Of course NO!

Firmlogger:
what dah heck?
So,if your friends and families are calling you and it isn't going through,you will tell them,you married?

Haba!

give dem ur new number naw kai!

flokii:


Exactly my thoughts

he can as well ask her to close all her social media accounts too.. it's not necessary

lol...
Even social media?? Loll... I will vex for africa if he does that...

Come to think of it, You married a woman you were in love with and she can still spread her legs open to another man? just my philosophy anyway...

JEWELCOSMETICS:
Changing the sim card is not the problem, the problem is whether the owner of the sim will ever change in real life... Well, ladies can make some funny calls to raise your balls and make you dabble through anger, especially when they really want to test your cool. That's where they missed it most because they refused to realize that men are humans with different frequency of tolerance.



Though I was born a jealous type, i will be very jealous especially on an issue that has to do with my boo. I did that to some length until a lady gave me a reason to redefine love as "[/b]a give and don't expect anything in return'[b]' kind of thing.... I was a type who will want to protect his date and fight a war to gain superiority of her...


I later gave up on the assignment of protecting Ladies because i came to realize that if a girl really loves you she needs no protections, but attention from you to make her feel secured. What you must understand is this " whatever you can't keep, don't let it enter your home"... There are some ladies that are not just for us, the men.

That give part is what I don't get, who is worth the giving? We only have one choice to make?

Smelly question

Forget about the long story, the man is just insecure. Inferiority Complex is a serious psychological disorder. If you like change the number 7 days a week, person wey go cheat go cheat.

Changing the sim ain't the issue, u can't force love.

Firmlogger:
what dah heck?
So,if your friends and families are calling you and it isn't going through,you will tell them,you married?

Haba!

I think changing your Sim card does not change the numbers o n your phone, you are meant to text the relivant people in your life the new number, it wont cost more than N1K to do p lus the hubby can pay that money too.
Everyone is happy
sometimes its these little things we do that keeps the fabric of family life closely knitted

guy was too polite to call his wife a ho, so he changed her sim instead. but really, some people just marry to answer Mr/ M
rs.

mccoy47:
Dia is absolutely nothing wrong!
I have had friends who not only changed dia numbers but also logged off some social accounts.

All they did was to share their new numbers with very close and important ppl in her life. For goodness sakes she is married!
She doesn't need distractions from some wolves (Casanovas) still lurking around!

she will have to change sim card monthly or yearly if she can't handle distraction, you think married women don't see men that woo them daily? Think again. Before me I saw a man wooing a pregnant married woman so if your wife can't handle distraction then she's loose and don't trust herself.

YES ................IF YOU HAVE CAUSE A LOT OF HAVOC BEFORE MARRIAGE.

Firmlogger:
I saw this post on NADIA BUHARI'S FACEBOOK TIMELINE and I felt like sharing it to you guys:

"I just ran into a newly married couple,the woman is angry that her husband changed her simcard immediately after the wedding."Why should he go this far?" She complained.

The husband said her phone rings at every 5 minutes interval,and the kind of call she receives makes him uncomfortable,now they are married,she should do away with anything that will affect their marriage.

Why do you Guys think?
Is it a good idea to change simcard after marriage?
Guys,will you change your lady's line after wedding?
Ladies,would you allow him to go that far?

Opinions Needed! "

Well she probably is a retired Blac Chyna... so its a necessary step so her former clients can't reach her, even though it wont help becasue a %$# will always remain a #$% nothing can chage her except she decides to change herself, trust me they never ever really change, she will always go back to her ways.
My point being even though he is trying his best to control her, what he doesnt realize is that he is fighting a lost cause..

I know a few years from now we will see a thread here " Man laments on facebook how his wife of 5 years has been cheating on him all this while"

is a choice

If he's willing to change his parents, friends, ideology and hair color, then sure, he can change your sim card.

Well.... One would only do that if the person's way is not "pure".
In jenifa's voice "if the person was a bad SHILDI " before marriage.
He/She would want to secure the marriage.

It's a drastic measure I must say but I understand why the Man did that. I don't expect a woman to understand such a decision, in Africa A Man calls the shots, and pays bills. Apart from Family and friends ( platonic) he should feel that way, you cannot marry and allow her to answer calls as she desires, her family and friends (necessary ones) will know the new number

What about if she has all her numbers backed up on a cloud service or has photographic memory to retain numbers? The husband would request her changing her brain?

Woman or Man wey go do, go still do regardless. He needs to seek therapy for his inner demons..........

some dudes are that bad.

Lexusgs430:
What about if she has all her numbers backed up on a cloud service or has photographic memory to retain numbers? The husband would request her changing her brain?

gabe:
guy was too polite to call his wife a ho, so he changed her sim instead. but really, some people just marry to answer Mr/ M
rs.

lolz

86nizzle:
some dudes are that bad.

Hin for kuku marry Mother Tessy.........

Once I make that £3m, I will change my 12 year old SIM card and just start afresh. I'll give only very few worthwhile people my new number and cut off the umpteen nuisances that one has been associated with one way or the other during the long spell in the wilderness.

In other words: When you reach some landmarks in life, old things must pass away in order for you to enjoy the new beginning.

For oloshos yes its so adviceable

Only necessary when u have some skeleton in your cupboard

Swt opinions

pearlejiro:
switching sim cards would be better option...(husband takes the wife's and vice versa).
That will accommodate any possibility of missing important calls...
And most importantly and effectively...kill any thirsty demon wanting to put asunder.

It's a good opportunity to tell your spouse's callers he/she is now married. Exes will quickly back off.

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Maybe but personally I won't do that...

demarc001:
Its Mainly people with wayward past life that does that.

On the case at hand, I think the woman could not manage her communications well that was why the husband had to help her. Am sure the hhusband won't be complaining if it was bussiness calls, 5-5mins calls means to much gossips.

Before some people will tag it genderr abuse, remember women too dont like their partners spending much time on phone/system.


I use to have a neighbour whoo always claim she will throw away her sim immediately she gets married, am surprise she is still using it years after marriage.

Ukalejohn:
For oloshos yes its so adviceable

Hedonistically:
Once I make that £3m, I will change my 12 year old SIM card and just start afresh. I'll give only very few worthwhile people my new number and cut off the umpteen nuisances that one has been associated with one way or the other during the long spell in the wilderness.
In other words: When you reach some landmarks in life, old things must pass away in order for you to enjoy the new beginning.

seyoops4u:
Well.... One would only do that if the person's way is not "pure".
In jenifa's voice "if the person was a bad SHILDI " before marriage.
He/She would want to secure the marriage.

lestat:

Well she probably is a retired Blac Chyna... so its a necessary step so her former clients can't reach her, even though it wont help becasue a %$# will always remain a #$% nothing can chage her except she decides to change herself, trust me they never ever really change, she will always go back to her ways.
My point being even though he is trying his best to control her, what he doesnt realize is that he is fighting a lost cause..
I know a few years from now we will see a thread here " Man laments on facebook how his wife of 5 years has been cheating on him all this while"

grossintel:
she will have to change sim card monthly or yearly if she can't handle distraction, you think married women don't see men that woo them daily? Think again. Before me I saw a man wooing a pregnant married woman so if your wife can't handle distraction then she's loose and don't trust herself.

RaggedyAnn:
That's ONE way of dealing with the incessant calls but it doesn't address the bigger issue - trust. It's a hassle, changing one's number and having to re-cultivate contacts especially the work related ones. A man should understand that forcing a woman to change her SIM card after marriage is a high-handed gesture that might serve well in showing her who's boss, but it doesn't stop a woman with extramarital designs from pursuing her fancies in secret. A responsible married woman would know how to shut down unwanted attention without changing her sim and the husband will have the chance to observe how she handles it confirming the trust he had credited.

Firmlogger:
It depends if the woman was once a PROSTITUTE or a RUNS girl.

Because if the woman was loyal and a decent woman,there won't be a room for that.

I took pains to quote y'all because you people made sense die; unlike some other talking airheads.

It's not always about the other partner having trust issues. In a marriage, the two people are supposed to demonstrate high degrees of maturity and sense of responsibility, after all, you're probably preparing for Parenting and transfering your values to a whole bunch of "mini-"you's", right?
It stands to reason then that marriage is supposed to be "serious business for matured minds", right?
So, what happens to assisting and safeguarding your spouse from "their" inner demons and long strings of "Furrk-And-No-Pay" groupie FWB's & "edible caterers"? See, chatting crap is easiest when folks aren't the ones on the hot-seats so I wasn't surprised to see folks who would want high levels of fidelity later on in their marriages not demonstrating the necessary willingness to step up and deploy the appropriate amounts of guts and common-sense needed to help their spouses, if the need arises!

Changing the SIM shouldn't be more of an issue if it came from a mindset of care. Is it everyone who gets married who's 100% in their right minds? Yo ladies, what if your own E-Money's a recovering sexxx-addict? What about the compulsive-behavior dudes? The addictive gamblers, AA-drunkards, druggies, Kleptos who were willing to get help?
What about those who, weren't even willing but, had someone with enough "tough-love" to stand with them while handing them enough ammunition to kill off their inner demons? R'Kelly/Kirk-Franklin I-Need-An-Angel anyone?

Even sincere people who know they've got questionable past lives and wouldn't want the seedy messiness of their pasts, getting into and, fouling up their newly-achieved blissful utopias have taken such initiatives by themselves, to let such bygones be bygones, instead of some id10t with a broken-screen iTel phone to come and wreck them with sexts and other embarrassing sturvs.

But, it's sad that some spouses, women inclusive, love walking the "danger-lines" toying with the sh!tty relics of their past lives. They hold on to past garbage and use it to threaten the safety of your present life and future happiness, while still claiming love; which kain love, kwa?
Which furrking love are you claiming to have for your spouse when you can't even make up your mind about moving forwards with them, without your seedy past lives dragging you backwards? If YOU DON'T HAVE THE SINCERITY AND COMMON SENSE TO BREAK OFF THAT SIM YOURSELF, YOU'RE A FAKE; AND A JOKER WITH A RING!

So, me I don't see why pple go dey form "maturity" while being just st00pidly apologetic. Dem dey fall hand dey demonstrate "mumu-ish" political correctness. See, If you were not ready to get married and stay faithful, why go through the charade of tying the knot and requiring the exclusivity binding with marital vows?
OR, why not simply go for the open relationship types. Sit your spouse down and script out a prenup that'd allow you both to dey 'chop your kponmo' per time when the need arises ?

Personally, If I'd done all that 2go/Badoo bangbros-furkfesst kinda shyt that'd make my spouse nervous and I was getting hitched, mehn, I'd cut y'all off pretty quick so fast your heads would still be spinning when your arrsses hit the floor if that would make my queen happy and safe but people? People just be forming nice!
Ok o, just remember that "People forming nice and allowing furrkked up sheit is what's being getting them shot to sh!t since 1805, mtccheeww !