kestolove95:
Mtseew at 32 u are not married and u are forming breakup nonsense, by d way y did u visit without prior notice? U caused it

Peterosky:
Any lady quitting a relationship because of a cheating boy friend is the highest joke of the Century. Almost every man cheat.The major fact that this guy has been every where begging means he is deeply in love with you. I know it's painful, but moving to another man is not a guarantee that you get a better relationship. If he loves,respect, values and gives you attention, then, that's your man not minding whether the cheats or not.Go back to your proposed husband mbok.

Yugoteey2k:
A woman who visited her boyfriend's house unannounced to surprise him on his birthday has been left with a shocker.

A heartbroken woman has narrated the shock she got after trying to surprise her boyfriend on his birthday by visiting his house unannounced.

Read the post shared by relationship expert, Cynthia Valerian Raphaels:

Good afternoon ma. How is work and family? I need advise ma. Please hide my id .Something happened in my relationship last month like Saturday of last month. This is a man that knows my family and we are planning to marry by Easter next year. My boyfriends birthday was last Saturday of August. I decided to surprise him, packed my bags to go visit him to sleep over. I didn't tell him I was coming.

I left on Friday When I got to the house because I have my own keys, I got there around 2:30pm, I even stopped by the market to buy soup and stew items, got to the house, opened the entrance with my keys and first went to the kitchen to drop the food stuffs I bought . Meanwhile I have been discussing with him about his birthday will be, so he told me on that day, he will come and take me out.

That was our agreement . So I didn't tell him I was planning something else. When I dropped the stuff at the kitchen, I took my bags to the room, met a lady lying down, sleeping with just bra and short in his bedroom. The sound of my shoes woke her up and she asked me who am I, how did I get in?

I introduced myself and she laughed and told me that I should stop joking. She quickly went to where she was charging her phone to call him. That a girl came and was telling her they are dating. The phone was on speak out. He told her that the girl must be mad,that he has no other woman except her. That he is busy at work and will call her later. He dropped the call and I had to dial his number, he picked and I asked him what he just said some seconds ago, he started asking if I am the one, that why didn't I call him. I cut off.

I left with my bag, I didn't go with the food stuff again. He kept calling but I blocked off his lines and blocked him on WhatsApp and on Facebook. He started calling with another number, but got tired to call and stopped. Three years of my relationship him. Even that evening, he drove down to my house but I left to my friends place to cool off.

On Sunday he came again to my friends house but she asked him out . He has visited my work place like three times but I don't want to see him. He said the girl is his ex that doesn't want him to be. That she came to his house so late at night on Thursday and he allowed her to stay, that she came from east. He even said the girl left his house that day.

I don't know what to believe anymore. I love this guy ma'am, I really love him, he loves me but I am confused. He has called my mother to apologize to her, my mum has called me to forgive him, even his sisters are calling me. I am 32 years, he is 35 years

kheny12:
Aunty at 32 years,you are still doing boyfriend and Girlfriend things.When your mate have given birth to 6 children in port Harcourt according to characteristic tacha.

Peterosky:
Any lady quitting a relationship because of a cheating boy friend is the highest joke of the Century. Almost every man cheat.The major fact that this guy has been every where begging means he is deeply in love with you. I know it's painful, but moving to another man is not a guarantee that you get a better relationship. If he loves,respect, values and gives you attention, then, that's your man not minding whether the cheats or not.Go back to your proposed husband mbok.

kestolove95:
Mtseew at 32 u are not married and u are forming breakup nonsense, by d way y did u visit without prior notice? U caused it

faithfull18:

What's this one saying now? That's how you people put unnecessary pressure on ladies and they end up in bad marriages.

Yugoteey2k:
A woman who visited her boyfriend's house unannounced to surprise him on his birthday has been left with a shocker.

A heartbroken woman has narrated the shock she got after trying to surprise her boyfriend on his birthday by visiting his house unannounced.

Read the post shared by relationship expert, Cynthia Valerian Raphaels:

Good afternoon ma. How is work and family? I need advise ma. Please hide my id .Something happened in my relationship last month like Saturday of last month. This is a man that knows my family and we are planning to marry by Easter next year. My boyfriends birthday was last Saturday of August. I decided to surprise him, packed my bags to go visit him to sleep over. I didn't tell him I was coming.

I left on Friday When I got to the house because I have my own keys, I got there around 2:30pm, I even stopped by the market to buy soup and stew items, got to the house, opened the entrance with my keys and first went to the kitchen to drop the food stuffs I bought . Meanwhile I have been discussing with him about his birthday will be, so he told me on that day, he will come and take me out.

That was our agreement . So I didn't tell him I was planning something else. When I dropped the stuff at the kitchen, I took my bags to the room, met a lady lying down, sleeping with just bra and short in his bedroom. The sound of my shoes woke her up and she asked me who am I, how did I get in?

I introduced myself and she laughed and told me that I should stop joking. She quickly went to where she was charging her phone to call him. That a girl came and was telling her they are dating. The phone was on speak out. He told her that the girl must be mad,that he has no other woman except her. That he is busy at work and will call her later. He dropped the call and I had to dial his number, he picked and I asked him what he just said some seconds ago, he started asking if I am the one, that why didn't I call him. I cut off.

I left with my bag, I didn't go with the food stuff again. He kept calling but I blocked off his lines and blocked him on WhatsApp and on Facebook. He started calling with another number, but got tired to call and stopped. Three years of my relationship him. Even that evening, he drove down to my house but I left to my friends place to cool off.

On Sunday he came again to my friends house but she asked him out . He has visited my work place like three times but I don't want to see him. He said the girl is his ex that doesn't want him to be. That she came to his house so late at night on Thursday and he allowed her to stay, that she came from east. He even said the girl left his house that day.

I don't know what to believe anymore. I love this guy ma'am, I really love him, he loves me but I am confused. He has called my mother to apologize to her, my mum has called me to forgive him, even his sisters are calling me. I am 32 years, he is 35 years

kestolove95:
Mtseew at 32 u are not married and u are forming breakup nonsense, by d way y did u visit without prior notice? U caused it

Lonelypacifist6:
Abort mission, i repeat Abort mission, code black. he's a cheating nigger with the possibility of infecting you with a disease Report to base for proper re-orientation Over and out.

khiaa:


It's because of women like you who blames a man's woman for his cheating. For these two reasons she had every right to visit him unannounced.

1. They are engaged

2. He gave her the keys to his place which means she is free to enter his home unannounced.

iloksn:
See your life now you should have called before the journey, anyways what is my own self

kestolove95:
stop supporting her cox she is a lady like us, she bleeped up big time, visiting guys without notice is intruding

Yugoteey2k:
A woman who visited her boyfriend's house unannounced to surprise him on his birthday has been left with a shocker.

A heartbroken woman has narrated the shock she got after trying to surprise her boyfriend on his birthday by visiting his house unannounced.

Read the post shared by relationship expert, Cynthia Valerian Raphaels:

Good afternoon ma. How is work and family? I need advise ma. Please hide my id .Something happened in my relationship last month like Saturday of last month. This is a man that knows my family and we are planning to marry by Easter next year. My boyfriends birthday was last Saturday of August. I decided to surprise him, packed my bags to go visit him to sleep over. I didn't tell him I was coming.

I left on Friday When I got to the house because I have my own keys, I got there around 2:30pm, I even stopped by the market to buy soup and stew items, got to the house, opened the entrance with my keys and first went to the kitchen to drop the food stuffs I bought . Meanwhile I have been discussing with him about his birthday will be, so he told me on that day, he will come and take me out.

That was our agreement . So I didn't tell him I was planning something else. When I dropped the stuff at the kitchen, I took my bags to the room, met a lady lying down, sleeping with just bra and short in his bedroom. The sound of my shoes woke her up and she asked me who am I, how did I get in?

I introduced myself and she laughed and told me that I should stop joking. She quickly went to where she was charging her phone to call him. That a girl came and was telling her they are dating. The phone was on speak out. He told her that the girl must be mad,that he has no other woman except her. That he is busy at work and will call her later. He dropped the call and I had to dial his number, he picked and I asked him what he just said some seconds ago, he started asking if I am the one, that why didn't I call him. I cut off.

I left with my bag, I didn't go with the food stuff again. He kept calling but I blocked off his lines and blocked him on WhatsApp and on Facebook. He started calling with another number, but got tired to call and stopped. Three years of my relationship him. Even that evening, he drove down to my house but I left to my friends place to cool off.

On Sunday he came again to my friends house but she asked him out . He has visited my work place like three times but I don't want to see him. He said the girl is his ex that doesn't want him to be. That she came to his house so late at night on Thursday and he allowed her to stay, that she came from east. He even said the girl left his house that day.

I don't know what to believe anymore. I love this guy ma'am, I really love him, he loves me but I am confused. He has called my mother to apologize to her, my mum has called me to forgive him, even his sisters are calling me. I am 32 years, he is 35 years na me go still take you out for my birthday?

Peterosky:
Any lady quitting a relationship because of a cheating boy friend is the highest joke of the Century. Almost every man cheat.The major fact that this guy has been every where begging means he is deeply in love with you. I know it's painful, but moving to another man is not a guarantee that you get a better relationship. If he loves,respect, values and gives you attention, then, that's your man not minding whether the cheats or not.Go back to your proposed husband mbok.