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Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by Nobody: 4:27am On Apr 29, 2018
mamagee3:
Boyfriend did not buy me anything even though I spent the whole day with him.


He went out to go send some money to his family back home and I wanted to come along with him, he said no that he can’t wait for me.But then after waiting for about three hours, he came back empty handed.
And then said, “If I had known, I could have bought you something to eat”.

How cold is that?
its cos u re too fat, he's helping u watch ur weight, monkey!!
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by Nobody: 4:31am On Apr 29, 2018
fancy4eve:
Your boy frwnd is stingy nd selfish. He's telling u dat he would hv bought sumtin 4 u, so u will start jumping or dancing. As a man dat claim 2 luv sumone, u should know wat makes ur partner happy nd do it @ d ryt tym. Afterall u waited for good 3 hours, who does dat?.

My dear, luv is about caring nd sharing, so try nd teach him sum ethics.
who be this one? why didn't she cook for him, it'd been a lot better if she did and ate her share, then kept his own share
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by Babacele: 5:52am On Apr 29, 2018
khiaa:
Mamagee3 are you re.tarded It's common courtesy to feed a guess when they come to visit you. Next time provide for yourself or don't go at

all. Your boyfriend doesn't care about you if he did he would have made sure you were fed. You wouldn't have to ask him for food, another thing

he didn't want you to go with him and he stayed away for three hours while you are visiting him should tell you that you are nothing more than

a screw. I really can't blame the man, going by these assinine topics you create lets me know that you aren't wrapped too tight, a screw

is loose, the elevator doesn't reach the top, you are one brick short of a load, and stuck on stupid and glued to dumb.undecided
ain't you succinctly grammatically wicked?
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 5:56am On Apr 29, 2018
kingkakaone:

U can bet with Ur balls?
So u are a guy hiding under the cover of a woman abi?
I wonder what's happening in this forum.
Guys pretending to be girls.
It is well...

shut up... everybody here knows I'm prechbills
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by ImaIma1(f): 6:40am On Apr 29, 2018
MissRaine69:


It’s not cold it’s you being melodramatic. What was stopping you from cooking or bringing something to eat?
There are no hard rules about this sort of thing.

So if i am going to visit a friend, i should carry my food along? If he is coming to visit me, will he bring his food along?

Even aside boyfriend or girlfriend thing, if i go to visit a friend and i spend many hours there, it is the person's duty as a host to feed me...and it is for me to accept or reject.

Not to talk of someone who claims to love you that doesn't care about your wellbeing,dad or not.

Please lets be objective and factual.
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:41am On Apr 29, 2018
ImaIma1:


So if i am going to visit a friend, i should carry my food along? If he is coming to visit me, will he bring his food along?

Even aside boyfriend or girlfriend thing, if i go to visit a friend and i spend many hours there, it is the person's duty as a host to feed me...and it is for me to accept or reject.

Not to talk of someone who claims to love you that doesn't care about your wellbeing,dad or not.

Please lets be objective and factual.

.....stories
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by ImaIma1(f): 6:49am On Apr 29, 2018
fancy4eve:
Your boy frwnd is stingy nd selfish. He's telling u dat he would hv bought sumtin 4 u, so u will start jumping or dancing. As a man dat claim 2 luv sumone, u should know wat makes ur partner happy nd do it @ d ryt tym. Afterall u waited for good 3 hours, who does dat?.

My dear, luv is about caring nd sharing, so try nd teach him sum ethics.

Very stingy. And some guys are asking if he is her dad. If one of their buddies comes to visit and he is hungry, they will arrange food but as long as it is a babe, she does not deserve to eat.

I can't stand stingy guys
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by ImaIma1(f): 6:55am On Apr 29, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


.....stories

Oh! So you see the point. But you choose to respond that way because you cannot debunk it.

Maybe guys should tell their girlfriends when they are coming to visit that it is BYOF.
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:58am On Apr 29, 2018
ImaIma1:


Very stingy. And some guys are asking if he is her dad. If one of their buddies come to visit and he is hungry, they will arrange food but as long as it is a babe, she does not deserve to eat.

I can't stand stingy guys


lol.. you're comparing a guy that has always been with him and will continue to stand by him despite the situation on board..
I rather purchase a phone for my fellow guy than purchase one for a lady.
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:00am On Apr 29, 2018
ImaIma1:


Oh! So you see the point. But you choose to respond that way because you cannot debunk it.

Maybe guys should tell their girlfriends when they are coming to visit that it is BYOF.

must she eat food when she visits? undecided
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by ImaIma1(f): 7:02am On Apr 29, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:



lol.. you're comparing a guy that has always been with him and will continue to standby him despite the situation on board..
I rather purchase a phone for my fellow guy than purchase one for a lady.

Get the point!! As a host, when someone visits you, it is your duty to feed the person especially if the person as spent hours at yout place. It is left for the visitor to accept or turn it down.

For someone the guy claims to love, he overlooked that.

Will he marry his buddy? Whether he has been there for him since he was born, he won't marry him.
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:06am On Apr 29, 2018
ImaIma1:


Get the point!! As a host, when someone visits you, it is your duty to feed the person especially if the person as spent hours at yout place. It is left for the visitor to accept or turn it down.

For someone the guy claims to love, he overlooked that.

Will he marry his buddy? Whether he has been there for him since he was born, he won't marry him.

marriage doesn't mean I'll abadon my friends when they're broke.

and as for your talk... must she eat??

didn't she take something before going to visit him?

she spent only 3hours.. smh
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by ImaIma1(f): 7:10am On Apr 29, 2018
OP when he visits you, cook a very spectacular dish(if you can cook) a dish with an aroma that engulfs the whole place. Then dish out for yourself alone or cook only one portion and eat it in front of him.

If he asks, tell him if you had known he would be hungry, you would have cooked enough to reach him but you didn't cheesy.

You guys could make it a rule in your relationship not to feed each other when you visit so that there will not be further conflicts in that area.
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by ImaIma1(f): 7:12am On Apr 29, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


marriage doesn't mean I'll abadon my friends when they're broke.

and as for your talk... must she eat??

didn't she take something before going to visit him?

she spent only 3hours.. smh

Who said anything about abandoning buddies when they are broke?

As i said it is for her to accept or turn it down but he should offer it first.
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:14am On Apr 29, 2018
Never date a broke babe.. she'll always have excuses to make
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by okk4sure: 7:26am On Apr 29, 2018
I don't knw y women normally thinks dt they are doing men a favour by date them.Most of them are always at the receiving end without contributing mch to the success of the relationship.We are all emotional bin & a litu gift or proper orientation can go a long way to promote the relationship.

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Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by loswhite(m): 7:46am On Apr 29, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


what have you done for your partner since love is about caring and sharing..

I can bet with my balls that you haven't spent up to 50k on your partner but you won't allow people to hear word..


all these broke babes though undecided
Jesu 50k!!!!!! U meant 5k abi....lol
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:49am On Apr 29, 2018
loswhite:
Jesu 50k!!!!!! U meant 5k abi....lol

50k
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by MissRaine69(f): 10:23am On Apr 29, 2018
ImaIma1:


So if i am going to visit a friend, i should carry my food along? If he is coming to visit me, will he bring his food along?

Even aside boyfriend or girlfriend thing, if i go to visit a friend and i spend many hours there, it is the person's duty as a host to feed me...and it is for me to accept or reject.

Not to talk of someone who claims to love you that doesn't care about your wellbeing,dad or not.

Please lets be objective and factual.

It’s not his/her duty
I know the financial situations of people I am friends with or people I am acquainted with and how to diplomatically navigate around those that are struggling without being offending. I have friends if I visit I know they will never cook even with an abundance of food in the house. Then there are those that love to cook but are terrible at it . Or the ones who can but don’t have much. I don’t visit with the specification of being fed. And if I am not I don’t make a big issue about it. That’s me being factual and objective.

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Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by khiaa(f): 12:20pm On Apr 29, 2018
Babacele:
ain't you succinctly grammatically wicked?

No, I am not, my grammar is fine, but aren't you the pot calling the kettle black, using "ain't" when it isn't a word!!! Check your own grammar before you judge someone else's. SMH!! undecided
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by khiaa(f): 12:22pm On Apr 29, 2018
hardbody:


Wait, una get personal misunderstanding before?

What
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by ehix89(m): 2:37pm On Apr 29, 2018
khiaa:
Mamagee3 are you re.tarded It's common courtesy to feed a guess when they come to visit you. Next time provide for yourself or don't go at

all. Your boyfriend doesn't care about you if he did he would have made sure you were fed. You wouldn't have to ask him for food, another thing

he didn't want you to go with him and he stayed away for three hours while you are visiting him should tell you that you are nothing more than

a screw. I really can't blame the man, going by these assinine topics you create lets me know that you aren't wrapped too tight, a screw

is loose, the elevator doesn't reach the top, you are one brick short of a load, and stuck on stupid and glued to dumb.undecided
This could push her to suicide you know, we should all be mindful of what we tell people online a lot are living on the edge..... Cheers dearie
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by Cutehector(m): 2:47pm On Apr 29, 2018
fancy4eve:
Your boy frwnd is stingy nd selfish. He's telling u dat he would hv bought sumtin 4 u, so u will start jumping or dancing. As a man dat claim 2 luv sumone, u should know wat makes ur partner happy nd do it @ d ryt tym. Afterall u waited for good 3 hours, who does dat?.

My dear, luv is about caring nd sharing, so try nd teach him sum ethics.
so because he didn't buy her food he is stingy and selfish.. If guys ask for sex now you will be the first person to devour guys.. Mchew..

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Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Apr 29, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


shut up... everybody here knows I'm prechbills
Insults is the defense of unintelligent people who have nothing to say.
When someone that is intelligent is mentioned, he speaks like a wise man but not so for the opposite set of people.
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 3:43pm On Apr 29, 2018
Your boyfriend doesn't care about you he only wants you because it's convenient for him and you are available.
All those kids typing rubbish don't know what they are saying. If two of you are in a relationship and appreciates it he would bought something when coming back even if there's food in his house. And if you are the one coming back to meet or visit him you should buy too. Except you guys are just Bleep mate and don't care about anything apart from sex. One thing my ex won't miss then was buying something when coming back once he knows I'm at his place even though there was always food. I am good at buying things no matter how small when visiting so I learned from me and started buying. He wasn't stingy but you know guys might not think of buying things like fruits or biscuits when they are coming back. There were times when the best thing one could get for me was milkose sweets grin. But he become conscious of it and would even call me to ask if I preferred any particular thing. I didn't ask him to start buying, he saw I was good at that, liked it and join in buying.
I hope you also buy when you are going to visit him?
But I blame him for not biyin knowing that you were in his house waiting for him and there might have been nothing for you to cook or you guys might not have gotten to that level

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Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by fancy4eve(f): 3:46pm On Apr 29, 2018
ImaIma1:


Very stingy. And some guys are asking if he is her dad. If one of their buddies comes to visit and he is hungry, they will arrange food but as long as it is a babe, she does not deserve to eat.

I can't stand stingy guys
tell dem oh, cus I can't stand d sight of stingy guys
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by fancy4eve(f): 3:49pm On Apr 29, 2018
armylord:
who be this one? why didn't she cook for him, it'd been a lot better if she did and ate her share, then kept his own share
dat is if d guy Gv her money 2 cook, but in d story he did not Gv her any money, or do u expect her 2 cook d food wit her money for her stingy boi frwnd. Some guys re not worth it u know. Assuming he's a cheerful giver, it would hv been a diff case on it own.
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by fancy4eve(f): 3:53pm On Apr 29, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


what have you done for your partner since love is about caring and sharing..

I can bet with my balls that you haven't spent up to 50k on your partner but you won't allow people to hear word..


all these broke babes though undecided
pls don't bet wit ur balls cus dey re not worth it ohk. Those stuffs does not worth my comment. Nd for ur information am not stingy , at least am better dan ur gal frwnd.
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by fancy4eve(f): 3:54pm On Apr 29, 2018
Cutehector:
so because he didn't buy her food he is stingy and selfish.. If guys ask for sex now you will be the first person to devour guys.. Mchew..
just hear urself, I believe u hv a sister, go tell her dat
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Apr 29, 2018
fancy4eve:
dat is if d guy Gv her money 2 cook, but in d story he did not Gv her any money, or do u expect her 2 cook d food wit her money for her stingy boi frwnd. Some guys re not worth it u know. Assuming he's a cheerful giver, it would hv been a diff case on it own.
here u go again with this cheerful giving ishh, before she met him who was buying food for her,infact before she ever had any dream of having a boyfriend who was feeding her, if she wants to be fed ,she should cook for herself, I detest dependent women

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Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by fancy4eve(f): 4:28pm On Apr 29, 2018
armylord:
here u go again with this cheerful giving ishh, before she met him who was buying food for her,infact before she ever had any dream of having a boyfriend who was feeding her, if she wants to be fed ,she should cook for herself, I detest dependent women
my dear, dere is Notn lyk dependent woman , once she's at ur end, b sure of providing all her necessary need. If u no get money, my broda hide ur face nd make person hear word 4 u
Re: Boyfriend Did Not Buy Me Food After I Spent Almost The Whole Day With Him? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:37pm On Apr 29, 2018
fancy4eve:
pls don't bet wit ur balls cus dey re not worth it ohk. Those stuffs does not worth my comment. Nd for ur information am not stingy , at least am better dan ur gal frwnd.

such an expensive joke..
better than my fiance indeed undecided the Samsung S9 I'm currently using ,she was the one who bought it for me.

next time don't quote me if your brokeness won't allow you say something without being provocative undecided

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