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Did I Handle This Well? by diiphillipo(m): 2:19pm On Oct 23, 2017
Sometime in September i met a babe i was tripping for and i tried being her friend because i prefer a little bit of friendship before diving into dating. Trying to be a good guy, i invited her for an outing, on the said day, i was waiting inside the eatery for her suddenly i saw her enter with two other babes, i was disappointed but i kept my cool. As God would have it, the eatery is such that you have to approach the counter to make your order, and as a gentleman, i am used to pulling a chair for my bae and then asking her what she wants, then i do the ordering and serve her so on this occasion, i asked her what she wanted, ordered for her, brought it to her and she was asking what about her friends, i calmly explained that i don't know them and i don't give gifts to strangers who aren't stranded or distressed. Shew got up angrily and left with her friends while i calmly asked that they package the food for my neigbhour's dog, sgt roger.

Guy's if you were in my shoes, will you do the same thing?

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Re: Did I Handle This Well? by IAMSASHY(f): 2:46pm On Oct 23, 2017
undecided I won't blame u 4 Wat u did, some gals cn b so annoying wt dis same attitude bt if I were u, atleast 4 hospitality sake and I. e if I stl hv cash on me, I wl stl get dose 2 sometin bt dia punishment is dat I won't ask dem Wat dey wnt, I wl get dem drinks according to Wat I hv in my pocket. Later, I wl decide hw 2 deal wt my so culd gf, besides, she is even d one at fault, she invited d baes herself.
Re: Did I Handle This Well? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Oct 23, 2017
You did what you had to do!

The girl didn't like you in the first place, she just saw you as a means for lunch that afternoon. If she liked you, she would want to be alone and listen to what you had to say to her. But No, she brings her hungry friends along to suck you dry as maga.

Some fools will come here to tell me she brought her friends as extra security. What extra security? They were meeting in a public eatery. That's security enough.

Girls here would know i'm telling the truth. If they are interested in a guy, they'd go on a date with him alone.

Good Job Guy.

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Re: Did I Handle This Well? by medexico(m): 2:57pm On Oct 23, 2017
You get sense.
Next time you see her, give her a shovel to go dig for some gold else where.
Re: Did I Handle This Well? by diiphillipo(m): 3:57pm On Oct 23, 2017
ScotFree:
You did what you had to do!

The girl didn't like you in the first place, she just saw you as a means for lunch that afternoon. If she liked you, she would want to be alone and listen to what you had to say to her. But No, she brings her hungry friends along to suck you dry as maga.

Some fools will comes here to tell me she brought her friends as extra security. What extra security? They were meeting in a public eatery. That's security enough.

Girls here would know i'm telling the truth. If they are interested in a guy, they'd go on a date with him alone.

Good Job Guy.

Exactly, not like it was by force to join me, she should have declined and i won't kill her[color=#000099][/color]
Re: Did I Handle This Well? by Learnstuffs: 5:35pm On Oct 23, 2017
If only most guys are like you, this gold diggers would stop digging

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Re: Did I Handle This Well? by Xionez(m): 6:15pm On Oct 23, 2017
diiphillipo:
Sometime in September i met a babe i was tripping for and i tried being her friend because i prefer a little bit of friendship before diving into dating. Trying to be a good guy, i invited her for an outing, on the said day, i was waiting inside the eatery for her suddenly i saw her enter with two other babes, i was disappointed but i kept my cool. As God would have it, the eatery is such that you have to approach the counter to make your order, and as a gentleman, i am used to pulling a chair for my bae and then asking her what she wants, then i do the ordering and serve her so on this occasion, i asked her what she wanted, ordered for her, brought it to her and she was asking what about her friends, i calmly explained that i don't know them and i don't give gifts to strangers who aren't stranded or distressed. Shew got up angrily and left with her friends while i calmly asked that they package the food for my neigbhour's dog, sgt roger.

Guy's if you were in my shoes, will you do the same thing?

Did she tell you she was bringing extra mouths?
If no, then...

Re: Did I Handle This Well? by iamJ(m): 6:21pm On Oct 23, 2017
u self

Next time, buy all of them ice cream, its the same amount u will spend for a meal for her alone


As for that girl, call her apologize, take her and her friends out, make them happy, invite her to ur house, collect receipt wink for the money u spent, then come out of the bathroom and call a girl faking that its ur real babe, tell the girl that you're calling that u love her, after the call, when the odeku is looking at u shocked, ask her what she is still doing there and tell her to get lost


She will never forget u wink


Guy code 102 never allow a woman have the last word, unless her last word is the last word u want

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Re: Did I Handle This Well? by ashjay001(m): 7:58pm On Oct 23, 2017
U handled it d way u wanted!? Hope u enjoyed it, cos, thats all that matters!

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Re: Did I Handle This Well? by Pelon(m): 10:12pm On Oct 23, 2017
Guy you are Savage you really handled that maturely.Dsame thing happened to my roommate but he was dumb,d babe doesn't talk to him anymore
Re: Did I Handle This Well? by CME01: 10:18pm On Oct 23, 2017
You ask a girl out and she brings her friends. I don't know where some mumu girls get that mentality from. Its a date not a party. Anupama

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Re: Did I Handle This Well? by diiphillipo(m): 3:53pm On Oct 27, 2017
iamJ:
u self

Next time, buy all of them ice cream, its the same amount u will spend for a meal for her alone


As for that girl, call her apologize, take her and her friends out, make them happy, invite her to ur house, collect receipt wink for the money u spent, then come out of the bathroom and call a girl faking that its ur real babe, tell the girl that you're calling that u love her, after the call, when the odeku is looking at u shocked, ask her what she is still doing there and tell her to get lost


She will never forget u wink


Guy code 102 never allow a woman have the last word, unless her last word is the last word u want



this guy is the SI unit of brutality
Re: Did I Handle This Well? by oluebubeneo(f): 6:33pm On Oct 27, 2017
OP Thou art SAVAGE grin
Re: Did I Handle This Well? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Oct 27, 2017
ScotFree:
You did what you had to do!

The girl didn't like you in the first place, she just saw you as a means for lunch that afternoon. If she liked you, she would want to be alone and listen to what you had to say to her. But No, she brings her hungry friends along to suck you dry as maga.

Some fools will come here to tell me she brought her friends as extra security. What extra security? They were meeting in a public eatery. That's security enough.

Girls here would know i'm telling the truth. If they are interested in a guy, they'd go on a date with him alone.

Good Job Guy.
I liked your post 'cause you were right to an extent. On the security issue, she may have also done that 'cause she didn't want to end up being convinced by the guy to go home with him, so the another reason for going with a chaperone(friends).
Re: Did I Handle This Well? by Adaumunocha(f): 7:09pm On Oct 27, 2017
diiphillipo:
Sometime in September i met a babe i was tripping for and i tried being her friend because i prefer a little bit of friendship before diving into dating. Trying to be a good guy, i invited her for an outing, on the said day, i was waiting inside the eatery for her suddenly i saw her enter with two other babes, i was disappointed but i kept my cool. As God would have it, the eatery is such that you have to approach the counter to make your order, and as a gentleman, i am used to pulling a chair for my bae and then asking her what she wants, then i do the ordering and serve her so on this occasion, i asked her what she wanted, ordered for her, brought it to her and she was asking what about her friends, i calmly explained that i don't know them and i don't give gifts to strangers who aren't stranded or distressed. Shew got up angrily and left with her friends while i calmly asked that they package the food for my neigbhour's dog, sgt roger.

Guy's if you were in my shoes, will you do the same thing?
You handled it very well. She has no affection for ya.
Re: Did I Handle This Well? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Oct 27, 2017
Benita27:
I liked your post 'cause you were right to an extent. On the security issue, she may have also done that 'cause she didn't want to end up being convinced by the guy to go home with him, so the another reason for going with a chaperone(friends).

I get your point Benita. That's true. Especially for girls with weak resolve. There are girls you can't convince to do 'anything' even if you put your whole life into pressuring them. Well, she knows her reasons.

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Re: Did I Handle This Well? by ngmgeek(m): 10:35pm On Oct 27, 2017
Adaumunocha:
You handled it very well. She has no affection for ya.

Not sure if he handled it very well sha! I would have pulled her aside and find out why she brought those two with her, tell her that I planned for two not four. Sometimes, it's good to hear someone out and not rush to hasty conclusions. The guy may seem calm and the woman may not, but opposite really attract. He missed a woman who could have been his, forever cheesy
Re: Did I Handle This Well? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Oct 27, 2017
ScotFree:


I get your point Benita. That's true. Especially for girls with weak resolve. There are girls you can't convince to do 'anything' even if you put your whole life into pressuring them. Well, she knows her reasons.
Exactly.
Re: Did I Handle This Well? by Augustap(f): 12:17am On Oct 28, 2017
You did the best thing i ever heard happened to all these nonsense girls bringing their friends to their dates. She doesn't want to spend time with you, na food dem dey find. Nice act

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Re: Did I Handle This Well? by Adaumunocha(f): 12:52am On Oct 28, 2017
ngmgeek:


Not sure if he handled it very well sha! I would have pulled her aside and find out why she brought those two with her, tell her that I planned for two not four. Sometimes, it's good to hear someone out and not rush to hasty conclusions. The guy may seem calm and the woman may not, but opposite really attract. He missed a woman who could have been his, forever cheesy
It's actually common sense not to bring a lot friends on a date in a public place. She should have informed him though... What if he had just enough money for two? I know you been sarcastic though

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