A certificate is a piece of paper that can lose its value tomorrow but a skill learnt and perfected over time evolves to something bigger and extraordinary {Isabella}


Immediately I finished University, I had such high hopes, I felt I had landed, I wanted to work for a while before going for NYSC, I concluded in me that no interviewer would see me and not wanna give me a job, imagine after series of interviews the excuses were your salary rate is high, you don’t have an NYSC certificate yet, etc.


One morning my mom barged into my room and asked when I was going to learn a skill, I asked her what she meant skill?, she asked me what can I do with my hands I told her I could write she said go on, I said blog, and I could hold an audience I can still hear her laughter till today, she told me those weren’t skills I should either chose between fashion designing or hair making, I said to her what! After how many years in the university I was going to some shop to go learn how to be a tailor.


I was ashamed, what would people say, I couldn’t imagine myself going to some woman to learn how to sew, or make hair, it was beneath me I felt, I was a graduate and was going to work in a big corporation I said to myself.


I was at home for two years doing nothing, I wanted to work before NYSC but jobs weren’t coming so I decided to go for NYSC. Two months later I was bored, I wanted to do something, I wanted to get involved in a charity project, raise funds for female prisoners etc but I had no funds myself, I was really broke then it dawned on me, I am a woman in my 20’s without a dime in my account I got no skills, my blog and vlog were just something I took as a hobby and haven’t been monetized, I was having a taste of the real world and I wasn’t ready for it.


No knowledge is a waste, nothing learnt can be unlearned, I thought for several days no one knows me here, there’s nothing to be ashamed of, I need to learn something my certificate hasn’t given me nothing but who knows what fashion designing might and so I decided, a decision I am so glad I made.


I met this young girl who sews, she’s someone I relate with very well, I begged her to teach me, she was shocked and asked if I was sure I said yes, she gave me her bill, imagine me I was so broke my mum had to send me part of it.


Two months into learning everyone who sees me in the shop thinks I have been there for a year, I am learning in an amazing manner, I never knew I could have passion for sewing, YouTube has become my second home, sewing groups have become family to me, I dream about sewing, I talk sewing, I am so enthusiastic about it and it makes me happy.


Dear women, there isn’t enough jobs for every graduate, you can learn a skill and create jobs for others, entrepreneurs are taking over the world, beauty will fade but having a skill will evolve, no man wants to spend on a woman who has nothing to offer except beauty, you need to bring more than sex into the game, we live in an evil world now, girls are being used please be careful.


I know how to farm; I want to go into cassava farming as soon as I can raise some funds, don’t be ashamed to work with your hands, don’t be ashamed to earn a honest living, nothing good comes easy, it takes time, hard work and patience, even if I don’t become a fashion designer tomorrow this is a skill I can never forget I can sew for my kids and husband even my mother.


Don’t tell me you’re an independent Woman, show me.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/07/why-every-nigerian-lady-must-learn-skill.html?m=1
 

Isabella Ibeji



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vhtNGmd8f1g

Lalasticlala

sincerely... i see sm serious girls wanting to learn ds days especially make-up,sm settling up event ushers,sm tailors and the rest like that.....




knowing some of this things helps a lot as it gets u sm change and also prevents u from being idle till u get that dream job u desire.....



it doesn't kill... its a plus for u.... who even knws who u might meet when u doing it....



i hope they hear

Spreads mat... Tell em

slaying itself is a skill

smardray:
slaying itself is a skill

loool Abi

You're a woman of substance.. God bless ur handwork beautiful lady..



or=Talk2Bella post=58117299]A certificate is a piece of paper that can lose its value tomorrow but a skill learnt and perfected over time evolves to something bigger and extraordinary {Isabella}


Immediately I finished University, I had such high hopes, I felt I had landed, I wanted to work for a while before going for NYSC, I concluded in me that no interviewer would see me and not wanna give me a job, imagine after series of interviews the excuses were your salary rate is high, you don’t have an NYSC certificate yet, etc.


One morning my mom barged into my room and asked when I was going to learn a skill, I asked her what she meant skill?, she asked me what can I do with my hands I told her I could write she said go on, I said blog, and I could hold an audience I can still hear her laughter till today, she told me those weren’t skills I should either chose between fashion designing or hair making, I said to her what! After how many years in the university I was going to some shop to go learn how to be a tailor.


I was ashamed, what would people say, I couldn’t imagine myself going to some woman to learn how to sew, or make hair, it was beneath me I felt, I was a graduate and was going to work in a big corporation I said to myself.


I was at home for two years doing nothing, I wanted to work before NYSC but jobs weren’t coming so I decided to go for NYSC. Two months later I was bored, I wanted to do something, I wanted to get involved in a charity project, raise funds for female prisoners etc but I had no funds myself, I was really broke then it dawned on me, I am a woman in my 20’s without a dime in my account I got no skills, my blog and vlog were just something I took as a hobby and haven’t been monetized, I was having a taste of the real world and I wasn’t ready for it.


No knowledge is a waste, nothing learnt can be unlearned, I thought for several days no one knows me here, there’s nothing to be ashamed of, I need to learn something my certificate hasn’t given me nothing but who knows what fashion designing might and so I decided, a decision I am so glad I made.


I met this young girl who sews, she’s someone I relate with very well, I begged her to teach me, she was shocked and asked if I was sure I said yes, she gave me her bill, imagine me I was so broke my mum had to send me part of it.


Two months into learning everyone who sees me in the shop thinks I have been there for a year, I am learning in an amazing manner, I never knew I could have passion for sewing, YouTube has become my second home, sewing groups have become family to me, I dream about sewing, I talk sewing, I am so enthusiastic about it and it makes me happy.


Dear women, there isn’t enough jobs for every graduate, you can learn a skill and create jobs for others, entrepreneurs are taking over the world, beauty will fade but having a skill will evolve, no man wants to spend on a woman who has nothing to offer except beauty, you need to bring more than sex into the game, we live in an evil world now, girls are being used please be careful.


I know how to farm; I want to go into cassava farming as soon as I can raise some funds, don’t be ashamed to work with your hands, don’t be ashamed to earn a honest living, nothing good comes easy, it takes time, hard work and patience, even if I don’t become a fashion designer tomorrow this is a skill I can never forget I can sew for my kids and husband even my mother.


Don’t tell me you’re an independent Woman, show me.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/07/why-every-nigerian-lady-must-learn-skill.html?m=1
 

Isabella Ibeji



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vhtNGmd8f1g

Lalasticlala



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"who needs skill when you've got a pussy"
What my ex would say.

Mkbryants:
Spreads mat... Tell em

Na people wey no get functioning brain she go tell.

@Bella, I could go into all the aforementioned without using my hands. All I'll need is capital and labour.

Papiikush:
The only skill Most of them know is Sucking dick and shouting broke men

Papiikush:
The only skill Most of them know is Sucking dick and shouting broke men

Which is a very worthless skill.

Benita27:
Na people wey no get functioning brain she go tell.

@Bella, I could go into all the aforementioned without using my hands. All I'll need is capital and labour.

u need skill to manage a business

being an entrepreneur is a skill

TheMainMan:
sincerely... i see sm serious girls wanting to learn ds days especially make-up,sm settling up event ushers,sm tailors and the rest like that.....




knowing some of this things helps a lot as it gets u sm change and also prevents u from being idle till u get that dream job u desire.....



it doesn't kill... its a plus for u.... who even knws who u might meet when u doing it....



i hope they hear

I like the part where u said it keeps u going till you get your dream job

it is not lack of employment that's killing us, it is the lack to create employment

Very true Ma

Talk2Bella:


u need skill to manage a business

being an entrepreneur is a skill

The aim to be productive. I don't need to learn a skill to be in a particular field of labour. Your case of Cassava farming for example, since you've got a land, simply hire a labourer who's into farming, get them plant for you, and after six-months, you could do the harvesting, peeling, washing and sun drying yourself. Days later you could hire another set of labourers to fry for you. Depending on the quantity.

I make hair very well and if I should open a standard saloon tomorrow, I'd still employ the professionals in hair making, and may be doing less in the saloon.

They won't learn productive skills, most Nigerian girls wont.
They only skill they want to learn is dick riding. They believe it's a skill set that draws in cash most effectively.
i like to call em sex entrepreneurs.

Benita27:
The aim to be productive. I don't need to learn a skill to be in a particular field of labour. Your case of Cassava farming for example, since you've got a land, simply hire a labourer who's into farming, get them plant for you, and after six-months, you could do the harvesting, peeling, washing and sun drying yourself. Days later you could hire another set of labourers to fry for you. Depending on the quantity.

I make hair very well and if I should open a standard saloon tomorrow, I'd still employ the professionals in hair making, and may be doing less in the saloon.

I agree with you to a point, you don't go into a business without the knowledge, like your case, u can make hair, u have an idea about the business already all you need to do is expand and monetize it.

farming isn't as easy as projected please do not be deceived it's not about getting a land and hiring laborers, u need to know when to weed, what type of cassava you're planting, the type or soil you're planting on, when to harvest etc

nothing is easy hence we learn everyday

McBrooklyn:
Gold digging, slaying, hoeing, etc are different professional skills on their own sef... Every other skills are counterfeit and no go areas for 'em...

loool

u don start

ikeepitreal:
They won't learn productive skills, most Nigerian girls wont.
They only skill they want to learn is dick riding. They believe it's a skill set that draws in cash most effectively.
i like to call em sex entrepreneurs.

sex entrepreneurs
heheheeheh

Talk2Bella:

loool
u don start

It's the náked truth, ma'am...

First to comment

INTERESTING

but i enjoy this type of skill so much


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W4O6HAjbtIo

Other people's husband won't allow them sit down and learn any skill. Their latest skill is how to make a man get satisfied and beg for more.

It will help you in the long run

They believes in selling their pussy instead of learning skill to make money

No hope for govt job

89% of my village girls are into catering, hair dressing and dress making...
if u nid a well skilled wife... quote dis post for more info.

its good to learn new skills but ladies never forget your primary skills
1.Other Room Skills
2.Kitchen Skills

etc