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Single But Not Stupid by Nobody: 8:50am On Mar 26, 2017
A wonderful post


Pressure....



When your father writes you a letter telling you its okay to get pregnant for your boyfriend, so that he can marry you


. # Pressure
When your mother says it is ordinary sex and wonders why you wouldn't just give the guy a piece of yourself to earn a ring



. #Pressure
When your best friend is getting married to your Ex, because she gave him what you couldn't give him.









. . #Pressure
When your friends tell you that all good men are taken and marriage becomes so scary and yet more homes are breaking and your parents turn every meeting into a "what's going on?" program.



#Pressure
When a holy brother in church who is very visible and known, and yet has a way of telling you that he should have married you instead of his wife.




#Pressure
When you are not getting younger and..... the one who should say something is deaf and dumb.... and the ones who should be under their parents care are sending you Whatsapp message.






# Pressures
And I know that someone would have to value their soul much more than love, sex, and relationship. It seems to me that the battle for relationship and love may send more souls to hell and untimely death, than the victims of World War 1 and 2 combined....



Today, I bow my heart and I pray
"O God! When my heart is overwhelmed, please lead me to the Rock that is higher than I, in Jesus name...

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Re: Single But Not Stupid by Nobody: 8:53am On Mar 26, 2017
I love this !
Pressure hmmm


All in the name of marriage ! E no easy sad

#pressure
When you cant take a friend to visit say hi to mum without her pulling the ... "so You want to marry her, what are your plans for my daughter"

Lol no mum we just stopping by to say hi embarassed

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Re: Single But Not Stupid by yhermmie(f): 9:05am On Mar 26, 2017
very true
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Fernandowski(m): 11:40am On Mar 26, 2017
yhermmie:
very true
lol..... when you guys will keep on waiting for the guy that is dark, about 6'5 tall, earns 500k monthly and 3 cars of his own, why won't marriage be hard??

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Re: Single But Not Stupid by Bluezy13(m): 12:28pm On Mar 26, 2017
I have nothing to say
Re: Single But Not Stupid by yhermmie(f): 3:11pm On Mar 26, 2017
Fernandowski:
lol..... when you guys will keep on waiting for the guy that is dark, about 6'5 tall, earns 500k monthly and 3 cars of his own, why won't marriage be hard??
That doesn't apply to all ladies
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Fernandowski(m): 3:15pm On Mar 26, 2017
yhermmie:
That doesn't apply to all ladies
but basically most of em

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Re: Single But Not Stupid by Jodha(f): 4:56pm On Mar 26, 2017
Fernandowski:
lol..... when you guys will keep on waiting for the guy that is dark, about 6'5 tall, earns 500k monthly and 3 cars of his own, why won't marriage be hard??

Re: Single But Not Stupid by Nobody: 4:59pm On Mar 26, 2017
Fernandowski:
but basically most of em



Not most girls ...some are just making mouth.. But the guy must have a good job, that's number one pointer.. Then the rest gradually follows.
Re: Single But Not Stupid by DaisyII: 5:01pm On Mar 26, 2017
#21st century pressure: Where every lady becomes a psychologist; they'd be uploading videos on youtube,writing books & giving counsel on blogs on 'how to get & keep a man'.Yet their methods keep failing.
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Nobody: 5:12pm On Mar 26, 2017
Fernandowski:
lol..... when you guys will keep on waiting for the guy that is dark, about 6'5 tall, earns 500k monthly and 3 cars of his own, why won't marriage be hard??
too cold, too cold bro..Console them, seems thats what they need.
Re: Single But Not Stupid by jashar(f): 5:56pm On Mar 26, 2017
hmmm.....
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Rukkydelta(f): 6:08pm On Mar 26, 2017
I don't give a damn about relationships

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Re: Single But Not Stupid by Fuqman(m): 6:15pm On Mar 26, 2017
Rukkydelta:
I don't give a damn about relationships
Sometimes it gets lonely.

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Re: Single But Not Stupid by Fernandowski(m): 7:18pm On Mar 26, 2017
[quote author=Jodha post=54968995][/quote]lolzzzz..... You are really funny my dear

But on the real, girls are demanding too much before they accept your proposal...... Most of em ain't even gat a waec certificate


Meanwhile, happy Sunday babe
And a Happy Mother's Day to ya mum.... I salute her for giving birth to a princess like you

Re: Single But Not Stupid by Fernandowski(m): 7:21pm On Mar 26, 2017
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alexialin:




Not most girls ...some are just making mouth.. But the guy must have a good job, that's number one pointer.. Then the rest gradually follows.
you are one of the few reasonable young ladies I have met in my life


Nice one
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Nobody: 7:30pm On Mar 26, 2017
Fernandowski:
[img][/img]you are one of the few reasonable young ladies I have met in my life


Nice one



awww smiley that's a great compliment.
Am always realistic to myself and place myself in the other person's shoes. If I were a man how will I feel with high demands from ladies expectations.

But thank you smiley
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Fernandowski(m): 8:10pm On Mar 26, 2017
alexialin:




awww smiley that's a great compliment.
Am always realistic to myself and place myself in the other person's shoes. If I were a man how will I feel with high demands from ladies expectations.

But thank you smiley
its nothing dear

happy Sunday
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Jodha(f): 8:22pm On Mar 26, 2017
Fernandowski:
lolzzzz..... You are really funny my dear

But on the real, girls are demanding too much before they accept your proposal...... Most of em ain't even gat a waec certificate


Meanwhile, happy Sunday babe
And a Happy Mother's Day to ya mum.... I salute her for giving birth to a princess like you

Hahahahaha... grin grin. Nairaland pepper dem gang/slay mamas would soon come for yhu.. But don't worry.. I've got yhur back grin

Aww thanks a bunch.. embarassed.. Happy mother's day to the blessed womb that begot a charm like yhurself cheesy

Hope yhu bought her a gift.. cheesy
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Imoy(m): 8:28pm On Mar 26, 2017
alexialin:




Not most girls ...some are just making mouth.. But the guy must have a good job, that's number one pointer.. Then the rest gradually follows.

must have a good job?

That is one of the reason why people like u will remain single, wen u want a ready made man.

so if he does not have a "good job" you cant marry him abi?

u neva see pressure.
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Rukkydelta(f): 8:31pm On Mar 26, 2017
Fuqman:
Sometimes it gets lonely.
I'm used to loneliness
Love to be lonely
Re: Single But Not Stupid by babatunx(m): 8:40pm On Mar 26, 2017
Bumbae1:
I love this !
Pressure hmmm


All in the name of marriage ! E no easy sad

#pressure
When you cant take a friend to visit say hi to mum without her pulling the ... "so You want to marry her, what are your plans for my daughter"

Lol no mum we just stopping by to say hi embarassed
lol...but seriously, parents could be ryt a times when they put such kind of pressure on dia children....

Tym waits for no man...u know!

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Re: Single But Not Stupid by YoungBlackRico(m): 8:43pm On Mar 26, 2017
Bumbae1:
I love this !
Pressure hmmm


All in the name of marriage ! E no easy sad

#pressure
When you cant take a friend to visit say hi to mum without her pulling the ... "so You want to marry her, what are your plans for my daughter"

Lol no mum we just stopping by to say hi embarassed
So when are we going to go say hi to mum? tongue I've got answers to that kwestion...

©YBR
Re: Single But Not Stupid by YoungBlackRico(m): 8:45pm On Mar 26, 2017
Rukkydelta:
I don't give a damn about relationships
Wow... why?

©YBR
Re: Single But Not Stupid by babatunx(m): 8:45pm On Mar 26, 2017
Rukkydelta:

I'm used to loneliness
Love to be lonely
Too much of everything is bad, they say...

As much as bin alone affords u d luxury of reflecting on ur lyf holistically, it could also be highjacked by depression.....
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Nobody: 8:49pm On Mar 26, 2017
Imoy:


must have a good job?

That is one of the reason why people like u will remain single, wen u want a ready made man.

so if he does not have a "good job" you cant marry him abi?

u neva see pressure.


A good job in my context does not mean a million dollar job.

And strangely enough am engaged and my fiance is not that rich but He's averagely comfortable and perfectly OK with my needs and ideas. And to wrap it up? He has a heart of gold.
U may not like my ideas or where am coming from? U don't have to. Theres an adage that says another man's meat is another man's poison.

And inbetween I don't allow family pressure me at all.
My family knows they can't pressure me, it's a fact.. I don't work well with pressure. And I don't give in on pressure too, especially where marriage is concerned.
So such pressures they know is a waste of time on me
Lemme be ready when am ready and everything will go smoothly.

Hope we are communicating?

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Re: Single But Not Stupid by Rukkydelta(f): 9:09pm On Mar 26, 2017
babatunx:

Too much of everything is bad, they say...

As much as bin alone affords u d luxury of reflecting on ur lyf holistically, it could also be highjacked by depression.....
I am more than depression
Besides I have my family by my side
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Fuqman(m): 9:14pm On Mar 26, 2017
Rukkydelta:

I'm used to loneliness
Love to be lonely
My biggest worry is that you don't become too comfortable with the idea of being lonely for the rest of your life.
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Rukkydelta(f): 9:14pm On Mar 26, 2017
YoungBlackRico:
Wow... why?

©YBR
It's not just my thing
Re: Single But Not Stupid by YoungBlackRico(m): 9:24pm On Mar 26, 2017
Rukkydelta:

It's not just my thing
Are you saying you've never been in a relationship before?

©YBR
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Rukkydelta(f): 9:25pm On Mar 26, 2017
Fuqman:
My biggest worry is that you don't become too comfortable with the idea of being lonely for the rest of your life.
Ok
Thank you
Re: Single But Not Stupid by Rukkydelta(f): 9:26pm On Mar 26, 2017
YoungBlackRico:
Are you saying you've never been in a relationship before?

©YBR
Yeah

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