itsmeurLady:


Lmao... Oga nor vex, no be me start am oo and I'm even surprised u are seeing it for the first time. It's a popular abbreviation

no I don't think so....Cs can mean a lot of things....A word starting with letter C and ending with letter S

Fourwinds:
no I don't think so....Cs can mean a lot of things....A word starting with letter C and ending with letter S

Lol... u are funny

itsmeurLady:


Ud soon see the reason y it shldnt. I once sed that too when I wasn't a Corp member

finished since last yr July n still waitin for their call up...its frustratin

fine corper

wordbank:
Women are naturally confused and it is getting worse by the day

How are they confused? It would be a good thing to hear their crys, it could make Nigeria a better place to live in the future.

The problem does not lie with men
It lies with women
The women who have a skewed sense of entitlement, who are delusional and grandiose. Women are the reason why most men behave the way they do.

MissRaine69:
The problem does not lie with men
It lies with women
The women who have a skewed sense of entitlement, who are delusional and grandiose. Women are the reason why most men behave the way they do.

u started well bt u missed somtin. A man has no reason to justify his rongs, same 2 a woman, she has no reason to justify her rong. Its pple like u dat creates this problem dat we are talking abt, always saying "she is stubborn dats y he beats her" or "she is nt satisfying him on bed dats y he is cheating" or "she is the reason why he always come home late @ night". Instead of encouraging d oda partner to bhave well despite his or her partners rong doing u keep pushing blames. No one is perfect in life, if u tink because some women have skewed sense of entitlement,they are delusional and grandiose den dia men should misbehave, dat makes d 2 immature and 2 wrongs.

zitame:
u started well bt u missed somtin. A man has no reason to justify his rongs, same 2 a woman, she has no reason to justify her rong. Its pple like u dat creates this problem dat we are talking abt, always saying "she is stubborn dats y he beats her" or "she is nt satisfying him on bed dats y he is cheating" or "she is the reason why he always come home late @ night". Instead of encouraging d oda partner to bhave well despite his or her partners rong doing u keep pushing blames. No one is perfect in life, if u tink because some women have skewed sense of entitlement,they are delusional and grandiose den dia men should misbehave, dat makes d 2 immature and 2 wrongs.

Quite the contrary people like me you say? There is always one who wants to put women in the role of victim which is not necessary entirely true.
How many times have there been threads on this site about women who have overlooked the philadering nature of the men they were dating in the hope that marriage and prayer will fix their predicament.

Women who were beaten by their fiancé but still went ahead and married the guy because cancelling the wedding would have been viewed as a disgrace.

How many mothers have told their daughters to stay in a toxic and dysfunctional relationship because it's what marriage is all about. You put up and shut up.

How many mothers enable thier sons extramarital affairs because they no longer like or never likes the daughter in law. Who is raising this men to view women the way they do? Who is the main care giver in our society?
Formulate an argument based on context and the subject matter.
When you start grasping at straws and start to personalise an argument the sole leg you could have to stand on fails to bear your weight.

Have an objective point of view and you will see that your one dimensional point of view is flawed.

In your next world be a guy.

Op dnt bother urself, no matter d way u put it, d blame will still bounce back to the woman. I have once asked if d women r d cause of all d problems families face and d community at large, where r d men then? Guess dey r all living corpses.

zitame:
u started well bt u missed somtin. A man has no reason to justify his rongs, same 2 a woman, she has no reason to justify her rong. Its pple like u dat creates this problem dat we are talking abt, always saying "she is stubborn dats y he beats her" or "she is nt satisfying him on bed dats y he is cheating" or "she is the reason why he always come home late @ night". Instead of encouraging d oda partner to bhave well despite his or her partners rong doing u keep pushing blames. No one is perfect in life, if u tink because some women have skewed sense of entitlement,they are delusional and grandiose den dia men should misbehave, dat makes d 2 immature and 2 wrongs.

Abeg make una norvex Abeg, dat big English wey una speak so, wetin him mean Grandiose... I just dey see this one so

NaeChris:
In your next world be a guy.

I'm happy being a Lady Cs We RUn The World!!!

MissRaine69:
The problem does not lie with men
It lies with women
The women who have a skewed sense of entitlement, who are delusional and grandiose. Women are the reason why most men behave the way they do.

Wow!!! And to think that u are a woman This is not applauding at all... I'm wondering how u'd feel when u get blamed for things u didn't cause. The man that cheats on his wife, how did she cause it Or the lady that takes care of his kids, with all her loyalty and all, he tells her there is no money but yet have money to give outsiders, is it her fault too A man that has low sperm count but yet blames the fertile wife for his childlessness, is that the woman's fault too?? Don't be so quick to conclude! U can say some women but don't generalize it

itsmeurLady:


I'm happy being a Lady Cs We RUn The World!!!

Wow.. Ladies run the world and you are lamenting via this thread, thats quite contradicting na. Change your name to itsmeurGuy, am sure e go fit you.

itsmeurLady:


Wow!!! And to think that u are a woman This is not applauding at all... I'm wondering how u'd feel when u get blamed for things u didn't cause. The man that cheats on his wife, how did she cause it Or the lady that takes care of his kids, with all her loyalty and all, he tells her there is no money but yet have money to give outsiders, is it her fault too A man that has low sperm count but yet blames the fertile wife for his childlessness, is that the woman's fault too?? Don't be so quick to conclude! U can say some women but don't generalize it

Lol. If she be woman nko? Do you expect her to be chauvinistic? Make she no talk true? Eh? my dear.

NaeChris:
Wow.. Ladies run the world and you are lamenting via this thread, thats quite contradicting na. Change your name to itsmeurGuy, am sure e go fit you.

Even as u guys oppress us we still dey conquer!!! When a woman makes up her mind to be successful, not even a man can stop her

MissRaine69:

Quite the contrary people like me you say? There is always one who wants to put women in the role of victim which is not necessary entirely true.
How many times have there been threads on this site about women who have overlooked the philadering nature of the men they were dating in the hope that marriage and prayer will fix their predicament.

Women who were beaten by their fiancé but still went ahead and married the guy because cancelling the wedding would have been viewed as a disgrace.

How many mothers have told their daughters to stay in a toxic and dysfunctional relationship because it's what marriage is all about. You put up and shut up.

How many mothers enable thier sons extramarital affairs because they no longer like or never likes the daughter in law. Who is raising this men to view women the way they do? Who is the main care giver in our society?
Formulate an argument based on context and the subject matter.
When you start grasping at straws and start to personalise an argument the sole leg you could have to stand on fails to bear your weight.

Have an objective point of view and you will see that your one dimensional point of view is flawed.

Food for thought. Good points, good questions.

zitame:
u started well bt u missed somtin. A man has no reason to justify his rongs, same 2 a woman, she has no reason to justify her rong. Its pple like u dat creates this problem dat we are talking abt, always saying "she is stubborn dats y he beats her" or "she is nt satisfying him on bed dats y he is cheating" or "she is the reason why he always come home late @ night". Instead of encouraging d oda partner to bhave well despite his or her partners rong doing u keep pushing blames. No one is perfect in life, if u tink because some women have skewed sense of entitlement,they are delusional and grandiose den dia men should misbehave, dat makes d 2 immature and 2 wrongs.

Has the lady try to find out why the man beats her, why he is cheating? Sir Isaac Newton said '' In every action, there is equal and opposite reaction'' that means if a man beat his wife, he is reacting to the action of his wife, NOTE: I am not supporting violence, as the mans reason may not be enough to make such reactions. If he cheats, has she find out if it is lack of satisfaction? Probably due to expanded womanliness? There are other factors that bring about lack of satisfaction.

MissRaine69:
The problem does not lie with men
It lies with women
The women who have a skewed sense of entitlement, who are delusional and grandiose. Women are the reason why most men behave the way they do.

Sister you make sense.

itsmeurLady:


Even as u guys oppress us we still dey conquer!!! When a woman makes up her mind to be successful, not even a man can stop her

Thats the kind of women men are looking for o. Lol. Dear we no dey oppress una o. They say as you make your bed so you lie on it.

itsmeurLady:


Veryyyyy Trueeeeeeeeee!!!! African Men there is God oooo. This oppressing dat u ppl are oppressing us, diarisGod ooo...

Lolz

It's cos of post like this I Bleep at least 2ladies daily.
I try to get new ones as much as possible and wen necessary recycling old ones...

itsmeurLady:
I Got this from a post and when I read it, I was troubled in my heart because this seems to be the norm amongst most of our Men even here on NL. I hope this passes a msg to any traditional selfcentered Man out der!!!

When a Man Cheats, they say Cs the woman doesn't satisfy him... When he beats her, they all say she is rude to him, when he likes anal sex they will say Cs she's loose and Marriage is for better for worse. Are Women meant to be Slaves in Nigeria self You Men make us feel like it's our own job alone to make marriage work. When she cannot still bear a child, they will say it's her fault. U forget one single detail... that our Men are selfish... so selfish that they think they are doing women a favour by marrying them. If a woman is more successful than a man... She's a prostitute. If she's not she is a Gold digger. Is it fair Oga If u turn out bad, They say Cs ur mother didn't train you well but if u are good, you are your father's child. Is it fair at all? It's OK for a man to cheat but it's not okay for a woman to cheat. Is it fair to your sisters and daughters If a woman is raped, it's her fault that the man chose to be an animal. It's not Funny!!!! Change begins with You and I!!! Let's promote Change, Fairness and Equity among ourselves so that tomorrow Our Children/loved ones can be saved from this tragic mindset.

This your kind thread de vex me. How many men in your family said all the rubbish you posited to their lovers ? Abi your family member no de practise naija tradition ?

itsmeurLady:
I Got this from a post and when I read it, I was troubled in my heart because this seems to be the norm amongst most of our Men even here on NL. I hope this passes a msg to any traditional selfcentered Man out der!!!

When a Man Cheats, they say Cs the woman doesn't satisfy him... When he beats her, they all say she is rude to him, when he likes anal sex they will say Cs she's loose and Marriage is for better for worse. Are Women meant to be Slaves in Nigeria self You Men make us feel like it's our own job alone to make marriage work. When she cannot still bear a child, they will say it's her fault. U forget one single detail... that our Men are selfish... so selfish that they think they are doing women a favour by marrying them. If a woman is more successful than a man... She's a prostitute. If she's not she is a Gold digger. Is it fair Oga If u turn out bad, They say Cs ur mother didn't train you well but if u are good, you are your father's child. Is it fair at all? It's OK for a man to cheat but it's not okay for a woman to cheat. Is it fair to your sisters and daughters If a woman is raped, it's her fault that the man chose to be an animal. It's not Funny!!!! Change begins with You and I!!! Let's promote Change, Fairness and Equity among ourselves so that tomorrow Our Children/loved ones can be saved from this tragic mindset.

who ever you are seeking attention, on behalf of women I kindly tell you to hold yourself or you can as well tell us if you got raped, heartbroken cos I didn't even read the whole shit you put up there, what point are you even trying to make

If you turn around all these things you just said now, you will also see that tradition has also made women Lazy, useless, self centered, stingy etc.
* Have you seen a cat poo or wee, I guess NO. Thats women for you. they are the worst and best cheater on earth because they cover their tracks very well unlike a man and the annoying thing is that are using the husbands money to cheat and he still loves you, IS IT NOT TO YOUR FAVOR?
* When she slaps a man , she will say "a man should not hit back" so you want everything all to your favor. You need CHANGE
* It seems you not following the trend , greater % of women wants and will even push for anal sex , part of the reason that she can't get pregnant, wants to experience it. What are my saying, they are the ones that initiate it first so say what you know.
* God said , go into the world and multiply. A little % of such cases are made possible by God to still prove that only him gives child but greater percentage 90% are due to rough life of the lady, sleeping around to make money ( they will give you the money but will take your womb to generate more and who bears the whole burden and you try to CON him believing its nature and child will come at Gods time), trying to hold a man down with pregnancy ( using your second flat brain between her legs to think) so tell me "whats the essence of sending her to the university"?
* A woman is (98% more selfish, self centered and stingy more than a man) guess you don't need more explanation on that, if you do, start with yourself.
* When you see a woman that is successful, access her very well, the success was from Gods ,wisdom, Intellectual ability and hard working without sleeping around with everyman ( looking for rich men to sleep with, is she not a prostitute, manizer, gold digger and wanton) thats why most will come here NL , "say no to broke guys" a girl without identity from a gheto. CHANGE
*A female gender is raised better than a Male gender in every aspect so why would you turn out to be bad? If assuming she was raised like a man , she would have been a wasted generation.
* What actually causes rape,Have you sat down to access the rate at which (the mothers, sisters, cousins (feamle) anut) so called females has RAPED and SEXUALLY ABUSED a male gender as a child and they work on their psychology to accept that they doing them a favor by caring and its not abuse or rape , forgetting the fact that he will grow up one day to know (OPEN A TREND AND ASK HOW MANY GUYS EXPERIENCED THESE) and you will be shock , then ask yourself ,ARE YOU ONE OF THEM? but I can bet you ,NO WOMAN CAN BOAST OF NOT HAVING DONE IT by the time I go down nitty gritty.
Woman are reaping the bad seed they sowed in their male Childs life of rape and abuse.
Thats why a woman can say , men think about sex a lot, why won't he after exposing him to many sexual feeling and live content loaded on his brain at tender age and she will still deny because no prove or evidence of blood flow unlike a female ( unless raped a male), so you will go free not knowing you will reap it later when you least expect.
Can't even count how many ladies under serious konji saying if they want sex from a guy they will get it, I asked if he doesn't feel like having it with you, what will you do. Their responses will be , unless she's not in the room with him. If she is , he has no choice but to make love to her and if he doesn't she will shout RAPE and people will surely believe her ( weaker sex) than if he was the one shouting rape from a girl. In a situation like that, I bet you will support the lady without hearing from both parties.

Guys you forgot about the ladies that drugs guys water or drink to be weak and dissolve viagra in it for better erection of the guy. By so doing she has suceeded in making him powerless not to resist and secondly getting him strong (Erection) cause erection can't take place if weak as a man. Still people like you will never believe she raped the guy but rather she was raped. Think deeply to understand what am saying.
" If you seek equity , you come with clean hands and if you want equity , you do equity"
Female should work on their mindset.

ayokellany:


This your kind thread de vex me. How many men in your family said all the rubbish you posited to their lovers ? Abi your family member no de practise naija tradition ?

Go and learn how to talk before u quote me

Tochyodikwa:
who ever you are seeking attention, on behalf of women I kindly tell you to hold yourself or you can as well tell us if you got raped, heartbroken cos I didn't even read the whole shit you put up there, what point are you even trying to make

It beats my imagination that u are a lady... the poo I wrote up der That's d reason y I won't even answer u Cs u didn't read it so don't quote me

Sierusvirus:
If you turn around all these things you just said now, you will also see that tradition has also made women Lazy, useless, self centered, stingy etc.
* Have you seen a cat poo or wee, I guess NO. Thats women for you. they are the worst and best cheater on earth because they cover their tracks very well unlike a man and the annoying thing is that are using the husbands money to cheat and he still loves you, IS IT NOT TO YOUR FAVOR?
* When she slaps a man , she will say "a man should not hit back" so you want everything all to your favor. You need CHANGE
* It seems you not following the trend , greater % of women wants and will even push for anal sex , part of the reason that she can't get pregnant, wants to experience it. What are my saying, they are the ones that initiate it first so say what you know.
* God said , go into the world and multiply. A little % of such cases are made possible by God to still prove that only him gives child but greater percentage 90% are due to rough life of the lady, sleeping around to make money ( they will give you the money but will take your womb to generate more and who bears the whole burden and you try to CON him believing its nature and child will come at Gods time), trying to hold a man down with pregnancy ( using your second flat brain between her legs to think) so tell me "whats the essence of sending her to the university"?
* A woman is (98% more selfish, self centered and stingy more than a man) guess you don't need more explanation on that, if you do, start with yourself.
* When you see a woman that is successful, access her very well, the success was from Gods ,wisdom, Intellectual ability and hard working without sleeping around with everyman ( looking for rich men to sleep with, is she not a prostitute, manizer, gold digger and wanton) thats why most will come here NL , "say no to broke guys" a girl without identity from a gheto. CHANGE
*A female gender is raised better than a Male gender in every aspect so why would you turn out to be bad? If assuming she was raised like a man , she would have been a wasted generation.
* What actually causes rape,Have you sat down to access the rate at which (the mothers, sisters, cousins (feamle) anut) so called females has RAPED and SEXUALLY ABUSED a male gender as a child and they work on their psychology to accept that they doing them a favor by caring and its not abuse or rape , forgetting the fact that he will grow up one day to know (OPEN A TREND AND ASK HOW MANY GUYS EXPERIENCED THESE) and you will be shock , then ask yourself ,ARE YOU ONE OF THEM? but I can bet you ,NO WOMAN CAN BOAST OF NOT HAVING DONE IT by the time I go down nitty gritty.
Woman are reaping the bad seed they sowed in their male Childs life of rape and abuse.
Thats why a woman can say , men think about sex a lot, why won't he after exposing him to many sexual feeling and live content loaded on his brain at tender age and she will still deny because no prove or evidence of blood flow unlike a female ( unless raped a male), so you will go free not knowing you will reap it later when you least expect.
Can't even count how many ladies under serious konji saying if they want sex from a guy they will get it, I asked if he doesn't feel like having it with you, what will you do. Their responses will be , unless she's not in the room with him. If she is , he has no choice but to make love to her and if he doesn't she will shout RAPE and people will surely believe her ( weaker sex) than if he was the one shouting rape from a girl. In a situation like that, I bet you will support the lady without hearing from both parties.

Guys you forgot about the ladies that drugs guys water or drink to be weak and dissolve viagra in it for better erection of the guy. By so doing she has suceeded in making him powerless not to resist and secondly getting him strong (Erection) cause erection can't take place if weak as a man. Still people like you will never believe she raped the guy but rather she was raped. Think deeply to understand what am saying.
" If you seek equity , you come with clean hands and if you want equity , you do equity"
Female should work on their mindset.

With all this plenty things u wrote, if they start to write men own, we will not leave here. Only a matured mind (both men and women) will truly understand and appreciate the message I just passed,most Nairaland Men are always too quick to attack ladies when they see such post without reading and understanding . Oga u do not understand the post I wrote, tell me I will explain.

Tochyodikwa:
who ever you are seeking attention, on behalf of women I kindly tell you to hold yourself or you can as well tell us if you got raped, heartbroken cos I didn't even read the whole shit you put up there, what point are you even trying to make

Young lady u do not need a man, u need to go and work on urself because u are a disgrace to women, so don't ever say on behalf of women again , because we women are even ashamed that ur kind fell into our category. BTW I wasn't the one that wrote "I need a Man" so between me and you, who's seeking attention Madam go and learn how to understand, because it's obvious u read without understanding