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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Taryur3(m): 11:49am On Sep 30, 2016
dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life opsmiley
Well-done just continue
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Toks2008(m): 11:49am On Sep 30, 2016
AccessME:
At about a month ago,various topics/comments about masturbation fluid Nairaland while some supported it,some dismantle it as a wayward lifestyle that is capable of destroying ones destiny in a short period of time. anyways, base on my experience, masturbation is not only a destiny killer but a strength sucker and confidence destruct..



I am not typing this piss to gain attention but I am doing this to make you see the defect of masturbation on me and have been on some other persons which they wouldn't disclose to anyone but silently dying inside. enough of beating around the bush though, let's get down to the main reason of me creating this thread.


In 2007,i had my first contact with a pornographic content and at 14years old then,i did not know what sex was and how it was practice by two consenting adults not until my friend involved me in watching pornography. At first I didn't wanted to watch it but was initiated thus ended up liken it after my first organism that day,i felt nothing can be as sweet as watching pornographic movie.This made me love pornography more than any other movie in reason that it makes me ejaculate which I felt at a tender age was sweet and satisfying. I started going to a neighbor house to steal pornography movie to watch.At a tender age,i never knew any word called "masturbation" but only felt the sweetness that comes with it thereby making me partake in it at any single opportunity consequently affected me.

Whenever I happen to watch Indecency movie,i masturbate and frequently I involved myself in this act,my conscience always judge me. At a time I started feeling weak,my bones became shrinking as if I am an Old man,i couldn't standstill any more all because my strength was taken away by the evil trait of masturbation, I started staying indoors/away from my friends all in the name of masturbation which made my confidence level reduce drastically,nobody told me the disadvantage masturbation is melting on me but I had to withdraw from it all for making me shiver when talking with pairs,i couldn't walk straight anymore. I became misbehaving and disrespectful to people around me. pains gripped my eyes as if I am going blind I couldn't see far distance anymore in other words I became very lazy as I wouldn't want to partake in house chores and this affected the fair relationship I had with my parents.

Although my story and yours may not be the same probably I masturbated excessively brought about the aforementioned defects on me but the fact remains..
Masturbation is indeed a warward lifestyle..

Regards!!!

Thank God you used the right words and I was expecting to see that sin word ...

As I wrote in my thread about the act...it can destroy you if unchecked just like every other habit that can be addictive.

If you watch TV too much it can destroy you likewise betting,playing video games, eating and many more.

Whatever you do just don't get addicted.

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Shiitposter: 11:49am On Sep 30, 2016
You ate like a bîtch OP
Eat like a man. You dont expect to expel protein and not ingest more protein to make up for the one you expelled. Of course you are going to shrink you pleb.

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by alexarelano(m): 11:50am On Sep 30, 2016
Active members of greatest wankers.
How una dey? grin cheesy
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by freeman95(m): 11:53am On Sep 30, 2016
Wolfbrother:
Oga masturbation didnt cause all that, please see a doctor and attain enlightenment .... dont spread ignorance

Person way dey craze... People way con dey Bleep almost everyday dey release nko??

Abi the guy no dey chop better food

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by femzysticks(m): 11:56am On Sep 30, 2016
Flexherbal:
Why it is difficult to stop, i do not know.

You cannot stop it on your own. Because the force behind sin is stronger than the mortal man

When you submit yourself to Christ and the Holy Spirit comes inside of you...
There is a change in government

don't struggle with sin

Just ask God for the grace and it will be made available

I am a living testimony...

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by thunderbabs: 12:01pm On Sep 30, 2016
In case of overdose, please consult Olosho. Na overdose cause bending bending, short sightedness, low immunity, weakness of the body etc.

Too much of everything is bad. You had it too much, man. OVERDOSE kills.

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by kabanayol9(m): 12:02pm On Sep 30, 2016
dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life opsmiley
My dear, u made my day, comment of the day, unlike some people forming and they indulge in worst things.
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by mrZENographer: 12:04pm On Sep 30, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Looking beyond your misuse of dictions and all, I dont think what was wrong with ya then was the masturbation per say, Most probably, it was a stress issue manifesting from serial restlessness , poor diet and exhaustion compounded and made easy by your joblesssness. I mean, Masturbation was never the evil , it was the accumulation of yo bad unhealthy and neurotic habits.

Tbh, Masturbation is healthy when done right (blowjobs and likes fall under it IMO). In fact, it has been found that male babies in the womb masturbate grin

Stupidliar. bitchwitchcraft. Babies don't masturbate. You got that from a comedy clip. Yes I watched it.
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by awakeuche(m): 12:05pm On Sep 30, 2016
The op made a huge point, only that he didnt finish. To the op, masturbation is horrible because it causes these effects to mostly men,
1. PIED (porn related erectile dysfunction) a case where the penis refuses to harden no matter the stimulation except by hard or rough touching, a dangerous trend most porn addict notice but refuse or cant stop.
2. The rewiring of the brain to the effect that you are no longer affected or feel nothing towards even a sexy woman unless u masturbate. Another dangerous trend.
I shall post a link here that will help
Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction
See - Research confirms enormous rise in youthful ED.
See this list articles by many experts who treat and recognize porn-induced ED - Porn-Induced ED in the media (experts)
Also see a list of studies supporting this article - Studies reporting links between porn use or porn/sex addiction and sexual dysfunctions, lower brain activation to sexual stimuli, and lower sexual satisfaction
Peer-reviewed paper by US Navy doctors - Is Internet Pornography Causing Sexual Dysfunctions? A Review with Clinical Reports (2016) - It’s an extensive review of the literature on porn-induced sexual problems. The review provides the latest data revealing a tremendous rise in youthful sexual problems. The paper also examines the neurological studies related to porn addiction and sexual conditioning. The doctors provide 3 clinical reports of men who developed porn-induced sexual dysfunctions.
ARTICLE: A 28-year old heals his chronic copulatory impotence.
"As Porn Goes Up, Performance Goes Down?" recounted that men were reporting erectile dysfunction in connection with Internet porn use—even in their twenties. The response was astonishing. The item has been read tens of thousands of times, and numerous heavy porn users have confirmed that they are indeed experiencing loss of erectile potency. It seems that masturbation "ain't what it used to be." Free, streaming, hyper-stimulating videos are a relatively recent, and surprisingly problematic, phenomenon.
The issue lies not in viewers' perfectly healthy joysticks, but in their brain's reward circuitry—and there is no quick fix. Normal dopamine sensitivity in the reward circuitry is critical to normal sexual responsiveness, and too much stimulation appears to weaken the dopamine response of many brains. To return to normal, the brain needs time to reboot without extreme stimulation.
Unfortunately, most porn users don't realize what's going on until the problem is quite severe, because they naturally tend to "solve" any erectile sluggishness with more extreme porn (thus forcing the release of the dopamine needed to achieve an erection, but also further dampening the brain's natural sensitivity and their sexual responsiveness). Some sufferers naturally resort to risky sexual enhancement drugs, not realizing that they are only masking a problem they can heal themselves. To illustrate, here are a man's comments about his journey back to erectile health:
[Week three of no porn, masturbation or orgasm] For years, I looked at porn and masturbated to multiple orgasms at least once a day, beginning during high school. At university, I was a computer nerd with glasses and no social life, though I played a lot of sport. I'd stay in my room and study, play guitar or masturbate. I got pretty good at all these things.
I got an IT job, and once I could afford my own cable Internet connection, the floodgates opened. With unlimited access to high quality porn 24/7, I'd stay up till 4 a.m. and get up at the crack of noon. Some months I binged so much that I exceeded my Internet quota and received bills of $1000. I used to have 5-10 windows of streaming video open at a time, and bounce between them, which really upped the levels of arousal. This pattern continued throughout my early twenties. I was not happy at all, and my doctor diagnosed me with depression.
Porn temporarily took my desire away, so I thought it was a good thing, keeping me "balanced." I was proud that I could look at a hot girl on the street and not feel the slightest hint of arousal because porn had desensitized me. It was a way of taking back the power that I believed women had over me. Only much later did I realize how destructive this was.
Most of what I'd learned at school, in the media and on the Internet said masturbation

Erectile Dysfunction
Submitted by Johannes on Thu, 2010-09-23 22:47
After a long trip I an say that only loving kisses and loving caresses will give me an erection, noting else. As soon there is a
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by LorDBolton(m): 12:06pm On Sep 30, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Looking beyond your misuse of dictions and all, I dont think what was wrong with ya then was the masturbation per say, Most probably, it was a stress issue manifesting from serial restlessness , poor diet and exhaustion compounded and made easy by your joblesssness. I mean, Masturbation was never the evil , it was the accumulation of yo bad unhealthy and neurotic habits.

Tbh, Masturbation is healthy when done right (blowjobs and likes fall under it IMO). In fact, it has been found that male babies in the womb masturbate grin
Oga don't waste ur time lecturing these peeps once things are not going right in their lives they look for something/someone to blame, if it's not masturbation then it's fornication if it's not their neighbour then it's their village people .

you can only HATE YOURSELF for masturbating when you doing it out of frustration due to inability to land babes.

Handjobs, blowjobs, footjobs, even 'boobrides re all similar difference is its a female doing it 4 d niqqa so like I said only niqqas who doing it out of frustration actually feel bad.
"

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by loadedvibes: 12:08pm On Sep 30, 2016
Just talk easy thing you dey talk plenty grammar
bitchcrafts:
Looking beyond your misuse of dictions and all, I dont think what was wrong with ya then was the masturbation per say, Most probably, it was a stress issue manifesting from serial restlessness , poor diet and exhaustion compounded and made easy by your joblesssness. I mean, Masturbation was never the evil , it was the accumulation of yo bad unhealthy and neurotic habits.

Tbh, Masturbation is healthy when done right (blowjobs and likes fall under it IMO). In fact, it has been found that male babies in the womb masturbate grin
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Nobody: 12:08pm On Sep 30, 2016
grin Op your too hard on yourself, masturbation isn't your problem.

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Wolfbrother(m): 12:13pm On Sep 30, 2016
freeman95:


Person way dey craze... People way con dey Bleep almost everyday dey release nko??

Abi the guy no dey chop better food

Na why i talk say make in see doctor.... e be like say something dey wrong with am, in come dey attribute am to masturbation.

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Nobody: 12:16pm On Sep 30, 2016
religion apart, masturbation is not bad, bc it helps to release sexual tension n stress, same thing that happens in ur body during normal sex, happens during masturbation, but if u do both to the extent that it is affecting ur work, studies or relationship with others, then u know that u re addicted and you need to break away from it, even those that deny that they don't masturbate, especially the boys re obviously lying, but try to get rid of the things that fuel ur desire to masturbate often.
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by XtrmeBachelor(m): 12:17pm On Sep 30, 2016
for the low esteem yeah,loss of courage yes buh others not too sure! see a doctor and after that go for counseling .
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Pidggin(f): 12:20pm On Sep 30, 2016
dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life opsmiley

There are demons attached to masturbation and these evil spirits are very strong. They cause infertility and low self-image. They also lead to stagnation and make you porous to the manipulation of Satan, please stop it

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by AnusOdourInhaler: 12:22pm On Sep 30, 2016
trapQ:
Learn and stop saying what you don't know. Masturbation can lead to blindness and many more.
Source?

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Fingerprinter(m): 12:22pm On Sep 30, 2016
trapQ:
Learn and stop saying what you don't know. Masturbation can lead to blindness and many more.

Oga scientist, would you mind telling the house how masturbation leads to blindness?

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Analee(f): 12:27pm On Sep 30, 2016
dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life opsmiley
plss cm 2 to OPM n pick assignment on waterspirit n dat spirit of masturbatn wil js go away.woks lik magic
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by justmenoni: 12:28pm On Sep 30, 2016
will you be her stranger?

emeraldknytt:
WTF! That aint right, sometimes sex with an appealing stranger might be the best there is.... Masturbation is a harbinger of destruction and uncertainty







I see some folks get easily perturbed by masturbation even amidst the country's economy downturn.... See as they come for my head like moku mogbe modaran (MMM) scheme. grin
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Justiceleague1: 12:30pm On Sep 30, 2016
dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life opsmiley

if only God would open ur spiritual eyes to se the demons present whenever one mastubates..

Op,thank God for saving you.. Fill up ur mind with positive thoughts and the Word of God.
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by koboko69: 12:37pm On Sep 30, 2016
This is the moat useless lie i have ever seen. I don't promote masturbation, in fact the babes i have din too much, but coming here to tell this blantant lie ...welll
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by Nobody: 12:38pm On Sep 30, 2016
Flexherbal:
Why it is difficult to stop, i do not know.
It's because of the sweetness.
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by dollyjoy(f): 12:39pm On Sep 30, 2016
Pidggin:


There are demons attached to masturbation and these evil spirits are very strong. They cause infertility and low self-image. They also lead to stagnation and make you porous to the manipulation of Satan, please stop it
this is very myopic.

If you are not a virgin, i will advice you to shove this advice down your ass.

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by geronimoedeh1(m): 12:41pm On Sep 30, 2016
dollyjoy:
To be frank, i prefer masturbation to having sex with a partner i don't see a future with.

Thank God for your life opsmiley
it doesnt affect girls lik it does to guys
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by dollyjoy(f): 12:43pm On Sep 30, 2016
Justiceleague1:


if only God would open ur spiritual eyes to se the demons present whenever one mastubates..

Op,thank God for saving you.. Fill up ur mind with positive thoughts and the Word of God.
Are there no demons present when you have sex with someone you are not married to because i know you are not chaste and even if married must have done it before tying the knot.

Fornication and masturbation are biblicaly WRONG, however, people should be left to do what they believe in irrespective of religious inclination.

Only God should do the judgingwink

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by dollyjoy(f): 12:46pm On Sep 30, 2016
Analee:
plss cm 2 to OPM n pick assignment on waterspirit n dat spirit of masturbatn wil js go away.woks lik magic
Ok.


Don't forget to pick that same slot for the spirit of fornication to leave you.smileysmiley


you are welcome.

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Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by erico2k2(m): 12:51pm On Sep 30, 2016
Taichimaster:
Masturbation has many disadvantages
like
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by trapQ: 12:51pm On Sep 30, 2016
Mr ignorant... I'm not a science or medical textbook. Get a book or better still use google. Masturbation not only leads to loss of sight, it also leads to mental retardation and many more.

Don't quote me again. I won't read or reply your rude ignorant comment.
Fingerprinter:


Oga scientist, would you mind telling the house how masturbation leads to blindness?
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by trapQ: 12:53pm On Sep 30, 2016
OMG I've been to O.P.M before. I must say its a living church. I took the water spirit assignment but.... lipsrsealed
Analee:
plss cm 2 to OPM n pick assignment on waterspirit n dat spirit of masturbatn wil js go away.woks lik magic
Re: How Masturbation Almost Ruined My Life by trapQ: 12:55pm On Sep 30, 2016
I totally understand you. But blind people will keep arguing. Masturbation is one of the worst sins. Its too dangerous.
Justiceleague1:


if only God would open ur spiritual eyes to se the demons present whenever one mastubates..

Op,thank God for saving you.. Fill up ur mind with positive thoughts and the Word of God.

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