OceanmorganTrix:

Just buy a "carry your wife the go" size of bread for them or minimie chinchin and you are good to go

Chinchin? Nonsense. Na kids you wan go visit abi?

Garden egg? After his assurance Porsche

Uyiii:
since money nor be problem for you.

The best assurance and insurance right now is a Porsche car, get one for them and em', you can as well complement this gift with the new released 9ja Jersey. buy the original one made in Aba.

P.s: If you can get this done, ah swell, you'll be so welcome and serve with enough 'garden egg'. you go chop garden egg to the extent that garden egg go dey pursue you for dream

happy married life in advance as you do this.

I had same issue when i planned visiting my prospective in-laws, thanks to my ever loving girl for her suggestion of fruit gift basket or hamper. My advice will be have a discussion with your girl on what to present. Buy a gift that the whole family can partake in and share. Please and Please save cost. Marriage planning no be here. Kudos.

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

Don't stress yourself much , once it's not introduction or whatsoever of tradition but just that you want to go and see them...
Here's my advice, just buy a bottle of wine for her father but if her father is advance in age and more of traditional person , I will go for HOT DRINKS LIKE SCHNAPPS ONCE HES AN IGBO MAN. Then her mother depends on your pocket but if you can cough out like 2-5k and above I will go for WRAPPER eg , HITARGET ANKARA about 3500-3800 Naira.best of luck .
PS
Don't make yourself rich when your are average person to avoid future uncertainty.
SHALOM.

Thegeneralqueen:
Buy drinks for her dad and a piece of gold maybe like that of 250k for her mum hope it helps

Kuku kill the guy

Orubebe01:

OK thanks

a bottle of wine may not be enough ooo. Put some dough in an envelope bro. For the mama, ask your girlie now, she must know what her mama will appreciate. Good luck there

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

....Is it for introduction?If you re just visiting just for formality and not for marriage rites then you don't need to spend much. Buy a good gin for the Dad,then ask ur financee what her mum likes most and buy it for her. Don't go there and start acting like a big man,if not, they increase the list for you. Safe trip.

Buy Alomo,kick and start,baby oku and bush meat

kellytuns:
I don't know where you are based.you may go to shoprite or any good wine shop and buy a good bottle of wine not more than 20k,don't give them money its insulting.you may also add stock fish of about 10 to 15k.goodluck

And do you know if that family would appreciate money more, before you said it "embarrassing"?

Buy drinks, a good wine. Do not show case who you are not. All the best

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

Buy them a duplex, I na-alu nwanyi..

since you're both from east buy okada for papa and carry 1 trailers of cassava for the mother case closed

Buy the wine, but also buy some tubers of yam and keep in your car booth, if your discussions with them goes according to plan, on your way out, have them come offload their yams, otherwise, cut your losses and carry your yam go house. yam cost o.

soberdrunk:



I don't understand, is it the Mom he is planning to marry?

At least to make her happy

Oleku93:

Nice one

I have done it before: I was told later, any time they use those stuff they prayed for me!

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

All this people telling you all this things won't help.

Just get an expensive wine for her Dad(less than 3k), then get a women's wrapper for her mother. That should do.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Just stating the requirements in Anambra.

Are you serious?

Oleku93:
With all these replies, no one has really said something tangible. Nairalanders, must you always joke with everything? Op, my advice to you is that you shouldn't buy to impress them. Instead get them what you can afford. Because if you get them expensive items now, they will always expect expensive things from you in the nearest future. That is if you would even be accepted by them.

Don't trouble yourself:
just buy Beverages &toiletry.
you will ever leave long impression in their mind.
Thank me later...

A bottle of black label.
Only ,and your transportation money

One bottle of Schnapps for her father and a box of assorted wrappers for her mother

Thegeneralqueen:
Buy drinks for her dad and a piece of gold maybe like that of 250k for her mum hope it helps

Wetin e go com buy wen marriage com knock him door?



Oga buy whatever your pocket sabi!

Only the poor will visit fiancée home for the 1st time and will buy something for the family



Meanwhile a bottle of good drink is okay!

Buying a gift is not compulsory but if you wanna give them something, just give them anything you can afford. Let them access you on a neutral ground.

Just buy a nice bottle of wine for them. Or a gift basket...

PearlStreet:


Are you serious?

Yes.

A good cognac will do

Why not ask your fiancee, she would be in the best position to tell you what to buy

Bossontop:
Instead of u to ask ur elders parents etc u are asking us abii??....oya buy #50k ground nut, #40k kuli kuli and buy 1 bag of garri....dazzall

This is Information Age, if Nigerian elites want to develop this shithole at least average standard development. Let them fire all those sycophants in government houses and come to nairaland for advice.

Thegeneralqueen:
Buy drinks for her dad and a piece of gold maybe like that of 250k for her mum hope it helps

B!tches like this one live in a hut and might as well borrowed MTN data to come online to type trash..
Forming mumu classy

In this present economy make him buy 250k gold abi?
See how easy u type d *250k* as if money is pluck from a tree.

Op follow this advice at your own peril.

bread and beans

Bros thank God you have seen a wife, as for the first visit, buy bread, provisions bottles of good win for the father and the mother and with some raw cash. 5k for d father and 3k for the mum