Tuksgrad:






You can't tell us apart yes but we are prettier than South Africans

Lol shut up you girls from Botswana always look starstruck in mzansi and I understand shame

Lionessza:







Lol shut up you girls from Botswana always look starstruck in mzansi and I understand shame

Hahahaha please stop talking kaak all we want is for you all to be married off the west guys so we can move in , I will start with that Pepsi Pokane while eyeing Thapelo Mokena loll you can leave with AKA the dude is slizzy

Tuksgrad:






Hahahaha please stop talking kaak all we want is for you all to be married off the west guys so we can move in , I will start with that Pepsi Pokane while eyeing Thapelo Mokena loll you can leave with AKA the dude is slizzy

Hahahaha you are out of your mind wena , and why pick one of my favorites especially Pepsi don't you dare . I heard A.K.A is moving to Botswana soon and please keep him there and I heard he likes Tswana women so you might be lucky

Lionessza:






Ja true some people from Zim will shock you but it's mostly the Ndebele ones who ran from mzansi in the first place. Oh Nadia is a Zimbo? I only knew of Berita.

ya is mostly those who left Zim when Mugabe started unleashing his wrath on 'em lol.Nadia is a Zimbo though I don't think she knows what Zimbabwe looks like,even her accent is nothing like that of a tyical Zimbo.who is Berita?

Lionessza:







Hahahaha you are out of your mind wena , and why pick one of my favorites especially Pepsi don't you dare . I heard A.K.A is moving to Botswana soon and please keep him there and I heard he likes Tswana women so you might be lucky

Lol I also like that guy he looks hot and calm and i used to watch his business show and all I saw was my dream husband . What No no no no we will deport his ass here , send us Casper Nyovest atleast

Lionessza:







Hahahaha you are out of your mind wena , and why pick one of my favorites especially Pepsi don't you dare . I heard A.K.A is moving to Botswana soon and please keep him there and I heard he likes Tswana women so you might be lucky

lol what's wrong with AKA? He once threatened his fans that he will relocate to Nigeria because he feels more appreciated there than in his own country but no one cared.now he is moving to Botswana and he thinks that should somehow make headlines...I like dude's music but oh boy is he deluded.

my brother love isnt real ... if u believe in ur mind u love her then u love her ... so to solve the problem, just imagine u love her ... am i making sense?

Jayceon:
ya is mostly those who left Zim when Mugabe started unleashing his wrath on 'em lol.Nadia is a Zimbo though I don't think she knows what Zimbabwe looks like,even her accent is nothing like that of a tyical Zimbo.who is Berita?

Lol. Ja ne, all this time I thought she was a motswana. She is a Xhosa singer who grew up in EC but was born in Zim.

Jayceon:
lol what's wrong with AKA? He once threatened his fans that he will relocate to Nigeria because he feels more appreciated there than in his own country but no one cared.now he is moving to Botswana and he thinks that should somehow make headlines...I like dude's music but oh boy is he deluded.

Lol he is truly deluded I saw that threat too , I wonder what stopped him . I like his music too just wish he could be locked somewhere and released only when he's going to record

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return. But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because iv realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don kno wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful, how should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in ths situation.

guy pls dnt start...dis ur attitude are costing us the upcoming good girls ....what da heck

Lionessza:
Long distance relationships are hard especially when you are young and in your case it's worse you live in two different corners of the continent and only see each other two times a year ? Wow. Why did you rush to Marriage when your affairs aren't in order yet, if they were and you were truly ready you would be living together now right?. I hope you didn't marry her because she has a "good character " in the community because that alone can't make a relationship survive. What has really made you fall out of love with her , did your goals or hers change ? You can't just fall out of love , or maybe you realized you never truly loved her it was infatuation or you admired that she was such a good person .

u are always awesome... Not surprised.

Tuksgrad:







Lol I also like that guy he looks hot and calm and i used to watch his business show and all I saw was my dream husband . What No no no no we will deport his ass here , send us Casper Nyovest atleast

Lol yeah Pepsi is like wine . Yeah the dude seems to have it all , looks , brains,manners and that classic smile . Hahahaha no ways not casper.

SorftWerk:
u are always awesome... Not surprised.

thanks hun

Lionessza:






Lol he is truly deluded I saw that threat too , I wonder what stopped him . I like his music too just wish he could be locked somewhere and released only when he's going to record

he should have his mouth shut with wires lol

Jayceon:
he should have his mouth shut with wires lol

Jayceon:
he should have his mouth shut with wires lol

jamalchance:
my brother love isnt real ... if u believe in ur mind u love her then u love her ... so to solve the problem, just imagine u love her ... am i making sense?

Wow bro. This should be one of the best comments I have read on Nairaland in a long while. Love is not some thing that just happens. If you condition your mind to love someone there is a high chance that you will fall in love. Same with hate.
I think the OP is affected by distance and the adultery he is doing in SA.

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

Goes to show that someone else is distracting you which you're not telling us

You need serious prayers

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

LET ME UNDERSTAND, U HAVE A GOOD WOMAN AS A WIFE, N U SAY UR NOT IN LOVE WITH HER?. R U ON DRUGS?.

you were never in love with her. Love doesn't die; lust and infatuation does.

Anyways, its all in your hands.

The bible never said marry who you love but encourage us to love our wife

ZarZar:


She has moderate butt. Wait, I'll check if I have any photos of her showing her butt

you're most stupid ever. mumu.

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

Half story

I won't judge you,cause same thing is happening to me in my relationship.

since we had a fight for one month,after we came back together the love is not much like before,and I'm not cheating on him.
I feel so sad about it
but I'm trying so hard to love him like before
I can't stand telling him that i don't feel for him that much again,cause he still loves me more..

shehuaz:

you're most stupid ever. mumu.

Geez, thanks

You are feeling this way because of the distance. Why not make her join you down there? You may regret letting her go in future.

You have to pray and work hard to love her; pray against the enemies (unseen) of marriage that is after you. Go to your pastor for counselling.

Jst passing by

fejeerow:
See what I was telling a friend the other day... people don't value virgins and decent girls anymore... they want the badgirl that will give then bj, doggie style and their ass.... isn't obvious this man is seeing someonelse that is turning his head... you don't believe in divorce then what do u want us to advice you on? Do u want to murder her so you can escape her? U better bring back the love and make your wife the bad girl u want her to be but foe u alone.. don't go and make decisions that u ll regret.

Actually its a two way thing. Good people generally are taken for granted especially by people who you hold in high esteem. The surprising thing I'm yet to fathom is why bad boys are irresistible to good girls and vice versa.

There was this smart girl I had a massive crush on years back, extremely pretty and intelligent yet the guy she was dating was opposite of her, ugly and dull but he had the bad boy vibes. She had an accident while coming back from his place after they quarrelled badly, I was with her throughout her stay in the hospital meanwhile her boyfriend didn't even show up. her family even thought I was dating her, considering the way I was running errands like her slave. She even told me she'd consider dating me when she gets well, I was happy inside my mind. you won't believe few weeks after she became alright she and this dude hooked up again, I just gave up on her.

such lady a has been my prayer list to marry, help me sort out bcoz my age mum will not stop thanking u

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

Tell her what you told us.