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She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Peachmind: 3:35pm On Jun 23, 2017
Hi guys, I'm not new on NL.. I'm part of the family just under a different name. I'm trying to me very' anonymous.
No long story I promise

My relationship is almost 2 years old and it has been wonderful. I deflowered my babe and have shared a lot of wisdom with her that has helped her become a better person. She's young and very successful in her field as I am in mine; 2 cars and a few projects all to the glory of God.

NOW THE PROBLEM: She's so serious about marriage and I am not. I'm one of those guys out there that wants to get married when successful and not struggling with finances plus I'm not even sure if she's the one for me. She has temper Wahala that affects every thing spiritually and physically. Small vex like this, I can go broke for months without seeing 1 naira. I'm told to just do whatever to please her and make her feel happpy but I'm not the kind that pretend and fake it, that's not love.

Well, the Wahala now is, I've been going through a lot recently no money, every business deal crashes for whatever reason, family and self responsibilities are piling up and Things are not going well at all and now I'm thinking of selling properties. I went to do 'spiritual check up' at a church and I was told that she's the one that's upset with me because I've not made any move on marriage. Haha.. My girl friend is mad and crashing everything we worked and prayed for because I've not made and/or shown signs that I'll marry her ?

Lots of good and bad thoughts are going through my mind and for 6 years of having a nairaland account I've never thought about posting my problems but this one is really getting to me. Please i Need somebody's advice.

Thanks and God bless.
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jun 23, 2017
After having premarital sex u ar going to do spiritual check up in church angry

My nigga visit the nearest shrine abeg
D god u serve is waiting for u there


#Eco99#

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Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Afonjashapmouth: 3:42pm On Jun 23, 2017
Bruh i would never tell you to ignore the spirituality of this issue, however have you heard about check and balance? This case is a dicey one, since you know yourself quite well, do not venture into a marriage where your life will be on a dangling scale. I wouldn't advise you to leave her because this is what some people ventured into that got them ruined for life, not even when she has built her entire life around you. Seek your God very well to know the truth about this marriage and stand by it. The spiritual is half way while the physical balance it. One more thing, it depends on what you are doing to make her angry especially if its with other gals. Some girls dont even know they are the cause, its just an inbuilt defense system for them against people with ill intentions. My opinion.

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Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Davidgrey: 3:43pm On Jun 23, 2017
Church undecided

Ignorance of man, Your pastor told you that your girlfriend's resentment is the cause of your problems.... Does that even make any sense?

That's a load of poo....."You are the cause of your problems"

If you don't intend to marry her "End" the relationship.

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Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Peachmind: 3:46pm On Jun 23, 2017
ecoeco:

After having premarital sex u ar going to do spiritual check up in church angry

My nigga visit the nearest shrine abeg
D god u serve is waiting for u there


#Eco99#


It's okay to criticize me, insult me and make yourself feel like a saint. Thanks for your advice.
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Homeboiy: 3:46pm On Jun 23, 2017
She lost a potential husband at her early age vos she was playing slay mama


Now she don become a member of different Christian churches
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jun 23, 2017
Peachmind:


It's okay to criticize me, insult me and make yourself feel like a saint. Thanks for your advice.


Oh bro am touched ooh sorry
am really sorry ooh








Nah am not touch
am not sorry either
FYI.... If you break the edge the serpent will bite


So jst as u enjoyed breaking the 'edge'
endeavor to enjoy the bite grin


TRUTH IS BITTER DEAL WITH IT



#Eco99#

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Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Afonjashapmouth: 4:09pm On Jun 23, 2017
Davidgrey:
Church undecided

Ignorance of man, Your pastor told you that you girlfriend's resentment is the cause of your problems.... Does that even make any sense?

That's a load of poo....."You are the cause of your problems"

If you don't intend to marry her "End" the relationship.



sometimes its ok to be silent over what you dont understand. If you are naive of how this world works just seat and read comments. If you dont believe that cheating on some set of woman can cause you alot of poo, why believe money ritual actually works The way the physicals works is quite different from the spiritual plus deeper than what you can comprehend.

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Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by CROWNWEALTH019(m): 4:11pm On Jun 23, 2017
Lemme call optional1 to come deal with this one ..
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Oyindidi(f): 4:16pm On Jun 23, 2017
Homeboiy:
She lost a potential husband at her early age vos she was playing slay mama



Now she don become a member of different Christian churches
what her you saying?
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Oyindidi(f): 4:18pm On Jun 23, 2017
Break up with her immediately, that girl is possess with evil spirit
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jun 23, 2017
Peachmind:
Hi guys, I'm not new on NL.. I'm part of the family just under a different name. I'm trying to me very' anonymous.
No long story I promise

My relationship is almost 2 years old and it has been wonderful. I deflowered my babe and have shared a lot of wisdom with her that has helped her become a better person. She's young and very successful in her field as I am in mine; 2 cars and a few projects all to the glory of God.

NOW THE PROBLEM: She's so serious about marriage and I am not. I'm one of those guys out there that wants to get married when successful and not struggling with finances plus I'm not even sure if she's the one for me. She has temper Wahala that affects every thing spiritually and physically. Small vex like this, I can go broke for months without seeing 1 naira. I'm told to just do whatever to please her and make her feel happpy but I'm not the kind that pretend and fake it, that's not love.

Well, the Wahala now is, I've been going through a lot recently no money, every business deal crashes for whatever reason, family and self responsibilities are piling up and Things are not going well at all and now I'm thinking of selling properties. I went to do 'spiritual check up' at a church and I was told that she's the one that's upset with me because I've not made any move on marriage. Haha.. My girl friend is mad and crashing everything we worked and prayed for because I've not made and/or shown signs that I'll marry her ?

Lots of good and bad thoughts are going through my mind and for 6 years of having a nairaland account I've never thought about posting my problems but this one is really getting to me. Please i Need somebody's advice.

Thanks and God bless.

SPiritual check up
Defloweration
Failing businesses
Temper


I can't advice you... Before your problem follow me...
Am out of here for my safety

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Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Davidgrey: 4:23pm On Jun 23, 2017
Afonjashapmouth:




sometimes its ok to be silent over what you dont understand. If you are naive of how this world works just seat and read comments. If you dont believe that cheating on some set of woman can cause you alot of poo , why believe money ritual actually works The way the physicals works is quite different from the spiritual plus deeper than what you can comprehend.
What now! undecided

You are juggling crap son, That notion that a woman cheating on her husband will bring calamity has never been proven, Self-centered, Patriarchal clowns put that knowledge in the minds of women to dominate them.

Having said that.... Spare me all that "Spiritual Crap" i don't see "Tall Tales" as factual evidences.

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Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by ghettochild(m): 4:25pm On Jun 23, 2017
ogbeni.... if u love her. start making plans. ur babe na confam emere/ogbanje o. u knew dis when d blessing was shinning on u... and she expected marriage in return for more blessings. and u not doing whats necessary. now my question is.... is she aware of d entity dat she is? u would also av to ask d spiritualist d consequence of not marrying her? ask what etutu u wd need to give her to appease her if u r to leave her. my broda aditu la aiye o. dnt let ds religious ignoramus make u overlook real thngs like dat. if u do love her. abeg marry her o. most men dey find woman like dat
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Afonjashapmouth: 4:28pm On Jun 23, 2017
Davidgrey:
What now! undecided

You are juggling crap son, That notion that a woman cheating on her husband will bring calamity has never been proven, Self-centered, Patriarchal clowns put that knowledge in the minds of women to dominate them.

Having said that.... Spare me all that "Spiritual Crap" i don't see "Tall Tales" as factual evidences.


You cannot, same reason you are where you are.
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Nobody: 4:31pm On Jun 23, 2017
Let me understand something here. You deflowered her, and whenever she's angry probably due to some misunderstandings you go broke?. And you believe your going broke is caused by her resentment towards you...op, don't be deceived. That would only happen if she's possessed by a demonic spirit.
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Davidgrey: 4:33pm On Jun 23, 2017
Afonjashapmouth:



You cannot, same reason you are where you are.
loll!!!!

I would have to be at your level to think like you. #One dimensional clown
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by cerowo(f): 4:36pm On Jun 23, 2017
U knew u wldnt marry her, but went ahead and deflowed her.....
U 2 are nw in a sexual covenant nd dat's wat she's using as a point of contact against...
Wld advice u go 4 a proper deliverance and also cut ties with her
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Afonjashapmouth: 4:42pm On Jun 23, 2017
Davidgrey:
loll!!!!

I would have to be at your level to think like you. #One dimensional clown

And funny you cant be cos u r a slave to someone. keep wallowing in your blind world. Good day
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Afonjashapmouth: 4:55pm On Jun 23, 2017
cerowo:
U knew u wldnt marry her, but went ahead and deflowed her.....
U 2 are nw in a sexual covenant nd dat's wat she's using as a point of contact against...
Wld advice u go 4 a proper deliverance and also cut ties with her

Stay outa sentiments abeg, are you married to the man that deflowered you?? he never bargained for this part of the relationship and thats why he needs from an advice from you guys . Stop cyber bullying people, not even you a girl.

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Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by cerowo(f): 5:02pm On Jun 23, 2017
Afonjashapmouth:


Stay outa sentiments abeg, are you married to the man that deflowered you?? he never bargained for this part of the relationship and thats why he needs from an advice from you guys . Stop cyber bullying people, not even you a girl.
And who gave u right 2 mention me nd start talking trash.... Stfu
Everybody is entitld 2 his/her own opinion, so i wld advice u 2 keep yr rubbish opinion 2 yrself...
Maybe u were blind when i gave my own advice old man...smh

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Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jun 23, 2017
Men!
op story is reason why I am always scared to have sex with ladies anyhow
I know some people will think it is just superstition, but some of this things are real sad
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Afonjashapmouth: 5:07pm On Jun 23, 2017
cerowo:

And who gave u right 2 mention me nd start talking trash.... Stfu
Everybody is entitld 2 his/her own opinion, so i wld advice u 2 keep yr rubbish opinion 2 yrself...
Maybe u were blind when i gave my own advice old man...smh



SYDAU too ....... we don't promote detrimental inputs, people like you mumble nonsense not minding who is reading and what they are going through, your opinion on platforms can save lives, likewise kill or encourages a suicide thoughts. and fyi watch what you throw at me.
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jun 23, 2017
Marine spirit things... Op have entered one chance. Goodluck o
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by cerowo(f): 5:16pm On Jun 23, 2017
Afonjashapmouth:




SYDAU too ....... we don't promote detrimental inputs, people like you mumble nonsense not minding who is reading and what they are going through, your opinion on platforms can save lives, likewise kill or encourages a suicide thoughts. and fyi watch what you throw at me.
I can see u are high on some cheap weed...
Who yr advice epp...anouihfa
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Davidgrey: 5:17pm On Jun 23, 2017
Afonjashapmouth:


And funny you cant be cos u r a slave to someone. keep wallowing in your blind world. Good day
I see!

The Summation of your crap filled inference is gotten from? undecided

Just like the "Ignominious crap" ideologue that you defend, Your claims are unbacked poo.......This was fun, I don't get to engage in boorish conversations with thick-headed, unconscionably naive clowns often.

Your next boorish attempt at throwing a "diss" will be duly ignored.
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by optional1(f): 5:29pm On Jun 23, 2017
CROWNWEALTH019:
Lemme call optional1 to come deal with this one ..


she needs spiritual koboko
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Afonjashapmouth: 5:38pm On Jun 23, 2017
Davidgrey:

I see!

The Summation of your crap filled inference is gotten from? undecided

Just like the "Ignominious crap" ideologue that you defend, Your claims are unbacked poo.......This was fun, I don't get to engage in boorish conversations with thick-headed, unconscionably naive clowns often.

Your next boorish attempt at throwing a "diss" will be duly ignored.

pilling up gibberish in the name of English does not in anyway denote you posses even same amount of sense as a yr old baby, you such a disgrace to education. detrimental numb skull
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Afonjashapmouth: 5:40pm On Jun 23, 2017
cerowo:

I can see u are high on some cheap weed...
Who yr advice epp...anouihfa


If you are the same bone neck creature in that picture then i give up on you cos ur signature says it all. you are just a pass around bitch. Nnkita
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by luminouz(m): 5:42pm On Jun 23, 2017
Guy u either marry her or u leave her ALONE!!!!! She has spiritual control over U!!! Get out now before its too late.....ur becoming a slave slowly!!

A girl once mistakenly told me when I just dey chyke say 3 men have become 'oloriburuku' because they didn't do whatever she wanted! She said she has awesome power in her tongue!!! She trird to gloss it over when she realised she downloaded to me.....I put on my poker face throughout n never reacted!
I thought she was tryna scare me but on my way home DAT DAY,a mad man just came running to me,screaming my name n telling me DAT the girl I just left(mentioned her name) will be d death of me if I kiss or fvck her! I have never been so totally gobsmacked in my life! D mad guy left immediately after d message n continued his madness like he never even saw me!!!
I thought I was a G but DAT shook me to d core!
Soon as I got home I deleted everything about her n changed my line( one rubbish glo line I bought during promo)

Some girls are so fvcking diabolic it freaks me out!!!
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by Nobody: 6:07pm On Jun 23, 2017
shocked
luminouz:
Guy u either marry her or u leave her ALONE!!!!! She has spiritual control over U!!! Get out now before its too late.....ur becoming a slave slowly!!

A girl once mistakenly told me when I just dey chyke say 3 men have become 'oloriburuku' because they didn't do whatever she wanted! She said she has awesome power in her tongue!!! She trird to gloss it over when she realised she downloaded to me.....I put on my poker face throughout n never reacted!
I thought she was tryna scare me but on my way home DAT DAY,a mad man just came running to me,screaming my name n telling me DAT the girl I just left(mentioned her name) will be d death of me if I kiss or fvck her! I have never been so totally gobsmacked in my life! D mad guy left immediately after d message n continued his madness like he never even saw me!!!
I thought I was a G but DAT shook me to d core!
Soon as I got home I deleted everything about her n changed my line( one rubbish glo line I bought during promo)

Some girls are so fvcking diabolic it freaks me out!!!
shocked
luminouz:
Guy u either marry her or u leave her ALONE!!!!! She has spiritual control over U!!! Get out now before its too late.....ur becoming a slave slowly!!

A girl once mistakenly told me when I just dey chyke say 3 men have become 'oloriburuku' because they didn't do whatever she wanted! She said she has awesome power in her tongue!!! She trird to gloss it over when she realised she downloaded to me.....I put on my poker face throughout n never reacted!
I thought she was tryna scare me but on my way home DAT DAY,a mad man just came running to me,screaming my name n telling me DAT the girl I just left(mentioned her name) will be d death of me if I kiss or fvck her! I have never been so totally gobsmacked in my life! D mad guy left immediately after d message n continued his madness like he never even saw me!!!
I thought I was a G but DAT shook me to d core!
Soon as I got home I deleted everything about her n changed my line( one rubbish glo line I bought during promo)

Some girls are so fvcking diabolic it freaks me out!!!
Re: She's Spiritually Upset And Destroying Everything 'cos Of Marriage by 7footre(m): 6:28pm On Jun 23, 2017
You are only looking for excuses for your failure annd short comings, knowing Nigerian churches, they will surely tell you what you want to hear....

All of a sudden you are not sure she is d one for you. Abeg free d girl if you are no longer interested in her and stop talking trash

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