Dear Lively Stones,

I am a divorcee of 48 years old. I have been divorced for almost five years now and I am thinking of moving on to finally settle down with another woman.

I have been dating a few ladies but non of them catch my fancy. There is a lady however,whom I have been very friendly with. Her name is Constance and she is married to a man that treats her very badly. The man beats her,sleeps with other women and does not sleep with her. She has moved out of the man’s house but they are yet to start the divorce proceedings.

Constance is a very beautiful lady whom I find very attractive. Shes been responding to me since we met and we have actually made love once but I said we wont do that again until shes divorced properly. Now,every time I ask her what is delaying her divorce,her response is not always satisfactory. She will say things like,I am praying to God to direct me on the right decision. I have asked her if she wants the man again and she denies that every time. She keeps asking me to be patient with her. That if I want s*x,she is ready anytime. I know she loves me,we spend quite a lot of time together. She is my idea of a perfect wife but this her indecisiveness to finalize her divorce is giving me cause for worry.

I would like to get married soon,should I wait for her or move on?Secondly,is it okay to keep smashing her after all......Read More

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She's probably tired of marriage as a whole! What stops u from being worse than where she's coming from?

She's married, She's yet to divorce.

Stay off a married woman, don't allow yourself to be the reason for their broken home when you re not suppose to be.

Stay clear!!!!
Her husbands beats her up, what do you think that her husband will be capable of doing to you.


Use your head, stop digging our grave.


She's till married until proven single with a divorce attempt.

Be careful

Most women are afraid to leave an abusive relationship
she might still be attracted to her husband
or maybe she's not ready to enter into another commitment after what she has been through


I like the decision you made, to keep off sex till she divorces her husband. Do not pressurize her to divorce or get married to you.

Communication helps too. Ask her what she really wants

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She's tired of marriage.

To be her companion is more convenient, and easy going for her.

With the experience she's had with her husband, trust me going into another marriage won't sound appealing to her. She need to heal first and that will take years. So either chill on marriage thing with her and enjoy her company or move on and look for another interesting lady that Wil be your wife.

Wow! You took it off exactly the way it's on my lips

Vivos:
Most women are afraid to leave an abusive relationship
she might still be attracted to her husband
or maybe she's not ready to enter into another commitment after what she has been through


I like the decision you made, to keep off sex till she divorces her husband. Do not pressurize her to divorce or get married to you.

Communication helps too. Ask her what she really wants

To start with , what went wrong in your previous marriage?
Secondly, you referred this new lady as your ‘ idea of a perfect wife’, does it mean ,your ex wife wasnt your idea of a perfect wife? If she wasnt , my question will be what you saw in her that made you marry her.
What makes you think what happened before with your ex wife wont repeat itself ?
Its obvious the lady doesn’t want to divorce her husband. Its better you let her be Sir and work on reconciling with your ex wife.

ORAGBON:

Dear Lively Stones,

I am a divorcee of 48 years old. I have been divorced for almost five years now and I am thinking of moving on to finally settle down with another woman.

I have been dating a few ladies but non of them catch my fancy. There is a lady however,whom I have been very friendly with. Her name is Constance and she is married to a man that treats her very badly. The man beats her,sleeps with other women and does not sleep with her. She has moved out of the man’s house but they are yet to start the divorce proceedings.

Constance is a very beautiful lady whom I find very attractive. Shes been responding to me since we met and we have actually made love once but I said we wont do that again until shes divorced properly. Now,every time I ask her what is delaying her divorce,her response is not always satisfactory. She will say things like,I am praying to God to direct me on the right decision. I have asked her if she wants the man again and she denies that every time. She keeps asking me to be patient with her. That if I want s*x,she is ready anytime. I know she loves me,we spend quite a lot of time together. She is my idea of a perfect wife but this her indecisiveness to finalize her divorce is giving me cause for worry.

I would like to get married soon,should I wait for her or move on?Secondly,is it okay to keep smashing her after all......Read More

www.Livelystones.com.ng

Romanic:

To start with , what went wrong in your previous marriage?
Secondly, you referred this new lady as your ‘ idea of a perfect wife’, does it mean ,your ex wife wasnt your idea of a perfect wife? If she wasnt , my question will be what you saw in her that made you marry her.
What makes you think what happened before with your ex wife wont repeat itself ?
Its obvious the lady doesn’t want to divorce her husband. Its better you let her be Sir and work on reconciling with your ex wife.

hmnnn, he is divorced! He has moved on, going back to his ex-wife is out of the matter. He wants this new lady period!

True talk my dear

donstan18:
She's married, She's yet to divorce.

Stay off a married woman, don't allow yourself to be the reason for their broken home when you re not suppose to be.

Stay clear!!!!
Her husbands beats her up, what do you think that her husband will be capable of doing to you.


Use your head, stop digging our grave.


She's till married until proven single with a divorce attempt.

Be careful

Exactly!
Thats the question here.

ashjay001:
She's probably tired of marriage as a whole! What stops u from being worse than where she's coming from?

True word.

The lady is not ready to divorce her husband.

LivelyStones:
Wow! You took it off exactly the way it's on my lips

Hmnnnn how did u know?

Romanic:
True word.

The lady is not ready to divorce her husband.