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Carry him go shawarma

Prayers above all else. Your mum should avoid reacting negatively. It will only drive him further away. You all should be nice to him as you pray hard.

You said you're not spiritual. In this kind of setting, you need to be. A lot happens in the spiritual realm. Most of what happens is first settled in the spiritual realm. You don't need any babalawo. Do it yourself by learning to fight your battles as Dr Olukoya says. Even if shes diabolical, she's not more powerful than God.

Just develop your spiritual self based on your religion, be righteous and in tune with God. Avoid sin, it's a good ladder for evil to arise. Remember we all have our bodies, soul and spirit. Thoughts, words then deeds. Learn more, work with it. You'll surely overcome.

By the way, it may be temporary infatuation. Pray for your dad not to end up devastated and ruined since the lady's intention is not known.

lonelydora:


At my level in life which i know you can never attain in 20years coming, i don't reply people like you. Staying abroad doesn't make you more intelligent. Only poor ni.ggas stay abroad and pretend to be rich. USA,Canada, Europe, etc i visit like market is where you stay eating from hand to mouth, and think you are normal. Come to Nigeria, i will set you up for greatest.

Don't worry about setting anyone up, money will not remove stupidity, lack of commonsense, primitivity, backwardness, ignorance and illiteracy from Nigeria!

Your belief in juju, witchcraft, voodoo is a disgrace to human intelligence, progress, science and literacy!

I can write and write for months and you will not understand what I am saying - that is why I called you a monkey, and I stand by it.

There is no jazz.

She has simply given him serious kpomo to eat.
In the bedroom, he is probably her sub and she is the domme.
Such relationships spill out to the real world sometimes.

He is her sex/sex-starved slave.

Peachess:
Your dad is probably not under any spell. He's probably doing that cos the lady is giving him mind blowing sex (some men can be very silly) or he's infatuated at his age. Just tell your mum to divorce him ASAP if she can't handle his cheating ass, no woman deserve a cheating partner.

See how divorce is easy for you to suggest, your mind needs renewal

Sheun001:
Pls nairalanders i feel like my dad is under some kind of charm from a lady is there a way to undo that charm

pls u should help suggest what i can do to help him as my family is on a verge of collapsing

Mods pls help push to FP

I said it!!! Babalawo was here last month talking about love potion and today someone is here complaining of the effect of his dad.

Sheun001:


hmmm okay but this is a man i've known for 17yrs and nothing like this has ever happened even women who try to seduce him
he do push them away and narrate the incident to my mum i dont now understand what's going on now;(

Mid life crisis. Happens to everyone at a point. It takes a lot of courage and strength to come to terms with reality and nature and be at peace with oneself.

Let your dad know he is hurting his family and if this continues, you all will be forced to shut him out. He needs to choose; his fling or his family.

Good luck.

Sheun001:

i dont think he'll tell me he'll just deny it and pretend like nothin is wrong

if he's conscious enough to deny it, then he's not under any spell.

bvc:


See how divorce is easy for you to suggest, your mind needs renewal

You need a brain cos it's obvious you have none. It's my opinion did I mention you, what the Bleep is wrong with you? He's cheating on his wife, do you want him to infect her with STDs?

Sheun001:


but do you think he'll change like that cause the way i see things he might not cuz that woman is diabolical

una no fit beat woman bros?
How old r u?
Lemme tell u something, a stitch in time saves nine...... There r some battles u take to the door of ur eneny, this is one of such battles. She is encroaching on another woman's property, monitor ur dad.... Anytime he is with the lady, attack her n bundle ur dad back home. Make sure u carry boys wey sabi body o. But if u get mind u can do it alone.

You have prayed and are still praying in your little way and allow His grace be on you. Your family should move on and be happy. By His grace, the scale will go off him one day.The money you have use to eat an move on. Don't to anywhere, not even to pastors, so that the don't keep you running from pillar to post to sow seed for nothing, remember they are not God Pray on your own, call unto God.

Sheun001:


but do you think he'll change like that cause the way i see things he might not cuz that woman is diabolical

wat evidence do u have to say d woman is diabolical abi u dad just want to test anoda punnani

Sheun001:


thanks bro but we not the really spiritual type

Ehhg? Better be serious and get spiritual ( prauerful)for ur own good...

Ifyx:
@OP, I suggest u state your dad's case more explicitly so that we can know how best to proffer solutions.

How else, another woman to his father away from his mother, they should move on, though not easy, they should leave them so that the other woman will not endanger the life his mother and the children because such women are deadly dangerous.

yaki84:

una no fit beat woman bros?
How old r u?
Lemme tell u something, a stitch in time saves nine...... There r some battles u take to the door of ur eneny, this is one of such battles. She is encroaching on another woman's property, monitor ur dad.... Anytime he is with the lady, attack her n bundle ur dad back home. Make sure u carry boys wey sabi body o. But if u get mind u can do it alone.

oh so he should beat d woman,bros abeg did d woman use a rope to dray op dad to her house or did she rape him?His father is to be blame mostly

Sheun001:
Pls nairalanders i feel like my dad is under some kind of charm from a lady is there a way to undo that charm

pls u should help suggest what i can do to help him as my family is on a verge of collapsing

Mods pls help push to FP

search for the moniker. babalawo. he is on nairaland

amiibaby:
Prayer answereth all things.....have u tried praying?

nop will try that

madridguy:
@ OP, is your dad still performing his duty and responsibility as the head of the family?
If yes,then allow the old man to enjoy his life to the fullest. Your dad need a young blood to refresh.

Well, if you're sure the woman charmed him, let me know if you are a Muslim then I will tell you what to read to neutralize the charm Insha Allah your dad will come back to his senses.

he's still performing the duties

Preetiex:
oh so he should beat d woman,bros abeg did d woman use a rope to dray op dad to her house or did she rape him?His father is to be blame mostly

i dey street, i know what frustrated nigerian harlots can do to catch a man that has money.
All these prayer house u think say na for men dem the open am for?
Don't underestimate the power of a frustrated bitch.
Am suffering this same shit now, my bro is being con by a frustrated harlot, i heard the girl na public toilet for dem bad dirty boys. But my bro get mind say na she him wan marry.....

I know how ladies do their venture.
Because u dont do it doesn't mean others don't.

anonymuz:
All you need to do is to pray hard together with your other member of the family,the work along with your prayer by talking to your dad the future consequences of his actions. Then limit their conversation by sneaking into his phone and delete the useless woman's number from his contact

thanks but thinking of sneaking on his phone doesn't sound like a good idea

The hypocrisy of some Nigerian men is being exhibited on this thread. Imagine some guys typing that the man is only enjoying himself and should be allowed. See them making light of infidelity! If the woman was the one cheating, all of them would have slut-shamed her.
I wish all women whose men are cheating on could start paying them in their own coins. It will help to tame the infidelity of some men.

Sheun001:


read my above response

There is nothing in your earlier posts that verifies your claims that the woman your dad is seeing is diabolical.


Again, what proof do you have that she's diabolic?


Are you suggesting that your Dad isn't to be blamed for having extra marital affairs?

Tell us the story so we will know how to help.

Peachess:
Your dad is probably not under any spell. He's probably doing that cos the lady is giving him mind blowing sex (some men can be very silly) or he's infatuated at his age. Just tell your mum to divorce him ASAP if she can't handle his cheating ass, no woman deserve a cheating partner.

So, the next thing is just divorce? What kind of stupid message are you passing? Do you know the effect of divorce on kids? How are you sure the woman is not at fault? What stops the woman from giving here husband mind blowing sex too? Are yiu sure the man is not being driven away by his wife's bad attitudes? Girl, your life is shameless and upside down. I won't be surpsied if you are a product of a broken home too.

Peachess:

I really feel sorry for you guys tho. He'll reap what he sowed later. When the kids start taking care of only their mum when they're financially stable they'll start crying wolf. You've how painful it is, don't do that to any lady when it's your turn sha .

I'm sure you are one of these shameless and unreasonable idiots that call themselves feminists. You never even consider if the woman was at fault, and you start recommending divorce for 21 year old marriage. What kind of dead and cursed soul are you?

madridguy:
@ OP, is your dad still performing his duty and responsibility as the head of the family?
If yes,then allow the old man to enjoy his life to the fullest. Your dad need a young blood to refresh.

Well, if you're sure the woman charmed him, let me know if you are a Muslim then I will tell you what to read to neutralize the charm Insha Allah your dad will come back to his senses.

like seriously..
oya what recitation is that,I will like to low.

Any man committing adultery willingly is charmed.how come adultresses are never charmed?

the sexy part I doubt she can beat the young gal.

Peachess:

You all should show him love, make home conducive and happy for him to stay. Tell your mum to dress sexy and stuffs like that, make him jealous if she can. And try to show him he is not the only one out there, she's not dependent on him while still showing love. One way to make someone change is showing them love while they're hurting you. If they have conscience, they'll stop.

Sheun001:
Pls nairalanders i feel like my dad is under some kind of charm from a lady is there a way to undo that charm

pls u should help suggest what i can do to help him as my family is on a verge of collapsing

Mods pls help push to FP

Ur dad is simply having fun .

armyofone:
the sexy part I doubt she can beat the young gal.

LOL, seems you've not seen sexy mama. Example Jennifer Lopez, Kris Jenner. You just need to take care of yourself.