that is coming into mainstream beauty ideals
the power that be have looked across the room and saw the Beautiful Ebony woman

So NO Black/African women body shape IS NOT SEEN AS UGLY by mainstream beauty


Foolinlove what you think about op's question?
Re: Is This Racist? by filly21: 10:36pm On Jul 24, 2016
undecided
Re: Is This Racist? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Jul 24, 2016
Then again, isn't being thick and full (lips, butt, thighs,etc.) the in thing? Perhaps not for you.

I don't see it as racists anyway. If I thought someone saw me as a handsome Pygmy, I might also see myself as ugly by my own standards. To me and based on my tastes they are not cute. cheesy

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Re: Is This Racist? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jul 24, 2016
Bluezy13:
Hmmm...
I wish I understood a thing
She's surprised African men approach her because she's not curvy like African/Black women
and mainstream beauty thinks Black women's bodies are ugly❤

.....I don't know why she added that last part,it's irrelevant

❤What does what mainstream media think about Ebony women's bodies have 2 do with Black men approaching her?
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Whi.tegirlonNL:
When black men throw me compliments like 'hey girl, u are such a looker. You fiiiiine(usually stressed)' i end up feeling ugly or fat.
Standards of attractiveness differ, so....

I am not saying black women are ugly, because i understand how they are packed.

Cultures differ, i would most times pass for ugly if i had a black woman's body type in white culture that is

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Re: Is This Racist? by filly21: 10:43pm On Jul 24, 2016
AnakinSkywalker:
Triple post.


Who wants this space?






shocked
Re: Is This Racist? by chigoizie7(m): 10:44pm On Jul 24, 2016
I wish I understood a word here
Re: Is This Racist? by smartpyzee(m): 10:45pm On Jul 24, 2016
I dnt understand d fork u wrote up dere!!....plz xplain..
Re: Is This Racist? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jul 24, 2016
filly21:



shocked

Haha..yeah, I kept hitting the submit button. Even I was surprised that it made triple posts.
Re: Is This Racist? by WhitegirlonNL(f): 10:54pm On Jul 24, 2016
PeachyP:
I don't get you o
Bluezy13:
Hmmm...
I wish I understood a thing
smartpyzee:
I dnt understand d fork u wrote up dere!!....plz xplain..
chigoizie7:
I wish I understood a word here
smartpyzee:
I dnt understand d fork u wrote up dere!!....plz xplain..
]Why so ignorant?

White men dont like plump women, generally and think they are ugly
Black men like plump women and think they are the most beautiful

I am white, so i tend towards white men beauty standard. If black men call me beautiful, i would just feel fat and ugly
Re: Is This Racist? by smartpyzee(m): 11:00pm On Jul 24, 2016
WhitegirlonNL:
]Why so ignorant?

White men dont like plump women, generally and think they are ugly
Black men like plump women and think they are the most beautiful

I am white, so i tend towards white men beauty standard. If black men call me beautiful, i would just feel fat and ugly
so wat if I (black man) tell U, u ar ugly

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Re: Is This Racist? by WhitegirlonNL(f): 11:03pm On Jul 24, 2016
AnakinSkywalker:


Then again, isn't being thick and full (lips, butt, thighs,etc.) the in thing? Perhaps not for you.

I don't see it as racists anyway. If I thought someone saw me as a handsome Pygmy, I might also see myself as ugly by my own standards. To me and based on my tastes they are not cute. cheesy


Men of European descent have a repugnance for thick or big bodies. Full not big lips are okay, no big butts or thighs. Big breasts are in. Just moderate to slim body types. And black men barely compliment slim women

Thanks for your input anyway
Re: Is This Racist? by WhitegirlonNL(f): 11:08pm On Jul 24, 2016
smartpyzee:
so wat if I (black man) tell U, u ar ugly
You have no information about how i look
Re: Is This Racist? by vicstar(m): 11:10pm On Jul 24, 2016
WhitegirlonNL:
When black men throw me compliments like 'hey girl, u are such a looker. You fiiiiine(usually stressed)' i end up feeling ugly or fat.
Standards of attractiveness differ, so.... i am not saying black women are ugly, because i understand how they are packed. Cultures differ, i would most times pass for ugly if i had a black woman's body type in white culture that is


• • • • • Yo post is not racist but ambiguous lipsrsealed undecided






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Re: Is This Racist? by chigoizie7(m): 11:11pm On Jul 24, 2016
WhitegirlonNL:
]Why so ignorant?

White men dont like plump women, generally and think they are ugly
Black men like plump women and think they are the most beautiful

I am white, so i tend towards white men beauty standard. If black men call me beautiful, i would just feel fat and ugly


Those people that say u are beautiful are correct considering that ugly is their new beautiful, kudos







My ugly friend
Re: Is This Racist? by Israellb(m): 11:13pm On Jul 24, 2016
Observing
Re: Is This Racist? by sirjakez(m): 11:14pm On Jul 24, 2016
I vote Vizkiz
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Re: Is This Racist? by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jul 24, 2016
WhitegirlonNL:


Men of European descent have a repugnance for thick or big bodies. Full not big lips are okay, no big butts or thighs. Big breasts are in. Just moderate to slim body types. And black men barely compliment slim women

Thanks for your input anyway
Wrong. They like Black women in all sizes/colors body and face types.
.........you need 2 pay more attention to the world around you.

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Re: Is This Racist? by Jangbajantis: 11:17pm On Jul 24, 2016
I'm a math teacher and this thread doesn't add or solve anything. undecided
Re: Is This Racist? by smartpyzee(m): 11:19pm On Jul 24, 2016
WhitegirlonNL:
You have no information about how i look
so if u ar really 'beautiful' den why would u "feel fat and ugly" wen a black man says u ar beautiful
Re: Is This Racist? by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jul 24, 2016
AnakinSkywalker:


Then again, isn't being thick and full (lips, butt, thighs,etc.) the in thing? Perhaps not for you.

I don't see it as racists anyway. If I thought someone saw me as a handsome Pygmy, I might also see myself as ugly by my own standards. To me and based on my tastes they are not cute. cheesy

Ding! Ding!! Ding!!!!
......❤Op doesn't think Black women have sexy bodies and she knows black men like their bodies
......so she saw those compliments from Black men as a bad thing.

Cc vicstar is it clear for you now??..
Re: Is This Racist? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jul 24, 2016
WhitegirlonNL:


Men of European descent have a repugnance for thick or big bodies. Full not big lips are okay, no big butts or thighs. Big breasts are in. Just moderate to slim body types. And black men barely compliment slim women

Thanks for your input anyway

The idea that black men like plump women is generally not so.

Also, I wonder where you got your statistics from and made your conclusions that European men find thick black women repugnant? There are lots of European men who will die for a black woman. A lot of European men are here who work as Expats. in Nigeria, especially in Oil and Gas and Construction. We see them and their mixed kids. Also, who are those patronizing all the call girls of African descent in Spain, Italy, Holland and most of Europe? At Boulevard de Suisse and at Canal Du Midi here in Toulouse,France, who visits there? It is the white French Men. Perhaps the white men you see or know are not being honest with you not to bring out drama. Or maybe they have not been given the opportunity.

In Nigeria some men like them big and thick.A lot don't either. It is almost a 50/50 thing. Don't believe that all, every, or most Black men like thick curvy girls. Nope. Wrong! I for one,prefer them petite. I cannot recall having had anything to do with a girl that was not petite. As a matter of fact, I tend to see thick women as unhygienic or dirty.It is a very wrong opinion, but it is my taste.

Men will say anything to get laid. Men of all races. That they call you a looker might not be true. Perhaps they say that to get a little adventure. A little experiment. A trophy added to their collection. The "I have banged a white chick" trophy. She doesn't have to be pretty. Boys will always be boys,whether white or black. And they will say anything to get your thighs open.

So do not think that they see you as cute because you are fat,but because perhaps you are cute or maybe you are not and they just say so to get some. If you could, I would tell you to enjoy the attention. wink

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Re: Is This Racist? by vicstar(m): 11:27pm On Jul 24, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Ding! Ding!! Ding!!!!
......❤Op doesn't think Black women have sexy bodies and she knows black men like their bodies
......so she saw those compliments from Black men as a bad thing.

Cc vícstar is it clear for you now??..


• • • • • Still confusing cry bae the fault is mine grin
Re: Is This Racist? by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jul 24, 2016
vicstar:



• • • • • Still confusing cry bae the fault is mine grin
Boy! grin I done wasted my time
Re: Is This Racist? by LuveU2(f): 11:31pm On Jul 24, 2016
Pls vote Falconey tmao sweethearts kiss
No one has got time for this smiley

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