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Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Daeylar(f): 8:55pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Martin0: But honestly, the option of the Man's mum should be changed to the man, So the man will really sit comfortably and see his mum washing plates and won't jump.up immediately to take over just because he is a man,? That option of the Man's mum wasn't meant to be there at all. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by grandstar(m): 8:57pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
The guy's fiancee should offer and it would be honourable for their host to refuse. If however, the fiancee persists, then nothing wrong in helping out. |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Martin0(m): 9:00pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Daeylar: |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Angel1696: 9:00pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
what a rhetorical question |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Origin(f): 9:02pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
The guy.... Cos as one wise elder used to tell me.... You are not going to use what is in your pant to wash it. P.S- fiance or not- that is a guest in your house on the first visit. You would have just told her you are looking for a slave.. Rather than a wife. 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Daeylar(f): 9:03pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Martin0: my day was good how was yours? |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by sunsplash99(m): 9:06pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Am 32, my sister is 29 and my fiancée is 25. who should wash d dishes? |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Martin0(m): 9:07pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Daeylar: I have no reason to disagree with yoù! I agree! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Martin0(m): 9:17pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Daeylar:Cool! Me jus dey house today! Not resuming work yet though I wanted to resume today! |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Coldfeets: 9:25pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
I think it is the guy's only sister that should do the dishes. But if the guy's fiance is a good and well mannered person... or a very tactical diplomat... or even a very good pretender, then she could offer to help out. That way, she earns more points. |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Kronical(m): 9:28pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Dammylois: Lol @well trained.. You ehh.. |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by babra19: 9:37pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
LesbianBoy:If I am older than his younger sister..she will wash the dishes..if she is older than me I will gladly wash it...because is also my house. |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by rewarder: 9:37pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
I wish to comment... but seeing your username Lesbianguy... what d f**k is lesbianguy? 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by mamuzoOMAH(m): 9:38pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
biacan:yes she did. she did well on her own. Lol. |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by biacan(f): 9:42pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
mamuzoOMAH:And you couldn't help her where is the love |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by mamuzoOMAH(m): 9:46pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
biacan:I couldn't help her serve chops. I was busy on my own. it was my brothers marriage. I couldn't find the time to eat til after the wedding. u know how this family functions go. |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by dbestuncle: 9:47pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
The answer is simple. the sister should while the fiancee insist to give a helping hand. ladies fear the guy n his family who makes it clear that u can't do anything because u are a guest. wen u marry such people, they are the type that sometimes enslave the wife of their son. Pls this is Africa n Nigeria to b precise, all that film u have been watching maybe different from ur own reality which is dependent on the culture of the people. no form Americana abeg go wash am, even if the sister no come , u go n invite her to join u. |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by biacan(f): 9:52pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
mamuzoOMAH:You should have pet her while doing the work you no that love |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Lukdon: 10:22pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
the guy should be d one to wash the dishes |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Ahsad: 10:49pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
hope you no dy talk abt elder sister
if dat kolewerk I will kuku wash it :Phope you no dy talk abt elder sister
if dat kolewerk I will kuku wash it |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Ahsad: 10:54pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
abeg read d Question very well oo he didn't mention whether it is the elder sister or younger sister. if dy are family of 7 and dat sister dat is around is d first born and you're the last born kuku enter the kitchen and wash it jejely |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by ahmedbanj(m): 10:58pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Na thunder go fire 'guest' mode, she and my 6ta are to wash the dishes.
Op U sef gan cum still put mother 4 d equation?
lol sorry,something dey work U gan! |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Enmas078(m): 11:24pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
all the whole family including the fiancé... and the gateman if they have one. |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by bigfoot79(m): 11:25pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
kimbraa:. when you are trying to marry into a family, you are not a guest. what you are is a candidate who is being examined by all and sundry. |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Spoilt4toto: 11:26pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
DeadRat:carry babe for head like Gala®. Na your type woman dey use like handkerchief. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by chkb: 11:33pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Guys only sister |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by bigfoot79(m): 11:35pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
I was going to criticize those who voted for the sister to do the dishes, then i realized that culture differs and a host if them are either single females with no intention to get married soon or small boys who don't know what marriage is about. the first impression you as a potential daughter \sister in law wants to create should not be that of a pompous woman. grab the dishes and offer to clear the table, of course momma may say you should not worry, and sister in law should assist, you must be seen as being ready to do the dishes, although courtesy demands that the sister should be there with the fiancée to do the dishes |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by raymondkenny96: 11:36pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
My fiancee coz am a Yoruba boi my sister b like #iyaoko to her |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by pressplay411(m): 11:49pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
busterr: Great wisdom but you almost ruined it by insulting OP. OP no be SARS na. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by AiiVee(m): 11:54pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
in my opinion, i believe the younger Sis should wash them if she has been doing that before, then the fiancee should offer to assist the lil sis which will give them some kinda girl time and at the same time, gain favour with the guy's Mum and also with the guy himslef |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Nobody: 12:06am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Guy |
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by oluwasheyifunmie: 12:15am On Jan 04, 2018 |
DeadRat:so in wat regard do u hold ur sister. No doubt bout it, u er selfish. thinking bout urself alone. ur sister is someone's boo. so, cos its ur boo,ur sister sud b d one to suffer for ur shit...... wise up.... she's human too |
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