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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by ThePallidMan(m): 5:14pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
rape cases are most times her words over mine thats why rapist hv the guts to continue cause there will surely be questions lingering if she was lying n the rapist will act on that!!! Combined with the stigma that goes with it 4 d lady!!! Just few cases evidences are seen!! So are u implying the once with out evidence are lies Oh please!!

shugavee and Proudgorgeousga please stop being ignorant. sperm stays in the vagina for 3 days. if raped, go to the hospital and get your region examined for tear and sperm and have it analysed. call the police and inform them of the accused rapist. he ejaculates in a container and Its analysed. if its a match. hes taken to court. the sperm or scratch he left on you is evidence. stop acting so ignorant

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 5:20pm On Jan 27, 2018
ThePallidMan:


please stop being ignorant. sperm stays in the vagina for 3 days. if raped, got to the hospital and get your region examined for tear and sperm and have it analysed. call the police and inform them of the accused rapist. he ejaculates in a container and Its analysed. if its a match. hes taken to court. the sperm or scratch he left on you is evidence. stop acting so ignorant
yeah in americian films!! Most ladies dont speak up immediately due to the stigmq but when she does!those that imply she is lyinghow mny rape cases gets to court in nigeria ??N u stop being ignorant n sentimental
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by ThePallidMan(m): 5:26pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
yeah in americian films!! Most ladies dont speak up immediately due to the stigmq but when she does!those that imply she is lyinghow mny rape cases gets to court in nigeria ??N u stop being ignorant n sentimental

youre the one being sentimental and ignorant(if you even know what that means). stop portraying women as weak and helpless.

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 5:37pm On Jan 27, 2018
Daeylar:


I'm surprised too. The way he said it as if anybody believes rape victims in the first place or takes them seriously? They even start attacking the victim, why did you go here, why did you wear this, stupid asinine questions that make me feel like slapping hell out of them

A time is coming? Which time? Time we are already living in?

A woman or man who says he or she was raped isn't believed and in some cases is even insulted,

Is it not the same victim blaming Nigeria again?


Let everybody tell their story, provide evidence, go to court,
If the guy actually raped the girl then he goes to jail,
It should be taken seriously, any one found guilty should go to jail, I also recommend castration,

If the girl is lying she goes to jail, by the time many fools that will want to try it see the number of people in jail for false rape accusations they'll think twice and also the Man's name must be cleared.


Rape is not a joke nor something to be thrown around when it's not true.

My solution.


And finally, a time should never ever come whereby no one should believe rape accusations. What!!!?

Why is it that any thing stupid some women do is used as ammo to try and attack all women?, What kind of threat is that? No one will believe any woman? undecided

If it's you men they attack with this kind of nonsense, you all will rush to type it's not all men, remember your father and all the rubbish,

Mtchewww, you men feel so special in this country,

Instead of addressing the problem of rape and false accusations of rape and looking for solutions, you're giving ridiculous threats, trash.

Whether you believe or not is not needed, all you need to do is make sure the case is taken to court and make sure the truth comes out,
Whoever is lying should be punished, either the man or woman,

Not sitting there trying to take laws into your own hands, typing ridiculous threats like "it will get to a time no one will believe rape accusations from women".
exactly my dear!! Not all men kwa?? But all men indulge in victim blaming!! All men are not the same my bom bom!! They always find the loopholes n call them liars
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 5:41pm On Jan 27, 2018
ThePallidMan:


youre the one being sentimental and ignorant(if you even know what that means). stop portraying women as weak and helpless.
we aint weak n helpless i know that!! But still doesnt mean they were lying!!
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 6:03pm On Jan 27, 2018
Proudgorgeousga:


They give reasons why whatever occurred shouldn't be considered rape.

I do believe rape has an objective definition


back to the example you cited in your post you are trying to imply that the lady saying the taxify driver tired to rape her was deliberately lying. well if a man drives me to an unknown location and tries to dragged me out the first thing that would come to my mind is that he wants to rape me.

Can we then infer she was a ritualist because this was the driver's presumption from her refusal to get down from the car and the incessant calls bearing their location?


I agree they may have both misunderstood each other's action but I don't believe she simply made the story up.

made the story up?

no.

rape, kidnap, ritual?

not a chance

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 6:05pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
rape cases are most times her words over mine thats why rapist hv the guts to continue cause there will surely be questions lingering if she was lying n the rapist will act on that!!! Combined with the stigma that goes with it 4 d lady!!! Just few cases evidences are seen!! So are u implying the once with out evidence are lies Oh please!!

We are forgetting the stigma that comes with being accused of rape? Do you know that can literally destroy not just a career but a man's life. We must treat rape cases with much urgency as it deserves and thorough scrutiny because the blade goes either way.

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 6:19pm On Jan 27, 2018
Daeylar:


I'm surprised too. The way he said it as if anybody believes rape victims in the first place or takes them seriously?


Oh they are believed in most cases, we get to see some of these cases of conviction and even jungle justice on rapist almost daily on Nairaland front page.

And moreover rape enabling is disgusting and we are all well against that, blaming the victim also is a disgusting act that we all condemn but this mustn't be mistaken with asking the right questions in a bid to scrutinize a case.


They even start attacking the victim, why did you go here, why did you wear this, stupid asinine questions that make me feel like slapping hell out of them

Who are they?


A time is coming? Which time? Time we are already living in?

No you are not. Simply walk outside, grab any random man and shout he raped you and watch him get mobbed or even lynched to death. People are more likely to believe your story and sympathize with you.

That is just a little demonstration to test the validity of this claim.


A woman or man who says he or she was raped isn't believed and in some cases is even insulted,

Is it not the same victim blaming Nigeria again?

Wrong again. Is it not this same Nigeria that we see rapists and alleged rapists almost getting lynched to death, let us not treat this like a one faced knife. It is not.



Let everybody tell their story, provide evidence, go to court,
If the guy actually raped the girl then he goes to jail,
It should be taken seriously, any one found guilty should go to jail, I also recommend castration,

100% agreed


If the girl is lying she goes to jail, by the time many fools that will want to try it see the number of people in jail for false rape accusations they'll think twice and also the Man's name must be cleared.

Equal punishment. I agree again


Rape is not a joke nor something to be thrown around when it's not true.

Sexual violence is a heinous thing and we must always condemn perpetrators or enablers. Women who label innocent men rapists just because they want to win a disagreement are violent, vile human beings too & we must condemn them too.


And finally, a time should never ever come whereby no one should believe rape accusations. What!!!?

Why is it that any thing stupid some women do is used as ammo to try and attack all women?, What kind of threat is that? No one will believe any woman? undecided

Wrong conception of an argument stemming from hasty conclusion. The post in no way condemns or blames all women, an implication of an action is not condemnation.

from the post
This will be very unfortunate as it will be unfair to actual rape victims.

the post highlighted possible implications of using rape accusations as a weapon to get back at someone



If it's you men they attack with this kind of nonsense, you all will rush to type it's not all men, remember your father and all the rubbish,
Non sequitor stemming from your own misrepresentation or misunderstanding of the argument

Mtchewww, you men feel so special in this country,

Oh No we don't. There is no right that i have that you don't in the constitution


Instead of addressing the problem of rape and false accusations of rape and looking for solutions, you're giving ridiculous threats, trash.

Again another gross misrepresentation and understanding: highlighting implications of a line of action is not a threat.

If humanity continues making nuclear weapons a time will come when we will destroy civilization. This is not a threat.

Learn the difference between a threat and highlight of possible consequence


Whether you believe or not is not needed, all you need to do is make sure the case is taken to court and make sure the truth comes out,
Whoever is lying should be punished, either the man or woman,

We agree again


Not sitting there trying to take laws into your own hands, typing ridiculous threats like "it will get to a time no one will believe rape accusations from women".

You have no idea what it means to threaten someone

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 6:21pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
exactly my dear!! Not all men kwa?? But all men indulge in victim blaming!! All men are not the same my bom bom!! They always find the loopholes n call them liars

You are not really smart at all. Your view of reality is upside down. Change your damn location or the men around you
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Mirallas: 7:13pm On Jan 27, 2018
johnydon22:


You are not really smart at all. Your view of reality is upside down. Change your damn location or the men around you
Easy bro, you wan make he commit suicide
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jan 27, 2018
johnydon22:






Can we then infer she was a ritualist because this was the driver's presumption from her refusal to get down from the car and the incessant calls bearing their location?


no. but I will not come out and say the driver was playing the ritualist card because he truly believed she was up to something by spraying the pepper spray on him it scared him.

your post implied that she made up the rape part just to punish him not because that's what she thought he wanted to do by taking her to an unknown location. this kidnap and rape happens all the time so I don't blame her for thinking so.
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Tozara(m): 9:04pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
exactly my dear!! Not all men kwa?? But all men indulge in victim blaming!! All men are not the same my bom bom!! They always find the loopholes n call them liars
You're obviously a hopeless bimbo---complete waste of time. Your passion outweighs your intelligence by a wide margin, so you can barely reason.
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Tozara(m): 9:07pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
rape cases are most times her words over mine thats why rapist hv the guts to continue cause there will surely be questions lingering if she was lying n the rapist will act on that!!! Combined with the stigma that goes with it 4 d lady!!! Just few cases evidences are seen!! So are u implying the once with out evidence are lies Oh please!!
I give up on you.
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 9:10pm On Jan 27, 2018
Tozara:
You're obviously a hopeless bimbo---complete waste of time. Your passion outweighs your intelligence by a wide margin, so you can barely reason.
shut up!!!
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 9:13pm On Jan 27, 2018
Mirallas:

Easy bro, you wan make he commit suicide
who? As u can see i ignored!! I hv better things to do with my mb than waste it on him!!
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Tozara(m): 9:17pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
shut up!!!
Come on, shut me up. Sick fück.
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 9:18pm On Jan 27, 2018
Tozara:
Come on, shut me up. Sick fück.
shut up !!!
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Tozara(m): 9:20pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
shut up !!!
Lol. Your DNA code must be written in stupidity and cluelessness.

Continue doing what you were programmed to do.

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jan 27, 2018
Tozara:
I give up on you.
If a girl is raped. . . an examination by a doctor can easily tell if its done immediately after the abuser is done. The person you're quoting isn't very intelligent.

A lot of girls also don't know the difference between sexual harassment and rape.

And, a lot of girls (especially in the West) also lie a lot about sexual harassment. Here's a video of a crazy feminist telling a man he's "harassing her" because he said 'hello' while going about his business.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c07k33O4aAU

This one is even worse. I find this one particularly funny, especially because of the guy's reaction. The funniest part is that she recorded it herself, and originally shared it as 'evidence', only for her to get backlash/people reuploading it making fun of her.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MVyQNNFobA

If I ever have to work where I will be alone with a woman, I MUST make sure I am either recording/taking pictures throughout the time spent. If it means installing cameras in my car or spending money on a wristwatch that can record videos, so be it.

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 9:24pm On Jan 27, 2018
guys guys please easy. it's obvious emotions are raging and getting the best out of people. To argue is to have a stone heart, the emotions will crop up but don't argue with that
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 9:29pm On Jan 27, 2018
Tozara:
Lol. Your DNA code must be written in stupidity and cluelessness.

Continue doing what you were programmed to do.
cry me a river!! Men r scums,n most r rapist!! If u like kill urself e no go change price of garri 4 market!! Thats how irrelevant u r to the universe!!!
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 9:36pm On Jan 27, 2018
AnonyNymous:

If a girl is raped. . . an examination by a doctor can easily tell if its done immediately after the abuser is done. The person you're quoting isn't very intelligent.

A lot of girls also don't know the difference between sexual harassment and rape.

And, a lot of girls (especially in the West) also lie a lot about sexual harassment. Here's a video of a crazy feminist telling a man he's "harassing her" because he said 'hello' while going about his business.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c07k33O4aAU

This one is even worse. I find this one particularly funny, especially because of the guy's reaction. The funniest part is that she recorded it herself, and originally shared it as 'evidence', only for her to get backlash/people reuploading it making fun of her.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MVyQNNFobA

If I ever have to work where I will be alone with a woman, I MUST make sure I am either recording/taking pictures throughout the time spent. If it means installing cameras in my car or spending money on a wristwatch that can record videos, so be it.

it is becoming absurd, the videos shows just how demented some girls have gone. Third wave feminism have somehow cultivated a victims culture. Women are made to see themselves as perpetual victims of some form of male induced oppression.

And the irony is that these women with these toxic ideas fight and argue they are not weak or vulnerable at the same time use the victim, weak and vulnerable card to their advantage.

The victims culture is running too deep now, every woman now is a victim of the most absurd offenses conceivable.

Have you heard of the term "Reverse rape"? if a woman wants to have sex with a man and he refuses then he is guilty of reverse rape. he used his advantage as the stronger individual to deny her what she wants.

it is getting just too absurd

i fail to see the logic behind an empowerment that makes women see themselves as perpetual victims and men as vindictive monstrous beings that always mean ill against women.

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 9:40pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
cry me a river!! Men r scums.
Well you are equal to men, what does that make you sweetheart? grin


n most r rapist!! If u like kill urself e no go change price of garri 4 market!!
I try to sympathize with people who sound like you, there is an underlying pain behind this and i hope you will heal.

last last you will be all right, just drink water


Thats how irrelevant u r to the universe!!!

Darwinian evolution will take care of this... Ask me how? grin

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 9:43pm On Jan 27, 2018
johnydon22:
Well you are equal to men, what does that make you sweetheart? grin

I try to sympathize with people who sound like you, there is an underlying pain behind this and i hope you will heal.

last last you will be all right, just drink water



Darwinian evolution will take care of this... Ask me how? grin

smh mtcheww!!
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 9:44pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
smh mtcheww!!

Last last you will be all right sweetheart grin

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 9:47pm On Jan 27, 2018
johnydon22:


Last last you will be all right sweetheart grin
b4 nko!! Will i be waiting 4 u to find sense first Am alright dear!! Think abt urself!
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 9:52pm On Jan 27, 2018
Tohzara:
Lol. Your father, brother(s), and the morön (boyfriend) that hosts a parasite like you are all scum. All as worthless as every other male in your family.
No. they are not. Her father, brother, boy friend have nothing to do with her unstable mental state, leave them out of it.


If men are scum, you're scum as well---because you're a product of sperm. Fücking retãrd.
Don't take this too serious, i have seen worse.


It's not my fault that you were raped by your dad. That doesn't give you the right to call men rapists.
Unfair assumption, most likely untrue. I don't support this.

Calm down brother


And as per your last statement, human history tells me that men have been more relevant to the universe than women. Go figure.

Last last the universe doesn't even know we are here. it's a ginormous indifferent cosmos
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 9:53pm On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
b4 nko!! Will i be waiting 4 u to find sense first
teach me how to have sense with your top notch civility, logical argumentative layouts and not uncouth mesh of insults cooked with poor grammar.

we play too much in this country


Am alright dear!! Think abt urself!

I will be fine..
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Tohzara(m): 9:56pm On Jan 27, 2018
AnonyNymous:

If a girl is raped. . . an examination by a doctor can easily tell if its done immediately after the abuser is done. The person you're quoting isn't very intelligent.

A lot of girls also don't know the difference between sexual harassment and rape.

And, a lot of girls (especially in the West) also lie a lot about sexual harassment. Here's a video of a crazy feminist telling a man he's "harassing her" because he said 'hello' while going about his business.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c07k33O4aAU

This one is even worse. I find this one particularly funny, especially because of the guy's reaction. The funniest part is that she recorded it herself, and originally shared it as 'evidence', only for her to get backlash/people reuploading it making fun of her.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MVyQNNFobA
Lol. Those women in the west are becoming crazy. They've turned feminism into a bitter campaign against the male gender. Their feminism is full-blown MISANDRY! God help Western men. grin

If I ever have to work where I will be alone with a woman, I MUST make sure I am either recording/taking pictures throughout the time spent. If it means installing cameras in my car or spending money on a wristwatch that can record videos, so be it.
Hahaha. I think women should do same. It'll make it easier to prove rape cases.

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