I will like to meet your brother.
let the weed roll
weed is good
we niggarz in Benin City smoke weed almost every day
but we smoke it with sense because no matter the amount of weed we take we canever be the most high only jah(God) is the most high
give me more ganja

all these pussy asss niggarzz and bitchess critizing weed and smokers don't know anything about weed.

please leave him be, he is enjoying life to the fullest. he should smoke and drink more dear. the food crisis and rising population needs urgent solution. we need fools to die young and serve as manure for future generations

close Ur eyes lemme pray for him

mssrosa:
Hello Fam!

This is something I wish I wouldn't have to do but I am left with no option as I am at the crossroads.

My brother started smoking lets say about 6-5 years ago, I only got to find out 3 years. He is my immediate elder brother so we are pretty much close, we are also from a Christian family and I can assure you that we were brought up very well. We have other elder siblings (boys).

From his story, I found out he started smoking when he got into University. He got into the federal university in my state and since we weren't based there, he lived alone in the family house.

This is someone who got into school and for his first year studying engineering, he had a very strong 2.1 and bagged Agbami scholarship. Fast forward to 3 years later, he dropped to a 2.2(which he later graduated with) and lost his Agbami scholarship. This same year he came home for hols and started being all by himself. One way or the other, my parents caught him smoking one day, dad scolded him, mum did same but later on went to plead with him to stop. He promised he would but still went back to smoking.

Right now before he goes to someone's house to maybe spend few days he would ask questions like: is there a backyard, is there a lone time in the house? Privacy etc, just so he would smoke.

He smokes weed EVERY single DAY!!!
And now he is getting really slim, anytime I try to talk to him about it he gets angry and walks away.

Just few days ago I noticed he has been drinking something he calls "purple"(he mixes it with maybe coke or ChiExotic). I went into his room and saw a bottle of tutolin which is obviously his "purple". I asked him why he was drinking it, he said he felt like and I told him I was gonna tell someone in the family.

NOW TO MY QUESTION

Should I go ahead and tell a family member/all or I should keep talking to him?

call me I'm an ndlea officer

dopedan:
That purple is probably codeine. Well i smoke weed on a low im not sure if the advice to give him

Tutolin is sure Codeine.

Dude is worried..
Something is eating him up and being the closest to him I'll advice you sit him down and talk to him.... He'll try to deny it , but give him your shoulders to lean on...He doesn't need someone that will shout at him or judge him, but he needs a friend... I believe you're in a better position to help him.

He's slowly going to d dogs....tell ur family

Talk to someone and also consider a rehab. He his going to self destruct and ruin his life if u guys watch him and think he will change.

He has to be taken to the Psychiatrist to help him

street don takeover... don't disturb urself

He needs intervention. Tell your parents, cause you cannot love him better than them, and everyone to take a trip to a psychiatry or remand home. Let him witness the effect on a personal level.

mssrosa:
Hello Fam!

This is something I wish I wouldn't have to do but I am left with no option as I am at the crossroads.

My brother started smoking lets say about 6-5 years ago, I only got to find out 3 years. He is my immediate elder brother so we are pretty much close, we are also from a Christian family and I can assure you that we were brought up very well. We have other elder siblings (boys).

From his story, I found out he started smoking when he got into University. He got into the federal university in my state and since we weren't based there, he lived alone in the family house.

This is someone who got into school and for his first year studying engineering, he had a very strong 2.1 and bagged Agbami scholarship. Fast forward to 3 years later, he dropped to a 2.2(which he later graduated with) and lost his Agbami scholarship. This same year he came home for hols and started being all by himself. One way or the other, my parents caught him smoking one day, dad scolded him, mum did same but later on went to plead with him to stop. He promised he would but still went back to smoking.

Right now before he goes to someone's house to maybe spend few days he would ask questions like: is there a backyard, is there a lone time in the house? Privacy etc, just so he would smoke.

He smokes weed EVERY single DAY!!!
And now he is getting really slim, anytime I try to talk to him about it he gets angry and walks away.

Just few days ago I noticed he has been drinking something he calls "purple"(he mixes it with maybe coke or ChiExotic). I went into his room and saw a bottle of tutolin which is obviously his "purple". I asked him why he was drinking it, he said he felt like and I told him I was gonna tell someone in the family.

NOW TO MY QUESTION

Should I go ahead and tell a family member/all or I should keep talking to him?

Jst put him in prayers and bring him more closer to u than ever before. Family should also show him love rather than scolding. He is grown up. Needs counselling more than any other thing.

optimist1999 have you ever noticed that eyiyemi1 :has really nice lips

LifeIsGuhd:
Maybe you should tell one of your siblings.

Mynd44, Lalasticlala, this requires larger audience

hmnn nawa o

All these jobless boys that will turn weed to work...mtcheew,they will just be giving the medicinal herb bad name.

let me wait for a good advice too because i have someone who smoke mary j, drink alcohol, drink codeine, drink ciroch, drink tramol and sniff snuff

take him to Mountain of fire

Now Lazarus In heaven, will be singing for the rich man. You for deh for me, when the boy they hunger.

Report him to his GF that you know he truly love and cares for... Talking from experience!

internationalman:
Weed and masturbation addiction are the strongest addiction....

only God can save someone from it.

It beats my imagination how people can be addicted to masturbation when there are lots of pussies around.

Coco( codein ), gbana Igbo, SK , is the norms of the day in our present generation. Hope he hasn't started ref sha??

it is the most rampant thing in our society now, 80% of my old friends are into it.


Sincerely speaking there is nothing you can do to change him. Only God can change him.

Speaking from ppl experience, addicts can't be changed, unless he sees a reason to change.
Is he still thinking rationally and logically?? Can he still reason well??

You and your parents should not try anything rough, cause you will chase him out, and he wiil find solace in the hands of fellow smokers and drug addict, and there is no brotherhood better than smoking together.


His he working??

If he his not working, he will soon start doing yahoo( if he hasn't started), if yahoo doesn't pay him, he will get involved in other fraudulent act.





The only thing you can do for him ,is pray for him, and look for Saved ADDICT, that can put him through the hassles of addiction.

Which one is tutolin?

act fast, or he will soon be addicted to street and dirt.

Let him watch the Video captioned "THE BEGINING AND END OF MAJEK FASHEK' u I'll be surprise he will become a pastor after watching it.thank me later

You can't tackle this alone, involve your parents and other siblings. You guys must make sure not to vilify him or you risk leading him to isolate himself more from you guys. You guys must approach him with warmness , make him see that the drugs are winning the battle in his life.

[quote author=Pepsi101 post=63898246]Take him to rehab before he turns to Majek Fashek [/quote
savage. hahahahaha

francesco01:
take him to Mountain of fire

To do what, Light his weed?

Comot this wall make I pass

internationalman:
Weed and masturbation addiction are the strongest addiction....

only God can save someone from it.

i smoked weed for a long long time

i smoked weed, took ref and codeine and even tramal,
i was a heavy cigarette smoker also .

its 1 year and 5 months and i have not done drug and about 6 months i stopped cigarette .

Never Never easy though .

one thing I can tell u is,u can give ur brother all d advice in the world.it wouldn't change anytin except he discovers it himself DAT wat he is indulgeing in is wrong.I hope he finds out soon enough and stop.

mssrosa:
Hello Fam!

This is something I wish I wouldn't have to do but I am left with no option as I am at the crossroads.

My brother started smoking lets say about 6-5 years ago, I only got to find out 3 years. He is my immediate elder brother so we are pretty much close, we are also from a Christian family and I can assure you that we were brought up very well. We have other elder siblings (boys).

From his story, I found out he started smoking when he got into University. He got into the federal university in my state and since we weren't based there, he lived alone in the family house.

This is someone who got into school and for his first year studying engineering, he had a very strong 2.1 and bagged Agbami scholarship. Fast forward to 3 years later, he dropped to a 2.2(which he later graduated with) and lost his Agbami scholarship. This same year he came home for hols and started being all by himself. One way or the other, my parents caught him smoking one day, dad scolded him, mum did same but later on went to plead with him to stop. He promised he would but still went back to smoking.

Right now before he goes to someone's house to maybe spend few days he would ask questions like: is there a backyard, is there a lone time in the house? Privacy etc, just so he would smoke.

He smokes weed EVERY single DAY!!!
And now he is getting really slim, anytime I try to talk to him about it he gets angry and walks away.

Just few days ago I noticed he has been drinking something he calls "purple"(he mixes it with maybe coke or ChiExotic). I went into his room and saw a bottle of tutolin which is obviously his "purple". I asked him why he was drinking it, he said he felt like and I told him I was gonna tell someone in the family.

NOW TO MY QUESTION

Should I go ahead and tell a family member/all or I should keep talking to him?

you had better tell your family members now and you guys better stop him and think of how to break his addiction before it becomes serious

this is what ruined my elder brother, he's addicted to weed and became mentally unstable. dude is tiny and smokes alot.

pcguru1 this reminds me of my family problem and it's depressing