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Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Jimi23(m): 11:40pm On Jan 06, 2017
Kiki bleep
Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Mimzyy(f): 11:44pm On Jan 06, 2017
The dude is probably a fraud who wants to swindle her. From what you posted, he doesn't seem genuine. She should just move on already. She should take her time and not allow unnecessary pressure make her settle down with the wrong man. It is well.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by FILEBE(m): 11:52pm On Jan 06, 2017
As you have asked for my opinion(a nairalander). I will say your sister should forget him. Usually, I don't like faceless relationship. It is like flirting. since she knows little about this guy and his attitude isn't one she is okay with...then she should leave the guy.
makes me remember the days of extra cool. We will always look forward to calling our crushes at night...we never forget. The guy looks like an unserious fellow.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by eyinjuege: 12:07am On Jan 07, 2017
He's married

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Mskrisx(f): 12:20am On Jan 07, 2017
Married with kids. smiley

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Bayhaqqi: 12:20am On Jan 07, 2017
i need more help understanding d situation than u do...
Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by JudgementHammer: 12:57am On Jan 07, 2017
In her thirties and still falling for such a cheap approach. She obviously wasn't heartbroken, been choosy or pride kept her due late.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Nobody: 5:33am On Jan 07, 2017
.A similar scenario played out on my side many years ago

I travelled home for Xmas celebration got introduced to few ladies by my sister and cousins for the purpose of knowing one another and possibly pick interest in relationship but for me l was careful not to make a serious commitment owning to the fact that as a young, single and successful guy who just arrived to his village ladies would all seek for your attention

I left home without any formal commitment to any of the ladies, to my greatest suprise a particular one amongst them storm Lagos in less than three weeks in search of me and only started calling my number that she was in Lagos that I should come and pick her up..woW

thank God she did not knew my address in Lagos


So @Op this is my question; ; did your sister travel to London to see the guy on his invitation?

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Nobody: 6:01am On Jan 07, 2017
That dude is obviously a yahoo boy looking for a rich lady to scam, from what you posted, that is their format. Pls you folks should stop putting pressure on her, at the right time, she will marry.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by George22016(m): 6:40am On Jan 07, 2017
Na scammer him be.

Well a lot of girls will hit 40 before they marry with their attitude
Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Nobody: 6:48am On Jan 07, 2017
Mskrisx:
Married with kids. smiley

..At this stage you can't be sure if he is married or something..

the question we should ask did she travel to London on his invitation, those who lives abroad will tell you how embarrassing it can get to go to person uninvited


uninvited

uninvited

Nigeria factors will not allow you to reason it but it is a serious issue abroad
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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Dexema(m): 7:11am On Jan 07, 2017
He's either married or a fraud both of which are dangerous for your dear sister, there are still mature and good men out there quite willing to settle down.

Can you give me your sisters age range maybe just maybe I might know a "clean and responsible " someone,lol.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Jimi23(m): 7:46am On Jan 07, 2017
JudgementHammer:
In her thirties and still falling for such a cheap approach. She obviously wasn't heartbroken, been choosy or pride kept her due late.
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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Jimi23(m): 7:49am On Jan 07, 2017
T

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Jimi23(m): 7:53am On Jan 07, 2017
kiss
Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jan 07, 2017
Jimi23:


No my sister had plans to travel even b4 she met him. She is British so she visits the UK quite often.

..if she once lived abroad the exposure and being your self with out succumbing to external forces on the views of people dictating on how you should live your life which is very common in nija

she should've lived above being pressured into how she chooses to live her life

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by jashar(f): 3:52pm On Jan 07, 2017
The dude ain't pure...

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by inemani: 4:17pm On Jan 07, 2017
Married man and Swindler combined!

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Swissheart(f): 4:24pm On Jan 07, 2017
He is married and at the same time a thief,fraudster and a liar. You really need to speak with your folks o,what is the pressure about self? Running from bicycle to hit lorry

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jan 07, 2017
Its easy.

If she has his real name then she can do a search for his marriage records in the registry.

He may also be an illegal immigrant if he knows your sister is British. The relationship may really just be about filing for papers hence the question about funds since to file you need funds.

Your sister should not look at herself as some lost cause and because of that cling onto the first semblance of interest. Do not because of hunger take urine and thing its Fanta.

Her worth is not by her age. Her age is not a curse its a blessing to grow old.

And you her brother should be part of those defending her from pressure . Besides its her in the marriage not all these jobless relatives who if they were so happy in their own lives would not have time to talk about her.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by JudgementHammer: 12:41am On Jan 08, 2017
Jimi23:


Don't judge what u know nothing about. You will have a daughter one day. May she be judged in equal proprtion.
My own daughters no go reach 30 before they will be joyfully and happily married. if na curse back to sender.
Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Jimi23(m): 12:53am On Jan 08, 2017
JudgementHammer:

My own daughters no go reach 30 before they will be joyfully and happily married. if na curse back to sender.

JudgementHammer:

My own daughters no go reach 30 before they will be joyfully and happily married. if na curse back to sender.


JudgementHammer:

My own daughters no go reach 30 before they will be joyfully and happily married. if na curse back to sender.

"She obviously wasn't heartbroken, been choosy or pride kept her due late."

May these exact same judgemental EVIL words be used on your daughters too by the time they hit their thirties.

Do unto others... As u take style judge that innocent woman na so dem go take style judge ur own daughters too. Since na u sabi act as judge for matter wey u no sabi anything about. Ur judgement upon her, I send them to your daughters too. Next time u go dey reason b4 yarning bull.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Nobody: 1:30am On Jan 08, 2017
Beautifully, beautifully written...


salsera:
Its easy.

If she has his real name then she can do a search for his marriage records in the registry.

He may also be an illegal immigrant if he knows your sister is British. The relationship may really just be about filing for papers hence the question about funds since to file you need funds.

Your sister should not look at herself as some lost cause and because of that cling onto the first semblance of interest. Do not because of hunger take urine and thing its Fanta.

Her worth is not by her age. Her age is not a curse its a blessing to grow old.

And you her brother should be part of those defending her from pressure . Besides its her in the marriage not all these jobless relatives who if they were so happy in their own lives would not have time to talk about her.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by bellong: 6:01am On Jan 08, 2017
@OP,

It is an age long format. I hope your sister has not started sending money to him?

She should forget the guy completely. He is looking for both free meat and money.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Nobody: 8:24am On Jan 08, 2017
Send me a PM and drop his name.

Wewould help you unravel the man. It's not that hard to have public access to citizens information in the UK.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by JudgementHammer: 3:09pm On Jan 08, 2017
Jimi23:







"She obviously wasn't heartbroken, been choosy or pride kept her due late."

May these exact same judgemental EVIL words be used on your daughters too by the time they hit their thirties.

Do unto others... As u take style judge that innocent woman na so dem go take style judge ur own daughters too. Since na u sabi act as judge for matter wey u no sabi anything about. Ur judgement upon her, I send them to your daughters too. Next time u go dey reason b4 yarning bull.
Lol. you mumu o. so you waste your time and spend all your energy type wetin no exist. online curse na curse? account weh go later deactivate at d end. you just too stuupiid to have a detailed argument with.

well in a simple sentence, 7fold of all you said dey follow your generation to the tenth for back.

unrealistic baboon

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Jimi23(m): 6:49pm On Jan 08, 2017
JudgementHammer:

Lol. you mumu o. so you waste your time and spend all your energy type wetin no exist. online curse na curse? account weh go later deactivate at d end. you just too stuupiid to have a detailed argument with.

well in a simple sentence, 7fold of all you said dey follow your generation to the tenth for back.

unrealistic baboon

That curse na 4 u and ur generations to the one millionth generation. If you have no sensible contribution to make just shut up and accept ur fate on the irreversible curse upon your miserable life. I dash you and ur ugly daughters,their daughters, their daughter's daughters the curse, evil judgements and mockery. Infact,ur generations till infinity and beyond. That curse will stick to your lineage. Frustrated dumb head.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by JudgementHammer: 8:32pm On Jan 08, 2017
Jimi23:


That curse na 4 u and ur generations to the one millionth generation. If you have no sensible contribution to make just shut up and accept ur fate on the irreversible curse upon your miserable life. I dash you and ur ugly daughters,their daughters, daughter's daughters the curse, evil judgements and mockery. Infact,ur generations till infinity and beyond. That curse will stick to your lineage. Frustrated dumb head.
Aha. Lol. see me see wahala o. na me say make u or ur sisters dem no marry? sorry o. God go answer ur prayer for where e dey pain you o. i know say when they marry ur mind go come down.

imagine cursing empty curses upon say you know see man call you.

Again in a simple sentence, all those curses are rendered lifeless as long as you direct them to me and wont come to pass but now as i direct them to you, whatever sorrow is making you freak out and transferring online aggression necessarily will increase more and more

Lol. dramatic lunatic
Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Jimi23(m): 8:36pm On Jan 08, 2017
JudgementHammer:

Aha. Lol. see me see wahala o. na me say make u or ur sisters dem no marry? sorry o. God go answer ur prayer for where e dey pain you o. i know say when they marry ur mind go come down.

imagine cursing empty curses upon say you know see man call you. Lol. dramatic lunatic


Blind bat. Man go dey marry man for una lineage. Every beautiful daughter of my family but one is married. As you take delight in mockery and unfair judgement on other people's daughters so shall it be upon your daughters as well. Shikena. Empty curses indeed. You will find out in due course.

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Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by JudgementHammer: 8:40pm On Jan 08, 2017
Jimi23:


Every beautiful daughter of my family but one is married. As you take delight in mockery and unfair judgement on other people's daughters so shall it be upon your daughters as well. Shikena.
you just proved you deserve the height of mockery

if you knew how to handle mockery, you would know silence is the answer to mockers but as e dey pain you make I dey ginger d pain more and more.

Lol educated foool
Re: Heeelllpppppp! Advice Urgently Needed. by Jimi23(m): 8:45pm On Jan 08, 2017
JudgementHammer:

you just proved you deserve the height of mockery

if you knew how to handle mockery, you would know silence is the answer to mockers but as e dey pain you make I dey ginger d pain more and more.

Lol educated unwise being

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