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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by BIDOO(m): 12:44pm On Nov 18, 2016
CecyAdrian:
This case is sensitive and very deep!

The so called husband is just playing smart by half, what led him to attack a woman he separated from for over two years undecided or he expects her to remain faithful to him while he pursues anything in skirt despite not together anymore.

This lawyer seems to know his onions well and if he pursues that point about Zenith bank breaching its social responsibility to active persecution, harassment and obstruction of justice, [s]then that abusive husband is fried for life because even Zenith bank will strive to clear it's name from this messy case.[/s]
the man in picture has been fired already by zenith
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Akinaukwa: 12:44pm On Nov 18, 2016
Whatever may be, even if the woman was caught committing adultery he has no right to assault or inflicting injuries on her. Whenever you are done with your marriage please walk out quietly rather than spending years in remorse and regret.

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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Oyimeoyimemua(f): 12:44pm On Nov 18, 2016
when i read John's side of the story yestarday i had this Feeling That some things he said were cooked up, on the wife's side too i picked out some lies. I hv been following this case,more will be revealed i can bet, its unfoutunate this is a sad ending to their marriage.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Willie2015: 12:45pm On Nov 18, 2016
Very silly husband and wife that can keep their acts together. Just imagine what the world will be if every married couple fights dirty like this on social media. Both of them should relax and sheathe their swords for the sake of their children.

Let both family come together and tell Oga lawyer to relax to let peace reign. Divorce is a simple option when there are irreconcilable differences.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Jewelbaby01(f): 12:45pm On Nov 18, 2016
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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by TalkingBird: 12:51pm On Nov 18, 2016
Nonsense.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by NairaMaster1(m): 12:54pm On Nov 18, 2016
Human Rights What? And he thinks the man has no Rights, oooh! Sorry, Women right Lawyer
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by youngsahito(m): 1:00pm On Nov 18, 2016
who do we believe?... confused case
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by hatchy(f): 1:01pm On Nov 18, 2016
This picture is pure Photoshop. Check the pillow where two adults lay their heads,its no pressed.

Please Lawyers make una leave this man and him wife alone. You have succeeded in sacking him from his job there by making some others who are depending on him to go hungry. They can settle this issue without much fuse if they humble themselves and not inviting third party to it.
Honestly there is no perfect marriage.

My father use to say in one of his parables that all roof are slanted.
No flat roof at all. All marriages has its ups and down.It takes understanding and forgiveness to make it work.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by abbey621(m): 1:02pm On Nov 18, 2016
This is nonsense! If this is the best defense Ivie's lawyers can up with against John then they are incompetent. All it takes is a medical test to know if the lady actually aborted a pregnancy within the past year, this will buttress John's point that his wife and him were intimate within the past 2 years. Let's now examine the other evidence, the school receipt, the chat logs, the financial statements. It is clear here that the only missing testimony is that of the man Ivie slept with, a proper investigator would get that testimony and this would make the case much more clearer.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Nobody: 1:03pm On Nov 18, 2016
This lawyer is not smart at all.

If we must keep our eyes on the ball as he suggested, we could all deduce the following having heard from both sides:

1. Ivy's marital problems started with her adventure into extra-marital affairs; And serial cheating.

2. Ivy had problem staying on jobs; the reason being greed.

3. Ivy had been trapped by another man.

4. Edobor no longer trust Ivy after the debut of her extra-marital affairs.

5. Edobor had side-chick

6. Except divine intervention, their marriage is dead and buried.

7. This lawyer is not helping matter. He'sall out to blindly defend the cheating Ivy. Meanwhile, Ivy needs someone to tell her the truth, the truth only. And nothing but the truth.

This is my opinion, after reading the accusation and counter accusation.

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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Forwetinnah: 1:09pm On Nov 18, 2016
herzernn:
Looks like a Photoshop to me...

It isn't. ..see his shadow casting on the woman's face

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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by OBAGADAFFI: 1:19pm On Nov 18, 2016
Pennywise:
Emeka Ugwuonye may be a lawyer but in this write up, he plays the role of an amateur fictionist.

I don't know him from Adam but it is regrettable he had to resort to desperate measures to clean up a discredited, morally fetid and repugnant client (he is clearly playing the role of her lawyer, whether he has her brief or not).

He has blackmailed Zenith bank into unjustly sacking an employee who may yet be innocent at the end of the day. Whose only crime apparently now is marrying the wrong woman.

Emeka Ugwuonye with the DPA in tow is free to upgrade the charges to murder if it suits them. But they still have to prove their case in court.

The evidence in public domain reveals that Ivie and John still carried on as man and wife even while living apart. Ivie while still married to John carried on with an amorous affair while confessing she had changed.

Thankfully no life was lost in the face of this extreme provocation of a helpless man. It would seem his motive for being present at the scene is to tell Ivie that I have caught u again in spite of your numerous assurances u have changed.

The violence that ensued in the presence of the equally morally depraved lover becomes a footnote.

If John was actually responsible for her injury and wanted her dead, he would aim for her head and not her leg. The incident there for could not have been more than a mere accident caused by a perpetually adulterous wife and a thief.

The public will expect any reasonable Judge to understand this.

John has simply suffered enough. He is the true victim here.
Ivie is every prospective man's nightmare. She wrecks everything she touch. From airtel, to starcomm to STANBIC IBTC. They all check out. Her business? Double check. Her marriages? check. Matthews marriage? Check.

Ivie makes a very bad case for use as a domestic abuse victim.

There are many truly innocent ones suffering silently.

Attn: Lalasticlala,mynd44, OAM4J.

I am even shocked that a Lawyer wrote that article.

The other(John) presented evidence(receipt e.t.c) to backup his claims.

But this Lawyer is acting only hearsay.

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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Charly68: 1:23pm On Nov 18, 2016
amuijiji:
Sincerely marriage aint worth it any longer.....
Stop that ! The fact that somebody made a mistake in his marriage is not a criteria to say marriage ain't worth it any longer. Anybody can make a mistake but only fools repeat mistakes

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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by iamademola(m): 1:27pm On Nov 18, 2016
we don't even understand again,who is deceiving who mbok
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by asitis752: 1:32pm On Nov 18, 2016
maxti:
This Lawyer sounds more like a trouble maker to me.
Sounds more like he has a lot to gain by making sure the man is prosecuted.
#myopinion

#saynotoGBV
you got it right. I was even angry when I was reading the nonsense that he wrote up there. It seems he is still looking for name in the profession

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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by amuijiji: 1:36pm On Nov 18, 2016
fkdmods:


People die everyday in car crashes. Will you say it is not worth it buying a car? Everything in life is a risk.

so in essence, marriage is a risk
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by asitis752: 1:40pm On Nov 18, 2016
Pennywise:
Emeka Ugwuonye may be a lawyer but in this write up, he plays the role of an amateur fictionist.

I don't know him from Adam but it is regrettable he had to resort to desperate measures to clean up a discredited, morally fetid and repugnant client (he is clearly playing the role of her lawyer, whether he has her brief or not).

He has blackmailed Zenith bank into unjustly sacking an employee who may yet be innocent at the end of the day. Whose only crime apparently now is marrying the wrong woman.

Emeka Ugwuonye with the DPA in tow is free to upgrade the charges to murder if it suits them. But they still have to prove their case in court.

The evidence in public domain reveals that Ivie and John still carried on as man and wife even while living apart. Ivie while still married to John carried on with an amorous affair while confessing she had changed.

Thankfully no life was lost in the face of this extreme provocation of a helpless man. It would seem his motive for being present at the scene is to tell Ivie that I have caught u again in spite of your numerous assurances u have changed.

The violence that ensued in the presence of the equally morally depraved lover becomes a footnote.

If John was actually responsible for her injury and wanted her dead, he would aim for her head and not her leg. The incident there for could not have been more than a mere accident caused by a perpetually adulterous wife and a thief.

The public will expect any reasonable Judge to understand this.

John has simply suffered enough. He is the true victim here.
Ivie is every prospective man's nightmare. She wrecks everything she touch. From airtel, to starcomm to STANBIC IBTC. They all check out. Her business? Double check. Her marriages? check. Matthews marriage? Check.

Ivie makes a very bad case for use as a domestic abuse victim.

There are many truly innocent ones suffering silently.

Attn: Lalasticlala,mynd44, OAM4J.
I'm addicted to making friends with intelligent people but unfortunately, intelligent people are very scarce on nairaland. Can I know you?

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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Norabay(f): 2:10pm On Nov 18, 2016
sexism
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Collinsc252: 2:10pm On Nov 18, 2016
The Bible says that whatever you sow is what you are to reap. My attention was drawn to the family matter of John and Ivie and I felt so bad on the role Ivie 's lawyer is playing. The lawyer is playing a destructive role on the matter. I want the lawyer to look at the African environment, our social system, alternative to conflict resolution and future of the children. Making money alone or unnecessarily seeking a very cheap social media attention/popularity is not making him a good lawyer, but finding a way to bring the already battered relationship under control and resolve the problem with[quote author=asitis752 post=51143524]I'm addicted to making friends with intelligent people but unfortunately, intelligent people are very scarce on nairaland. Can I know you?out involving social media and litigation. A word is a enough for the wise.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Collinsc252: 2:15pm On Nov 18, 2016
Pennywise:
Emeka Ugwuonye may be a lawyer but in this write up, he plays the role of an amateur fictionist.

I don't know him from Adam but it is regrettable he had to resort to desperate measures to clean up a discredited, morally fetid and repugnant client (he is clearly playing the role of her lawyer, whether he has her brief or not).

He has blackmailed Zenith bank into unjustly sacking an employee who may yet be innocent at the end of the day. Whose only crime apparently now is marrying the wrong woman.

Emeka Ugwuonye with the DPA in tow is free to upgrade the charges to murder if it suits them. But they still have to prove their case in court.

The evidence in public domain reveals that Ivie and John still carried on as man and wife even while living apart. Ivie while still married to John carried on with an amorous affair while confessing she had changed.

Thankfully no life was lost in the face of this extreme provocation of a helpless man. It would seem his motive for being present at the scene is to tell Ivie that I have caught u again in spite of your numerous assurances u have changed.

The violence that ensued in the presence of the equally morally depraved lover becomes a footnote.

If John was actually responsible for her injury and wanted her dead, he would aim for her head and not her leg. The incident there for could not have been more than a mere accident caused by a perpetually adulterous wife and a thief.

The public will expect any reasonable Judge to understand this.

John has simply suffered enough. He is the true victim here.
Ivie is every prospective man's nightmare. She wrecks everything she touch. From airtel, to starcomm to STANBIC IBTC. They all check out. Her business? Double check. Her marriages? check. Matthews marriage? Check.

Ivie makes a very bad case for use as a domestic abuse victim.

There are many truly innocent ones suffering silently.

Attn: Lalasticlala,mynd44, OAM4J.


115. Collinsc252: Quote Post
The Bible says that whatever you sow is what you are to reap. My attention was drawn to the family matter of John and Ivie and I felt so bad on the role Ivie 's lawyer is playing. The lawyer is playing a destructive role on the matter. I want the lawyer to look at the African environment, our social system, alternative to conflict resolution and future of the children. Making money alone or unnecessarily seeking a very cheap social media attention/popularity is not making him a good lawyer, but finding a way to bring the already battered relationship under control and resolve the problem with[quote author=asitis752 post=51143524]I'm addicted to making friends with intelligent people but unfortunately, intelligent people are very scarce on nairaland. Can I know you?out involving social media and litigation. A word is a enough for the wise.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by ashala(m): 2:16pm On Nov 18, 2016
ReneeNuttall:

Both parties involved are guilty of all the aforementioned accusations..... Both parties cheated ,ivies own is much talked abt because she's a woman.....I pity none of them but the children.




On point
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Collinsc252: 2:18pm On Nov 18, 2016
chie8:
See earlier threads : https://www.nairaland.com/3470797/john-edobor-man-accused-breaking


This was shared by human rights lawyer Emeka Ugwuonye.Below is what he wrote......

'UPDATE ON THE CASE OF IVIE EDOBOR: THE NEED TO KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE BALL

As the Americans would say: "Always keep your eyes on the ball". The best way for the opponent to defeat you in any conflict is to force you to take your eyes away from the ball. That is is practically the move that Mr. John Edobor has made against Ivie Edobor, once he realized the gathering dangers around him.

When DPA first got involved in this case, I realized that the case possessed every element that is needed for mud slings - sex, scandal, betrayal, power, litigation, violence, pain and suffering. I pitied Ivie because she was clearly at a disadvantage. First, she is dealing in an environment where it is so easy to blame the woman. Second, she faced physical incapacitation with the attendant economic hardship that would prevent her from fighting a good fight. Her enemy took her out in the first round of the fight.

John remained a manager in Zenith Bank throughout the period. For five months, he used his presence and continued employment in Zenith to prepare to battle his estranged wife. It was only a matter of time before John would brandish his weapons of mud and sleaze. He only waited this long because he thought he was in control of the dynamics of this conflict. But he was wrong. The tide turned last week after DPA entered into the picture. (By the way, I use this opportunity to assuage some DPA members who felt that the role of DPA in this case has not been adequately acknowledged. We need not ask for any acknowledgment. Our work speaks for itself). But make no mistake: DPA pushed for the upgrading of the charge from assault to attempted murder. That was the sole reason I went to court last week. (I didn't go to court just to show solidarity) Also, DPA has clarified the narrative and focused attention on the unfortunate and highly questionable position of Zenith Bank.

Keeping our eyes on the ball requires us to stay focused on the issues that matter, regardless of attempt to alter the narrative through manipulated and selective evidence peddled on the personal walls of the accused man. One thing is this: John is defending a case that could send him to jail for the rest of his life. The incentive is too high that he would do anything to escape. Lying is the least thing he would worry about. Once John lost his job and now faces homicide-related criminal charges, you must prepare to expect the worst he is capable of.

Since last week, Ivie has feared many dangers from John. John who had been threatening her since the past 5 months, suddenly began to plead for reconciliation. Ivie was so worried that John was getting to the verge of mental crack up and his stability was much in doubt. She feared for her safety and safety of her children. John was clearly becoming suicidal. I advised her on how to stay calm and on how to be cautions. I must say that if all that John ended up doing was to lie against Ivie with doctored chats logs, then we are relieved that he did much less than we had feared.

Keeping our eyes on the ball demands that we remember the following:

(1) Ivie and John were separated since the past two years without any intention to continue the marriage.

(2) Prior to the separation, John committed domestic violence on Ivie multiple times.

(3) During the time of separation, John has been with multiple women in sexual relationships, as shown by the picture attached in which John and a woman (not Ivie) were in bed.

(4) On that faithful night in June, John came to Ivie's house at night and attacked Ivie with weapons and clearly with intent to kill her.

The above facts are indisputable.

Now let's us consider the fabled evidence that John has conjured up in his defense. John says:

1) That he and his wife agreed to separate in order to evade creditors. (You know that is a lie. John is a banker. He knows that such is not a way to evade creditors when your children remain in the same school for a whole year after separation. Indeed, the reason the children remained in Ajah school, while Ivie was shuttling them from Badagry (where her father lived) to Ajah each day for school was because Ivie did not have money to register them in another school near her father's house).

2) John claims that Ivie got pregnant and aborted it. (Again, you know that is likely a blackmail. John who could not feed three children he already had would not spend nights and days crying that his estranged wife aborted pregnancy with twins. Besides, if that was the case and John felt so bad about that, why would he go to fight Ivie in her house? He should have been eager to divorce her).

3) John claimed that Ivie had relationship with another man during the time they were separated. He uses manipulated social media chat logs to buttress such contrivance. (But, really, even if were true, which I have refused to enter into, it is most unreasonable to expect that after 2 years of separation, your spouse would remain sexually loyal to you, especially when you had started living with another woman).

Now, go over all the excuses and reasons that John has given. The only reason missing is the reason why he attacked Ivie Edobor so viciously? John will never find one reason to justify the attack on Ivie. That is the ball that we must keep our eyes on. What is the justification for his action?

You must know that John was arrested at the scene. He alone was arrested. So, nobody else committed a crime that night. Nobody else attacked anybody other than John. Also, note that after arrest, John made statements and other witnesses made statements. At the end of it, the police decided to arraign him for assault. Note also that even after the case had commenced in court, the government felt that assault was not strong enough. They found that John had an intention to kill Ivie. That was why they changed the charge to attempted murder. It all means that nobody who has examined the evidence from a professional standpoint so far could buy the nonsensical stories John is now peddling. And I urge DPA members to disregards such nonsense. We shall keep our eyes on the ball and we are interested only in one thing - John's excuse for attempting to kill Ivie.

NOTE: You will see among what John attached a letter that Ivie purportedly wrote to Zenith apologizing for allegedly dragging Zenith's name to the mud. You are smart. You would wonder what kind of Bank would go to the extent of forcing a victim who was still in the hospital to write such a letter. That letter is actually a smoking gun against Zenith. In fact, with that letter, we can upgrade out accusations of Zenith Bank from breach of its social responsibility to active persecution and harassment and obstruction of justice. They forced Ivie to call the incident a family dispute that should be resolved within the family, even while the state is prosecuting it as a crime against the Nigerian public. The reason they forced her to describe the incident as such was actually to influence John's indictment and make it appear that it was indeed a family matter. That is called obstruction of justice.

This case is just setting. I think that John has grossly miscalculated what is at stake here. The stories he peddles on his Facebook wall do not cut it at all, and DPA members and the general public will keep their eyes on the ball.

Written By Emeka Ugwuonye, Esquire'



Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2016/11/zenith-bank-staff-who-accused-his-wife.html


115. Collinsc252: Quote Post
The Bible says that whatever you sow is what you are to reap. My attention was drawn to the family matter of John and Ivie and I felt so bad on the role Ivie 's lawyer is playing. The lawyer is playing a destructive role on the matter. I want the lawyer to look at the African environment, our social system, alternative to conflict resolution and future of the children. Making money alone or unnecessarily seeking a very cheap social media attention/popularity is not making him a good lawyer, but finding a way to bring the already battered relationship under control and resolve the problem with[quote author=asitis752 post=51143524]I'm addicted to making friends with intelligent people but unfortunately, intelligent people are very scarce on nairaland. Can I know you?out involving social media and litigation. A word is a enough for the wise.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by ozoemenaca: 2:22pm On Nov 18, 2016
It would be necessary the Lawyer prove to the public that the couple are actually divorced but for now there is no prove of such. However, I feel that someone somewhere is there deceiving the public of the true position of the case
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Collinsc252: 2:23pm On Nov 18, 2016
115. Collinsc252: Quote Post
The Bible says that whatever you sow is what you are to reap. My attention was drawn to the family matter of John and Ivie and I felt so bad on the role Ivie 's lawyer is playing. The lawyer is playing a destructive role on the matter. I want the lawyer to look at the African environment, our social system, alternative to conflict resolution and future of the children. Making money alone or unnecessarily seeking a very cheap social media attention/popularity is not making him a good lawyer, but finding a way to bring the already battered relationship under control and resolve the problem with[quote author=asitis752 post=51143524]I'm addicted to making friends with intelligent people but unfortunately, intelligent people are very scarce on nairaland. Can I know you?out involving social media and litigation. A word is a enough for the wise.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Collinsc252: 2:25pm On Nov 18, 2016
115. Collinsc252: Quote Post
The Bible says that whatever you sow is what you are to reap. My attention was drawn to the family matter of John and Ivie and I felt so bad on the role Ivie 's lawyer is playing. The lawyer is playing a destructive role on the matter. I want the lawyer to look at the African environment, our social system, alternative to conflict resolution and future of the children. Making money alone or unnecessarily seeking a very cheap social media attention/popularity is not making him a good lawyer, but finding a way to bring the already battered relationship under control and resolve the problem without involving social media and litigation. A word is a enough for the wise.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by fkdmods: 2:31pm On Nov 18, 2016
amuijiji:


so in essence, marriage is a risk

Yup. One worth taking.
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by bemyguest(f): 2:52pm On Nov 18, 2016
John,! John! John! How many times did I call you. The thunder and brimstone that will destroy you has finished press up. It's on its way to finish you.

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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Nobody: 2:57pm On Nov 18, 2016
CecyAdrian:
This case is sensitive and very deep!

The so called husband is just playing smart by half, what led him to attack a woman he separated from for over two years undecided or he expects her to remain faithful to him while he pursues anything in skirt despite not together anymore.

This lawyer seems to know his onions well and if he pursues that point about Zenith bank breaching its social responsibility to active persecution, harassment and obstruction of justice, then that abusive husband is fried for life because even Zenith bank will strive to clear it's name from this messy case.
...its name...
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Nobody: 3:03pm On Nov 18, 2016
bemyguest:
John,! John! John! How many times did I call you. The thunder and brimstone that will destroy you has finished press up. It's on its way to finish you.
For where?
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by zynzyn(m): 3:45pm On Nov 18, 2016
Da plot thickens!

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