LadyHeaven:


Processing... Love hard? I don't know about that , stare into his soul all day? I would really love that

Arsenate:
because i keep to my self a lot, people misconstrue that as arrogance, rudeness or snubbish. it used to bother me alot. now I don't seem to care.

Burpee:
I never knew have got people like me, I find it difficult to relate with people have just met. I need to be very familiar with you before I can converse freely plus I enjoy staying indoor. I could be in my apartment for days without my neighbours knowing am around but I job require me to mix with different people.

Geofavor:
I greet the house.

emperordachris:
Im introverted....i find it hard talking with people i dnt know...at times wen i go out with my friend i seem to be invisible.
I ve already spent 2 yrs in the uni.
My relationship with the opposite sex ve suffered..lost people i liked cos of been scared to approach dem.
Im workin on my self dis yr, but i still ve a problem overcoming the nervousness when i approach a gal. All help offered will be highly appreciated.

ultron12345:
pls someone should help me with advice, this introversion is causing me lonliness. I'm a 200lvl student and I have only 2 friends in my whole faculty, and this is only because we were classmates in secondary school. After spending more than a year, I don't have anyone I talk to apart from them, I will get to the class, and sit down alone and quietly like mumu.... ............. even in my hostel, no friends, it's just the normal greetings, it's either am at school or on in my room, sometimes I spend more than 2 days alone in my room without coming out. If not for our class whatsapp group, I wonder hw I would b getting info giving out of class cos I don't have anyone to call, there was a time I even missed a test because my whatsapp enables phone had a flat battery, and there was no one I could call and no one to call me to inform me of d test....
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Pls, I need advice, I need to make friends, I'm too lonely.

emperordachris:
The heartbeat race nd the panic attack na die...makes me shake at times.
Creating an opportunity is sometin i ve been thinking of how to do. For example there is this gal i wanted to talk to today, but she was with her friends all along. This got me discouraged cos im finding it difficult to handle one person talkmore of with her friends.
I will read up the previous 10 chats

DonOms:


Yeah, I get the shaking. Trust me, if you can overcome that little inertia barrier, you'll sail smoothly. About the lady you wanted to talk to, I'm sure another opportunity will show up and she'll probably be alone or with only one friend. Just be spontaneous and calm when you do get to have the encounter. But just remember to not appear forward or presumptuous.

labrat:
I initially thought I was the only one, or rather, that my type was very rare, but seeing this thread has made me appreciate myself the more

I'm so pleased to meet you all

emperordachris:
hey guys got to meet two gals yesterday
couldn't believe I could do it... my friend pushed me to it...

DonOms:


Well, like I said, "if you can overcome that little inertia barrier, you'll sail smoothly."

Just remember to treat everyone you meet with respect and be yourself.

DonOms:


Well, like I said, "if you can overcome that little inertia barrier, you'll sail smoothly."

Just remember to treat everyone you meet with respect and be yourself.

Rukkydelta:
Happy new month fam

locust:
Been long. All the advice wey una dey throw up and down here, e go enter my left ear and exit thru my right. I would be listening attentively o, but when it comes to doing the do, liver go cut ur guy. In case you wanted to ask if i had approached any lady since then, they neva born me well.

locust:
Been long. All the advice wey una dey throw up and down here, e go enter my left ear and exit thru my right. I would be listening attentively o, but when it comes to doing the do, liver go cut ur guy. In case you wanted to ask if i had approached any lady since then, they neva born me well.

Sard:



the last part of your post got me laughing really hard.

But the fear of approaching a lady doesn't primarily have to do with introversion. It's more of shyness, fear of rejection and possibly low self-esteem.
I'll suggest that you you approach ladies you ain't interested in (for dating or even friendship). Even if such person rejects you, it won't be so significant on your self-esteem.
Sales girls and others who are obliged to be responsive and courteous are other target persons.
Over all, go out more and have fun, even if you just have to sit down while watching people do their things.
All the best.