Na wao

Dis wn we i wn marry white woman like dis


Odi egwu

Wow

No,no,no,no,no......noooooo.

MEN ARE THEIR OWN ENEMIES. TUFIAKWA

DeeTus:
What a story! This is so touching! Both of them were truly committed to love. Unfortunately, the other one got deceived, set up, deported and later committed suicide.

It's really disheartening to read this story. This is why you need to be careful and pay utmost attention to those who disguise themselves as your friends for they may not have good intentions towards you.

Your friends could be d worst enemies you ever had.

Tjohnnay:
Na wao

Dis wn we i wn marry white woman like dis


Odi egwu

true oh! white women are very caring and loving with there sweet sense of love-jealously when them see you with other women!

them can love for Africa unlike our black baboons who can open leg for money

I advise you put your standard above naija women.

Hmmmm, BEWARE of FRIENEMY. They taught me to be very sensitive to every small jokes or talks.
Not every friend wants you to prosper. GOD IS THE ONLY TRUE FRIEND ANYONE CAN HAVE.

i can feel the story and understand as well, i hate friends like mad i chose to stand alone and die alone its happen back in the days in malaysia where your close friend might be deeling with drug and u wont know.... so sad

Black man. Black heart.

Sirheny007:


Nigerians..can you confirm this?

I was going to say the same thing, some Nigerians would even do worse. Just take a trip to Facebook and see fights going on among some Nigerians in diaspora. Abike vs esabod that fight has been going on for years now all cuz of hatred they have for each other. The funny thing is that these people haven't met in real life before

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The narrative is very riveting,like scenes from a well-scripted Nollywood drama.Towards the end,I was anticipating what would happen.And then,all of a sudden,the suicide.It gave me pause.And time stood still for me. I'm sure the motions of the globe stood still too for others reading this heartrending story.

I trust Africans.. So selfish and Self Centered. Everybody wants to be rich and they all just become devilish enroute.. It all ends up in trust nobody...

sKeetz:
She should come and marry me.

Nigerians are not jealous of each other and I won't commit suicide.

As an added incentive; I have a big dîck too.

Oh daddy.. ..

Well R.I.P to the guy he was innocent and it really hurts. He should have known that's how most if not all Africans in diaspora are destiny killers.

I feel so bad,

sKeetz:
She should come and marry me.

Nigerians are not jealous of each other and I won't commit suicide.

As an added incentive; I have a big dîck too.

Another Sylvester friend on nairaland.

ok

if she indeed loved the man, she should have been by his side the minute he was deported back to zambia....

Drinokrane:
According to a Facebook page named Mwebantu Trendsetters Two, An heartbroken American lady just shared this touching story.

I did not care about what people were telling me. I loved him so much and he meant my world to me. Up to date I do not understand why Zambians in diaspora are jealous of each other. My step sister is married to a Nigerian Man and The Nigerians are so supportive of each other. Sylvester and I decided to isolate ourselves from all the Zambians in USA because their gossips started affecting our marriage.

My prayers and thoughts are with his family"[/i]

http://www.torimill.com/2017/11/in-diaspora-are-jealous-of-each-other.html

Well, that's some respite up there, at least she acknowledge that Nigerians are supportive of each other. Some positive comment about Naija from a foreigner, not common these days.

I dnt know wat pple gain by eyeing someone's progress in life..you were not their to see his husband struggle tru the Sun and rain, yet you dey vex for him success...make amadioha fire anyone wey go eye your progress in life today and for ever more.....Amen!

Drinokrane:
According to a Facebook page named Mwebantu Trendsetters Two, An heartbroken American lady just shared this touching story. The post has garnered over 8k likes 7kcomments and 3k shares;
"You Can Never Understand A Human Being. I met Sylvester Mumba in 2012 in Livingstone,Zambia when I went there on vacation.

Sylvester used to sell things made out of wood at a place called Mukuni park in Livingstone. He was a talented woodcarver
,he used to make decorative crafts out of wood.

I got his phone number after I asked him to make a wooden map of United States Of America with my names written on it. From that day,he became my friend and we started communicating even when I came back to USA. I was 23 years old and single when I met him, I just did not feel happy,I was basically lonely and I would call Sylvester whenever I felt lonely. We would chat for hours non-stop. He had broken english but I understood everything.

He used to tell me that” we were meant to be because only I understood His bad english” We then started dating six months later.

I saved up just enough working as a Host in at a SteakHouse, went to a travel agency booked a plane ticket and was off again to Zambia,but this time not to see the Victoria falls but to see Sylvester. The ticket was $1,357 dollars at the time round trip. I stayed in Zambia for a month and we quickly got married.
Then after the wedding,i left him in Zambia. Back home in USA, I paid an Immigration lawyer to help me with visa paper work for Sylvester.

To make the long story short, Sylvester was given a green card and that’s how he came to USA in May 2013. We did another wedding in USA.

We were so Much in love. All was well in our marriage.
I even helped him get a Job at Target Stores and helped him buy a car to ease his movements. He slowly started adapting to the American culture and his English Improved. He also met some Zambians living in USA and together they became one family. As time went by,we started attending functions/parties organised by the Zambian community in USA.

I was even there in Tampa, Florida to support Zambia National Soccer Team when they took on Japan. And after the soccer match there was a party where we interacted with the Soccer players and other people in attendance. I have attended many independence functions organised by the Zambian community in Atlanta. I started noticing one thing,the Zambians in USA like Gossiping and do not like to see their fellow Zambians (Friends) prosper in Life.

Sylvester’s Zambian friends, Women inclusive would call and tell me that Sylvester did not marry me because he loves me, but because of poverty and papers (Green card). They would tell me that he was going round the Zambian community,telling people that he was just using me to become a US citizen and that he will leave me once he is given a green card valid for 10-years. Some of his Male Friends would call me asking me to divorce him and marry them instead, and some would call asking me for sex.

I did not care about what people were telling me. I loved him so much and he meant my world to me. Up to date I do not understand why Zambians in diaspora are jealous of each other. My step sister is married to a Nigerian Man and The Nigerians are so supportive of each other. Sylvester and I decided to isolate ourselves from all the Zambians in USA because their gossips started affecting our marriage.

We were happy once again until in June this year when Sylvester was arrested for being in possession of drugs.

He went drinking with some of his trusted Zambian friends. After around midnight,they all decided to call it a day. Sylvester was the only one driving,so he had to drop his friends at their various homes. And after dropping his friends,on his way back home, he was stopped by a squad car (Police Car).

His friends planted some drugs in his car and called the police. And that’s how he was arrested in June and was deported back to Zambia Three weeks ago. I tried to fight his deportation for 4 months but it couldn’t work out as you know our immigration laws are now tough because of our current president.

People get deported for minor offences. And the sad part is that his friends have been asking me to date them since the time he was detained. Sylvester left USA three weeks ago and on Friday 24th November,2017 he committed suicide. Sylvester will be put to rest today the 27th of November,2017 at his parent’s village in Northern part of Zambia. I am so heartbroken. I am unable to travel to Zambia.

My prayers and thoughts are with his family"

http://www.torimill.com/2017/11/in-diaspora-are-jealous-of-each-other.html

This is not new. That is why I would rather live in a white-area than a black African area. Nigerians hardly are jealous of other Nigerians abroad— everyone is working hard, no one has your time. But other Africans? Carribeans? Jeez! They will tell you in your face that they hate you!

Black man hate to see another nigga make it-Rick Ross

kay29000:
WOW! I didn't expect what happened in the end. This would make for a great story/movie.

Really, the "crab in the bucket" mentality most Africans have is so disturbing. Where did that come from sef? Why do black people hate to see another one of their own succeed? Once a black man in a black community succeeds, you start hearing stuff like...he did juju, or he joined Illuminati or what not. We are own problem.

Point of Correction, according to the story, Zambians are jealous of each but Nigerians are supportive of each other ". That's her observation. She didn't say Black people are jealous of each other. You made that up by yourself.

Why did OP say 'Africans' when the article is about Zambians?

OP, you can't read?

really sad naija never do shit like that we love ourselves once we re outa the land no tribalism

48 laws of power...

Have helped me a lot.


And it would have helped this guy.


Frenemy are worst than enemy.

They are called little people

sKeetz:
She should come and marry me.
Nigerians are not jealous of each other and I won't commit suicide.
As an added incentive; I have a big dîck too.

wee Uu Kip Kwayett??

My step sister is married to a Nigerian Man and The Nigerians are so supportive of each other.

Nigerians do not realise how unusual they are for Africans. Nigerians are generally open, straightforward and helpful to a fault sometimes. Very guileless people. Africans from elsewhere on the other hand, I find generally full of envy, resentments and extreme sneakiness. My suspicions are that the typical Nigerian mindset are probably nearer to how Africans may have been before Whites came from Europe and colonised Africa. Don't know how such a thing might have occurred if indeed I am somewhat right about it, perhaps Colonials in Nigeria were far removed from the majority of the tribes in the Niger-area because of the density of tribes and their relative sophistication. Whatever the truth, Nigerians are different, somehow, even though people may find this had to accept or do not want to believe since the Crabs-In-A-Barell mentality of your Africans-from-elswhere would not want Nigeria to escape from the thick, cloying, backward African quagmire and be a place of light and hope for Africa.

Perhaps the African mind-set has been so conditioned to be subservient and worshipful to other races, with the inevitable resultant self-hate, that their minds rebel at the thought that himself or others like him can be worthy of admiration or emulation. This is perhaps why, they are so tortured and vexed by the innocuous and clearly harmless observation by Nigerians that they are Giant of Africa.