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Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by dolphinife: 8:41pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
My naive younger sister shared this with me, and I hope you all can judiciously advice My sister at a tender age of 17 entered into a relationship with a guy. They made an oath using the Bible. However, it happens that last year, the guy was rusticated from UNIBEN, and he's not making efforts to go baack to school. On the other hand, he's not even learning a trade. He's always home sleeping and eating, while feeding fat on his parent's largess. He proposed to my sister last month and he's planning to get married to my sister by December. Should we allow our sister to marry a university drop out with no skills and certificates?? What is scaring my Sister is that they both had made an oath.....oath with the Bible What can be done to salvage this situation? Point of correction, my sister is now 25years old and they have dated for 8 years |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by UtibeEttefia1(m): 8:43pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
FTC
guy what was the question again? 1 Like |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by jerryunit48: 8:43pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
But how is he going to fund the marriage |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by VargasVee(m): 8:44pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
So how's he planning on funding the wedding? Or even after it, they'll both feed on grasses? That's the worst, broke and lazy. His parents won't always be there if you think that changes anything. He might even be a cultist to have gotten expelled. Your sister too, how come she informed no one in your family about how things were? She had better run for her life. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by dolphinife: 8:46pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
UtibeEttefia1: Can you give your sister in a marriage to a guy who's not only unemployed, but a dropout, with no skills or certificate other than WAEC |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by dyadeleye(m): 8:46pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Your sister wan enter one chànce be that...between how old is the guy op? And that your sister must be a Kardashians in the making
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Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Paulpaulpaul(m): 8:47pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
That's a delicate situation ooo. Call the guy and talk to him na. Will he feed the wife and eventual children with dust? Take your sister for deliverance, those churches that flog the spirit out with broom or animal skin whip so that she go learn to be careful next time. Something like this
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Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by dolphinife: 8:47pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
jerryunit48: Is there any way one can navigate this Bible Oath thing? |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Nobody: 8:47pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Your sis is probably one of those naive girls who think love is enough. "He loves me, so we should get married". She's not looking at the bigger picture. The guy has nothing to offer, and I'm sure she has nothing to offer too. Like terms attract in relationships. 1 Like |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Lionofdjungle: 8:51pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Don't worry, Bill Gate is also a dropout On a serious note, prayer is the only solution; this will serve as a lesson to those who normally go into covenant with opposite sex because of marriage. It is dangerous |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by pat1612(m): 8:51pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
As i see 1.your sister is too young for marriage? 2.u need to know what ur sister think about guy and is she willing to marry him without having a source of income? 3.do u thk ur self thst your sister should marry him? 4.what is your parents opinion about it? 5.you perfectly know guy is good for nothing still u want ur sister to marry him? 6.as far as bible is concern i dont care personally,but if you do and your sister dont wanna marry him go to your pastor trust me he will give u a way out of it. |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by UtibeEttefia1(m): 8:51pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
dolphinife: talk to a man of God, maybe the Oat can be revoked |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Paulpaulpaul(m): 8:53pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
dolphinife: Yes, serious men of God can break it, in as much as blood is not involved. I'm not talking about yahoo yahoo pastors ooh |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by djgrafiti(m): 8:54pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
dolphinife:Oaths with the bible indeed,ur sister and the guy need two jobs...nonsense,what does a 17 yrs old know about relationship let alone marriage.....abeg who get Nokia 3310 battery. |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by dolphinife: 8:55pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
pat1612: She's been dating the guy at the age of 17, which means, they've been dating for the past 8 years My family are against the marriage, we don't want a liability for a hubby |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by optional1(f): 8:58pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
op do you wanna marry your sister? In my country, the law says *Not everyone who went to school, are wealthy* and it also says *when you are rich no one will want to hear if you went to school or not* *no one wants to hear your story of how you get there* op going to school is not all that matters in Nigeria.... Let your sister be, you won't marry her.. 1 Like |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
optional1:Did you read the part he said the guy is jobless, lazy and sleeps all day?. 1 Like |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Op I am guessing the guy comes from a rich home and he is a spoilt child I am guessing his parents are ready to sponsor the marriage cause his parents want him to at least do something with his life I am guessing you are deeply worried that he doesn't have a bright future and he may ruin your sisters life Now, what do you do in this type of situation you may ask? you need to paint the worst possible case senerio for your sister, let her know what she is getting into You need to encourage her to wait for a while because if he dropped out of school and he is unwilling to go back , it simply means he losses interest easily He is bound to loose interest in the marriage cause his parent maybe the one pushing for it in the first place Just based on assumptions though |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Your sister is 17 and already wants to marry How naive! 1 Like |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by optional1(f): 9:22pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Benita27: who knows what tomorrow holds.. He might be jobless, lazy and sleeps all day but do you know if the lady is the one with the key to his wealth tomorrow... If he doesn't have anything why will he plan to get marry?? 1 Like |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Leonbonapart(m): 9:26pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
lovelygurl:leave them alone!!!!.... aproko... what a life!!!!You want to live alone forever yes that'a for you |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by optional1(f): 9:27pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
lovelygurl: she started dating at 17, she is 25 now |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
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Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Leonbonapart: A pervert can of course not understand, what a fool At 17, she's still UNDERAGE |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
optional1:don't say that again sis Same way buhari is a religious fanatic and have zero knowledge on economics but who knows if he has the key to Nigerian economic problems But you know what gari is almost triple the price |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by pocohantas(f): 9:30pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Before I comment... Are you one the guys that attack me when I say broke guys shouldn't have erection? |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
optional1: Ok saw the point of correction just now Op, she's now 25 and no longer your baby sister. I mean sure she is but she should be allowed to make her own decisions |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Leonbonapart(m): 9:31pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
lovelygurl:let them be... You don't want her to get to your age(45) before she gets married... Auntie |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Leonbonapart(m): 9:33pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
lovelygurl:such a slowpoke... why not read and comprehend first This is why teaching is a very difficult job...how many lessons do you wanna learn |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Leonbonapart: NOT the idiot searching for a wife on Nairaland Don't you get it that your foolish ass shouldn't be talking about marriage and ending up alone forever when you are the mumu desperate enough to search on Nl |
Re: Help! A University Dropout Is Planning To Marry My Sister by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Leonbonapart: Son of bitch, it got updated Can't you read the "Point of correction" |
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