tiredoflife:


You know in a sane country u go dey jail for human trafficking

Mr tired of life...trafficking ke? Shey I dey carry dem waka ni....it's kinda of employment bro...someone introduces you to someone for employment...and that's what is happening in naija of today...

Dinvictus:


Stop this necessary evil comment. Its not necessary at all. This working class we women a claiming what are we even working? Quit your job and take care of your children cos if it comes to the worse na you wey carry them for belle for 9 months e go pain.

You will be surprise at the quality of life of you and your family if you quit your 9 to 5. Worse come to worse take up a little online trading or jobs.

Na wetin person go do na bros? Couple with dual income earnings is the thing now...the economy isnt smilling....even if I decide to trade now...wld still leaving home for my shop....like what happened to that woman in the subject matter...she was in shop when the maid committed the crime. Make God just to protect us ni o...

Jethrolite:
Lol, de wait.

Bros, abeg na....no amount is little...should I pm you now?

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
did anybody beg you to have 3 kids, that's all you Nigerians Know, popping out kids like wild pigs

Bros, are you married? Wait until u r married and then we can talk abt the number of children u gonna have.
Even some oyinbos do have more than 5kids....
Beyonce is got 2kids remember even Barrack Obama and what abt Donald Trump? 3kid isnt too much bro
No dey do unnecessary vex na.

Loisemm:

My sister, I understand Jor. It's better you refuse sorry now than later when it may be too late. Cos all they may say or do if something bad happens is 'sorry '. Always trust your instincts as a mother.
Many of them don't really care deep down cos they are not related to the family. It's normal even with people who aren't maids. We care most for our family and friends.

My sister, I taya for the girl o cos I never treated her badly...dont even beat someone's children...she was so free in my house....that her attitude got to me o...looking at a small girl chocking like that...can never do that to her...my conscience wldnt be at home.
What do we do...they are necessary evil my sister...there are still good ones amongst them sha even better than someone related by blood.

foyeks2001:

Mr tired of life...trafficking ke? Shey I dey carry dem waka ni....it's kinda of employment bro...someone introduces you to someone for employment...and that's what is happening in naija of today...

Law never catch u
If he does u go know
Its pure human trafficking
Go ask around the law will be clear to u
Yes it seems like honest business
Pray make issues no arrive u go see weeh

Dinvictus:


Moreover if this job that makes you leave home as early as 7am and return after 6pm can't allow you afford above minimum wage for a help then your job ain't worth it. And that is not healthy living waking up early and coming back very late.

My brother, even if the job can only afford to buy maggi, atleast maggi isnt no longer a problem at home...
Shey make I pm you to send my acct number Mr minimum wage? Even many states are not paying workers minimum wage...this is Nigeria o where both man and woman hustle except ofcourse someone is born with a silver spoon...I can not be Dangote's daughter without having like 10 domestic workers now my brother.

tiredoflife:


Law never catch u
If he does u go know
Its pure human trafficking
Go ask around the law will be clear to u
Yes it seems like honest business
Pray make issues no arrive u go see weeh

They are called domestic workers...They work for you and you pay them at the end of the month..she's isnt a minor but an adult of 18 , I'm even sure that girl was more than 18, I was only lied to.

Odiriance4all:




10k monthly and you expect the made to be happily doing the job. Nonsense Nigeria rich people.

Rich ke? I'm not rich o...I live with God's special grace ni o...There's no compulsion for her to work in my house...she agreed to the said amount b4 coming...it wasnt as if I forced her my brother...its the samething as the corporate world where there's bargaining as well.

foyeks2001:

They are called domestic workers...They work for you and you pay them at the end of the month..she's isnt a minor but an adult of 18 , I'm even sure that girl was more than 18, I was only lied to.

OK she is not a minor
Good
No issues
But never use those words to describe her again
U came off like one who is wicked
But maybe u were just angry

iamjavadem:
"rust my hubby cos he's got good taste in women" wrong assumption madam, that was the same assumption that got some women into trouble. Prick no go school, the only female in ur house should be you and your daugthers, a word is enough for the wise, dont forget that the devil is very creative.

Yes u right...but you know when u are in a dicey situation...you tend to ignore some things..all I was interested was 'do my job and let everyone be happy'.

tiredoflife:


OK she is not a minor
Good
No issues
But never use those words to describe her again
U came off like one who is wicked
But maybe u were just angry

Minors are dirty now...they will litter their used menstrual pads everywhere...Hian
And you wld be doing the talking all the time cos they wld be seeing what and what needed to be done and they wldnt do it not until u call their attention to it unlike the matured ones.
That girl really offended me cos is something I can never do to her that she did to my daughter.

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I am female, kidnap, assault etc my blood pressure can't handle it.

neoapocalypse:


Obviously Do you know what goes on in the family ? are you part of the family to come to that conclusion ?. Investigations can be carried out and if indeed the madam of the house is/has abusing/abused the maid then she should be prosecuted. Jumping to hasty conclusions is all you're doing , as it is the only evil act proved so far is the killing of a five year old boy , why are you trying to cover that up that is evil as well in my estimation , haba!

oga in law she's a minor and does not have the capacity to commit murder. She'll go to a correctional facility but the parents of the poor boy are the devils for using a child in such a manner.

Dinvictus:


I am female, believe me one can do with help. I left my job of almost 250k monthly in banking to stay at home soon as I had my first child. Believe me I can't afford some clothing and luxuries but I believe it's just for a while. My husband is the sole income earner and his pay isn't regular. We cut don't our cost to the barest. I didn't spend money for creche and help at all. With all the stories out there, molestation, kidnap, assault etc my blood pressure can't handle it.

Hmmmmm....my sister, is not easy o.
I quite understand with you but you know someone men now...when I was a stay at home mom, anytime I ask my hubby that I personally needed something( I know he's not financially bouyant at that time, only wanted him to have me in mind), he wld be like ' do u have a gun? I wld ask for what? He wld say , so that he can go and rub CBN ni now)... I dont like those kinda of statements at all...Lol
I just have to understand his mood to ask him anything...abeg when a woman is working, there's this 'boldness ' u have with hubby.
Wish you al the very best my sister...life isnt fair at all...you live it as it comes

gypsey:
well.. i can only do what i can, it doesn't matter if they pay back or not. you don't Raise children so that they can pay back for raising them, only in Nigeria people thinks like that, that's why they put so much pressure on their children and their children become criminals and scammers just to pay their selfish and lazy parents back.

Nigerians have children just to use them for cheap slave labour, my children Already have money in their trust funds, if they don't pay back i am Already sorted financially. when i retire.

their English grand parents have Already reserved some money for them in their wills

lucky kids you got

Martin0:
lucky kids you got

so you see? why i want to have more kids in Naija plus i need to go see my other son in pretoria South Africa. incase these ones Disown me, I no trust Onyibo pikins even though they are my kids.

gypsey:
so you see? why i want to have more kids in Naija plus i need to go see my other son in pretoria South Africa. incase these ones Disown me, I no trust Onyibo pikins even though they are my kids.

hahahahah I like oyibo kids o, eheh how our friend

foyeks2001:

Hmmmmm....my sister, is not easy o.
I quite understand with you but you know someone men now...when I was a stay at home mom, anytime I ask my hubby that I personally needed something( I know he's not financially bouyant at that time, only wanted him to have me in mind), he wld be like ' do u have a gun? I wld ask for what? He wld say , so that he can go and rub CBN ni now)... I dont like those kinda of statements at all...Lol
I just have to understand his mood to ask him anything...abeg when a woman is working, there's this 'boldness ' u have with hubby.
Wish you al the very best my sister...life isnt fair at all...you live it as it comes

I see were you are comming from, the problem is Maiding used be something that was done with love and caring we have maids looking After me and my sister too when we were youths, infact we ended up in our childish minds believing that the maid was our mother. because the love and care in which she looked After us even After 35 years i am still in contact with the maid she is in her 50s now.

These days Maids are just glorified legal slavery in nigeria, Their so called Madams are hell bent on slaving and brutalising them to the bones, they see them as Not humans, Not realising that the maids will come to a breaking point one day because they are still humans.
look! if the so called Madams treats the maids with the same love as their children, There will be no problems, maiding is about caring from my understanding. not a business transactions as it Appears today in Nigeria,
one can not be Martreating a maid and expect the maid to love her children.
the madams pay to Accquire these maids and are slaving and working the maids as hard as possible to get their moneys worth i guess.
the house help or maids mentality needs to change perhaps.

Martin0:



hahahahah I like oyibo kids o, eheh how our friend

she dey dere! onyibo pikin no easy to raise o! if you no take care dem go call police for you wey be dere papa

gypsey:
I see were you are comming from, the problem is Maiding used be something that was done with love and caring we have maids looking After me and my sister too when we were youths, infact we ended up in our childish minds believing that the maid was our mother. because the love and care in which she looked After us even After 35 years i am still in contact with the maid she is in her 50s now.

These days Maids are just glorified legal slavery in nigeria, Their so called Madams are hell bent on slaving and brutalising them to the bones, they see them as Not humans, Not realising that the maids will come to a breaking point one day because they are still humans.
look! if so called Madams treat the maids with the same love as their children, There will be no problems, maiding is about caring from my understanding. not a business transactions as it Appears today in Nigeria,
one can not be Martreating a maid and expect the maid to love her children.
the madams pay to Accquire these maids and are slaving and working the maids as hard as possible to get their moneys worth i guess.

May God help some Madams...truly, many treat their maids as slaves...They forgot that the future is unknown...the rejected stone cld turn out to be the chief corner stone...we are like waters..we can meet ahain anytime.

Dinvictus:


I am female, believe me one can do with help. I left my job of almost 250k monthly in banking to stay at home soon as I had my first child. Believe me I can't afford some clothing and luxuries but I believe it's just for a while. My husband is the sole income earner and his pay isn't regular. We cut don't our cost to the barest. I didn't spend money for creche and help at all. With all the stories out there, molestation, kidnap, assault etc my blood pressure can't handle it.

Now, this is what parenting is all about!

foyeks2001:

May God help some Madams...truly, many treat their maids as slaves...They forgot that the future is unknown...the rejected stone cld turn out to be the chief corner stone...we are like waters..we can meet ahain anytime.

The mentality of house helps or Maids as a Fat dirty, stupid, smelly and Illierate Village girl needs to change Amongst Nigerian Madams i guess

My Mother always says Do to people what you would like to be done to you.

gypsey:
she dey dere! onyibo pikin no easy to raise o! if you no take care dem go call police for you wey be dere papa

hahahahah well Na their right sha, come link me up with her or my add her for whatsapp

foyeks2001:
I dont waste time sacking them ....I sent one away after spending 2weeks with last sunday....whenever I detect you ve got no love in you, I send you packing no matter how much it cost me to bring you to my house...I sent the last one away when I heard my daughter coughing( grasping for breath) while eating in her room and the cruel dirty looking fat girl of 18 just kept on with her food( something I can never do to her)...I immediately called the agent that brought her to come and carry his load away giving 7k, cos we bargained on 10kmonthly apart from the 10k used to ferry her from Nassarawa to Abj...

Maids are necessary evil...something you can not do without especially we the working class moms.

I had to call someone immediately to please release her daughter to me, promising I will continue sponsoring her in sch...I'm sure this one wld stay longer in my house, first, she's my tribe person and she's also a good girl.

It is not easy to be a working class mom especially me after 3 mom...Lol, abeg Its important I have someone at home.

Modified...I cant take in minors into my home, considering the task(s)of looking after kids. They must be from age 18(I'm educated)...Infact I'm sure the last one I sent away must be more than 20 considering her mode of dressing- dressing in a seductive way( trust my hubby cos he's got good taste in women), wetin consign me, na to do my work na.
All you mentioning me abt the pay, do you thing its easy to really feed, cloth and provide someone lil needs at this time?

#She's my tribe person#. Quite UNFORTUNATE STATEMENT. Tribal bigots all over the country. Why should you take a maid from an agent? Are you not from a village? Dont you have cousin's sister's nephew's aunty etc from a poorer background that you can help while they also help you?

MOST WOMEN ARE EXTREMELY WICKED TO THEIR MAIDS.

it seems devil has been using maids this days cus I can't imagine different devastating stories abt maid

Martin0:



hahahahah well Na their right sha, come link me up with her or my add her for whatsapp

i will have to Ask her first, but she is a lesbian

blueivy8:
it seems devil has been using maids this days cus I can't imagine different devastating stories abt maid

And who have been using the maids madams?

If you see the devil next time please tell him/her that i would like him/her to come visit me i would like to by him/her a drink for been so clever and genius enough to use people. Ciao!

foyeks2001:
I dont waste time sacking them ....I sent one away after spending 2weeks with last sunday....whenever I detect you ve got no love in you, I send you packing no matter how much it cost me to bring you to my house...I sent the last one away when I heard my daughter coughing( grasping for breath) while eating in her room and the cruel dirty looking fat girl of 18 just kept on with her food( something I can never do to her)...I immediately called the agent that brought her to come and carry his load away giving 7k, cos we bargained on 10kmonthly apart from the 10k used to ferry her from Nassarawa to Abj...

Maids are necessary evil...something you can not do without especially we the working class moms.

I had to call someone immediately to please release her daughter to me, promising I will continue sponsoring her in sch...I'm sure this one wld stay longer in my house, first, she's my tribe person and she's also a good girl.

It is not easy to be a working class mom especially me after 3 mom...Lol, abeg Its important I have someone at home.

Modified...I cant take in minors into my home, considering the task(s)of looking after kids. They must be from age 18(I'm educated)...Infact I'm sure the last one I sent away must be more than 20 considering her mode of dressing- dressing in a seductive way( trust my hubby cos he's got good taste in women), wetin consign me, na to do my work na.
All you mentioning me abt the pay, do you thing its easy to really feed, cloth and provide someone lil needs at this time?

You have a wicked and heartless soul.

Nothing you can say to justify your evil heart. You sent an innocent gurl packing because of some flimsy excuse and you're here bragging about it

yabas:


#She's my tribe person#. Quite UNFORTUNATE STATEMENT. Tribal bigots all over the country. Why should you take a maid from an agent? Are you not from a village? Dont you have cousin's sister's nephew's aunty etc from a poorer background that you can help while they also help you?

MOST WOMEN ARE EXTREMELY WICKED TO THEIR MAIDS.

That woman you quoted is pure evil

@Foyeks2001 I like d way you having been replying comment.. ...even when people attacked you, u took it in good faith and explain yourself, u come off as a matured and easy going person thumps up. D comment made by your hubby to your request got me cracking up lol.. ....reminded me of what my dad use to sometimes tell us in those days when he was broke and we ask him for money lol

gypsey:
Thanks! very much for insulting my mother, you couldn't get to me or Matured and Brave Enough to handle the Arguiments, as low self esteemed and small as you felt, and had nothing else reasonable to add, so you involved my mother, Okay! you have won! i give you A Gold medal!

God bless your mother if you have one. Good luck!

low self esteem Please , I'm just stating the obvious. And keep your God to yourself