PaperLace:


The day I see a adulterous wife, who is forgiven because she might be under a spell _I will begin to take this voodoo excuse seriously. It seems voodoo catches only Nigerian men.

oyb:



i no talk am? patriarchal , 'traditional' minded self-servicer

your attempted jibe about last born says all that needs to be said about you.

a small minded african mentality man who believes women should be seen and not heard.

in your backward mind, it is now your role to disrespect your mother by running through her phones, emails etal so you can tell her what to do.

or is it because you are providing some pittance allowance you feel roles are fully reversed and you can basically issue out orders and your own special brand of moral guidance

the only thing that can be done is strongly advise your mother against nudes. this is advice i would give to anyone, as those pics can easily make it out into the wild

as to your thinking that as a first son you have some sort of rights over your mother's behavior - you do not. she is an adult with far more years of life and experience than you and she is fully aware of the potential consequences of her actions

if she wants to get some fun late in life, mind your business. you are a self sufficient adult now, and her time to make sacrifices is OVER.

if you as the big first born are unconcerned about a father's poking it everywhere, then you better mind your effing biz. i can only hope you have fallen far from the tree - or are you also fking around and thinking/hoping your wife will tolerate forever?

cococandy:
or maybe she goes back and gets HIV or one of his concubines kills her.
I hope that's an acceptable end to you.
Sexist prig

Sebastine1606:

And how do you know he has HIV, so that he has lived a reckless life makes him a downtrodden or right over without rights to life or happiness
Anyway FYI, Jesus didn't come for you Mr/Ms Righteous
He came for us sinners
Sexist
prig

Sebastine1606:

Na ur type dey become single mother. ... ;DThey are everywhere sha
Na sitdon look I dey, sipping my bottle of beer

Sebastine1606:


To all of ya'll saying marriage is broken and mum should file for divorce, continue ooh,little wonder there are so many single mothers today, after highest 10 years his mum has finished moving on by enjoying her life,she can now sit and look at TV.. .what a life, home alone
Na only today una dey think,God help

Azam101:
His mum should be left alone committing adultery? it shows how your parents brought you up!

Bibi294:

Confront her... She's your mum...
No matter how irresponsible your father is, she has no right to cheat while they're still married... If she likes, let her seek divorce...
Secondly, its not advisable for a woman, esp. Of her age to be sending nudes to men no matter what...
Thirdly, keeping two or more partner shouldn't be a way of getting back to her 'estranged' husband... If I am to counsel her, my question would be...'what if her husband is dead after having grandchildren? Having another husband or partner doesn't make sense

eyinjuege:


You said home alone?
Isn't the mother already home alone? Or you didn't read that part of his post?
The father is living with a 24year old opeke now, baba dey flex hin life.
Abeg, leave mama alone to do what brings her happiness.
In 10 years time, she can also reminisce on times of old and how she also flexed.
Make another person no come chop hin life, join her own on top.
Meanwhile, you seem to be so concerned for the soul of his mother. Is the soul of his father not worth being concerned about? Are men not allowed to make heaven too?

Amberon11:
Sense is very far from you.

KevinDein:

Good wife, lol. Don't make me laugh

No good wife would send her nude pics to several strange men. She was never a good wife. If at 50+ she is sending nude pics to men then I can just imagine what she did at a younger age.

Nancy2016:


I had rather be a single mother than be in a loveless marriage.

Sebastine1606:

And how do you know he has HIV, so that he has lived a reckless life makes him a downtrodden or right over without rights to life or happiness
Anyway FYI, Jesus didn't come for you Mr/Ms Righteous
He came for us sinners
Sexist
prig

cococandy:

How do you know he doesn't have HIV? That's right. Use your sister to experiment first just to serve your self righteous ideals.


And who's talking about Jesus here?
Man miss me with that bullshyt.

BigIyanga:

It's not your place to tell your sister how to live. You are never part of that marriage. So take some cold zobo and keep that sanctimonious advice of yours in your garage

Sebastine1606:


Common dear, I can do this all day, I am also concerned about the father, that is why in one my comments, I said the mother should pray for the husband,she needs God to fight the battle for her, not the way she's going about it, by trying to settle scores at the jeopardy of her pride
The battle of the male is always great, the devil is actually after the male.. .......And that was why he came for Eve first, but his aim is Adam



Let's not go scriptural mbok

Sebastine1606:


Common dear, I can do this all day, I am also concerned about the father, that is why in one my comments, I said the mother should pray for the husband,she needs God to fight the battle for her, not the way she's going about it, by trying to settle scores at the jeopardy of her pride
The battle of the male is always great, the devil is actually after the male.. .......And that was why he came for Eve first, but his aim is Adam



Let's not go scriptural mbok

BigIyanga:

Stfu. Prayers dont fix a damn thing; actions do!
That's why Archbishop Demond Tutu Marched and protested. That's why Rev Dr. Martin Luther King marched and protested.
You're bereft of how things work in the real world!!

Sebastine1606:

Sense is closer to you infact you sleep with sense each day
Funny thing, you people won't allow your mums to do ds

eyinjuege:


My dear, talking of scriptures. Salvation is a personal issue. A wife's salvation cannot save a husband. A parent's salvation cannot even save her/his blood- child.
A man has a God given headship, and that includes being the spiritual lead in the home. Don't push that on the woman, as that's unscriptural.
We both agree the woman is weak, and easily manipulated by the devil, so why do you expect the woman to be the one to lead the man a right when she's easily the one that's led astray?
Infact, all the philandering the father in question is doing should have been done by the woman because she is the weaker one. So don't be surprised she is also following suit what her leader husband has put on ground.

Amberon11:
We do not have double standards like the op.

Has the mother done worse than the man? Has she abandoned her home to go live some jigolo like the father did? Why didn't the op create a thread on the promiscuity of his father? Double standards won't kill Africans.

My dad can't try this nonsense.

Sebastine1606:

In this case, the women are stronger and the men are weaker
You know I know that we all know that the women are stronger and men are weaker in this regard

Amberon11:
Lol, sense is also far from you.

A man saw his young side chick through school, neglected his wife for years, let his side chick harass his wife in their matrimonial home and did nothing about it, kept numerous hooes outside, moved in with another, admitted to his own son that his wife was a good woman not worthy of the ill treatments meted to her but hey let's not talk about the man since sending nudes is worse than all what the man did, ode!

elektra:


Let me ask you, the home the OP has described, is it whole? Are you implying that a home can only be broken by the woman?
In my opinion the OPs home is already broken and feminism had nothing to do with it.
His dad is no longer in the house, and is living with a different woman! OPs dad broke his home himself and did not need feminism to do so. So why TF are you blaming feminism?
You blame feminism because people like you think the actions of a man must not have an impact on his home, the home is entirely the responsibility of the woman (even though the man is the head and woman is merely a helper, oh the irony!)
If the OPs mum decides to file for divorce now, you will blame the broken home on the mum even though the home was broken long time ago (by the dad).

Sebastine1606:

OK, your dad can't, but his dad did.. ....so do you send him to hell coz he did

Proudgorgeousga:


hypocritical deluded religionists so women are suddenly stronger to suit your agenda.

Sebastine1606:

In this case, the women are stronger and the men are weaker
You know I know that we all know that the women are stronger and men are weaker in this regard

Amberon11:
No one is sending anyone to hell.

His father needs to be told the truth which I know the op has not. Many African men feel its their right to misbehave and mistreat their wives and the reason this lingers on is because no one checks the excesses of these men.

If the father isn't being scolded or "sat down and talked to" (like the op plans to do with his mother) then it shows that the op is a very big hypocrite. The mother should be left alone.

pocohantas:


That one is a very foolish guy. When you call out men bullshit, he calls you a man hater. A very foolish guy is that kevindein.

Bibi294:

I don't blame feminism... Intact, you need to reread my comments... My point is this: let that woman file for divorce... The aspect of her cheating in what I detest... She should not cheat because her husband cheated.... Can't you just get it

elektra:


LMAO, suddenly men are weaker and women are stronger. So God that placed men as spiritual leaders of the home doesn't know what he is doing abi?
Everyday you men will be shouting "I am the head of this home!" Time to take responsibility now, the woman is suddenly a better fit for leadership. Mtchew!