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| Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 11:48pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Lemme just go straight to the point... Many ladies make this mistake,deceiving their selves that they're in a relationship.. Forget that dating stuff.. Provided yhur bf has not yet married yhu ..yhure still single and ready to mingle...please don't get me wrong I'm not saying yhu should cheat...all I'm saying is that do not keep all yhur eggs in one basket.. Some ladies make serious mistakes such as staying with a guy in a relationship for more than 10years then when he dumps yhu ..yhu attempt suicide as suicide squad way yhu be...some even go as far as killing the dude in question... Sisters we don't need all those stress in life..in our society concerning marriage.. Ladies have less time compared to guys..that's why at 28..a Lady is seen already as old...say for example yhure 22..yhure dating one guy for up to 4yrs now ..and it looks like the relationship is gonna yield something fruitful.. Then let's say at age 27 the dude dumps yhu with normal excuses. Like I'm not ready to commit and all those bullcrap...yhull be at the loosing end... So sisters wise up..guys of nowadays.. Odikwa very sharp..even if yhu have a serious bf..do not look down on yhur other chykers or reject them because yhure on a relationship... Be wise and have someone to fall back to.. A word is enough..5 paragraphs is more than enough.. 8 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by FemiEddy(m): 11:52pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
What exactly are you saying, u are confusing ursef miss! 14 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Nobody: 11:54pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
 Chaaai! So are u telling us that we ladies shud have a "reserve"/ "extras" men juz incase? Sounds funny but i think on my personal view, im ok with 1 man at a time.. 20 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 11:54pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
FemiEddy: Read again...my point was crystal clear.. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Nobody: 11:57pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
This slay queen in my street will not kill me She said the accident made her had a goose pump sis abeg na bump 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 11:58pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: Yes that's what I'm saying... Especially for ladies that are at the age of marriage... My dear yhu better change that one man at a time... Stuff oo...its risky |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by FemiEddy(m): 11:59pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Jodha:Madam, if u are in a serious relationship with a serious dude, and u follow dis ur still single pattern, no dude will even take u serious, how will I be in a serious relationship with a lady I intend to marry and she will be portraying still single, doesn't make sense, put all ur egg in one basket and pray to God to have mercy......my opinion 7 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Nobody: 12:04am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Jodha: Ur such a Bad Girl...  But i think im good for now..besides i am not in hurry to settle down..But if a relationship wont work, too many fishes in the sea..all we have to do is to swim back in the ocean of singleness.. |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 12:06am On Aug 31, 2017 |
FemiEddy: Because yhu may have good intentions towards a lady doesn't mean others will...yhure taking the issue on a one man point of view..yhu won't get my drill that way... 4 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by nogoodadvice(m): 12:07am On Aug 31, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: And swim into the net of .......... |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Lewaluv(f): 12:09am On Aug 31, 2017 |
I dont think so.. 4 Likes
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| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Nobody: 12:09am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Smh. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 12:09am On Aug 31, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: Yhull swim back to the ocean of singleness if yhu have time on yhur side... If not the big fishes will all be gone...and it will only take the grace of God to see yhu through... 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by FemiEddy(m): 12:09am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Jodha:Ooh, now, I understand your point but still risky 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Nobody: 12:10am On Aug 31, 2017 |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by emmyreelz(m): 12:10am On Aug 31, 2017 |
that's basically your opinion and thoughts though.. but why are you typing you as yhu n your as yhur etc.. it looks boring.. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 12:11am On Aug 31, 2017 |
FemiEddy: Perfect.. |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Lewaluv(f): 12:11am On Aug 31, 2017 |
I dont think so... 2 Likes
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| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by freepop: 12:11am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Very valid thought. Some ladies could be funny without their outlook to life; generalising situations despite obvious peculiarities. I'm currently in a serious relationship with a lady (so I thought), until she started telling me she's still single and wants to mingle. At that point, at just laughed at her mediocrity, lack of trust in herself, myself and the relationship. More importantly, I'm worried about her future, cause such people often end up losing so much for nothing. However, it's a good sign for me to face front and move on with my life. FemiEddy: 8 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 12:12am On Aug 31, 2017 |
emmyreelz: Is that the cause of yhur problems in this life?... Clear road ojare.. |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by nogoodadvice(m): 12:12am On Aug 31, 2017 |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Nobody: 12:13am On Aug 31, 2017 |
I WIll come and modify if this hit fp I have alot to say also I don't agree with the op 2 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Nobody: 12:14am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Jodha: I will only stop looking for love when i reach 65(retirement period)... But for now, i am good.. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by FemiEddy(m): 12:15am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Jodha:But still a risky one tho |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 12:16am On Aug 31, 2017 |
freepop: I repeat because yhu have good intentions towards doesn't change the fact that they're... Guys out there who fancy in wasting girls time ..and when they find out she's almost old they dump her... So it doesnt hurt for a girl to be protective of herself... Its not about trust ..it's about security yhur future and stuff.. |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 12:18am On Aug 31, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: Loolzz What of menopause sis... |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 12:19am On Aug 31, 2017 |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Nobody: 12:22am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Jodha: Hahahahahaha..thats the only thing tho..we cant bear any child after 50yrs of age..  Still dreaming to see what my creation looks like |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by Jodha(f): 12:24am On Aug 31, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: As in ehn ..both my son and daughter will look like mhe . |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by kaboninc(m): 12:24am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Jodha: So by saying she wants to mingle, she's being protective of herself abi? 2 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by freepop: 12:24am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Do you understand the dynamics of focus in any human endeavour? Please do some research on that. Let me tell you, if you're a smart lady with spiritual discernment, you can preempt a guy's intention in less than 6 months of being friends with him, let alone courting for 4 years (as you outlined). Guys ain't hard to comprehend. Except, your taste, class and pedigree of guys I know ain't what you're speaking of. What you keep your eyes on, stays right in front of you and expands. You can't have a roving eyes and expect to see something valid and tangible. It is in your quest to play smart and have another guy waiting by the side that you can't see and discern what intentions either guy A or B has. Perhaps you want to share a more personal experience on how this your expressed advise has worked for you; are you married, after having a side guy while in a courtship? Jodha: 11 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, Until He Marries You..you're Still Single. by kaboninc(m): 12:29am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Jodha: Life is all about risk. So you stay with one guy it is a risk because you want to trust him to stay faith and likewise him trusting you to stay faithful. Even after marriage, it is still a risk too because anything can happen But those who take the risk are those who have the balls to take them. Do you? It is not gd 7 Likes |
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