Integrityfarms:
If am a woman, once my hubby agrees to take the kids for paternity test, I won't utter a word but once the results are out and he is sure he owns all the kids, I will sue for divorce for he never trusted me.

story....you think a sensible man will tell his wife,he wants to to do it?..na coded things gbagbe

Wasted land not for sale

babyfaceafrica:
story....you think a sensible man will tell his wife,he wants to to do it?..na coded things gbagbe

No matter how Coded, one day he must say it out, maybe out of excitement or pride. Besides he can't take the kids to the hospital without them telling the mum

Integrityfarms:


No matter how Coded, one day he must say it out, maybe out of excitement or pride. Besides he can't take the kids to the hospital without them telling the mum

lolz..no worry

YES.... YES.... YES!!!

some men know how to keep things to themselves. telling your wife you did a dna test can cause unnecessary issues.

Integrityfarms:


No matter how Coded, one day he must say it out, maybe out of excitement or pride. Besides he can't take the kids to the hospital without them telling the mum

elantraceey:
For my parents I will for peace sake but for my children they'll never be a need for that.

Nice girl.... Are you sure that your lovely ex bf won't come around and things will got mixed up?

Earthquake1:
DNA tests would only serve to breed distrust in a family.

I'll rather father children that are not mine than to live in an untrusted family.

No it will actually make cheating women sit up.

Both, I don't trust my mama and I don't trust my wife...in short I don't trust any woman

looking at my father and I, there's no need for any DNA test... I'm his carbon copy

Lanceslot:
Nice girl.... Are you sure that your lovely ex bf won't come around and things will got mixed up?

Na.... my husband will know better.

Phonefanatic:


No it will actually make cheating women sit up.

What better way to tell my wife that I don't trust her than requesting for a paternity test.

will do for both, I mean for my kids and parents. trust nobody

TonyeBarcanista:
For my parents? I'll do no test... Doing the test is an exercise in futility...


For my kids? I trust my wife (to be)

Trust but verify. Can't forget what Chris Brown said. These hoes ain't loyal!

Integrityfarms:


No matter how Coded, one day he must say it out, maybe out of excitement or pride. Besides he can't take the kids to the hospital without them telling the mum

You don't need a person in full to get a DNA test done, Just a simple hair sample will even do.

Who no like better thing! DNA test isn't as bad as painted, I don't see any reason y any woman should object to it. Kids do get switched @ birth among other reasons why taking one isn't a bad idea. Those playing the trust card, if d woman believes the child is his, y get angry @ d idea of taking the test?

Free DNA test again


It is well

I will do it .There is no harm in that.But when there is physical DNA,what is the need?

Is paternity the only reason for a DNA test. I took it for deeper insight into health and family history. DNA shouldn't be regarded as a point of distrust or otherwise. We tend to be very polar in our attitudes in this country. Consequently we lose out a lot.

Yes ..But before I do it, I must have prepared my mind for whatever be the outcome.

I hate blind trust.

If she gets angry and wants to leave, fine, remember I said I must have prepared my mind for whatever the outcome...That threat of leaving me won't mean shiit to me.

How can you expect me to trust you without verifying?

Trust but verify... What's so hard to comprehend?

MadCow1:
Why not..



And it may not just be to catch a cheating spouse, what if your baby was switched at birth.

if the result is "the child /children is not yours"what will you make belive the child was switched at birth

Sarah20A:
if the result is "the child /children is not yours"what will you make belive the child was switched at birth

That is now the second chapter of the saga. The only way you can be sure your baby was not wlswitched at birth is that you (the husband) was in the theatre room with your wife and took delivery of the baby when it came out.

Integrityfarms:
If am a woman, once my hubby agrees to take the kids for paternity test, I won't utter a word but once the results are out and he is sure he owns all the kids, I will sue for divorce for he never trusted me.

story for the gods

Earthquake1:


What better way to tell my wife that I don't trust her than requesting for a paternity test.

Trust in God not humans. Here is the logic "Husbands who trust blindly are the ones that are mostly hit with fathering a child that isn't theirs"

Sarah20A:
story for the gods

they day most first horns come from away matches.my hubby needs not to cos my sons esp the 1st one resemble him sotey he has his birthmarks.

I must do it with all my children. I even suspect I give one girl belle and she carry go marry. I'm still suspecting her till date. one day I will supprise her when I will ask her to bring the child blood for DNA

Truth is, i don't trust my wife enough.
So, for the peace of my mind, NO I WON'T.

Integrityfarms:
If am a woman, once my hubby agrees to take the kids for paternity test, I won't utter a word but once the results are out and he is sure he owns all the kids, I will sue for divorce for he never trusted me.

Illiteracy

Denko2721987:
Going by the sudden increased awareness on DNA tests for paternity verification in Nigeria, many Nigerian men/husbands are now more willing than ever before to undertake a DNA paternity test not minding its high cost just to verify the exact perternity of their kids arising from the growing realization that promiscuity (cheating) in marriages or relationships today which used to be mostly a man's affair/indulgence has now been massively adopted/initiated (i dont know if thats the right word to use now sef, lolz) by the women folk especially those in marriages due to many persons reasons and societal factors one of which is the negative artificial changes and alterations that we've allowed to penetrate our value and moral system to pollute/corrupt our natural societal, family and cultural norms and heritage all in the name of totally accepting the Western way of life and modernization (which has had its positives though)..

For these reasons, men are constantly living with the fear, mistrust and perception that the rapid proliferation in women's unfaithfulness especially in Nigeria today (this is subject to debate even though there are other indices to support this) might just mean that there could always be that lingering possibility that their kids (most commen scenario) and even their parents (less common scenario) which they have always believed for years was the flesh of their flesh and bone of their bones, might just turn out to be in reality the flesh and flesh/bone of bones of another man or parent which could just be a horrendous nightmare..

Now, i want to ask the Nairaland community today. Would you take a DNA pertenity test if it was offered to you for FREE This includes a perternity test for your own biological parents and for your own kids (you can specify which test you would preferably go for in your comments) irrespective of your gender even though i feel its a situation that seems to affect the men more than the women (they seem to frown so much at this idea of DNA paternity testing and i wonder why)..

So, this is my question this afternoon folks..



Good afternoon everyone..

Sure I will. Bible says trust no one..even the one who lies in your bossom.

Certainly. It's not a big deal....