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Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Chukazu: 2:57pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread: but Solomon's case was old testament. you won't find anything of such in the new testament I mean, there were things that our forefathers did that we dare not repeat now |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 3:11pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
There should be no intimacy |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 3:17pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
There is nothing like Christian relationship, the rules in a good relationship are the same . In any relationship you must spent time to become acquainted with your intended, that mean all forms of contact including body contact You can't know a person through the eyes of your pastor or church member. Christian dating is based on unrealistic and unpractical rules and expectation. You are told to pray and fast, avoid all forms of contact with the person you want to marry. You are brainwashed to expect that there will be no quarrels and challenges in the marriage, when such problems occur you are discouraged from reporting or talking about it all in a bid to keep a good image. Issues of sex , are not discussed. Hmm So many Christians are living in hellish marriages , constrained to talk or resolve them because such actions could embarrass their church, GOs, departments and family. One thing they need to know is that there is no perfect marriage, you have to work on your marriage in sincerity and honesty. 2 Likes |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by kristian98(m): 3:23pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread:you type this regular sentence in every form of religious discussion especially those pertaining to christianity. What is your own sef? If you have decided to be an atheist then pls be quite about it and stop making it public abi na by force? This exact same lines of yours, you have posted over a thousand times. Get a life!!! |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by horlumiday(m): 3:45pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread:You hate religion(Christianity) because it goes against your sinful nature...wake up sis.. 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by WorldRichest: 3:54pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
BluntMadmoiselle: But, Flavour, Sandra Okagbue and Anna Banner are all christians and they have two kids. Are you saying their relation is placed on lucifer's foundation? |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Telemon(m): 4:09pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread: OlajumokeBread: OlajumokeBread:wont be a bad ideal if u kill urself |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by adajoe555: 4:12pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
intimacy doest really involve sex ..you can be intimate with her but not too intimate that it will lead you to do the do ..show affection,both of you should not be alone .......that is my view intimacy doest really involve sex ..you can be intimate with her but not too intimate that it will lead you to do the do ..show affection,both of you should not be alone .......that is my view |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Hedal(f): 4:31pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Sunnycliff:this got me tho |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by fof1: 5:40pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread: PLS U ARE SICK IN D HEAD AND I KNOW U HAD BEEN SICK FROM TIME UNENDING WITH LUSTFUL PLEASURES. 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by joespiceman(m): 6:17pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread:when has sex became an enjoyment 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by ryanemeka: 6:36pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
As for me hugging, cuddling,going out on a date is OK but no sex till marriage |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by fredie107(m): 6:40pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
BluntMadmoiselle: You might not get the answer you want here, but all I can say is that all you listed above can lead to fornication which God prohibits. Avoid hugging in a secret place or else, you no say the brother between the legs no go school and the sister between the SHE legs likes the brother. Pls don't fall a victim, the regret is unforgettable |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Analee(f): 7:04pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
SmartyPants:gbam!u js nailed it |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by piagetskinner(m): 7:05pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
If our conscience hasn't be seared with hot iron...then I think as Christians we know the right thing to do... Seeing that what we do behind the scenes Glorifies God.. God help us |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Analee(f): 7:10pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
[quote author=jmoore post=52356701][/quote]u js made common sense |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by SmartyPants(m): 7:11pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Analee: lol |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by femi4: 7:32pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
BluntMadmoiselle:side hug can't lead to neck kiss. I don't give ladies full hugs. Even the side hug is not everytime. It all only come if we ve not seen each other for many days |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 8:13pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
kaeforum:Excellent. Though i know by the conformity of their minds, Christians on average should be more decent in the way they approach relationship issues. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 8:27pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
lilyqueen:I understand where you are coming from. Your point is understood for it is an excellent one as well but the brevity of your statement leaves so much room for you to be misunderstood. My sincere opinion is that it depends on the parties involved in the relationship. For couples or intending couples there is need for there to be mutual intimacy. By this i mean feeling of closeness, love and affection which has to be restricted in intending couples to avoid going astray. In fact true Christians shouldn't have problems knowing the limits of their closeness before they are properly married. This is very crucial and very important both in the eyes of God and men and it cuts across all tribes and clans, cultures and climes, creeds and religion However, Intending couples are not expected to defile themselves before they are married. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 8:56pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Ibitade1993:On point. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by olagunjumariah: 8:59pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Afam4eva: Recipe for misery! 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 9:03pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Firstly, a lot of the views on this thread come from a bigoted view of what Intimacy really means. Secondly people view the word "relationship' in rather parochial ways. Relationship, even in this context, doesn't only stand for the unmarried. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 9:07pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Naughtytboy:That is why you are a naughty boy. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 9:12pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Ibitade1993:God bless you. You are wise, I say you are wise and may wisdom never depart from you. you just made my day |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 9:16pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Beatzmaker:Most are still growing being fed on spiritual milk. With time will come maturity when they shall eat meat&fish. Then will they understand. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 9:17pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Ibitade1993:On point. That is why i can't stop talking about you. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 9:26pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Ibitade1993:Yet on point again. thumbs up!. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 9:44pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Ayexy:You are wise and may you be blessed with more wisdom IJN. 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 9:49pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
dejidrizzle01:You've made some fine points bro. Nice one. I know what makes sense when i see one. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by supereagle(m): 9:56pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
BluntMadmoiselle: "Bible says abstain from appearance of evil" that is enough to guide you. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Montaque(m): 10:42pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
I can see from all the comments that there is confusion. Because we want to create a rule where none exist and obliterate rules where they hitherto exist. The rule of nature is still portent, nevertheless one must sustain a relationship and marry. The whole thread here is just about finding the way around this. |
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