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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by WHOcarex: 4:31pm On Oct 24, 2016
He's possessed. Dazzol
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by adewumiopeyemi(m): 5:01pm On Oct 24, 2016
HE NEED DELIVERANCE.. THAT THE SOLUTION

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by bettercreature(m): 5:03pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.
The only solution is to make sure he is always occupied and dont give him a breathing space,he has been doing it before he got married to you so i dont think its something serious

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by snowsnow: 5:05pm On Oct 24, 2016
why dont you stop complaining and learn how to certify[color=#990000][/color] undecided undecided your man on bed

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 5:05pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

Maybe you're not sexually active

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by mengho(m): 5:06pm On Oct 24, 2016
lol, I have a pen, i have an apple, i got my Apple pen, pineapple pen......sorry am trying to delete dis song from my brain

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 5:06pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:


Ogade abeg shift go one side. The so called advice that 'a woman can do better' was only kidding. I don't need anyone to advice me to self service or not. What I need especially from guys that used to do such and have stopped is ideas to make him stop cos it irritates me.

the thin wey you dey look for Sokoto also dey for your shokoto !!


some women fails to understand that some men are gifted with high libido and will indulge in masturbation as an alternative and the only cure is when he engages with a partner who will be readily available for sexual intimacy


but if he mistakenly choose a partner who would ignorantly ignore his sexual needs. .hehehehe..he won't hesitate to revise to his old habit


if you are satisfying your husband in the other room you won't be here complaining

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Charliiee(m): 5:07pm On Oct 24, 2016
Women can't win. Hubby a waanker its the wife's fault. Wife's a waanker, she's a ho'

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Lexusgs430: 5:07pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

He needs therapy and counseling. He has probably been masturbating and watching porn all his adult life.
He needs to have the urge to stop it or else, nothing would work.........

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by sleeknick: 5:07pm On Oct 24, 2016
That's nice of him. Very faithful husband.
Some people will masturbate, watch Porn and cheat

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by scachy(m): 5:08pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.
get a s3x toy n magazines, keep it where he ll see it always and pretend to be using it. I said "pretend" not use. His senses ll come back by force. Wetin person no go hear bikonu.
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by nmreports: 5:08pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

Only one solution.
GIVE IT TO HIM ALL THE TIME.

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Emecson(m): 5:08pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.
shocked
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by iukpe: 5:09pm On Oct 24, 2016
He is your husband so you need not cry out for help unless he pushes you away when you try to interfere constructively during......
However he seems to have some wild fantasies that you could explore and make him see that you can fill the gap better. It seems he doesn't care if you feel disgusted at the end.

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Bibors(m): 5:09pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:


Ogade abeg shift go one side. The so called advice that 'a woman can do better' was only kidding. I don't need anyone to advice me to self service or not. What I need especially from guys that used to do such and have stopped is ideas to make him stop cos it irritates me.
no vex oo, we no dey quarrel. Please do your own and make sure he sees you so he can see how disgusting it is and then he will stop.
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by highwaist: 5:10pm On Oct 24, 2016
You can't stop him, unless he see it as problem, if he doesn't see it as problem, it will difficult to stop. Let him realise medical implications of masturbation. And spiritual effect of it.ask have to make a promise before God that he won't do it again
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 5:11pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

if it were to be an unmarried man, I know the advice to give, but a married person? I'm confused, I don't understand! if you dont mind me asking, do you deny him sex?

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Philinho(m): 5:11pm On Oct 24, 2016
maybe your husband is even among those commenting here....he need deliverance

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Afritop(m): 5:11pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.
TAKE HIM TO MFM. YOU CAN REPORT HIM TO YOUR PASTOR
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Cutesexy1(f): 5:11pm On Oct 24, 2016
I believe it a psychological thing,just discuss things over with him,i sincerely believe everything will be fine.On a more serious note,you should not have brought your family issue to a public domain,you should sit up with your hubby and resolve this issue,every marriage has it own challenges,yours is not the first neither will it be the last.

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Charly68: 5:12pm On Oct 24, 2016
Let your husband go for deliverance first,later do your best to satisfy his sexual appetite . It is demonic for a married man to be masturbating ..he has opened himself up to demons of lust & hedonism hence he needs urgent help before they destroy him. Very soon he will start visiting strip clubs & brothels for prostitutes service . Move in fast to help him. The same demon can pollute the wife if not checked on time
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by tiger28: 5:13pm On Oct 24, 2016
iPrevail:
Maybe it's time you hit the gym and lose some of that fat. Hey, I heard Slimtea works too. undecided
see kids!!!!you can be married to Miss Universe and still be addicted to porn . Only God can help you.

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by zelus4love: 5:13pm On Oct 24, 2016
Give him Mouth Action all the time before normal sex and he will change.

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by fpeter(f): 5:13pm On Oct 24, 2016
Don't bother your head, most men are into it. My husband was high on it, i begged him, i threatened and all but nothing worked.
I resulted to prayers, I don't know if he's still doing it but he swears to have stopped. As long as it is not affecting your intimacy
free the guy abeg and worry less...

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by DrSexMata(m): 5:14pm On Oct 24, 2016
rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

you are fvcking pretty hun!
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by lordmayor4(m): 5:14pm On Oct 24, 2016
kokosari2:
It is always the woman that is the problem for her husband's misbehaviour. If it was the other way round, the woman will be tagged promiscuous or nymphomaniac.

I guess the problem lies with both of you as it shows there's no communication betwixt you.

He should be open to you and you in return should try to listen to him and help him quit by trying to understand why he does it and what causes him to do that even on your matrimonial bed.

Also I think understanding if he started it recently or has always been addicted to it before being yoked to you, will also help you in helping him stop
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by ceejay80s(m): 5:15pm On Oct 24, 2016
op, i need to see ur current photo before i can tell u where the problem is from
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by NoMoreTrolling: 5:15pm On Oct 24, 2016
I'd advice the wifey to be more open minded and try to keep fit.

At least do your part and then if that doesn't help, then you can take additional action.

Why, for instance, would I watch a bj scene if my wife already gives good head

Ask him what his fantasies are and try to be open minded enough to accommodate them, even if it's just once in 3 months, or on his birthday.

Does he wanna tie u up
Spank ur bummm
"Hit it" from behind
Cuuum in ur mouth
...
...
...


_________________________

On the flip side though, some guys actually do prefer masturbation(from porn) to sex, as they have mastered the prefered ways they like to be touched.

In that case, tell him to show you where and how he likes to be touched.

___________________________

On the z flip axis, you'd find guys that will still watch porn and masturbate no matter what you do.

In this case, I'd recommend you both attend therapy, if his will power is non existent to let go entirely of his former life.

The good news is that, nothing is impossible and with the loving support of a caring wife, giving up porn should be somewhere between low and moderately difficult.

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by holluphemydavid(m): 5:16pm On Oct 24, 2016
rheether:
Fvck him all the time.
I agree with u, Bravo

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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by francisduru: 5:16pm On Oct 24, 2016
That solves it all
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Rhymez(m): 5:17pm On Oct 24, 2016
He will request for Ana'l sex soon

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