ItsQuinn:
Ignore her and live your life

ItsQuinn:
Ignore her and live your life

hanked:
I need a matured contribution on how to go about this, my wife of 8 years now did something I believe was bad ( 1. she stopped giving me food . 2. secretly in contacts with most of her ex. 3. associating with pple I asked her not to) divorce is out of it cos of the children. she's so stubborn that she did not want to listen , what's the best solution to this?should I ignore her or talk to her pple?

LilSmith55:
Gbam, Tiri Gbosa 4 You Jare..

RiloKiley:


1. Why did she stop giving you food?


2. How many ex does she have that u. said "most'? How did u find out? How r u sure they are her exes? Was she discussing anything bad with them?

3. What does she stand to gain by associating with those people? Why don't u want her associating with them?

hanked:
I need a matured contribution on how to go about this, my wife of 8 years now did something I believe was bad ( 1. she stopped giving me food . 2. secretly in contacts with most of her ex. 3. associating with pple I asked her not to) divorce is out of it cos of the children. she's so stubborn that she did not want to listen , what's the best solution to this?should I ignore her or talk to her pple?

hanked:
I need a matured contribution on how to go about this, my wife of 8 years now did something I believe was bad ( 1. she stopped giving me food . 2. secretly in contacts with most of her ex. 3. associating with pple I asked her not to) divorce is out of it cos of the children. she's so stubborn that she did not want to listen , what's the best solution to this?should I ignore her or talk to her pple?

Alexk2:


Please be sincere and tell us the whole truth....what did you do wrong or what are you doing wrongly?

hanked:
I need a matured contribution on how to go about this, my wife of 8 years now did something I believe was bad ( 1. she stopped giving me food . 2. secretly in contacts with most of her ex. 3. associating with pple I asked her not to) divorce is out of it cos of the children. she's so stubborn that she did not want to listen , what's the best solution to this?should I ignore her or talk to her pple?

hanked:



wish I knew what I did wrong! maybe cos my work temporary took me away from my Base, which I do come back to see them every two weeks

ItsQuinn:
Ignore her and live your life

hanked:
I need a matured contribution on how to go about this, my wife of 8 years now did something I believe was bad ( 1. she stopped giving me food . 2. secretly in contacts with most of her ex. 3. associating with pple I asked her not to) divorce is out of it cos of the children. she's so stubborn that she did not want to listen , what's the best solution to this?should I ignore her or talk to her pple?

Alexk2:


Are you taking care of them as a father and husband?..
If she stopped preparing your food, it may mean you aren't taking care of ur responsibility..."may"

hanked:
I need a matured contribution on how to go about this, my wife of 8 years now did something I believe was bad ( 1. she stopped giving me food . 2. secretly in contacts with most of her ex. 3. associating with pple I asked her not to) divorce is out of it cos of the children. she's so stubborn that she did not want to listen , what's the best solution to this?should I ignore her or talk to her pple?

johnson232:

this advise is bad.... for how long?

hanked:




I accused her of unfaithfulness after going through her WhatsApp message with the ex's . one (married)out of them was telling her that he love her and miss her after 9 months, others was chatting about how she is ,most of other discussion was on voice call according to their messages.

ItsQuinn:
for as long as it takes

johnson232:

that is not good... he should report her to her parents, perhaps they can talk some senses into her, remember they ve got kids

you and this emoji... why do u like it so much?

ItsQuinn:
Why is it that in a Nigerian home, when couples are having issues, they always get their parents involved as if they are still a baby and can't think for themselves... when their parents die I wonder who they will go to for their problems?

if every time couples include a third party(parents) for their problems, they shouldn't be married in the first place because marriage is all about responsibility and independence not dependence.

I use this smiley because it's cute and positive

johnson232:

lots of broken homes has been saved by parents.
Reporting marital issues to one's parent still remains one of the most effective way of resolving marital disputes. from the post, u can see the issue is beyond what both parties can control. ignoring it only means postponing the evil day, which the may not be able to contain when it eventually explodes.

it is best advise they report it to their parents or experienced relatives.... so the issues can be nipped in the bud before it escalates....

johnson232:

hope u aren't the op's wife?

why are all your comments lopsided?
shame for u...

johnson232:

hope u aren't the op's wife?

why are all your comments lopsided?
shame for u...

hanked:
I need a matured contribution on how to go about this, my wife of 8 years now did something I believe was bad ( 1. she stopped giving me food . 2. secretly in contacts with most of her ex. 3. associating with pple I asked her not to) divorce is out of it cos of the children. she's so stubborn that she did not want to listen , what's the best solution to this?should I ignore her or talk to her pple?

Mimzyy:
Just wondering out loud if we still have couples who have/are having a blissful marriage. Everyday, it's one sad tale to another. Na wah