Irishrena1:

I'm telling you. Till date I'm the only one that knows his pattern and can spot the difference between his just lying there and when he's at it. I see it in the twitching of his toes. But others don't understand. He needs a hard surface to lye on to do it

fpeter:
Don't bother your head, most men are into it. My husband was high on it, i begged him, i threatened and all but nothing worked.
I resulted to prayers, I don't know if he's still doing it but he swears to have stopped. As long as it is not affecting your intimacy
free the guy abeg and worry less...

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

evy1:
He is on another level
Try and help it out na.

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

Irishrena1:

What have you been smoking?

Dyt:
They say what a man can do
A woman can do it better ke

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

kokosari2:
It is always the woman that is the problem for her husband's misbehaviour. If it was the other way round, the woman will be tagged promiscuous or nymphomaniac.

kokosari2:
It is always the woman that is the problem for her husband's misbehaviour. If it was the other way round, the woman will be tagged promiscuous or nymphomaniac.

moneyMouthed:




No! No!! No!!! My dear friend, you don't want to start what you'll find very difficult to end. Masturbation is sequel to spiritual imprisonment.


Trust me, your husband, deep down doesn't want to continue in it but the seducing spirit always get the better of him hence he doesn't even know why he does it.



How frequent he does it tells of the level of addiction he has achieved in the act and how much he secretly longs to stole it.


It is neither your fault nor his. It is a spiritual warfare and it sure has to be fought spiritually. Masturbation is one very powerful act the devil uses to withhold the blessing of God's Children from.

Once given a chance, it can really do a lot of damages to one's life and destiny.


Pls don't insult or abuse him about it as the devil can really creep into ur marriage through that singular act and you know what the devil comes for, right? "To still, to kill, and to destroy." I pray he fails in his assignment against marriage.


Now my advice to him through you; u both must take your time to pray and fast against that spirit. Encourage him to get himself engaged in God's word by studying it whenever he has that urge hovering over his head like a cloud of rain.


He should always get himself occupied with strictly gospel music, abstain from worldly/circular music with weird or sensual lyrics, never watch any X-rated movie and above all, always try to submit yourself to him whenever he needs it.


Pls don't hesitate to contact me if you have any question or you're confused about any appropriate step to take per time. Cheers!


To the success of your marriage, am your brother and a fellow nairalander.

kokosari2:

Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop.