kokosari2:

Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop.

Nop just give him enough sex and also let him knowvd effect of pornography......No man will see puss.y and prefer mastubatn xpt a gay.

Cutehector:
You are the problem...

Not necessarily.

I think it's an old habit of his. Maybe he was hiding it when they first began dating or newly got married. So the lady is not responsible for it.

Most men with a poor marital sex life don't do porn or jerk off with reckless abandon. They seek a solution together.

It's like those addicted to prostitutes. Marrying Miss World will not stop them.

He must be willing to stop and man up with much determination.

I can imagine the bad effect of this on their conjugal life.

Go on your kneels and pray my dear. God can do all things. you never fully know a person until u marry them. this is who he have been, but it was hidden from you.

kokosari2:
It is always the woman that is the problem for her husband's misbehaviour. If it was the other way round, the woman will be tagged promiscuous or nymphomaniac.

I know women are not always to blame for problems like this but you have to admit that slot of women become embarrassingly fat and just let go of all the things that attracted their men in the first place. Even so women deny their husbands sex due to a variety of reasons.
The man must communicate with his wife in order to forestall future problems in their marriage.
But the women should do everything possible to keep their men interested.

Use sexsy cloths that will atrac him, always When u are together, as a lady you know how to do it better than us baby

It is a psychological problem, take him to psychotherapy centre, a Psychologist there will change Him .He can use Hypnosis

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

When he gets it on, play a very deep Christian song or a recorded Pastor's message against the habit. His thingy will go limp keh

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

Check out this site. I hope it helps
http://www.covenanteyes.com/2011/11/16/7-questions-wives-of-porn-addicts-often-ask-part-3-of-3/

Practical steps to win your husband back...

One day when he is not around,
Watch what he watches, not to indulge, but learn their "language"...

Initiate a sex chat with him, maybe while he is in the office or something.....
And tell him that you can't wait to "feel his **** that ure so Hot right now and etc, your description should fit that of what he watches and imagines....

Its disgusting for you to talk lyk them pornstars BUT this is practical here is not to start running around to one "man of God"....

Back to topic....

He will be caught of guard the first time you try it....but do it again and again....the sex chat will work on his mind and your channel will begin to show again in his "mind t.v".

Then you can move it a notch up to a sex call.....

This will take a week.....
Ure still working on his mind....

Then...the final stage....

Read carefully....

Every dude that is addicted to porn has a particular lady, style or type he likes....
If its a lady there is a particular way she talks and behaves.....and you will have to go this mile....

Get to the market, buy something close to her outfit, hair style n all....

Surprise him, by putting it on, and starting to touch him while he is watching the crap.....if he responds....you guys should have a go at it, while the porn is playing; this will keep his mind active and interested....

After three days of doing this,
On the fourth day, while ure hard at it, turn d laptop away or close it and when he tries to react, grab him harder and speak the pornsters language...."oh yea f*ck me with your big black **** oh yea daddy pound that pu**y" etc....just get nasty outa your comfort zone....


I expect to see your testimony soon PLUS, pray there is no other person he conducts practicals with....

Verdict: You NEED a new wave in your bedroom....your current bedroom self contrasts highly with what turns his dark side on in the closet.....find whatever it is...and be it....

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

God I bless you for this simple and short answer

Ori e a kan oke

go out and find a second, third, or fourth wife with high libido energies to quench his thirst

BarrElChapo:
This is really sad.. Your husband needs to be checked into a rehab.. Wanking while u have a wife on the same bed is totally absurd..

For those saying its normal y'all need to have ur brains checked.. For all we know speaking from a guy angle, those that do it, do it cos of the lack or scarcity of the opposite sex, so if a man has the kitchen. the bedroom and the other room and yet still engages in stuffs like this then there's a big problem.

I hope the Sex life of the Op isn't suffering..

Maybe he see the wife as a mere furniture...

Zedoo:
Practical steps to win your husband back...

One day when he is not around,
Watch what he watches, not to indulge, but learn their "language"...

Initiate a sex chat with him, maybe while he is in the office or something.....
And tell him that you can't wait to "feel his **** that ure so Hot right now and etc, your description should fit that of what he watches and imagines....

Its disgusting for you to talk lyk them pornstars BUT this is practical here is not to start running around to one "man of God"....

Back to topic....

He will be caught of guard the first time you try it....but do it again and again....the sex chat will work on his mind and your channel will begin to show again in his "mind t.v".

Then you can move it a notch up to a sex call.....

This will take a week.....
Ure still working on his mind....

Then...the final stage....

Read carefully....

Every dude that is addicted to porn has a particular lady, style or type he likes....
If its a lady there is a particular way she talks and behaves.....and you will have to go this mile....

Get to the market, buy something close to her outfit, hair style n all....

Surprise him, by putting it on, and starting to touch him while he is watching the crap.....if he responds....you guys should have a go at it, while the porn is playing; this will keep his mind active and interested....

After three days of doing this,
On the fourth day, while ure hard at it, turn d laptop away or close it and when he tries to react, grab him harder and speak the pornsters language...."oh yea f*ck me with your big black **** oh yea daddy pound that pu**y" etc....just get nasty outa your comfort zone....


I expect to see your testimony soon PLUS, pray there is no other person he conducts practicals with....

Verdict: You NEED a new wave in your bedroom....your current bedroom self contrasts highly with what turns his dark side on in the closet.....find whatever it is...and be it....

Bros if this lady does all these things you wrote up here...the husband will be scared.

He knows the wife is judgemental and old-woman-kinda-young-lady.. So she trying to appear seductive could even be perplexing for the man, he might run away...

Imagine a core Lords chosen babe's sounding funky... Me go run oooo

His masturbation is better than cheating
And it should give your pucci some free time

ehix89:
if only the lady will adhere to this, here lies the solution she needs....Masturbation is of the devil, i'm a livimg testimony

Hahaha. Lets's hear your testimony.

[quote author=kokosari2 post=50459647]Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting. [/
quote] even on your "matrimonial bed" now you are struggling matrimonial bed with his fingers, women.

Too much of boobs displayed on nairaland.

kokosari2:

Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop.

please start, yours if it makes you feel good.

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

Chai! Madam rheether. I hail o. Just don't killl somebody.

Bibors:
You never needed help, you have always had the same fantasies and probably do the act though in secret. Now you have seen the advice that a woman can do better and you jump on it.
There is always a monster/ demon created in you when you start doing wrong things deliberately. Your hubby may be fighting the demon and you who may not have it want to create the monster of what you called disgusting. Go ahead and enjoy the monster.
My advice. Pray for him and talk respectfully to him about it while giving him quality sex that he will always long for.

Are you having a stroke?

PierreSizzl:


Like real SMH

to b candid its not easy to stop this act thus we have professionals on psychology that could tackle such !!!!! Let him get an HMO for more enquires contact 07030498217

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

Correct! WA sere!

Dyt:

Now this is funny


Na
I don't think he would stop
In fact he will enjoy you both watching and doing it together

Hahahahaha
That scene is gonna be one hell of a watch
Dayummmm

Hmm...just don't keep the VC waiting.

Haute:


Hmm...just don't keep the VC waiting.

It will take you a few weeks to read up all my posts
When you done
You can then drink water and fall asleep

Oniranu

Talk to him.find out what his sexual preferences are and what ticks him off. The problem might b because he has developed a mental time table for it as such either u sleep with him or not he still wants to do it.
So ma advice is when u guys talk u can simply tell him that anytime he feels d urge he should let u know. N when such a time arrives spend time together. Get a little intimate ( doesn't mean u must have sex) just hang out together during those periods. U can hold hands n watch a movie or even go for a work. Mind u this little distraction of u n him together would take his mind off it n kill d urge altogether.. It might b a little tricky at first but it works..

gsalvatore:
Bros if this lady does all these things you wrote up here...the husband will be scared.

He knows the wife is judgemental and old-woman-kinda-young-lady.. So she trying to appear seductive could even be perplexing for the man, he might run away...

Imagine a core Lords chosen babe's sounding funky... Me go run oooo

Bros, you see one thing about sex is, people call it all manner of things from "overrated" to "over-emphasized" but bros, what her husband is experiencing now will only be put to a stop if she sheds whatever inhibitions she has about sex....nobody in the wider world is seeing what goes on between the couple behind closed doors...
If she like make she be the lord personal Annointed.....this is marriage and she signed up....
As for the man, he definitely will be surprised and thrown off the first tym she tries it... That is why the FIRST step is a SEX chat....NOT. Face to face....for a few days for his mind to gradually adjust it...then a sex call....to assure him he is not dreaming....then finally the main act....

I'm talking practicals....under normal circumstance she will pay alot of money to one "psychologist" who will place them on one long ass program....

She suppose credit my account....

Because if she read my post trust me, if she does it the way I said...it will take HIGHEST THREE weeks....for normalcy to return.....im very serious...

Dyt:



It will take you a few weeks to read up all my posts
When you done
You can then drink water and fall asleep

Oniranu

Open camera app, press record, "have fun", upload to youtube, post video link on Nairaland. Simple.

O boy!

See people reading this


People like sex matters o

Vorpal:


This comment is hilarious, a scenario just came to my head *the hubby trying to initiate sex with her, she begins her nagging, he then turns to his laptop flips it open and begins to self-service with so much glee staring at the laptop, completely forgetting his wife beside him*

Lmao.

Girl was jumping on me on top innocent questions I asked her instead of cleaning her down below, jump on hubby's dyke and banng the evil spirits outta him.

kokosari2:

Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop.

Lol, you must be joking, start your own ke, that means you've been into the act before now.

The big question is how well do you perform your intimate obligation to him? How well do you do it? Don't tell me he goes to self-service right after you give him a mind blowing cowgirl ride

How about you get him to communicate, discuss his sexual fantasies and find a way to match it with yours, up your game in the other room.

If you handle him thoroughly where him go see strength take masturbate?

Also if you have lost it....then try to get into this shape....

Get to the gym!!
Those hoes in thoSE VIDEOS can't possibly be better than you!,
Your own husband again!??
They want to win you in this "other" room??
Noooo!!!!

Leggo there!!

ifyalways:

Lmao.

Girl was jumping on me on top innocent questions I asked her instead of cleaning her down below, jump on hubby's dyke and banng the evil spirits outta him.

Judging by the comments i see on this thread, the first point of order by men is, an unhindered unfettered access to pussie with a good amount of kinky-ness. It's like it's as important as the air they breath, perhaps almost.