In marriage it is said that many distractions will come that can tarnish the future of any union, it is left to the couple to allow this distractions or not.

This days, many posts flood the internet as regards "how to do this", "how to know this", steps to do this" steps to know that" etc in a relationship which is advisable that married men and women should avoid in order to avert issues in the home.

Not that the posts are always not right but because they can do more harm than good as trust is expected to be the foundation of any great relationship.

Here are sample title of some of these posts:

1. Steps to know that your spouse is cheating.
2. How to be sure he/she is your child
3. How to know if your spouse is lying.
4. How to know if your spouse trust you.

Learn to discard any topic(s) related to those above or anyone you notice can cause issues in your home at first sight.

This is because even if you are not having any doubt about your spouse some of this topics can convince and confuse you and at the end you blame yourself meanwhile the writer is in his/her abode enjoying the little amount generated from you reading his/her post in addition with the input of others.

Learn to trust your spouse unless he/she gives you indisputable evidence not to trust them, don't let writers who depends on you being fooled to feast on you because even without them writing it the truth will definitely come out one day.

This is also applicable to those in serious relationship, don't give room for distractions, pray and use your brain when necessary.

I don't see the essence of wrong suspicion or accusation led by what you have read when it can lead to destruction of the home you toiled so hard to build and at the end you blame yourself, don't forget the stain caused may not easily go off and that is if it will completely in case the accusations and suspicions are completely wrong.

Source: http://bamisepeters..nl/2017/03/these-posts-and-more-on-internet-are.html

That's the result you get when you take Internet/social platforms so serious. It's only a fool will allow such conjecture from a hungry blogger ruin his/her marriage or relationship.

Good

I concur..especially the ladies,they mostly believe telemundo

How Bally will be getting close to Efe, in other to deceive him to save him from eviction this week

eightsin:
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ha ba mana
Just because u want chop ftc na wa o

Google and the internet has become a solution ground where most people turn to for answers.

Some of the articles on the internet is just someone's perception about a particular situation, if you apply same to your own situation it might not work out.

In every relationship trust and faithfulness should be the bedrock. There are some questions the internet cannot proffer answers to.

Mtchewww!!

They are back again with their Relationship advice and wahala!!

FTC... yaaay!!

Mmmmmj

Who's it for? Singles?

Lemme buy space..... For resale.....

If it isn't for couples then who are those posts for?

But actually such threads cause some type of friction amongst their readers and partners.

The golden rule is, don't take such posts seriously especially when the sources don't have much credibility.

HMMMM

Wetin concern conductor and overload!

wetin concern me and marriage now??


tscheew

SPACE 4 SALE!!!!

Then who?

Especially on Nairaland..
The most annoying thing is that most of those people posting those articles are still battling with GP of 1.75 in their various institutions.
Someone who doesn't have a girlfriend would be giving 10 ways to know if your wife is cheating on you.. Like seriously
am not referring to Tosyne2much o

Then write articles on "How To Be A Mugu" for us to read.

jamex93:



ha ba mana

Just because u want chop ftc na wa o

You beat me to it. Lol

Them nor go still hear, after this.

hmmm

Thinklifenetwork.com

It's funny sef....One doesn't need any of these how to posts to really know something. If one's spouse is up to something shady, the signs will be there.

Who are the posts meant for then? Singles?

ANTONINEUTRON:
HMMMM
Wetin concern conductor and overload!
wetin concern me and marriage now??

tscheew
SPACE 4 SALE!!!!

no vex abeg I wan chop your wedding rice.lol

True talk OP.

And funny, most relationship have crumbled because of those Poo

#Don't base your relationship on social media.

Okay

Marriage is not for everyone though. Definitely not for me.