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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by mpowa(m): 9:05pm On Aug 02, 2016
Esperooke:
God bless Daddy G. O.
But, how many ladies can pray for one hour nonstop? I think there should be a waiver to this. But, other point are spot on.
Fortune hunters, how market?

grin That prayer issue they give many girls headache. To me what's important for a Christian man is to see an attitude of prayer in the woman, don't worry when she marry and issues that coming up, she'll pray more than one hour sef. Nigerian women solve most problems by prayer, while men run up and down. It's important to have a praying wife, NA GOOD SPIRITUAL BACKUP

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Nobody: 9:05pm On Aug 02, 2016
so hilarious
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Nobody: 9:11pm On Aug 02, 2016
lielbree:
God bless you sir!

Broke as$ lazy boys here on nl will be like "I'm looking for girl who will love me when I have nothing " angry

My question, as you have nothing, do you love yourself?
his opinion doesn't count
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by agabaI23(m): 9:17pm On Aug 02, 2016
amokeme:
Hehehe hehehe I like this one
Why won't you like this one? tongue
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Nobody: 9:18pm On Aug 02, 2016
madridsta007:


Everything he has said here is Biblical.

Unless you do not know your Bible, I do not see what is wrong with what he has said.
mtchewww, he mean i should do momey rituals?
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Species1983: 9:20pm On Aug 02, 2016
Religion is the opium of the masses

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Nobody: 9:21pm On Aug 02, 2016
so hilarious
the question i would love to ask Baba should i have the opportunity to meet him one on one is,with the whole situation of employment what has the RCCG done to particularly address this issue? I attend kings palace river province 2 Gra port harcourt around this time last year they demanded a sum of 45million naira for the complete over haul of the church air conditioning unit....people raised this cash,this year last month precisely the church needed 15million for wireless technology equipment for the multimedia department... This last sunday they needed 2.8million for the childrens camp program...all were donated. My question is when has RCCG organized or create a worl wide convention to @least create a network for job creation/employment. How many times have they asked for donation with such huge amount to empower the teaming youth with good business idea,scholarship abroad or equipment and machinery?
Many of the members even contributed money to build a university they cant afford to send there kids to?
God is watching,the real people who are a practical example of christians in Nigeria are the Jehovah witness.

Back in the early days in my village, you would see anglican and methodist churches with schools and health care centres for FREE but to have one on one encounter with Baba Adeboye on his annual visit to ph on the partnering with God program you need to purchase an access invitation card of 20k.... To see a man of God can you imagine. Why are our pastors rich and the majority of the congregation are poor? Something isnt right....it is well with my soul but the church has a more bigger role to play to curb/ even bring to an end the massive poverty in our society or else they would soon become victims of kidnapping...its already happening anyway

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by amokeme(f): 9:22pm On Aug 02, 2016
GoldenJAT:
I'm also a pastor in my own right!! what happened 2 that verse in d Bible that said*there is always a time for everything *how about the days of little beginning? if u can't stand by me in d time of little... u can't also chop in d time of plentiful. *peace*
LITTLE beginning not NO beginning.

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by olahero(m): 9:23pm On Aug 02, 2016
niggi4life:
May God continue to bless you sir.
I preach the same thing for guys of nowadays, its mostly common with illiterate yorubas and hausas, you see a small boy gets a girl pregnant and the next thing, struggled marriage, they now start struggling to survive and bring innocent children into the world to suffer with them, turning them into hawkers, labourers and all that.
It's so demeaning, i advice a guy should at least get something steady coming in and at least be comfortable a bit before bringing a wife and children into the table.

For me it makes sense that way.... NOT forgetting the wife must also be doing something too and not just a mere parasite
and your tribe too, is just because your girls good in aborting pregnant that's why you don't know, useless Nigga.
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Xeedorf: 9:24pm On Aug 02, 2016
Daddy Adeboye should remember to advise pastor vice-president Osibanjo to create job for us now
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by thelish(f): 9:25pm On Aug 02, 2016
Sweetlemon:
I'm so happy to hear this! Nigerian men are fast becoming too lazy for my liking, taking advantage of "I don't want a liability" to look for only ladies with regular source of income to marry because they are too lazy to make enough money on their own. The situation is seriously getting out of hand. The kinds of gists I hear these days about male gold diggers ehn....


The laziness is so annoying. Its really getting out of hand

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by smiliyB(f): 9:26pm On Aug 02, 2016
lielbree:
God bless you sir!

Broke as$ lazy boys here on nl will be like "I'm looking for girl who will love me when I have nothing " angry

My question, as you have nothing, do you love yourself?
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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Xeedorf: 9:26pm On Aug 02, 2016
Daddy Adeboye should remember to advise pastor vice-president Osibanjo to create job for us now
make our life also better to marry before 40th years
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Xeedorf: 9:28pm On Aug 02, 2016
Daddy Adeboye fall my hand big time dis time around
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Nobody: 9:28pm On Aug 02, 2016
Trina0936:
Yes oh! Its now time for the ladies to speak!
Any poor/jobless man should better look somewhere else because I ain't poor and I have a goodpaying job while still searching for a better one! tongue
So men play your role or forget about marriage! Thank you Baba Adeboye!
You only said the truth and nothing but the truth
if not for the respect i have for him, i would have blasted him, Adam wasn't working when God created eve, it was after adam and eve commited sin that man began to work

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by counsellorwiser(m): 9:33pm On Aug 02, 2016
idupaul:
I agree with him but the funny things is that most Pastors starting out depend on their wives till income set and that includes 90 percent of the young pastors in RCCG

Clever observation. wink

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Nobody: 9:33pm On Aug 02, 2016
Zceesneh:
if not for the respect i have for him, i would have blasted him, Adam wasn't working when God created eve, it was after adam and eve commited sin that man began to work
Well since it has already happened, whose fault then?? undecided Do I look like Adam or Eve??

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by NOETHNICITY(m): 9:34pm On Aug 02, 2016
Its like this guy haz started using weed.
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by gloryman91: 9:36pm On Aug 02, 2016
The law says stepdown by 70yrs u refused and retired junior pastors now old age is telling on you, just misyarning anyhow. Baba go siddon look.
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Nobody: 9:36pm On Aug 02, 2016
amokeme:
LITTLE beginning not NO beginning.
Better pikin. You get sharp eye wink grin

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by tunshe: 9:36pm On Aug 02, 2016
ojuu4u:



pls stop console ursf, nos 1 tin 4 man dat want to mari is to get stable income nt necesarly big job o, thr ar jobs unles u ar selective, d u knw people ar in vilage that are fama and they are hapily marid?

Console? How does that apply here?

I think you have comprehension problem.
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by lereinter(m): 9:37pm On Aug 02, 2016
olosho things for all conji guyz
better than begging a ordinary woman
to endure with u
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by mickeymimi: 9:38pm On Aug 02, 2016
some men are really trying but just unlucky .....You can meet or court a jobless guy or a graduate and assist him if you can to get a job or provide financial assistance to enable him start his own business before marriage...if the guy is lazy pls dont bother.

while I like to agree with papa but there are situation that God will use the woman as their helper.

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Deilluminator(m): 9:42pm On Aug 02, 2016
tunshe:
This is common sense. Although there are few exceptions! There are cases where unemployed man is supported by his wife and he later got a job.

However, there's distinction between being lazy and being unemployed.

The society must balance the fulcrum to make life worthy of living.

Lack of jobs will increase crime rates and abundance of unmarried ladies will increase promiscuity.

So you see it's all common sense! Everyone has a role to play. The government, individuals and even the religious bodies.
You are absolutely right. Education empowers one with the ability to make personal judgement on what one has learned. Is not all about implementing what one has learned.

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by mpowa(m): 9:42pm On Aug 02, 2016
Zceesneh:
if not for the respect i have for him, i would have blasted him, Adam wasn't working when God created eve, it was after adam and eve commited sin that man began to work
You don't know your Bible, WORK was not a curse, LABOUR was, Adam was working, God told him to tend the garden, to keep it and to be incharge of the animals, but after the fall God said his Work will be labour, he will sweat before he eat.

If guys are demanding that the woman must know how to cook and all, Is it not fair that you also find good work to do to take care of the her and the children? If the work no dey, pray and hustle, God go answer if you're serious.
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by dafuturis(m): 9:46pm On Aug 02, 2016
Sweetlemon:
I'm so happy to hear this! Nigerian men are fast becoming too lazy for my liking, taking advantage of "I don't want a liability" to look for only ladies with regular source of income to marry because they are too lazy to make enough money on their own. The situation is seriously getting out of hand. The kinds of gists I hear these days about male gold diggers ehn....

You get married to a supposedly working man, a year into the marriage he got retrenched and couldn't get another for three years, what difference does it make?

I think our religious leaders should stop imposing their sentiments on their followers. Every rational being knows this advice is skewed.
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by no1madman(m): 9:47pm On Aug 02, 2016
Dis Man is not very wise. . . .i pity women weh dey believe everything dis deceiver dey yarn. . .

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by counsellorwiser(m): 9:48pm On Aug 02, 2016
sbabimbola:


As much as I hold his submissions in high regard, I'll like us to be more realistic in terms of how God speaks to us.
WHAT IF THE MAN LOOSES THE JOB IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE WEDDING?


SHOULD SHE PACK OUT?



I wish to lend my VOICE with all sense of remorsefulness AND HUMILITY that IF GOD IS LEADING A LADY TO GET MARRIED TO ANY ONE, such lady should go ahead.

IT'S A HARD NUT, ONLY THE WISE CHEW IT, I have met several men whom all they have to offer is sex and money. I tell you if I meet one as such who is responsible enough, and knows where he is going in life, even though he has no JOB at the moment, I won't think twice to tie the knot.




My dear Lady don't get discouraged...... The words is for someone in the HOUSE!

I admire your line of thought. I think baba should have focused more on laziness, which is the real nut, rather than an unemployed state which is a temporary condition that can be overturned in one minute.

My cousin got married to a guy who had no job against family objections. That was in 2005. But today the dude is very buoyant financially. About one year and half after marriage he got a job at a multinational company.

So I won't say joblessness, I will say laziness is the virus. When a lazy man who is gainfully employed today loses his sweet job to workplace redundancy tomorrow, that is the beginning of misery for everyone that depends on him financially. He may never recover in his lifetime.

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by much123456(m): 9:50pm On Aug 02, 2016
And can the unemployed stop paying tithe and offering as well or don't even come to church

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Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by graphiti: 9:53pm On Aug 02, 2016
Na wah o
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by Gentlemedi(m): 9:57pm On Aug 02, 2016
Nice one from Pastor Adeboye, but Sir you are entitled to your own opinion. people marry jobless men and after marriage they get a high paying jobs...Please people, let your instincts lead you.
Re: "Don't Marry A Man Who Doesn't Have A Job" - Pastor Adeboye Advises Women (Video by cassidy1996(m): 9:58pm On Aug 02, 2016
iyke926:
Tired of the word religion.
Tired of hearing all those self made church rules.
I pity ladies that gon take this serious.
The fact a nigga is jobless today, doesn't mean he gon be forever.


What happens when he losses his job after marriage? Should she dump his asss and hunt for another man with a job??


Quote of the day: Religion set rules, God sets free.
GOD BLESS YOU....

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