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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Ladyjumong(f): 3:16pm On Sep 03, 2017
lilmax:
how does asking someone out continously makes them not look cheap exactly? pray tell
dnt get u,how exactly do the look cheap ?
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Ladyjumong(f): 3:19pm On Sep 03, 2017
Evablizin:
nope
Naa, buh u make it sound like it general. nt all gels slay nd nt all gels dress anyhow to get noticed
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by TheWiX(m): 3:35pm On Sep 03, 2017
If a girl says she's not looking for a relationship right now, is she saying NO or maybe
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by lilmax(m): 3:42pm On Sep 03, 2017
Ladyjumong:
dnt get u,how exactly do the look cheap ?
explain your first post..... you said they do this because they don't want to be labeled cheap

because since they had no encounter with each other till she agrees, how does playing hard to get make them look expensive

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Ladyjumong(f): 4:07pm On Sep 03, 2017
lilmax:
explain your first post..... you said they do this because they don't want to be labeled cheap

because since they had no encounter with each other till she agrees, how does playing hard to get make them look expensive
No it doesnt make them look expensive either, it just for them nt to get the wrong impression like "she's an easy catch just do the needful nd pass her" , that is, for those who want something serious with the dude other than just sex, mostly the emotional ones, bk then in our high sch days,we had dz funny belief that if a guy costantly keep askin u out without giving up then it means he need something serious frm u other than jus messing u up. lol i guess it jus faded, mostly with all this slayqueen things jus giving some peep the wrong impression about all or shuld i say some gels.

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by divinehand2003(m): 4:35pm On Sep 03, 2017
Rorachy:
OK, I refuse you.

Hahaha
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by lilmax(m): 5:12pm On Sep 03, 2017
Ladyjumong:
No it doesnt make them look expensive either, it just for them nt to get the wrong impression like "she's an easy catch just do the needful nd pass her" , that is, for those who want something serious with the dude other than just sex, mostly the emotional ones, bk then in our high sch days,we had dz funny belief that if a guy costantly keep askin u out without giving up then it means he need something serious frm u other than jus messing u up. lol i guess it jus faded, mostly with all this slayqueen things jus giving some peep the wrong impression about all or shuld i say some gels.
which leads me to my first post, a guy can woo for 2months, that is pretend and lie... and immediately he gets in he can do what ever he wants with her for just 2 weeks and there goes the relationship grin

hard to get doesn't determine anything, that's the whole point

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Ladyjumong(f): 5:18pm On Sep 03, 2017
lilmax:
which leads me to my first post, a guy can woo for 2months, that is pretend and lie... and immediately he gets in he can do what ever he wants with her for just 2 weeks and there goes the relationship grin

hard to get doesn't determine anything, that's the whole point
Nd one solid point we all knw is " it depends on the type of girl, mostly the stupid ones dat allows herself to be laid in just two weeks"
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by lilmax(m): 6:09pm On Sep 03, 2017
Ladyjumong:
Nd one solid point we all knw is " it depends on the type of girl, mostly the stupid ones dat allows herself to be laid in just two weeks"
so a girl playing hard to get for two months and gets laid in two weeks is stupid right? grin

so what's the essence of it? you see why it's unnecessary now? grin

or you still play hard to get even in the relationship? grin

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Ladyjumong(f): 6:15pm On Sep 03, 2017
lilmax:
so a girl playing hard to get for two months and gets laid in two weeks is stupid right? grin

so what's the essence of it? you see why it's unnecessary now? grin

or you still play hard to get even in the relationship? grin
Twill do much good if u stop twisting this issue

u mean to tell me all girl just got sex to offer in a relationship huh ? that all gels that plays hard to get end up gettin laid in two weeks ?
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by lilmax(m): 6:21pm On Sep 03, 2017
Ladyjumong:
Twill do much good if u stop twisting this issue

u mean to tell me all girl just got sex to offer in a relationship huh ? that all gels that plays hard to get end up gettin laid in two weeks ?

are you saying it's not possible? two weeks is too small to start having sex? how many years should it take? 100years?

you have been missing the whole point: hard to get doesn't determine anything.

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Nobody: 6:24pm On Sep 03, 2017
TheWiX:
If a girl says she's not looking for a relationship right now, is she saying NO or maybe
she is saying no
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Ladyjumong(f): 6:30pm On Sep 03, 2017
lilmax:
are you saying it's not possible? two weeks is too small to start having sex? how many years should it take? 100years?

you have been missing the whole point: hard to get doesn't determine anything.
nd are u saying it sex that jus matters ?


that all the gels who played hard to get jus get laid within two week ?


why emphasizin so much on the word "sex" ?


among peeps who believe dah it's sex that keeps a relationship going?

nd before u personalize this whole thing, knw that em giving my own opinion why i think some gels. still play hard to get

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by pocohantas(f): 1:54am On Sep 04, 2017
I don't know if people still play hard to get, I don't also think it's an age thing. Some ladies are wired like that... if it works for them is what I don't know.

I don't do it, surprisingly I have been with someone who likes it. Some guys like the chase...

Now, if a guy after observing me for a long time, I was probably oblivious of him or not very watchful...he decides to ask me out and I say I need time, I won't consider that playing hard to get.

Some guys ask you out today and expect a yes tomorrow. Dude you have taken your time to ensure my personality appeals to you, don't I deserve same? Some girls don't just jump into dating. If the delay period is not excessively done and with the right motive, then I have no problem with that kinda 'playing hard to get'.

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by jenny21(f): 3:01am On Sep 04, 2017
I hate it when people play hard to get its a waste of everyone's time , if I am playing hard to get then I do not want the guy..... he is just too dense to realise it

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Tapout(m): 10:32pm On Sep 05, 2017
isaiah 4:1

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Sep 05, 2017
Front-page at last! @sunshineG

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Sep 05, 2017
Nma27:
Front-page at last! @sunshineG
grin grin grin
My second time acctually
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Humility017(m): 10:35pm On Sep 05, 2017
Ladyjumong:
Well, it's a kinda still necessary

if they dont play hard to get some guys tends to look down on them or label them as cheap girls
what makes you valuable as lady...
is not by how hard to get you played...
or the stress you puts him through...
but the value you will be being into that relationship....
will your presence in his life...impact him positively...push him achieve his goals and likewise a man...

I have seen guys respect their ladies or husband repect their wives reason because of the impact she made in his life...

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Sep 05, 2017
sunshineG:
grin grin grin
My second time acctually
You received cash prize?
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Sylver247: 10:39pm On Sep 05, 2017
Hard to Wetin?
A girl will only play hard to get if you don't have prospects or you're too desperate.

Real men don't woo women, they welcome them.

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Sep 05, 2017
Nma27:
You received cash prize?
grin cheesy which cash prize grin
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Iamthoney(m): 10:41pm On Sep 05, 2017
Who their hard to get shiii epp self? 48 Saturdays go pass them by every year until them pass
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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by thestevens: 10:44pm On Sep 05, 2017
Keep playing hard to get game and watch your mate marry every Saturday.

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Sep 05, 2017
Comfortable ladies with a level of intelligence do not ask men out, only the hungry slay queens who need money to support their instagram lifestyles do not let person rest. Same goes for men, real men do not have the time to chase women, they chase wealth and let women who love wealth, chase after their wealth. That is where the bees meet the honey.

Why chase after ladies when you can hire as many 'PAs' as you can afford and promote them to another branch when a more beautiful bee comes for the honey.

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Sep 05, 2017
sunshineG:
grin cheesy which cash prize grin
What's d ish about FP then undecided
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Hykis(m): 10:50pm On Sep 05, 2017
it will be better they let go of such mindset, cus dey ar some men out dere wey no fit approach, even girls selling pepper, at least dat will really help dem...bt for me o ..mke dem still dey play hard to get ni o cus d game dey interesting...
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by darichlife: 10:50pm On Sep 05, 2017
Ladies sef una no get talk again ooooo

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Sep 05, 2017
Nma27:
What's d ish about FP then undecided
nothing sis cheesy
Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Pengician(m): 10:52pm On Sep 05, 2017
[quote author=sunshineG post=60081151][/quote]

Make money!
Work harder!
Forget about playing hard to get or not.

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Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by Bills2307(m): 10:53pm On Sep 05, 2017
Odilafta1:
Well,only kids and those about to grow up slay mama wanna be still play hard to get and in some cases,they are not only won over by the wrong kinda men,they end up used and tossed aside.

Ladies (older/younger) who are ready for something that could lead to settling down don't wait for the man to ask them out the second time. They stylishly accept at first approach and start taking your name to church to confirm if you are the one.

On a side note,the birth of the beautiful ones started last year so as he sees you and begins to woo you, thinking you are most gorgeous and you start playing hard,another extremely sensational beau comes up. - Men no longer waste time on one woman playing hard to get.
the best paragraph here : Ladies (older/younger) who are ready for something that could lead to settlingdown don't wait for the man to ask themout the second time. They stylishly accept at first approach and start taking your name to church to confirm if you are the one.

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